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iplars
05-14-2006, 02:19 AM
What do you guys think about differences in age? I know women tend to like men older then them, so would you lie about your age? I know I lie about my age by telling them I'm 20, when I'm actually 18. Also, what do you guys think about chicks older then you? Do you think it's a waste of time to try and pick up someone older then you, like 28?

Desuora
05-14-2006, 02:23 PM
if i could lie about my age i dont think i would (i've been given the gift/curse of baby face looks) i think the girls prefering older guys, depends on what age of girl you are trying to pick up
Teenagers and early 20's will go for older guys, its a maturity thing, older = more mature.. the 29-30 year old guy is think OMGYES because he has just picked up a 20 y/o, inside he will be like a little child (i think :O i could be way off though lol)
they soon find out this is often not the case and older guys can be just as immature :P
having never dated or tried to date anybody 28+ i cant really give you a solid answer, i imagine id be cautious yet curious :rolleyes:
also first post :eek:

HITCH
05-14-2006, 02:35 PM
Okay guys I'm 32 and I don't make my age an issue I've been with 20yr olds and 30somethings and I dont lie about my age. Not all young chicks(18-24) want older guys. Some older women want young guys(Desperate Housewives).
So don't lie about your age.No matter how old you are. If you don't make it a big deal they wont either. But if you go in with this "I'm too young" mindset, then you've defeated yourself before you even start.

Vincent Chase
05-14-2006, 05:44 PM
Age is immaterial to women, they could give a shit less, they have other emotions and desires that far out weigh the notion of age.
Age is not a factor I've pulled 27 year olds and onward, there ain't no reason why you should be letting this get to you. Strengthen your frame baby, as soon as you get that notion out of your head you'll see an improvement in your game, I'd bet my right hand, Shirley.
=]

Satyre
05-14-2006, 10:22 PM
Use your youth to your advantage man.
Hb: "Im too old for a teenager"
Response: "Unfortunately for you..."
-or-
Hb: "Your soo young"
Response: "Thank you." or "Lucky me"

Iceman
05-15-2006, 04:26 PM
This came from someone on the forum, I can't remember who though...they know who they are.
HB: You're too young for me.
PUA: Yeah, you're right. I'll give you a minute to get over that. ....ok you're over it.

Nox
05-16-2006, 12:02 PM
If you're alpha, they won't care about your age. Stop this issue. It's not about age. It's not about looks. It's not about anything obvious, or anything that's out of your reach.
An 18 year old gets laid with a 30+ woman. Why can that guy be you? It has certainly happened.
Quit whinning and making excuses of yourselves, and go out. Get laid godammit!

Gif
05-16-2006, 03:17 PM
I'm 19 and I've slept with a 28 year old. She made comments, I never let it phase me. Frame control, Frame Control, Frame Control.

Pharaoh
05-26-2006, 09:03 AM
I am an 19 year old that can pass as a 17 year old. :(
I work at a bar and work with hb's 8's 9's and 10's. Ones a porn star. www.sarasexton.com
I have the balls/and game to game older girls. This is a little AFC and I do have a good inner game, gettin to the point: Any ideas on me trying to get with older girls. Any storys that can DHV older girls rather then girls my age. Beacuse i don't really know what girls ages 21-27 are relly into.
Thanks

Vincent Chase
05-30-2006, 10:03 AM
I am an 19 year old that can pass as a 17 year old. :(
I work at a bar and work with hb's 8's 9's and 10's. Ones a porn star. www.sarasexton.com
I have the balls/and game to game older girls. This is a little AFC and I do have a good inner game, gettin to the point: Any ideas on me trying to get with older girls. Any storys that can DHV older girls rather then girls my age. Beacuse i don't really know what girls ages 21-27 are relly into.
Thanks
Check out all the info and links on this page, it'll help you indefinitely.
http://www.theattractionforums.com/forum/showthread.php?p=89565

DeSolero
05-30-2006, 10:11 AM
I don't know. Personally, I seem to be getting along better with women a few years older than me (26-28), than I do with women at my age.
I say that if you're gonna sarge women older than you, and plan to keep them, you'd better have your life together really well, especially your inner game, so that you're more mature.
\_O_/

Blitzkrieg
05-30-2006, 08:55 PM
Age is immaterial to women, they could give a shit less, they have other emotions and desires that far out weigh the notion of age.
Age is not a factor I've pulled 27 year olds and onward, there ain't no reason why you should be letting this get to you. Strengthen your frame baby, as soon as you get that notion out of your head you'll see an improvement in your game, I'd bet my right hand, Shirley.
=]
Damn dude.
I'm new to this site, but I can already tell that you're one of the better sources for information.
Once I finish reading Mystery's book, I'll post more often.

