View Full Version : Girls deflecting teasing names.

01-14-2008, 02:09 PM
PUA: "Hey dork/dweeb/kiddo"
Girl: "Hey. I'm not a dork/dweeb/kiddo."

This is assuming the girl is either has no humor and is taking the comment offensively, or she is trying to wear the pants and is trying to steal the frame.
How would you best respond?

01-14-2008, 02:37 PM
How old is she?

01-14-2008, 02:50 PM
well it's not a particular girl, I was just looking for ideas for responses.
College girl.
Happened yesterday I just said yeah and ended the conversation.

01-14-2008, 02:51 PM
Yeah, move on, she sounds like she doesn't have a sense of humor.

What college do you go to?

01-14-2008, 02:51 PM
What kind of relationship do you have with this girl?

Shows no personality on her part, I'd kick her in the ovary and find a new buddy to play with.

01-14-2008, 02:52 PM

Of course you are.

Tell me why you're not.

Come on now, I'm realy attracted to women that can be honest, don't screw this up for me.

Observational humor, You're a dork! hb No I'm not. Sure you are look at the way your pants are hemmed..or anything else.

You're a brat. NIN. Look at the way you wrinkle your nose up like a "pilly" little rabbit when you said that. hb Whats pilly? Being a pill. hb What's being a pill? smile.."A brat!

There's tones of return banter. Just keep practicing you're playfull banter!

My best to you,


01-14-2008, 03:00 PM
And why should a girl respond positively when you call her a dork? To be honest, negs can get really annoying really fast. It depends on a girl's personality of course, but if we're talking about normal HBs vs. party girls, I'd tone it down (edit: or find a party girl).



01-14-2008, 03:08 PM
Also think about the way you convey that. Teasing is pretty much about your subtext too.

01-14-2008, 03:23 PM
I go to VCU.
I'm just friends with this girl and her friends.
I get the vibe that they all have a sexual interest in me.

I said it to her on AIM, I just said, "Hey Kiddo"
She's in a sorority and likes to party I don't really know what happened.
Strange, it's not much of a neg, maybe she was having a bad day.
Can't really insert a context of teasing when you begin an AIM convo.


Thanks for that list of responses though Alaskanmana.

01-14-2008, 09:34 PM
Tell her you give nicknames to all the cool people.

01-14-2008, 09:58 PM
And why should a girl respond positively when you call her a dork?
Delivery, my friend, delivery.

Theres a chick in my Bowling league who had awesome, straight brown hair. Then over the break she made it curly. But it looked more frizzy than curly. So I go up to her...

Me: (really conveniently, like its her name) Sup frizzy.
HBfrizzy: Hey! I like my new hair.
Me: Haha
HBfrizz: so how was your break, blah blah blah

A lot of ppl put emphasis on teasing names and thats what gets them in crap. Its bad execution IMO