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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    Stop taping girls on the shoulder when you approach, get in front of them and say your opener. You should watch more Pick-up infield videos man. You have potential though.
    Why would you want trow touch away?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Bogs View Post
    Why would you want trow touch away?
    I'm not Bogs, I'm just saying to stop approaching by tapping girls on the shoulder. You should always use Kino! How else are you supposed to get laid

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    I'm not Bogs, I'm just saying to stop approaching by tapping girls on the shoulder. You should always use Kino! How else are you supposed to get laid
    Doc actually taught me that a light touch on the outside of her elbow before you get in front of her works really well. And it does! Just say excuse me while you touch the elbow and then get in front of her and say hi...

    Do not touch the shoulder because that's too much. A really light touch on the outside of the elbow is perfect. Try do it with the back of your fingers while leaving your fingers very weak, this way you can never overdo it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    I'm not Bogs, I'm just saying to stop approaching by tapping girls on the shoulder.
    Ya, I meant why would you want to remove touch when stopping girls?

    As my signature states: "I don't use attraction routines. The act of being bold, dominant and masculine and unapologetically invading her personal space in order to touch her and make eye contact is far more powerful than any routine or DHV story", and the more I do it the better results I get being stopping them or creating vibe.

    Just really curious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bogs View Post
    Ya, I meant why would you want to remove touch when stopping girls?

    As my signature states: "I don't use attraction routines. The act of being bold, dominant and masculine and unapologetically invading her personal space in order to touch her and make eye contact is far more powerful than any routine or DHV story", and the more I do it the better results I get being stopping them or creating vibe.

    Just really curious.
    Awww I get you! I tried that before and scared the shit out of this girl lol I normally touch her on the elbow as Broeder C has said, I get better results.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    Awww I get you! I tried that before and scared the shit out of this girl lol I normally touch her on the elbow as Broeder C has said, I get better results.
    Sometimes when they don't expect it you can scare the shit out of them haha, generally though, its the better way to go. If they jump just be like 'I didn't mean to scare you but.. < opener >'

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    January 11, Wednesday - Journal # 3, Day 8
    Goal for the next 3 days - Must do 5 approaches (with at least 1 direct and stays in the interaction as long as I can)

    # of approaches: 0
    Location: Mall

    Blah, not enough time but did saw couple of cute hbs but didn't approached. I do still acting like a pussy and thats aint helping.

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    January 12, Thursday- Journal # 3, Day 9
    Goal for the next 3 days - Must do 5 approaches (with at least 1 direct and stays in the interaction as long as I can)

    # of approaches: 7
    Location: Mall

    Met up with a new wing today. Walked around the beach for awhile but not targets rich so decided to headed over to a nearby mall. The first set I open was a indirect opener on a 2-sets. They were at PINK looking at underwear and bras. I rolled up with my wing by my side which I never done with a wing before because I dont want to "compete". Anyway, I asked them what underwear I should get my aunt for her birthday. I dont know how the hell I came up with that. We talked a bit then we ejected. The second sets was also a 2-sets at a nearby store. They were still in high school. 1 were 18 y/o senior and the other were 17. Same thing, asked for ideas to get for my niece's birthday this time. I wanted to ejected after they told me they were still in high school but my wing told them they should give me their number when they reach 18. I didn't get them. My wing did his things and shown me some "techniques" we should try. I am getting too lazy to type all the details. Anyway, we approached another 2-sets when they got out off the escalator. Another 1-set after. My wing bounced. I stuck around a bit. Direct approached this shorty. Went home. Head out again to the mall near my work place. Direct approached this 17y/o. Attempted to stop this Asian chick but she didn't after I told her she was cute.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Approaching more than 2-sets in store actually easier than I originally tho. Simply asked for their opinions then go from there. All I have to do is make sure I vibe right and shouldn't be too tough.