Pharaoh
05-31-2006, 08:40 PM
Ya sounds good!!

Vincent Chase
06-01-2006, 12:30 PM
Damn dude.
I'm new to this site, but I can already tell that you're one of the better sources for information.
Once I finish reading Mystery's book, I'll post more often.
That's why they call me the "Boy Wonder," well...
Okay maybe they don't, but they should start, shouldn't they?
=]
Thanks for the praise.

TheChaos
06-06-2006, 04:22 PM
Age is not important but it helps. Looking childish and acting childish it will surely making things harder but you can do it without restrictions (Except in entering places for 21+)

GAVINMFZ
06-07-2006, 10:30 AM
I Think This Was Probably One Of The Funniest Closes Ive Ever Had! This Fourty Year Old Woman Tells Me Shes Too Old For Me And That Shes Seeing Someone Her Own Age.
I Asked Her If She Was Ever Any Good At Math.
With A Confused Look She Says Yes And Asked Why.
I Told Her It Was Simple Math That 21 Goes Into 40 Twice As Much As Fourty Does.
She Paused For A Second And Said You Know I Always Liked Math.
Done Deal. Number Closed Her And Weve Met Up A Few Times Since That Night.

imonfire
06-07-2006, 10:35 AM
I Think This Was Probably One Of The Funniest Closes Ive Ever Had! This Fourty Year Old Woman Tells Me Shes Too Old For Me And That Shes Seeing Someone Her Own Age.
I Asked Her If She Was Ever Any Good At Math.
With A Confused Look She Says Yes And Asked Why.
I Told Her It Was Simple Math That 21 Goes Into 40 Twice As Much As Fourty Does.
She Paused For A Second And Said You Know I Always Liked Math.
Done Deal. Number Closed Her And Weve Met Up A Few Times Since That Night.
I call BS on this one.

MojoRising
06-07-2006, 04:25 PM
What do you guys think about differences in age? I know women tend to like men older then them, so would you lie about your age? I know I lie about my age by telling them I'm 20, when I'm actually 18. Also, what do you guys think about chicks older then you? Do you think it's a waste of time to try and pick up someone older then you, like 28?
Mate my first GF proper GF was when i was 18. She was an exotic Turkish belly dancer. Since her there have been 25yr old, 26, 30, 36.......there have also been girls my own age and younger but just trying to prove the point that age doesnt matter
BUT
because you're young......as am i, you need to show them that you're abit more mature than other guys your age.......show you're MAN GRRRRRRRR..............alpha
I have a babyface i can pull off being 18 but at the same time i can pull being 26 due to BL and confidence and the way i present myself
If an older girl asks how old i am i say "old enough to know better" if she keeps pushing me i say "21, but im so sick and tired of fucking hot young dumb and full of come, chinks my age, that if i go with another one im guna scream. Hey you look abit different to what i usually go for..........you in the market for a toy boy?!"
second line is credited to someone in the forum
Or if she asks just say something ridiculus like, "Im 83!! I look pretty good for my age dont I! Know what the secret is, moisturize every day and night, and plenty of sex with HBs........do you moisturize? You dont look too bad.......you must go through a lot of HBs" even if you dont get loads of HBs its all in the frame of mind and confident BL (Body Language)
It called The Game coz its supposed to be fun, so keep it light hearted.........dont take anything a woman says too seriously........esp nyting Imonfire says........that isnt a dig!! She told me that personally lastnite or was it this morning.......i cant remember.......whenever she replied to the email :p
When a girl asks for your age its either a shit test or IOI or both. Keep it C&F and you'll sail through
Hey Imonfire, which do you do.......moisturize every day and night or go through a lot of HBs or both?

