View Full Version : :should I bang her?

11-29-2010, 01:30 PM
There's this girl I'd like to fuck, but the thing is that she is one of my closest friend's ex.
I know her since they got together and even talk to her after they broke up.
Well I wasn't so attracted to her all this time, but a week ago I was watching some porn and got interested in big boobs. So I thought "who has big boobs" and "bam!" she came into thought. So I started fantasizing things and now I'd like to fuck her without geting any problems with my buddy.
I am going to see a movie with her in a few days and I am thinking that it is a nice oportunity to give it a try, but I keep thinking about what my buddy would say if he learned that I fucked her.
Should I have a talk with him first? or should I just fuck her?

11-29-2010, 05:22 PM
you should tell your friend first

I wouldn't mind if my friend asked me this but I would mind if you start a relationship with her

11-29-2010, 05:33 PM
Don't tell your friend, he is going to feel betrayed
even if he says he doesn't care, he feels bad and may avoid you in future
keep it as a secret forever and give it a try

12-02-2010, 01:09 AM
Ask yourself:

-Realistically, is he going to find out?
-How much emotion does he have attached to this girl?
-Is your friendship worth risking over this girl?
-Are you going to have any lingering guilt afterwards?

If you still think it's worth it, go for it. Just know the risks, that's all.

12-02-2010, 08:59 AM
There's this girl I'd like to fuck

Then yes, you should.

but the thing is that she is one of my closest friend's ex.

You don't have to tell him EVERYTHING about your sex life. I understand your sympathy, but the truth is. Him and Her are no longer together. what ever happened between him and her, is THEIR business not yours.

she is single, and so are you. I dont see anything wrong with two people who are attracted to each other and are not in a committed relationship to have sex with each other.

If he gets upset by that well maybe he should have read Magic Bullets and learn a thing or two.

12-06-2010, 08:33 PM
brocode. dont be a cock. IF you have a real mature relation you should be able to discuss this kind of shit. if hes not a real friend then the brocode doesnt apply. if hes a real friend show some respect, else your just saying your a selfish sex-crazed twat.

12-06-2010, 09:04 PM
While "Bro's before Hoes" doesn't apply to alot of PUA things you really need to judge this situation.

Is it worth losing your friend over a quick lay to get your rocks off?
Is this girl going to be anything more than a FB?
How long have they been apart and does he still want her?

Way the pros and cons carefully because good friends are alot harder to come by then hot girls