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    when she accepts the instant date should you put your hand out to show you want to hold her hand



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    You're pretty fucked up by game talk from reading your posts.
    If she's agreeing to go on an insta date you can link arms, hold hands, or do nothing and just walk with her. But you don't need to think of it in terms of asserting your alpha dominance. That's just fucked up.

    Chill out and be a normal real person and start interacting with people like normal real people do, instead of through this game speak filter.
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    How to get good at game 101: forget all the MM dominance shit, I’ve seen so many guys get crippled by this stuff.
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    Quote Originally Posted by InFullSail View Post
    Do the RSD guys wait for permission to do random stuff like that?
    If said guys are at a level in their development where taking a girl's hand makes them anxious, then yes.

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    Hi man,

    Whether or not you should take her hand etc is a matter of social intelligence.

    What I mean is, how is the vibe and her level of interest?

    Does she seem very keen? Have you already had some touching etc.?

    If she is smiling a lot and asking you questions, and looks awe struck with you then yea, I'd say take her hand.

    But otherwise just taking someones hand who you may have only spoken to for like a few mins may be a little weird. Unless you were to just hold her hand for a sec while saying something and then letting go.

    People are not robots, this isn't a question of I do this then that. Each girl and interaction is different. once you do this enough you will get enough social intelligence to know when it "feels" right to take hands etc. Otherwise it looks calculated and forced.

    Let it be natural and go with how you feel in the moment and how she seems to feel!

    Hope this helps!

    Jon

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