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Momento87
03-23-2008, 07:20 AM
I completly realized yesterday why I'm not the guy who can be alone with a girl in the car and just pull out the cock, and, well, GIVE HER THE CHANCE to do something with it( I actually had this opportunity yesterday, this girl in the school track team I joined told me to go with her to the car to 'get something' but we ended up just sitting there). So, anyways I remember when I was mayb 7-12 my mom walked in on me taking a piss and I was completly flaccid, I'm also a grower not a shower so my hangs are like 1/7 of erect state, and I remember her making a hand signal that girls use to mean its small(where the thumb and index finger are a inch or two away and she giggled:(. This totally destroyed me especially that it came from my mom and she should be loving and I guess it in my subconscious whenever I see a girl I think how the hell would she looked at it if my own mom who loves me cracked on me. And even though rationally I can understand I was young and no where near what I grew up to( I've seen even to comparing my piece to porno that I have nothing to worry about) but this thing just fucked me up mentally. I think this affects my game subtly but significantly. I think Confidence comes from being confident in many different aspects of your life and this one thing is killing my confidence in my manhood.

ckeep
03-23-2008, 08:43 AM
You've just gotta run your game, man. If you've seen that you have nothing to worry about, then don't worry. You're just psyching yourself out for nothing. If you're lacking confidence over something specific like that, you need to get over it quick, and your game will jump tremendously.

karim
03-23-2008, 09:29 AM
run the game correctly and she will want you even if you have a pussy man.

Momento87
03-23-2008, 09:35 AM
Wow thanks guys that was helpful and what Karim said was hilarious and sounds true. Karim you wouldn't happen to be Karim that was born and raised in Jackson Heights, NY my first real buddy that I played video games with throughout my childhood lol?

P.S- Anyone hear of the flesh light. I think that's awesome for building sexual confidence.

buttman00965
03-23-2008, 09:56 AM
run the game correctly and she will want you even if you have a pussy man.


holy cow..true pua phrase bro!!

wakeboardr
03-23-2008, 10:13 AM
Wow thanks guys that was helpful and what Karim said was hilarious and sounds true. Karim you wouldn't happen to be Karim that was born and raised in Jackson Heights, NY my first real buddy that I played video games with throughout my childhood lol?

P.S- Anyone hear of the flesh light. I think that's awesome for building sexual confidence.

You can make home made ones ;)

NumbaOneDesi
03-23-2008, 10:25 AM
LOL at your mom making fun of your dick.

RunMan
03-23-2008, 11:15 AM
maybe you need to see a therapist. there are some things we cannot help you with.

karim
03-23-2008, 04:26 PM
Wow thanks guys that was helpful and what Karim said was hilarious and sounds true. Karim you wouldn't happen to be Karim that was born and raised in Jackson Heights, NY my first real buddy that I played video games with throughout my childhood lol?

P.S- Anyone hear of the flesh light. I think that's awesome for building sexual confidence.

lol no I'm from Egypt bro , and btw flesh light will be you first step to be a psyco wanting to see a therapist .. for the second time , run the game and you will get real pussies - better than flesh light i think :cool: ?

Heisty
03-23-2008, 04:55 PM
LOL at your mom making fun of your dick.

:D