View Full Version : old friends giving IOIs

03-05-2008, 02:13 PM
me and this girl have been friends for probly close to 5 years now. always been great friends really connected and such. well lately ive noticed ive been getting heavy IOIs from her. texting me non-stop, coming over and cleaning out my truck:confused: now we have never hooked up or anything like that, but i would consider a relationship with her. I just want any advice on how to turn this into my favor. i would never have considered this if the IOIs hadnt come on so strong...

any advice would be appreciated

03-05-2008, 02:50 PM
you probably got her. If she starts to suddenly do this stuff try reciprocating and seeing how it goes from there. And it should already pretty much be in your favor seeing as how this girl is doing stuff for you. If you can kiss-close her you probably got her.

03-05-2008, 03:00 PM
If she's giving you IOIs just set up something date-like and kiss her! She's doing the work for you, I don't think it gets much easier...

03-05-2008, 03:03 PM
Johnny Soporno has an EXCELLENT post on this. Something along the lines of " how to turn girl friends into girlfriends".

Also, know that entering a sexual relationship with someone you value as a friend is dangerous territory, I would not pursue unless you are willing to lose the friendship. If not, then just keep her as friend.

03-05-2008, 03:15 PM

I think thats it

03-06-2008, 10:32 PM
thx for the help guys, gonna try and work on this on the weekend

03-07-2008, 12:53 AM
What changed with her recently?