jonbon
06-11-2006, 10:07 AM
Age doesn't matter, and the sooner you can make this a belief the better your game will get.
I always tell people my real age, if your not it means you havn't settled your inner game.
If your worried about your age, it's showing through your entire interaction with the woman. Guys, if you are having limiting beliefs... work on your inner game. I highly recommend picking up Anthony Robbins - Awaken The Giant Within, it's a great book for learning the basics of NLP. Almost everytime I tell somebody my age, they say "wow I thought you were a lot older", "your really mature for your age." It's because I have my inner game handled, which is uncommon for a younger guy.
Straight from the VAH---> If they neg you for being young, This is an IOI. reply with "I know...poor you" or "I'll give you a minute to get over it...It's ok, I'll wait....you ready?"
The fact is... most people that our posting in this thread are 18. Do you have any idea how good this is!? Guys, us young guns have a serious advantage. Most people getting into this game are long out of highschool and post-secondary. College's and highschools are freaking chick buffets! Pua's I know would do anything to have been learning this stuff when they were my age, and going to school. To add to this, 15/16 year olds are fair game! These are two of many advantages. Get RID of your Limiting beliefs.
AGE IS NOT A FACTOR IN THIS GAME

jonbon
06-11-2006, 10:13 AM
Posted twice by accident.

Dragon
06-14-2006, 08:28 PM
Following what Vincent_Chase said
I've said this before and I'll say it again age is not a factor merely an excuse you make, the only factor is your paradigm. Not to trying to boast here just trying to prove a point, I'm 15 been to 20+ clubs multiple times and have # closed 25 yr old(s). I think that says it all right there.
For anyone in the 21 forum who has doubts about age, your only using it as a excuse and limiting belief. You can go for anyone you want, thats only if you choose too. For guys in highschool you want to date a gr.12 or collegue girl, go for it. Quit making excuses. Its that simple. Stop anaylizing and just do it. If you want it. If not then its another story and more power too you. But don't settle for that depressing comfort of saying "O I'm too young for her" or "She won't like young guys" etc. Your scaring yourself out of it before you even approach.
Pushing this, whats the differance bewteen a challenge/scare and excitment/activity both are the same. Its just a differant paradigm view on things.

Vapor
06-14-2006, 09:39 PM
I'm 15 been to 20+ clubs multiple times and have # closed 25 yr old(s). I think that says it all right there.
That you're a liar?
This is very implausible. Some FR's, please.

ymox
06-15-2006, 07:41 AM
"That's right. I've fucked women and children. I've fucked just about everything that walks or crawls at one time or another, and now I'm here to fuck you Little Bill for what you did to Ned"
when I was younger I liked older women, now that I'm older I like younger women.
Yes I have some form of symmetry in my life.

mississippi
06-23-2006, 01:30 AM
age is not a factor older women love youngers dudes especially school teachers

aLmAnZo
06-26-2006, 12:49 AM
Age doessn't really matters, why lie about it.
This weekend, my target asked me my age, I made her work for it asking her to guess. Im 19, she guessed 22. I corrected her, and asked her back. She was 23. "out of my league" I thought, but I was wrong, 5 minutes later, she asked for my msn adress. I had given her up by then, she seemed to notice, and she didn't want to loose me.
Why the fuck care about age, don't lie. Make her guess, if she thinks your younger then you are, respond like "auch, that hurts" Be playfull, sound like you don't care.
As long as you don't care about age, it doesn't matter, the instant you do care, it means the world.

ImpulseII
07-09-2006, 09:09 PM
Naturally age does matter for those younger than 18 (there are a few 16 and 17 year olds on this site including me) however i picked up a 19 year old the other day. Maybe i was just lucky, but while being under 18 i don't think i could pick up anyone over 19. Because there are so many restrictions on kids under 18, there is a huge gap if not agewise untill you turn 18. It seems that as long as the maturaty and opportunity (i.e. clubbing and drinking) level are the same, age doesn't matter.

Stonewall
07-12-2006, 11:32 AM
I'm 19 and have never lied about my age to a girl. Most people generally assume I'm around the 22-24 area. I've always looked older, but what it really comes down to is how you work it. I don't bring up age unless its brought up. If shes likes your game, it doesnt matter how old you are, you're set. My first year of college, I hooked up with nothing but 21+ including a 40 milf, but that was more for the story. Just be confident about your game and its doubtful it will even be brought up.

