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shield
06-16-2008, 09:40 AM
Hey everyone. There are so many companies out there that advocate different things e.g. natural game vs routines e.t.c. But what is game? And what does it mean to have game?

Is game the lines and things that you say?

Is game being alpha?

Is game just confidence?

Or is it just being socially comfortable enough to be yourself?

If we knew what it was then we wouldn't spend our time getting lost in marketing schemes and in the micro details.

Vapor
06-16-2008, 09:44 AM
You've been here a year? And this is a question? C'mon, man.

Game is your social skill with the opposite sex.

shield
06-16-2008, 09:47 AM
Yes but social skill is a broad term . I know guys who have great social skills with women but they always fall into the friends zone. Furthermore guys who are great at socialising with women in social circles fail miserably in cold approaching.

Vapor
06-16-2008, 10:00 AM
I know guys who have great social skills with women but they always fall into the friends zone.
That's an oxymoron. Making a woman want to not have sex with you is not social skill. It's the opposite of that.

Cedar
06-16-2008, 10:57 AM
...what is game?...

Confidence.


Which you learn from experience.

Which requires you to fail over and over until you pick up patterns.

Which many people try to circumvent by reading books, watching DVDs and attending bootcamps.

Which defeats the purpose. The more you prevent pain, the less experience you gain. Which isn't game. It's the realm of the keyboard jockey.

shield
06-16-2008, 11:18 AM
Confidence.


Which you learn from experience.

Which requires you to fail over and over until you pick up patterns.

Which many people try to circumvent by reading books, watching DVDs and attending bootcamps.

Which defeats the purpose. The more you prevent pain, the less experience you gain. Which isn't game. It's the realm of the keyboard jockey.

Yep I totally agree. Cedar I think your posts rock by the way. Sorry if I came off a bit critical. Definitely agree with the pain part. I feel shit scared all the time. Like from the moment i get up, I know I have to do my approaches that evening and feel stressed.

Dagon
06-16-2008, 01:26 PM
'Game' is everything you do, actively or passively, that helps you to attract women. Taking the previous statement into account, game is:

Looks, routines, money, sexual state, social skill, intuition, body language, being fearless, the way you speak... everything!

In fact your 'game' is YOU!

silversixone
06-16-2008, 01:43 PM
Game is the ability to see and predict the dynamics of a social interaction as it unfolds, and then be able to respond in a way that guides the interaction to the result you want. Getting game requires you to change yourself and how you see the world.


Silver

sagacity
06-16-2008, 02:02 PM
it's all context, game means absolutely nothing and absolutely everything.

what is game
who got game
where's the game
and how's life behind a game?

he got game
she got game
i got game
they got game
it might feel good, it might sound a little somethin'
but fuck the game if it ain't saying nothin'

Eyecontact
06-16-2008, 02:22 PM
Game is the ability to see and predict the dynamics of a social interaction as it unfolds, and then be able to respond in a way that guides the interaction to the result you want


And how often you are able to get the result you want is the determinant of how much game you have.

Brilliant definition silver!

silversixone
06-16-2008, 03:47 PM
Thank you. Thank you.

:golf clap:


Silver

Fedor
06-16-2008, 04:08 PM
Game is the ability to see and predict the dynamics of a social interaction as it unfolds, and then be able to respond in a way that guides the interaction to the result you want. Getting game requires you to change yourself and how you see the world.


Silver

that was like a dictionary definition, lol