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    Stripper Names

    Stripper names are not important to you as a PUA but they are very important to strippers because they affect their earning potential. The wrong stripper name can cost a stripper thousands of dollars in lost hustle proceeds. Thats why you can incoroporate the stripper name discussion into your stripper routine. She's interested because she's interested in making more money.

    First off, if a stripper sits down with you and she says her name is Jewel but her real name is Cindy she is doing that for one reason. To make you feel "special". Its part of her hustle. So you will spend more money on her.

    One big error strippers make in chosing their name is one that doesn't match their look. If a stripper looks like a innocent schoolgirl and picks a name like "Lust" its going to impact her earning potential. Its incongruent. Something like "Heather" would work better for her hustle if she's a sort of innocent virginal type. On the other hand, if she's a tatooed motorcycle gang looking leather chick, "Heather" just isn't going to cut it.

    You also don't want to choose a name that is too common. This is because if you choose a very common name like Susan or Jennifer, it might be the name of the mother-in-law of the guy you are trying to sell a lap dance to.

    Place names like Jersey or Phoenix are not that good in my opinion. Thats because people can have negative connotations and it makes you sound like you are on the lam or something. The last stripper that sat with me with a name like Frisco quickly said "but my real name is".

    If you do use a normal female name make Christine into Chrissy or Susan into Susie.

    Also, if your name is too stupid sounding like Candylicious, old guys potential sugar daddies with money are going to be uncomfortable in using it.

    Personally my preference is for a name that conveys a sense of mystery like Magic or Charisma.

    My point is that if you talk to her from the standpoint of her earning potential she is going to be interested and its going to show that you are not just the average customer.



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    A couple of more thoughts on this.

    There are two reasons strippers use stage names: (1) it helps them get into their stripper persona and drop their normal persona; (2) for anonimity.

    Most "custies" (what strippers call customers when they are showing respect, otherwise they call them PL's for pathetic losers) don't realize that when a stripper gives you her "real name" that is often a fake name as well. Giving their real name is often a false IOI and so they use a fake real name.

    Along the identity lines, I had one stripper that used her real name as her stripper name and that was verified. She had been stripping for 20 years and was known as a "workaholic" who spent long hours at the club. The club had in fact become her life. So there was no need to use a different name because her stripper persona and her OTC (out of the club) persona had merged after all those years.

    In my last enounter the stripper had a weird italian name she said was the name of her friend in childhood. But when she got on stage she danced to exclusively country western songs. A cowgirl. She should have used the name of a famous country singer like Taylor and then use the story she loved Taylor Swift or something.

    Another HB 10 stripper was on stage that had a perfect Barbie figure but her name was Emerald (I personally don't like the gemstone names). I think she would have pulled a lot more money with a name like Barbie and all the associations that triggers in men's minds.

    I'd be sensitive in discussing their name because strippers don't really like some a-hole telling them they have the wrong name. But if you can work it in along the line of their money making that's something that shows your sophistication and knowledge of the "hustle".

    Hustling is what they do in the club. Gold digging is where they get a PL to buy them stuff or give them money without getting a Lap Dance in return. If you ever fall for it you will be forever marked. On the other hand, if you refuse the drink a pro is simply off to the next custie. But if you dangle something of nonmonetary value like advice offered in the right way about their name they may stick around to find out more because you are interesting.

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    You're giving them way too much credit for intelligence and general give a damn. Strippers are usually mentally screwed up and have way more issues to even begin to care about this. Nice thought and I can see where you're going. Stripper names are a simple formality. Their titts make the money and they know it. You could call a hot 18 year old stripper Hitler and she'll still make money and she knows it. Going in with all this will just come across awkward and try hard. Maybe come up with a hair color or outfit color routine and you'll get more mileage. Then you'll be attacking the ego and that's where you'll get success with strippers. You're welcome. HH

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hank Havok View Post
    You're giving them way too much credit for intelligence and general give a damn. Strippers are usually mentally screwed up and have way more issues to even begin to care about this. Nice thought and I can see where you're going. Stripper names are a simple formality. Their titts make the money and they know it. You could call a hot 18 year old stripper Hitler and she'll still make money and she knows it. Going in with all this will just come across awkward and try hard. Maybe come up with a hair color or outfit color routine and you'll get more mileage. Then you'll be attacking the ego and that's where you'll get success with strippers. You're welcome. HH
    Lets compare and contrast strippers to ivy league graduates.