mysterio
07-12-2006, 10:36 PM
every one of you guys have positive comments about this
at the same time i m still sceptical
i've been in the game since 16
i m almost 21 now
at 16 i looked like 18
now i girls tells me between 23 and 28 maximum lool
my oldest sarge was a 30 year old
i lied about my age:( (told her i was 27 or so )
usually i just make them guess and say yeah yeah i m that old
or i change subject
neg her
or say i m 40 years old and i keep in shape
i agree with you that age to a certain point " age aint nothin but a number"
as long as you don't look like a kid ( at least that s what i believe) and your very affirmative with your masculinity/ inner game / frame, whatsoever
but i believe certain situationnal context can counterfeith you such as social pressure
if you do a group approach and demonstrate your alphaness to the group
they will respect you
i also believe the only valubable reason the target will give in because of the deep connection you have constructed with her, she will then make an irrationnal decision ( dating a younger man) because of your stronger emotionnal stimulation you gave her
HB thinking
OMG he s cute but he s too young for me < He really makes me feel good, he's young but he's mature
EVEN IF you do a group theory kind of approach YOU DID NOT have that level of connection with the others, which when she gets back with her friends and her buying temperature is going down she will hear from them as they will try to reason her not to go " babysit" with you
this can affect your sarging negativly
BTW guys, i wanna officially start some serious milf sarging
some good spots to go?
" milf sarging newbee missions".
or advices ???

Stonewall
07-13-2006, 08:43 AM
I'll agree with mysterio that a lot has to do with the sitaution, but even then it all depends on how you lay your game down.
The biggest issue that tends to happen is if the age question comes out before you get most of you IOIs, because they won't already have the comfort level set. They will hear your age and depending on the difference, make up there mind right there. Thats usually when you use the "How old do you think I am..." question. That puts them on the spot and you don't really have to say yes or no, you could just sorta tease them. (Not quite the word I was searching for, but I don't have much time right now). If you play it right, they'll just move on.
Another issue is later down the line if they want to goto a bar or something. Unless you got your IOIs already, your pretty much done for...unless you got a fake that scans or are somewhere shitty. I live around philly when I'm home and every place has a fucking scanner.
So its situational to a point. But it still comes down to your level of game.

RockHouse
07-13-2006, 10:43 AM
I keep hearing y'all say "level of game, strength of frame, inner game..." and that's not entirely true. I've only dated two females that were younger than me. 21, hooked up with a 28 year old. 22, hooked up with a 42 and 27. 23, drew the attraction of a very beautiful 38-40 y/o. 24, drew the attention of a drop dead gorgeous late 40-to MAYBE 50.
It's not "game" with that. It's PRESENTATION! Do you go to bars and end up getting shit faced? No good. Can you sit down, sip on a bourbon (I highly recommend Maker's Mark on the rocks or with Coke) and handle yourself? Are you dressed your age or are you like me and just straight up stylin'? What you drink, how you drink it, your dress and appearance mean more to older women than this thing you call game.
Hell, I was gonna hook up with this 36 y/o teacher this weekend, but come to find out her only intentions with me were to seduce me (plus) and try to get me to pay her bills (negative). Sorry, but I'm not some broad's sugar daddy.
Age is a factor and you're only kidding yourself if you think it's not. 21+, if you can't take them out to the bar, they're too young. My own personal philosophy. Besides, girls younger than me (I'm 24) tend to have too many emotional hangups. "He's gotta be like this personality, dress like this, drive this car, work this job, shower me with gifts and romance" when she doesn't even have a CLUE as to what romance is.
Take it from someone who has more or less only been with older women. Confidence + Presentation = Acceptance by Older Women.
And that was before I even HEARD of Mystery Method.
"Inner Game" is PUA lingo for "Confidence." If you're confident in your abilities then you can pull whatever you want. But if you're just some squirrel tryin' to get a nut... could be a cold winter, playa. Just might be. So fuck your "inner game." Lose that from your vocabulary. BUILD your CONFIDENCE and you'll see exactly what I mean.
Eric

