View Full Version : Building comfort after the fact

11-2008-03, 11:31 PM
A couple weeks ago I met a girl at a hipster bar and got her Facebook info. Here's the field report (http://www.theattractionforums.com/forum/field-reports/80167-fr-he-s-office-manager.html) if you want the whole story. There was a very strong attraction but since this was a quick set, I didn't get to establish a lot of comfort. We've since shared a few e-mails, which I've tried to put a fair amount of comfort into.

Her number is listed on her Facebook page, but I haven't called her. I'm planning on sending her an e-mail where I bullshit about what I've been up to and then as a footnote, mention that her on her Facebook page and say I'll call her at X time. Does anyone have advice crafting a particular message?