My wife is giving me a silent treatment.

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  1. My wife is giving me a silent treatment.

    Since my wife got back after her vacation from a foreign place, sheís giving me a silent treatment. I donít know what did I do on her to treat me this way. I have tried everything I could to gain her sweetness back but those didnít work at all. I tried cooking her favorite food. I did the chores, as always, so she wonít have to worry about it when she gets home. I also sent her flowers at home and her workplace. Everything wasnít working and I donít how what to do anymore.



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    You should talk to her about what happened on the vacation. Why she is behaving like this. Is there anyone else whom she start liking. Ask these quetions freely, she will definitly answer you.

  3. Quote Originally Posted by dawghoused View Post
    You should talk to her about what happened on the vacation. Why she is behaving like this. Is there anyone else whom she start liking. Ask these quetions freely, she will definitly answer you.
    Yes, I will try to talk to her but not now because she won't talk to me just yet. Thank you so much!

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    I would probably go hang with family and friends without her for the weekend, "I'm going to watch the game" - whatever. if she asks why, just go "you seem to want your own space right now", but don't make it dramatic..and just give her a rundown of where you'll be. Go out for a dinner tomorrow night.

    I wouldn't go out of my way to be nice to her if she's being distant.

    Hope for the best, be prepared for the worst, so if she does tell you something really serious, you can be non-reactive, which will help her open up more.

  5. Quote Originally Posted by immanageable1979 View Post
    Since my wife got back after her vacation from a foreign place, sheís giving me a silent treatment. I donít know what did I do on her to treat me this way. I have tried everything I could to gain her sweetness back but those didnít work at all. I tried cooking her favorite food. I did the chores, as always, so she wonít have to worry about it when she gets home. I also sent her flowers at home and her workplace. Everything wasnít working and I donít how what to do anymore.
    Nonono, you are doing the completely wrong thing. What you are essentially doing is turning the relationship into a trade:

    I: cook you food
    You: be nice to me

    I: send you flowers
    You: talk to me

    That's what is unfortunately happening. You are not sending her flowers because she is your wife and you love her - instead, you feel guilty for the silence, feel the urge to fix everything, and you rush headlong into it - even though your wife didn't ask for it. Once you (or men in general) get needy, they lose a lot of their attraction.

    My advice for you is to find other sources of happiness. I'm not saying you shouldn't love your wife, but I'm saying that her mood and treatment of you shouldn't affect your life. Go to a gym, go on a trip, do something fun with friends - you don't HAVE to make your wife happy. If she wants interaction that's fine, and if she wants silence that's fine too. And when she realizes that you are a strong man whose mood doesn't depend on others, she will get a lot more respect and attraction for you, trust me.

  6. i am not sure if acting like a soy boy, a pet or a slave/yes man will win any credit?

    most women, even healthier ones are pretty fucked when it comes to their own personal dramas.

    next time you leave the house, sarcastically say you are going out on a date with an hb 10 and not to wait up for you lol see if that gets her talking lol

    djm

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