Vincent Chase
07-19-2006, 08:55 PM
"Inner Game" is PUA lingo for "Confidence." If you're confident in your abilities then you can pull whatever you want. But if you're just some squirrel tryin' to get a nut... could be a cold winter, playa. Just might be. So fuck your "inner game." Lose that from your vocabulary. BUILD your CONFIDENCE and you'll see exactly what I mean.
Besides strecthing the truth and having no ceoncept of what "Inner Game" you've got a point of view, I like it.
I'm going to tell you guys ONE LAST TIME:
Forget it.
It's not that you need "Tight Inner Game" or so on and so forth, it's that you are putting to much value on age, you are constructing a cement barrier 10 feet infront of your speeding truck.
Why?
Fucking forget it. It makes no matter.
Like that cricket said "It makes no difference who you are"
If you make it a big deal it will become one, if you simply consider it irrelevant or not even consider it at all, it won't effect your game, it won't even bee a component. You've got other, more important things to work on than sitting around dicking about how old you are, BLAME YOUR PARENTS FOR NOT HAVING FUCKED SOONER AND MORE ON.
End of story.
Good Night kiddo's.

mysterio
07-19-2006, 10:39 PM
Besides strecthing the truth and having no ceoncept of what "Inner Game" you've got a point of view, I like it.
are putting to much value on age,
Fucking forget it. It makes no matter.

I'd pay to see you sarge a 30 year old hired gun
see how long you l last
and if you d get the n-close and k-close
if u do get there ( you have proven that age is obviously NOT a factor)
that u have more game than anybody in here
hence you should quit takling to half ass pua's like us, quit mm, be a guru and invent your own system
I will be your 1rst desciple lool
until then, age do affect your game negativly when you have a baby face, you look like 16/17 when sarging a 25-30 year old woman
unless she has lived abused as a child or has some fanstasy about sleeping with a boy, or live with an old husband who doesn t fuck her anymore, i hardly see a fuck closing possibility
hardly...
she will respect your game though, if its tight, but if she has basic logic ( yes, i do believe women have basic logical skills lool) or some sense of morality, she wont give in

Vincent Chase
07-20-2006, 06:09 PM
I'd pay to see you sarge a 30 year old hired gun
see how long you l last
and if you d get the n-close and k-close

$20 bucks AND you buy the ticket to come visit me.
I'm game. Come on down bud.

mysterio
07-20-2006, 11:49 PM
$20 bucks AND you buy the ticket to come visit me.
I'm game. Come on down bud.
I like that confidence
what i dare you 2 do is possible
and if you d pull it out at 17 ( and looking like 17) your game MUST be tighter than an older guy
and MUST be tighter than anybody i knowned or met
words are words
we both agree that all of this is consiracy theories until you prove me wrong
i decline your invitation only on rationnal reasons
if 1 day though you come to montreal i l meet you there man, i l come pick you at the airport if necessary lool
but YOU better prepare that 20 bucks for me when it wont work, and get the a US bill not a Canadian lool

Vincent Chase
07-26-2006, 09:20 AM
Don't worry i'll be in Montreal again.
It's fine if you're unsure if i'm the real deal, i'm skeptical of other people too. But let me put it this way, I could give you 24 phone numbers, of those 24 phone numbers 19 women will say that I've slept with them (two of em were fools mates though, admittedly) almost all of them will say that they've engaged in some type of foreplay with me and 7 of them would say that they've given me room and board as well as bought me food and clothes.
Then again they probably wouldn't tell all that to a stranger and i'm not going to be handing out my girls numbers.
Looks like you're just going to have to wait. Oh well. We'll get it done.

Crooked
07-26-2006, 04:13 PM
i've been gaming a girl 5 years older then me. her interest in me is very high. as soon as we hang out 1 on 1 i feel like im going to be able to close her in all sorts of ways. i haven't gotten the "you're too young" but if i do i'm going to use the "over it" line.
also i thought of this line that i might use if they say "you're too young".
"hey you're a girl who acts [insert your age] and i'm a guy who acts [insert their age] it's a perfect fit."

Swavi Ravi
07-27-2006, 05:55 AM
You've already got 4 pages on this but i dont believe it makes a difference. Not that i always thought so, ive had girls interested in me from a year younger at 17 to 3 years older at 21. On saturday i was at a university reunion with my bro and was approaching woman between 22 to around 27. This one 2 set, they were both 25 (7 years older than me) and the one was even engaged and after she shit tested me with it and showed me the ring i had her standing so close to me most would think she was kissing my neck.
If and when i tell a girl my age and shes older than me, she might say something like ahh...your too young for me, ill usually come back with either something like "already thinkin about the 2 of us together?..." or "....hmm, in your case i think i might make an acception"

TheMarsVolta
07-30-2006, 07:57 PM
Women like the qualities older men possess, not just older men.