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Mourning Star
05-30-2009, 04:50 AM
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Please give as prompt a reply as possible so I dont f*** this up (reasons below :))


OK so heres the strangeness:

This girl seems to be VERY resistant towards sexual advances, yet also seems to increase her sexual "flirt" both verbally and physically as the night (and days) increase.

Then tonight, after her joking around about a certain fling we had a year ago for a few hours,* and her resisting a goodnight kiss (but not hug, we had amazing kino minus the kiss part, minus some severe rejections, which later had some very positive kino) we had the following text convo after parting:


After a few texts back and forth..... One right after the other:

HB - What did I do with my cards!?

HB - Ugh nvm..

NS - Lol wtf?

HB - Geez im losin it ok?

NS - Sexual fustration will do that... Rapist

HB - Fuckin a it will..

NS - I want u

HB - Go figure

NS - 2 do my taxes

HB - I dont even do my own, sorry haha

NS - Well then 1 of us needs 2 do sumthn

HB - Yea ya do

NS - I do? Ys it allways gotta b the mamale

HB - Cuz Im the rapist

NS - Lol fine ur mine..
But no rape!

HB - Darn

NS - I need my manhood
lol I just saw the greatest pot commercial evr


HB - Which 1?

NS - The 1 where theyr smilen

HB - right

NS - I stole from my lil sis I got straight ds I left my ex 27 messages

HB - Oh haha yea that 1

NS - Dont oh haha me lil girl (side note: shes short)

HB - Ohh Hahaha

NS - Now I hafta punish you

HB - Yea yea im sure

NS - U callin me a liar?

HB - Idk

HB - Ohh geez! Its gettin light out!!


Convo continued for a bit after that. Somewhat akward, somewhat skilled, nothing too damaging.




*Where she became overly dominant F-close wise and I called her a rapist



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So what exactly is going on here??

Are we "together" as they say?

If so was she wanting some commitment before we did anything?

Or does she want me to "manhandle" her?

Seriously WTF?!



I have my theories but I really need outside advice (this is the girl that made me turn to the PUA community, and I've known her since 06' she my kryptonite)

Mourning Star
05-31-2009, 07:52 AM
Its a small section of the interaction that I'm curious about (with additional add ons):

NS - Well then 1 of us needs 2 do sumthn

HB - Yea ya do (Serious statement)

NS - I do? Ys it allways gotta b the mamale

HB - Cuz Im the rapist (playful response calling back to an "intimate moment")

NS - Lol fine ur mine..
But no rape!

HB - Darn (playful word, not a no at all)

Either she is saying darn to the no rape JOKE, to the your mine comment (less likely for her use of that word), or to the whole thing (least likely).

Either way it seems like an agreement. Why? There is no disagreement.

What makes it hard to calibrate? Read the entire thing

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P.S. theres supposed to be smileys in certain parts of that text convo.... ummm how do I edit??

I'll put 'em here if a mod wants to get some karma.....

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NS - I want u

HB - Go figure : )

NS - 2 do my taxes
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NS - I need my manhood : )
lol I just saw the greatest pot commercial evr

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NS - Dont oh haha me lil girl (side note: shes short)

HB - Ohh Hahaha : )

Ex AFC
06-09-2009, 02:55 PM
U do know that an LTR stands for 'Long term relationship' dont you?

beavretrieve
07-21-2010, 10:48 AM
No girl will find a Rape joke funny. Use different terms like 'I'm not easy' or something to that effect. You've blown this one.

sdnightfly
07-22-2010, 08:40 PM
She just wanted to keep talking... just typical late night banter where you start going in random directions.

This is the interesting part to me though:
NS - I want u
HB - Go figure
NS - 2 do my taxes
HB - I dont even do my own, sorry haha
NS - Well then 1 of us needs 2 do sumthn
HB - Yea ya do

See where things go next date.

JirQUEST
07-31-2010, 02:04 PM
Are you kidding me? This conversation doesn't even say anything. You're making lil jokes about sex, and you expect her to give you a come on? Seriously?!

CMPitts
07-31-2010, 08:58 PM
Guys, this thread is from over a year ago. Please check the dates before you respond. :rolleyes:

/closed.