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SidV
03-23-2009, 06:02 AM
Hey guys, so I met this girl last week, we've already slept together got her number so I'm in already.

I took her number and i didn't give mine to her. So the next day i text her:
Me: Does this text make my phone look fat?.....P.S You should drop fighting ;)

K so now shes always been texting me first, so i guess my question is:
should I always wait for her to text me or should I initiate a text convo?

Sid

dman
03-24-2009, 08:13 PM
as she is always txting you there is no great need to initiate the conversation

but you should, just sometimes to mix it up

SidV
03-25-2009, 07:10 PM
Alright cool, and what are some good things to talk about over the phone/text, ive sorta just been role playing a little and teasing.

Sid

shadowy1
03-25-2009, 07:51 PM
Alright cool, and what are some good things to talk about over the phone/text, ive sorta just been role playing a little and teasing.

Sid

well, first ask yourself "what you want from this lady, do i want a gf, friend, or a fuck buddy?" then that will determine what you want to say to the girl, if you want a gf or a fb, start with small talk, then mix it up funny and a lil serious (make plans for dates, how her day was, etc.) but if you want friend, talk to her like you would to your friends but be easy at first, time will only tell how far shit she will take from you, and if she takes alot and gives alot, she is a friend indeed