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    January 13, Friday- Journal # 3, Day 10
    Daily goal: At least 1 direct and stay in the interaction as long as possible

    # of approaches: 2
    Location: Mall

    I changed my goal to simply at least 1 direct daily and stay in the interaction as long as possible. Anyway, approached this chick at the mall directory. When I got closer and faced her, she wasn't that cute so I simply asked for Expressmen since I dont want to sound fake. Approached this hb8 blonde. Tap her on the back of her arm and delivered my direct opener. Exchanged name. She just got off of work. She smiled although looked like fake smiles the entire interaction. She wanted to eject. I asked we should get some tea and then refused saying she is taken. I dont believed her but didn't pushed it. Asked her whos the lucky guy.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Saw a topic about ED and porn over at the sex forum, that gonna makes me think twice about watching porn and masturbate to it again. I advise people to do the same.

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    January 14, Saturday- Journal # 3, Day 11
    Daily goal: At least 1 direct and stay in the interaction as long as possible

    # of approaches: 4
    Location: Mall

    Went out with a wing. He had about 12 approaches and a number close. Very nicely done by him. I got 4 approaches in. The first 3 approaches, the girls didn't even bother with it. Ouch. The forth and last one, the chick were on the phone talking to her dad when I approached. Shitty day for me even tho I got out with a wing. I blamed Panda Express.

    Thoughts of the day:
    I think its very important to approach the first hot girl you think is cute. Otherwise, it can spiral pretty badly as the day goes on if you failed. One negative emotion leading to the next. But if you did approached her, it can lead to chain of positive emotions the next time you approached the 2nd cute girl. I will internalize this and become conscious of it from now on when out sarging

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    January 15, Sunday- Journal # 3, Day 12
    Daily goal: At least 1 direct and stay in the interaction as long as possible

    # of approaches: 7
    Location: Mall

    Went out with a wing. He is really good with the way he approached now. He had about 12 approaches. I am trying to incorporate his approach and see how it goes since the way my approach didn't stop the girls today except for the first approach. She is in high school. Ejected immediately after. From this point on, all my attempts to approach were unsuccessful in stopping the girls. I still feel off today. The last approach I did were running up to her face, she stopped and I delivered my direct opener. She is married and thanked me.

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    I am trying to experiment with the way I approached chick from now on and see which works best at stopping girls. Overall, I still think its tonality, vocal projection, body language, energy level and mood play a very strong role as well.

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    Good to hear you are doing direct approaches again! Keep it going, if you keep on doing at least on set a day you will be fearless in a couple of weeks from now!

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    @Broeder C - Thanks man, that means a lot.

    Here is yesterday's approaches:

    January 16, Monday- Journal # 3, Day 13
    Daily goal: At least 1 direct and stay in the interaction as long as possible

    # of approaches: 5
    Location: Mall

    Went out with a wing again to a different mall. As I got out of the car from the parking lot, I approached this Asian chick carry a drink asking where she got it from. I am starting to impermanent approaching the first girl I see which I think is cute. Approached another when I spotted her doing down the stair. I went direct and follow up with name exchanged. She didn't want to continued convo. I should of plow. We sat down a bit. We spotted this eastern European and I hesitated. My wing pushed me and I went in with direct. She didn't want to talk and I ejected. We walked around a bit. Saw another and I went in with direct again. She thanked me and we exchanged name. She was working and on her break. Ejected. Saw some one nearby and approached her with direct again. She is studying nursing. She was going home. I suggested we should get some tea. Told me she has a bf. Ejected.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Still not being in the moment...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runner87 View Post
    6ft 157pound. Average looking. I am trying to bulk up and reach my target weight of 180 pound.
    Dude, don't let your body shape/size get into your head. The sheer skill you will display will FAR outweigh any body issues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runner87 View Post
    @Broeder C - Thanks man, that means a lot.

