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WelshPlayer
05-29-2011, 03:32 PM
Okay to start off with I've managed to get a girl to agree to go on a date with me and play some pool. This was about 2 weeks ago now and it's come to the time where I should be thinking about texting and calling her. The reason why i'm asking for your advice here is because I've just read through the 'Magic Bullets' phone and text guide which says that you should try and arrange a date on the second call. It also stated that you shouldn't bring the date up straight away even if you've agreed to it as it can be seen as needy.

You see my plan was to text her and then call her and set up the date straight away. Now I kind of have a plan to have a short chat with her on the phone for 5 minutes then casually remind her of the plans we had if she fails to bring it up. The thing is I need a reason to call her. I don't want to text her and say 'Pick up your phone so I can arrange this date that I so desperately want and you probably don't care as much about'. Well not in those words but that's how it'll come across!

So the big questions.
How can I get her on the phone without mentioning the date in the first place?
Then.
How can I smoothly transition to get her to agree to the date?

Thanks.

philemon
05-30-2011, 02:46 AM
How can I get her on the phone without mentioning the date in the first place?
http://www.attractology.com/2010/03/call/

How can I smoothly transition to get her to agree to the date?

http://www.attractology.com/2010/04/reducing-flakes-art-seeding/

Snupas
05-30-2011, 03:46 AM
ask her for coffee! Coffee works all the time ...girls treat it as a friends meeting and always agree to it ...never flake
The first two meetings must be simple and where you can talk. I always ask for first meeting at coffee shop to create more attraction and where I can easily talk. Second date at my house where i cook dinner for her and me... no third date needed because thats when u usually sleep with her

WelshPlayer
05-30-2011, 08:46 AM
http://www.attractology.com/2010/03/call/

http://www.attractology.com/2010/04/reducing-flakes-art-seeding/

Just what I was looking for. Thanks :)