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athlete
02-18-2007, 02:02 PM
i was talking to a girl on the dancefloor the other night. i wasn't gaming her tho. The following convo took place randomly and naturally, i wasn't intentionally using it to get her.

ME: are you a natural blonde?
HER: yes
ME: that's hot!
(short pause)
ME: although it would be hotter if you were a natural brunette.

is this an example of push-pull, is it banter or just a random insult? do you think it's worth using in the future or not?

She seemed a little insulted by it but maybe in a good way. she was a HB6 so maybe it would work better on HB8 or 9.

miaddict
02-18-2007, 03:24 PM
Simple, Push (away) and pull (towards).

You pulled her with "that's hot" and pushed with "a natural brunette". If you really want to understand push-pull, try Swinggcat's Real World Seduction (the ebook or the foundations CDs).

Or in the language of MM, it's bait -hook - reel - release.

ME: are you a natural blonde? BAIT
HER: yes-HOOK
ME: that's hot! [REEL or IOI]
(short pause)
ME: although it would be hotter if you were a natural brunette. [RELEASE or IOD]

If you understand the principle of BHRR, you dont need to memorize a routine (to be used in the future).

Intrepid
02-21-2007, 10:20 PM
Thanks for the breakdown on it, Mia.

I was a little confused myself.