View Full Version : how long to abstain before calling

03-15-2009, 03:08 AM
How many days should you abstain from contacting your date after you have a date or speak on the phone should I contact her after 3days ?

03-15-2009, 08:44 AM
You don't have to wait 3 days, I suggest just calling or texting the next day.

03-15-2009, 03:50 PM
I just dont want to feel like I'm smothering her, I also think if i don't contact her much the attraction will grow. It was the 2rd date and it was our first time we french kissed so you believe i should contact her sooner then 3 days ?

03-15-2009, 04:06 PM
Since you made out with her on your last date I would wait about 2-3 days. I think in this case it would help create a little tension like you said and you won't seem too interested.