    Here is yesterday's approaches:

    January 16, Monday- Journal # 3, Day 13
    Daily goal: At least 1 direct and stay in the interaction as long as possible

    # of approaches: 5
    Location: Mall

    Went out with a wing again to a different mall. As I got out of the car from the parking lot, I approached this Asian chick carry a drink asking where she got it from. I am starting to impermanent approaching the first girl I see which I think is cute. Approached another when I spotted her doing down the stair. I went direct and follow up with name exchanged. She didn't want to continued convo. I should of plow. We sat down a bit. We spotted this eastern European and I hesitated. My wing pushed me and I went in with direct. She didn't want to talk and I ejected. We walked around a bit. Saw another and I went in with direct again. She thanked me and we exchanged name. She was working and on her break. Ejected. Saw some one nearby and approached her with direct again. She is studying nursing. She was going home. I suggested we should get some tea. Told me she has a bf. Ejected.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Still not being in the moment...
    How are you opening them?

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    With regards to being in the moment, I always find that it's easier to improvise and relate to things going on by immediately approaching. This is one of the reasons the 3 second "rule" is so great because it forces you to come up with shit. The more you can draw from the environment, the more "grounded" and calibrated you seem, and the more you can make her laugh about this stuff, the better your daytime approaches will go.

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    @boston_019 - I am not self-conscious of my body size but still like to bulk up. I typically saying they are cute/attractive.
    @MrCaptain - Maybe you are right, I am still hesitating about approaching the first cute girl I see when out sarging. My main problem is after the initial opener, I tend to puss out because I am worry I may look foolish when I ran out of things to say. Silly, I know.

    I am changing my daily goal again. Direct approach the first cute/attractive girl I see be herself when out sarging.

    January 17, Tuesday- Journal # 3, Day 14
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (FAIL!)

    # of approaches: 2
    Location: Mall

    The first cute girl I saw was pushing a shopping cart about to exit. Didn't approach. The second cute girl was in line about to check out, didn't approach. The third cute girl coming down from the escalator, still, didn't approach. I was kidda feeling disappointed. Walked for a bit around the mall. Spotted this blonde chick coming toward me. I went up to her face and opened with direct . Although I said it quite fast. She stopped. Went for name exchanged and extended my hand. She barely touched my finger tip when she reached out then walked away. I went back to Target and saw her at the makeup section. I went in. She jumped. I calmed her down. Direct and completed her hair. She was very friendly and opened up to me. I enjoy the interaction and really like her vibe and energy. Very chill and playful. She is married and wished her a good evening. I should of stay regardless. Wasted a good opportunity to practice vibing and rapport.

    Thoughts of the day:
    I got nothing.

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    You're doing good man! For now being comfortable with approaching should be your main goal. With every approach, and every time you fight your fears, you'll get stronger! And remember, from failing you learn the most!

    Keep it up Brother!

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    @Broeder C- Thanks man!

    January 19, Thursday- Journal # 3, Day 15
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Succeed!)

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Target

    Yesterday was a fail attempted trying to approach at Target. Today, I went to the same Target and approached the first chick I saw which I think was cute. She was at the makeup section. I went direct even tho I saw the ring on her finger. We exchanged name and told her even tho I saw the ring, I still wanted to come and told her that I think she is really cute. Her eyes were rolling and I am not sure whether she believed me or flatter by it. Eject soon after. I didn't want to continue to sarge and went back to my car.

    Thoughts of the day:
    I am just gonna focus on approaching the first cute girls I saw when out sarging and hopefully, it will help with my AA.

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    Awesome approach. It's the best feeling to throw yourself out there and expressive what you truly feel.

    Don't get too bogged down by, "I got to approach the first cute girl I see! Got to!". It's too much pressure. Get in the flow by just chatting with random people. If you are in target, ask a random girl (cute or not cute) what kind of towel is the nicest..etc.

    I am just speaking from experience. When I go out I like to have 2 or 3 goals because the situation of the day does not always present opportunities to achieve one specific goal. You want to give yourself the best chance of success!

