Strike while the iron is hot...waited to long

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    Strike while the iron is hot...waited to long

    if a girl flirts with you and you don't follow thru fairly quick, is there anything that can be done, it seems like women loose attraction very quicly



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    could work both ways

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    Quote Originally Posted by collwatt View Post
    could work both ways
    It was a girl at work who is hot, she gave me strong signals at a company event after work, and I waited a week and she seemed less interested and declined my invitation to hang out with work people. They have so many options , probably take it as a insult

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    yea. sometimes when you dont pounce, they'll see you as nonchalant or they'll see you as beta

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krakatoa View Post
    They have so many options , probably take it as a insult
    No, but when you don't grab the chance, they just conclude that you're either not interested or not able to make it happen.

    If a woman suddenly flirts heavily with you at a party, it's because she wants to get laid. Then you need to grab that window of opportunity, because it WILL close quickly. When you contact her again a week later she probably hardly remember even talking to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tank View Post
    No, but when you don't grab the chance, they just conclude that you're either not interested or not able to make it happen.

    If a woman suddenly flirts heavily with you at a party, it's because she wants to get laid. Then you need to grab that window of opportunity, because it WILL close quickly. When you contact her again a week later she probably hardly remember even talking to you.
    yeah I just felt funny hitting on her in front of bosses, but your your right, because she left with another guy, and to rub it in she tapped my shoulder and said goodbye on the way out. She probably thinks I m gay or something. A women approaching (especially at work) me aggressively is very infrequent, when it happens it fries my circuits. it always happens when you least expect it. The other guy was around her the whole night, and the girl just broke up with her boyfriend, so she was in "heat seeking missile mode" probably where they bang other guys until they find a new boyfriend. Also had occasions where I over gamed and lost girl as well. I am too used to doing all the work. Oh well, someone had fun

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    Lol. "Intermediate stuck phase". Enjoy it, you'll be there for a while

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lemonjacket View Post
    Lol. "Intermediate stuck phase". Enjoy it, you'll be there for a while

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    Ha time travel. It sucks going through it, but it's necessary.

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    Haha yeah basically what [MENTION=138620]Lemonjacket[/MENTION] said. Its one of those things where in 6 months (if you keep at this) you're gonna be like "man, I used to suck, but now I'm good!" and then 6 months after that you'll be like "oh no way I sucked 6 months ago, but NOW I'm good." And then you'll continue doing that until you're level 99 and can't anymore haha. Nah it's like every other skill, it's a never ending process and you're never gonna be perfect. Enjoy your successes and enjoy your failures -- those are usually the better story anyway
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