View Full Version : This girl is a tomboy and doesn't give a fuck - how do I handle her?

11-05-2008, 09:50 PM
We've had a couple of good convos. Shes full of stories, doesn't give a fuck, is a total tomboy, and is pretty cute. The thing is she's very very independent and has had a ton of bf's. She seems very carefree, but man, she doesn't give a fuck about anything. She's like the ultimate hot tomboy, and I've never encountered this shit before. Like, I haven't the slightest clue of how to build attraction in her either. Ill be tossing negs and DHV's but I'm totally not building any attraction at all. Like we just got done talking for about 2 hours, she was laughing, telling random stories, etc, and it was a good convo. I was trying to look for IOI's: she'd touch her face a lot, laugh, if my attention was off looking at something in the distance she'd look there too, if I stopped talking she'd reinitiate the convo, she was talking about when she saw a porno on accident, sleeping with some guy the first night of a date, etc. But it still seemed that I hadn't really built any attraction on this though. What the fuck is going on? Have any of you handled these girls?

11-07-2008, 01:49 AM
yeah, its called a real girl. be who u are around this one and lemme know how it works out...and dont forget about kino escalation.

11-07-2008, 05:47 AM
A good friend of mine just introduced me to such a girl. And he finally managed to get her..after like 6 weeks of trying.

The approach he took was simple: Give less of a fuck than she does. Tease, and don't care if she shakes it off or when she teases you back. Don;t crowd her, hang out with other people at times. HAve a blast and bring the energy.

And as the guy above me said, kino. Don't rush though, like I said above..it took this guy (whose good with women) 6 weeks, but he succeeded in the end :)

Good luck, and tell us how it goes. I'd love to meet a girl like that and know how to deal with her. Not caring at all is attractive to me :)