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    @ProjectX - thanks. I am just really focusing on approaching the first cute girl since that usually give me the most AA. Your point is still valid tho. I will incorporate it sometime soon when I really got a handle on my AA.

    January 20, Friday- Journal # 3, Day 16
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Succeed!)

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Mall

    Head over the the mall. Park. Walked toward the entrance. Saw her walking on the other side. She seemed rush and walked quite fast. She is properly working at the mall. Almost without any hesitation, I dived in. I came in on her side. I think she saw me coming. I really didn't like the way I walked toward her but whatever. "Excuse me", I didn't tap her but stood my ground, "I saw you and..." She turned but still walking and said something I dont remember and walked off. Walked around the mall a bit and headed over to GameStop and played some Zelda on the Wii. Once I got out, I have no motivation to continue to sarge.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Shoulda focus on sarging, lesson learned: Dont bother with other stuff while out trying to approach.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runner87 View Post
    @ProjectX - thanks. I am just really focusing on approaching the first cute girl since that usually give me the most AA. Your point is still valid tho. I will incorporate it sometime soon when I really got a handle on my AA.

    January 20, Friday- Journal # 3, Day 16
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Succeed!)

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Mall

    Head over the the mall. Park. Walked toward the entrance. Saw her walking on the other side. She seemed rush and walked quite fast. She is properly working at the mall. Almost without any hesitation, I dived in. I came in on her side. I think she saw me coming. I really didn't like the way I walked toward her but whatever. "Excuse me", I didn't tap her but stood my ground, "I saw you and..." She turned but still walking and said something I dont remember and walked off. Walked around the mall a bit and headed over to GameStop and played some Zelda on the Wii. Once I got out, I have no motivation to continue to sarge.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Shoulda focus on sarging, lesson learned: Dont bother with other stuff while out trying to approach.
    At least you approached the first cute girl! Way to go brother!

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    @Broeder C- Thanks.

    January 22, Sunday- Journal # 3, Day 17
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 5
    Location: Mall

    Yesterday was a fail day for me. Went out to a nearby shopping plaza but didn't direct approach any one.

    Went out with a wing today. All approaches were direct except for this older lady. From behind she looked like she was in her 20s. I asked for the time when I was in front of her. I was really pushing my comfort zone today when I approached this 2-sets. There was a White hb8.5 and an Asian hb9 in my book. I approached the 8.5 and she jumped. I calmed her down a bit and told her her friend is amazing looking. She agreed and I turn to her friend. Her friend didn't even bother to noticed me and still facing forward. Time frozen for a bit then suddenly, people walked by out of no where. It was a crash and burn. They walked off and the 8.5 shouted over the crowded people "that wasn't very effective!" and told me not to do it again. I shouted back "I will!". Afterward, I was pretty shaken by the experience but sure as hell didn't regret it one bit.

    HB7.5 - Saw her coming in front on me. I put up both of my hands and stopped her. She is from Taiwan and studying communication from UCSD. Talked for about 5 mins or so. The thing I noticed was her body language. Her feet were not facing me which indicated she wasnt into the interaction as much as I would like. Anyway, I went for the close saying we should keep in touch. She suggested Facebook and I told her I am not using it. I didn't push for the number since I know I would not get a response from her even if I did have it. Talked a bit more and I ejected. I did kino about 3-4 times during the interaction.

    Hb7.5 - Saw her from behind. She is skinny and quite tall. I caught up with her, tap her on the arm. She turned around and I told her she is really skinny, tall and cute. We talked and I number closed her. I really like her vibe. I think its a solid number close and will hit her up very soon and see where it leads.

    Thoughts of the day:
    All I gonna say is it is a very good day for me!

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    January 24, Tuesday- Journal # 3, Day 18
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Succeed!)