    A good stripper will make more in her first year than a Princeton graduate. During the four years the college student was paying $200,000 in tuition and expenses and graduating still owing $20,000 in student debt the high school drop out stripper has already earned almost half a million bucks. Her investment? Nada. Her ROI. Astronomical. The Princeton grad may catch up and surpass her earnings, but not until he or she reaches the mid-career stage.

    So who lacks intelligence? If a name change could add $5,000 or $10,000 a year to their take would she be interested? This is not my idea. Strippers debate this very issue on their own discussion forums.

    Strippers are not stupid. Just like PUA's they have bootcamps and seminars. In fact they even watch PUA marketing pitches on how to pick them up and laugh their asses off. But they also will steal PUA material if it helps them. Like one was using a PUA eye contact technique and would wait until the customer's pupils dilated and his blink rate increased before asking for a lap dance.

    Yes, its true the majority of strippers are screwed up. You do not want to pick up these kinds. But there are also strippers that have their heads together and are the wives of corporate execs and match or exceed their husbands in earning power. In fact, according to a recent poll more than 50% of strippers are married although they rarely tell their customers.

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    One other "real name" technique some strippers use is to charge you $30 for telling you their real name. Of course its will be a fake real name.

    Another is to say that they will tell you their real name if you get a lap dance from them. It will likewise be a fake real name.

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    There are a number of trends impacting strip clubs currently.

    First of course is the economy leaving less money for customers to spend. Second, there are a lot more girls auditioning to be strippers because of the economy. Also, a lot of strippers are dropping the clubs to do at home camming on the internet (cam girls). And of course there is always the variable of bad club management. A poorly managed club makes it more difficult for strippers to make money.

    Its a myth that the hottest looking strpper makes the most money. Its their hustle skills that earn the bucks. Sure, in a club that mainly gets young guys in on the weekends, the hottest girl may indeed outstrip the others on that night. But the real money is made in selling multiple lap dances to a single customer, sometimes as many as twenty at a time, or selling time in the champagne room or VIP room. Believe me, a really good looking girl with no skills is not going pull off those big money makers easily like a seasoned pro.

    Strippers can make a lot of mistakes that hurt their earning power. Like when they first get to a club and become friends with the wrong girls. Then they can end up snorting all their earnings up their noses and getting into fights with other dancers. You steal another dancers customer and that stripper you stole from might just be waiting for you in the parking lot to kick your butt. But if you know what you are doing and are a pro then you avoid these situations.

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    You obviously have your point of view on this and good for you. With all your research and conclusion maybe you should offer yourself as a club consultant and offer a "bootcamp" for strippers. Not even joking. Could be a good financial and social angle for you. Good luck. HH

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hank Havok View Post
    You obviously have your point of view on this and good for you. With all your research and conclusion maybe you should offer yourself as a club consultant and offer a "bootcamp" for strippers. Not even joking. Could be a good financial and social angle for you. Good luck. HH
    Ha ha!! You are allright HH. I thought of that too. I think a reality TV show called "Strip Club Makeover" might work. Kind of Salon Makover meets G-String Divas. There is more drama in a strip club than about anywhere else.

    But I am retiring.

    My last and final visit last week.

    Lacey sat down with me. She's a prostitute that does hotel gigs with customers. Funny thing is, I trust her more than any of the others.

    She said the girl dancing on stage was a drug addict who only dances once a week and steals stuff from the dressing room to support her habit. Too bad because she was one of the only two hot dancers in the place.

    Then Chelsea comes by on her tip walk. She was the other hottie. I discovered by accident that her dad is my dad's doctor (MD). She stiffed me on a drink a year ago. But of all the dancers she is the most intelligent I have talked to. Odd that I like her for her intelligence rather than her smoking hot looks.

    So I ask Lacey, what the hell is wrong with this club? It used to be a great place and now its gone to hell. She said it was the new manager.

    Apparently my old stripper GFE sugar baby gets drunk at nights and along with her BFF gets in fights with other dancers. Then when the manager calls them into his office to fire them they have sex with him and he lets them off with a warning. At least according to Lacey. I remember when I was going out with her she talked about getting into fights and almost getting fired. According to Lacey she also has a brand new car. Guess she found a new sugar daddy to get her one. What a fool.

    I asked why I was never asked for a VIP or Champagne Room in all the years I had been coming to the club. Its because the management has it screwed up so that girls make more money giving lap dances than VIP or CR.

