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    I don't know about what to talk with my girlfriend…

    Our relationship is more than 10 months old – we live together. And I don't really know what to talk about with my girlfriend. We are cool she loves me so do I. when we are home is no problem. We will cook or she will watch TV/Google and I will read a book. Etc.

    However when we are dinning out from the time we are done order our meal till the food arrives it's awkward because we don’t have much to talk about. We talked already everything the last 10 months

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    Sounds to me you guys need to have more time to yourselves. You'll have more to talk about if you do stuff independently.

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    I agree with JoeH. You'll have more to talk about if you spend your free time out exercising/with mates/indulging your interests (you got any hobbies?) than if you spend it watching TV with her. Also, rather than going out to dinner, go somewhere where you can do cool stuff together rather than sit and talk awkwardly (go bowling, go to the beach, an amusement park, etc).

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    Sounds to me like you're both listeners. Usually at least one person in a couple is a talker, and they initiate conversations.

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    It's like that because you are out of the honeymoon phase. Not everything about yourselves is new to eachother. But if you want to get new conversation subjects, do what the above posters said, have time for eachother alone with your friends and you will have a lot to talk about when you come back together at night.

    Or you can get a kid. Then youll have a lot to talk about.
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    Yep, you both need to get a life outside of your relationship, so you have more things to talk about.

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    You don't need to be texting all day like : I'm on my way to school!

    Stupid shit like that

    Tell her straight You'll text her later, but let her know everything's fine

    When something interesting happens in your day let her know

    Like they said, go out and do shit without each other

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