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    Women and money.

    I have seen alot of men spend unjustifiable amounts of money trying to get laid. some even going broke because of it. I think it is important to at least discuss some important issues surrounding how much we ought to spend on women and why. Now I want to put a disclaimer here, I am not trying to tell a man what he can and cant do with his money but rather offering some sound financial advice because when a man is horny (and I don't think I'm saying something that isn't already known) our pockets and wallets can loosen up more than we would care for - This is basically the business model of strip bars and a marketing scheme of many clubs who make revenue from men buying drinks for women.


    Rule 1. Just because you pay for her shit, that doesn't mean you are going to get laid.

    Rule 2. Just because you pay for her shit, it doesn't mean she is going to respect you.


    There are many men out there who get used like a free meal ticket or like a source of free money by many women. I find this an absolute tragedy - a man should definitely have respect for himself with regards to his finances and wealth, and that respect needs to be reevaluated for the modern world, because if you do not then you can end up losing alot of money for nothing or some lousy lay.

    In economics you do a cost-benefit analysis where you weigh up the benefit you get from something with the cost of that thing financially and see whether or not its worth it. This analysis alone will change your behavior into a more self respecting one with regards to your finance and women.

    Also If you cannot demonstrate that you are economically competent around her she can deem you weak minded.

    That's all I really have to say for the moment.



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    It's brutal

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    i've been holding out on spending money, but im starting to believe to that if i want quality lays, i might actually have to start taking women on dates

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    What's quality mean I find quality in every lay

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    to me a quality lay is 6 and above and a less quality lay is 4 and under

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    Quote Originally Posted by collwatt View Post
    to me a quality lay is 6 and above and a less quality lay is 4 and under
    Ok

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    Easy to follow advice is keep the first few dates cheap. Drinks, pool, bowling night, coffee, whatever. Don't be dropping money on dinner or a movie or anything super expensive. That being said, pay for her. Some guys go against this because they want to look alpha and cool, with the shittiest mentality in regards to this. Don't make it about money -- it's not going to impress her. It's just convenient for you to pay for her and shows you can at least recognize some social norms. If it's drinks, coffee, whatever, it won't be breaking the bank so why does it matter? When she acknowledges it (because she will -- or at least any decent woman will in my opinion) just say "you can get me next date" or whatever. This implies you guys are already having a second date, which is a win.
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    i heard some women judge you based on how much or how little you spend on the date. i hate dates , i only invite out a lady, when i know im gonna full close

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    lol

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    If they are judging you based on how much money you are spending, then they aren't the quality women you want to be meeting. These type of women do exist, but aren't as common as you'd think. Plus, if you're doing it right, they'll be (or become) attracted to you on the date and will forget about that anyway.

    And your mentality isn't right either. Dates are supposed to be fun. Dates are necessary. If you aren't going out on dates you aren't trying with women.
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