View Full Version : Next Step?

04-13-2008, 10:50 PM
so i had this HB9s number from a while back, and never really had a reason to call. i finally found a totally offtopic reason to talk to her,( **needed her opinion on something**). anyways, we talked 'business' over a casual low key lunch, cause i did have a legit question, and i knew she would have decent advice. i then left an open loop (i think) about going to hang out sometime...and she said sure, gimme a call and we'll hang out.

the following weekend (friday) me and a few friends were headed to a bar, and texted her asking what she was doing that night, and she responded by saying she had plans with her friends already. i said cool, seeded why i was asking by letting her know about my plans and wanted to see if she wanted to come, followed, by 'maybe next time? have fun.'

i didnt get a response back....and on sunday, i left a vm regarding the topic we talked over lunch that i had first called her for. i havent heard back yet.....how long do i wait before recontacting...or do i try contacting her at all?

04-14-2008, 03:55 AM
Forget it, or leave it a week, you shouldnt have texted her on friday at all, especially on a last minute, if someone texts me to go out on a friday on friday morning i wopuld say no, cos i wouldve made friday plans on wednesday...

Anyway if u were gonna text her on friday, you shouldve put the reason first, " hey me and my friends are heading down to so and so, you should join us, bring your friends too, we can have a party...

If she texts that she cant, dont text back or reply at all, and dont call the folowing day, leave it 3- 4 days, call tuesday or monday...

04-14-2008, 08:53 AM
ok. thanks for the help.....if i do a leave it a week, any ideas on how to reopen? or not even worth it?