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    Quote Originally Posted by jiGsawyouth View Post
    Haha yeah basically what [MENTION=138620]Lemonjacket[/MENTION] said. Its one of those things where in 6 months (if you keep at this) you're gonna be like "man, I used to suck, but now I'm good!" and then 6 months after that you'll be like "oh no way I sucked 6 months ago, but NOW I'm good." And then you'll continue doing that until you're level 99 and can't anymore haha. Nah it's like every other skill, it's a never ending process and you're never gonna be perfect. Enjoy your successes and enjoy your failures -- those are usually the better story anyway
    it isn't even a gaming issue, it is more about getting rid of anxiety, inhibition, fear self consciousness. Without that, I don't think anyone would even need game.



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    Really, that IS game. The thing you learn least by going through this process is how to meet women. And that alone is pretty fucking awesome. But it helps you deal with all the things above, which spill over into other aspects of your life. It's easier to convince guys to learn this stuff though when it will get them laid haha.
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    Jigsawyouth is right. You learn more about yourself and the person you become more than you do about how to "get" a girl. The respect you get from women that want to be with you and want to stick around has very, very, very little to do with how much or how well you "gamed" her.

    It all comes back to the inner man within you. That's who women connect with and that's who gets developed through the very long road of learning this skillset.

    That's why I say, enjoy it while you're going through it, bc you'll be able to appreciate who you've become when you look back and see what you've gone through.

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  4. #14

    Quote Originally Posted by jiGsawyouth View Post
    Really, that IS game. The thing you learn least by going through this process is how to meet women. And that alone is pretty fucking awesome. But it helps you deal with all the things above, which spill over into other aspects of your life. It's easier to convince guys to learn this stuff though when it will get them laid haha.
    Yes I agree, I remember though an old ss course once where they talked about once where you become this "big bad bald testicular wonder" people line up to take a whack at you. I was at a work gathering and some of these people brought there girlfriends (none of whom I found attractive) and some had boyfriends . The bfs just barnacle on them, and even if you have a conversation with them, you can sense their insecurity. They are settling for lives of mediocrity and desperation and don't even know it.

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