    After an hour at the club I got up to leave and HB6 was just coming on stage (I talked about her in my other posts). It gave me great pleasure to wave at her on stage as I was leaving rather than having her sit down. She's pissed because I started buying her less expensive drinks. Been running back turns on me. Might work if she was HB10 but its just ridiculous for an HB6.

    Wiz out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrWizard View Post
    Lets compare and contrast strippers to ivy league graduates.

    A good stripper will make more in her first year than a Princeton graduate. During the four years the college student was paying $200,000 in tuition and expenses and graduating still owing $20,000 in student debt the high school drop out stripper has already earned almost half a million bucks. Her investment? Nada. Her ROI. Astronomical. The Princeton grad may catch up and surpass her earnings, but not until he or she reaches the mid-career stage.

    So who lacks intelligence?
    Don't fool yourself. Most strippers, at least the younger less jaded ones, would trade places with the Princeton girl in a heartbeat, and almost none would go the other way.

    If a name change could add $5,000 or $10,000 a year to their take would she be interested? This is not my idea. Strippers debate this very issue on their own discussion forums.
    Browsing those forums can be interesting but the strippers on there are outliers. Most strippers are not that serious about their job or anything else in life, just as HH said.

    Strippers are not stupid. Just like PUA's they have bootcamps and seminars. In fact they even watch PUA marketing pitches on how to pick them up and laugh their asses off.
    Again you are looking at outliers. Most strippers have no clue about bootcamps and seminars, for either PUAs or strippers. And if they signed up for a stripper bootcamp, they probably wouldn't show up even if they had paid in advance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smooth0perator View Post
    Again you are looking at outliers. Most strippers have no clue about bootcamps and seminars, for either PUAs or strippers. And if they signed up for a stripper bootcamp, they probably wouldn't show up even if they had paid in advance.
    Chuckle.

    I think one thing browsing stripper forums has helped me to understand is that no two strippers are alike. There are seasoned pros that have their acts together and there are some really dumb ones. Of course at 18 about everyone is pretty stupid. But its hard to tell whether they are putting on an act. Its like this guy I used to go fishing with when I was young. Said he didn't know how to row so I did all the rowing and he did all the fishing.

    They were making fun of this program called "Strippershark." I got an email on it myself and watched the presentation. Typical of scam PUA marketing emails where if you get the course they sign you up for months of charges on your credit card. The other one they were laughing at was one where it advised guys to hang at the bar apparently based on a book written by a stripper. They were saying how they just ignore these guys. But one did make an interesting comment and said that about any approach picking up strippers would work as long as you try it on enough strippers because there will eventually be one stupid enough to fall for it.

    The real engima in my mind is how they can completely compartmentalize their lives. They have their hubby or boyfriend and family and then their club persona. Like with me I was dating one, picking her up at her house and completely oblivious that she was married. Sometimes even her daughter would go with us. I was what is called a sugar daddy. But they can completely keep this part of their lives separate. I guess its the same with married guys with mistresses. They do say that the stripper BFs really find it hard to not get upset and jealous about their outside the club work they do. I think with me, since I was 35 years older she could tell him that it was just some old fart she was playing and it made it easy when he saw I was just an old guy. But if I was some 30 year old I don't know how that would have set with him.

    One thing from the forums I got was how paranoid strippers are about stalkers. Thats why they lie about where they live. Like they will say they live on the East side when they really live on the West side of town. I guess they even have to worry about cabbies trying to rape them. Apparently one company hires ex felons.

    And a lot of guys are suprised at how strippers get themselves off occassionally on you when getting a lap dance or VIP. But think of it this way. Lets say you worked at a place where women customers came in all the time. Lets say that one was attractive. And as part of your job you could get yourself off with her and no one would know, no one would ever tell and you would get money for doing it. You've got a wife and kids so you don't want to date the lady but working eight hour shifts sometimes you get horny so you relieve yourself at work and get paid and the customer likes it even more. On the other hand, some strippers fake orgasms during lap dances because they believe it makes them more money. And one hilarious debate I was reading was strippers getting "wet" in the VIP as an occupational problem and they were debating whether it was just sweating or the real thing.

    Oh and another one was this guy that actually pays a stripper for the "fantasy" of picking her up. Like he goes into the VIP with her and she pretends she is attracted to him and asks him to meet her at a hotel.

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