View Full Version : need help quick!

02-23-2011, 06:16 PM
im txting a hb8 and asked her if she has plans for friday...she does since her bday was this week...

how do i respond and still show high value bc i'm not going to be anywhere near where her bday bar crawl is

02-24-2011, 02:23 AM
its better if you included some of what you said, we need context If you asked that out of the blue you need to play it off and change the focus. If the convo was leading you towards getting information on her weekend, just play it off like "ohh yeahh, your birthday...dont think I can do 3 weekends in a row" "how about I celebrate with you another time" you're telling her you have a social life, and in context its you whos changing the date of the meeting so theres no value lost there.

if she plays into it make plans another date. if she doesn't you need to build more attraction. if a girl wants to talk to you, she'll reply a text or answer your call, if she wants to see you she'll make time. attraction is the foundation.