    # of approaches: 2
    Location: Mall

    Yesterday was raining so I didn't bother to go out. Went out to the mall with super low energy. Saw this little asian girl and I approached her. She wasn't that cute so I asked for the time. Moments later, I saw this white shorty coming toward me. I put up my hand and said stop. There are about 4-5 steps between us. I told her she was cute and I had to talk to her. Asked for her name and extended my hand. She told me her name but didn't come closer for the handshake. I told her you dont even bother with a handshake? I waved and ejected. Didn't want to continue and headed back to the parking lot. As I drove back out the mall, I saw this cutie walking by herself near the stop sign. I was so close to shout you are cute, give me your number but something stopped me. Maybe next time.

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    January 25, Wednesday- Journal # 3, Day 19
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Target

    Saw this cute blonde coming out of the store when I drove to park. Her car were in front of my car so she came almost directly at me but couldn't approach. Walked into Target and only manage to asked this asian lady for the time.

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    January 26, Friday- Journal # 3, Day 20
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Succeed!)

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Target

    Walked toward the make up section and didn't see any one worth approaching. Circled the store. Decided to go back and headed over to the make up section once more. Saw this cutie and approach with direct. Didn't want to carry on the interaction since she seemed like a high school kid. Ejected immediately after the opener.

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    January 28, Saturday- Journal # 3, Day 21
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 3
    Location: Mall

    Got out with a wing. Only had about 30 mins. Approached this chick after I caught up with her. Direct and she was a bf. Approached this chick coming toward me. I put up my hand and said stop. She said if she know me. I told she that why I am stopping her to get to know she. She told me she is getting marry soon. Approached this shorty Asian in white going to Macy's. Direct but there are some distant. I didnt like it. Extended my hand and asked for her name. She gave it to me and walked into the store.

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    January 29, Sunday- Journal # 3, Day 22
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 4
    Location: Mall

    Out with a wing. First approach were this blonde. Caught up with her and delivered a direct opener. Didn't gave much much to work with. Her answers usually saying "Nothing" when I asked whats she is passionate about. I did sense she is somewhat interested since she didn't shown hints of doing away. After some frustration, I ejected. The second set was a 34 married Philippine women. She has an awesome body for having 4 kids. Her husband encourage her to go out and meet people and she suggested we could be friend. I didn't bother with it and ejected. The third set is my best interaction for the day. We talked for about 10 mins but unfortunately, she have to go back tomorrow morning. I should of get her number and keep in touch and she might be in town in the future. The last set were headed into Macy's and I caught up with her at the door. She seemed pissed when I guessed that she was from Spain. She had to go find some boots and I ejected. Overall, my interactions are getting better and finally passed the 1min interaction as I had before. Another sticky point defeated.

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    Wow, I am just glad that my hard work finally paying off. Thinking back to the past where I was having a hard time even to get out of the house into public places to having 10+ mins interaction with girls are insane. I still have long way to go and my journey is not over yet!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runner87 View Post
    January 29, Sunday- Journal # 3, Day 22
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 4
    Location: Mall

    Out with a wing. First approach were this blonde. Caught up with her and delivered a direct opener. Didn't gave much much to work with. Her answers usually saying "Nothing" when I asked whats she is passionate about. I did sense she is somewhat interested since she didn't shown hints of doing away. After some frustration, I ejected. The second set was a 34 married Philippine women. She has an awesome body for having 4 kids. Her husband encourage her to go out and meet people and she suggested we could be friend. I didn't bother with it and ejected. The third set is my best interaction for the day. We talked for about 10 mins but unfortunately, she have to go back tomorrow morning. I should of get her number and keep in touch and she might be in town in the future. The last set were headed into Macy's and I caught up with her at the door. She seemed pissed when I guessed that she was from Spain. She had to go find some boots and I ejected. Overall, my interactions are getting better and finally passed the 1min interaction as I had before. Another sticky point defeated.

