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butch3r
01-13-2009, 02:58 PM
I don't think enough people in the community talk about identity enough. I decided working on my identity after I heard Brad-P talk about it. The thing is, my identity is Jewish, Israeli, into conservative politics, and working to have a management degree. I'm into business. My identity is more business related. The things that I've listed don't really make me into the sex-worthy guy. There are identities that have that sex-worthiness like rockstars. I want to retain my identity but somehow make it more sex worthy. What do you guys think I can do to enhance it?

Also I plan to change my clothing style this weekend to make it more aligned with my identity. I'd rather do some type of business style but also one that doesn't make me too hot since I live in Miami. This fashion thing should help me stand out, and also match my identity but help me be more sex worthy based on that thin-slice first impression. What do you guys think I can do to improve my image?

Thanks!