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ChasingShadows
07-01-2012, 07:01 AM
Hello everyone

I'll keep this brief, but I was hoping to get some advice on how to build attraction AFTER establishing comfort first. I know, I went out of order, and I have always had a problem with doing that. I started talking to this girl before having read Magic Bullets.

She and I have already established a deep rapport on mental and emotional levels, but I have neglected the physical nature a bit (not entirely, we have fooled around plenty, but never sealed the deal.).

I've been thinking along the lines of keeping meetings fun and exciting and kino escalation type stuff.

Any advice on attraction builders, etc. would be greatly appreciated!

Hatman
07-01-2012, 07:57 AM
Heres a great secret: you dont need that much attraction for a chick to bang you.

The combination is:

1. a little attraction
2. decent or some comfort
3. good escalation

ESCALATION is what you're really looking for here. The key to that is going direct, sexual comments, eye fucking, clawing and bringing her close. Putting her arms over your shoulders etc. On top of that, the escalation builds the attraction you were initially looking for anyway

hope that helps