    Thoughts of the day:
    Wow, I am just glad that my hard work finally paying off. Thinking back to the past where I was having a hard time even to get out of the house into public places to having 10+ mins interaction with girls are insane. I still have long way to go and my journey is not over yet!
    That's great man! Anyone can do it!

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    @jack - yes anyone can do it. For some, it may takes some dedication and determination but not impossible.

    January 30, Monday- Journal # 3, Day 23
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 2
    Location: Mall

    Stalled for sometime. Approached this chick coming toward me, there are distances and her body were not facing me but stopped. I delivered my direct opener anyway and without a word, she walked off. Approached another seconds later coming toward me. She stopped and her body were facing me. Delivered opener. She smiled. Asked if she just got off from work. She seemed a bit rushed and I let her go.

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    January 31, Tuesday- Journal # 3, Day 24
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see be herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 2
    Location: Mall and WalMart

    4 cuties passed by but didn't have the balls to approach. Walked some more. Saw this very feminine European chick walked toward me. I had to do it. I can't believe I was using the "kidda cute" line. I guessed I was nervous and semi-fucked up the opener. Still, she light up and opened up to me. I didn't have much time left and talked about her background a bit. I told her I gtg and wanted to get to know her better. She told me she is married but regardless, I think I made her day. She turned back as she walked away and thanked me again. Went to Walmart afterward from work to buy some mouth wash and might as well tried to scout out some cuties to approach. Went to the makeup section and saw this tiny cutie asian wearing glass. I walked around. We made EC and I went in. I used the "kidda cute" again lol. I didn't even get a chance to think and that just came out of my mouth. Asked for her name and ejected. Blah

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    If you can put 'the statistics so far', everyone would appreciate it

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    I am pretty lazy to do statistic right now but I will probably do it when I get some better results.

    February 2, Thursday- Journal # 3, Day 25
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see by herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Mall

    Saw her walked toward me on the cat walk. Opened, exchanged name. Asked her if she got off of work and she was meeting some friends. I pussed out.

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    February 5, Sunday- Journal # 3, Day 26
    Daily goal: Direct approach the 1st cute girl I see by herself (Fail!)

    # of approaches: 4
    Location: Mall

    Out with a wing. None of the approaches stick probably because I didnt smile/bad angle. Honestly, it cou;d be anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runner87 View Post
    # of approaches: 4
    Location: Mall, target, etc.
    Have you tried just approaching in the street/parks/outside venues? I personally HATE malls, so boring and the atmosphere is very fake. I'm way happier outside.

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    Just wanted to update my journal real quick and let others know I am still alive. I am still out cold approaching. I have done some campuses game and actually like it a lot. I think I have improve some what. I am having longer convo/interaction, sets stopped better, I moved slower, talked with pauses and taking my time, using hands gesture, overall better vibe, being less outcome dependent and actually enjoy talking to girls.

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    i havent read much of your journal but what it seems like to me is that you tend to eject when you run out of things to say. id say stay in set till she asks to excuse
    herself and say anything that comes in your mind. You should also read on conversation mapping from the book by jeremy soul "Daytime Dating" it will give you a structure on how to prolong your conversations and make things flow more naturally.


    EDIT: Just read your last post. Good job on the improvements, hope to hear more from you.

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    Hey thanks dude. It seems like I am at the point of getting numbers now. The next "phrase" is texting. I have looked into text game a bit yesterday over at the text forum and I am having a better understanding of it.

    P.S. I am pretty lazy of writing up my field reports from my sarging sessions now. I didnt really think its very exciting. But I will post my progress as time goes by.

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    Was out on my regular run a bit earlier. I saw this Asian chick in blue ran passed me. She has a great body. On my way back, its was pretty dark and I was walking at this point about 4/5 completion of course. The same girl ran passed me on my left. The thought of approached her came to my head. I looked back to check if there is anyone around, no one. So in my head I was thinking, "I will freak the shit out of her if I approach and will call me a freak/rapist/stalker". I watched her back side faded into the dark and around the corner. My body picked up speed. I legs suddenly moved on its own. I felt a sense of freedom as I ran toward her. Seconds later, I was on her left shoulder. "I will race you!". She said something I couldn't recall. "Come on! Lets go!". I waved my hand signal her to pick up speed. "Where is the end point?" She asked me. "At the end, the yellow pillar bar". We were at it and ran like rabbits in mating season. We reached the pillar, stopped and walked a bit. I was breathing deeply into my lungs. "Ok bye!". "Stop!". She stopped. I was a bit out of breath and took my time. "Bye!" and she picked up speed. "Stop! I want to talk to you!". "Have a nice run!" and she disappeared in front of me. Next time I see her, its on! btw, I didn't even get a chance to looked at her face nor does she.

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    HOLLY FUCK, it has been 2 years since I last update this shit! Anyway, I think I am going to update this journal once again. I feel like the community here is better giving at least some feedback. Anyway, here is yesterday's approaches

    Feb 3, Monday

    Daygame:
    went to university. Did my approaches and successfully stopped 6 sets. Last approach was an Polish chick near the bus stop. Went kidda indirect. She asked for me name and said nice to meet you. I took it as she wanted me to gtfo but now I realized that I fucked it up.

    Daygame goal for tomorrow: approach and successfully have 4 interaction that last more than 2 minutes. difficulty level 2/5. This can be slightly challenging but it shouldn't by too hard if I did my approaches.

    Weekly goal by the end of this week: Get an instant date - difficulty level 3/5. This can be challenging but I had done it before so I am confident that I could do it again.

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    Feb 4, Tuesday

    Daygame:
    Met up with my wing at university. The goal for today was to have a 4 2-minutes conversion. Felt ok when I got there but by mood slowly decline. I think I put a bit too much pressure into myself and negative self talk doesnt help. We sat down a bit then I just had to push throught it. There is no other way around it. I approached a fattie and asked for direction for about 2 min. Approached another and asked direction again for more than 2 minutes. After that, did some more sets but wasn't quite hit the 2 minutes mark. I stalled out at this point. My wing had to go and I decided to hit up the mall nearby to get my quota in. Did 3 more approaches but failed to transition that last more than 30 secs. Will try again tomorrow with today's goal. Total approaches - ~~8

    Daygame goal for tomorrow: approach and successfully have 4 interaction that last more than 2 minutes. difficulty level 3/5. Since I failed today, I am uping the difficultly level a bit.

    Weekly goal by the end of this week: Get an instant date - difficulty level 3/5. This can be challenging but I had done it before so I am confident that I could do it again.

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    Went to irvine and did some sets.

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    [QUOTE=Runner87;896470] Saw her walking on the other side.

    Excellent Job you approached. Its all part of the learning curve.
    However as I have learned a woman in a rush is really going somewhere so don't waste time. Its worth spending that 30 secs to evaluate something. (i.e Her lack of coat = works in Mall = ignore, Her speed = she has a meeting = ignore, etc )
    In a coffee shop to be honest I have bailed out of approaches because I have observed ...
    a) she is quickly popped in to use the wash room
    b) Her boyfriend is waiting out in the car
    c) Her car is running and means she has no time.

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    I want to update this journal again and keep my self accountable.
    Its been a long time but I had to write something down to keep myself motivated.

    I want to focus more on connecting with people in general and pick-up will be secondary.
    Social skills and intelligent will be my primary motivation.

    I went out to Target and talked to two Indian guys just to get my feet wet.
    I will update this post again tomorrow.

    I don't want to feel like I have no power to connect and being vulnerable around people.

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    Haven't read any of this thread but it's impressive that you're sticking with this after so many years.

    Sounds like you're making a smart choice to step back a bit and look at all of your social skills and not just relating to women

    I recommend to everyone in my life that they read the classic from Dale Carnegie "How to Win Friends and Influence People". It's timeless for a reason.

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