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I'll start with a background story, The actual question ...
Question about a bet with strippers
I'll start with a background story, The actual question is at the bottom.
So last night I went to this strip club with a friend. The first stripper that came up to me, I pulled up a chair for her and cracked a few jokes to get her out of her programming. So she opens up about school, work, etc. Asks me the same things and starts talking to my friend to. Talked for a bit more, then I was running out of shit to say, so I excused myself to go to the bathroom. I got back and she was still there. She asks me my name, then she starts calling me Josh or Joshua cause she thinks the name suits me more. She's asking what I do for fun. So, I'm guessing IOIs, right? Then she starts talking to my buddy for about 5 mins to convince him to go upstairs with her. He gives in and goes to the bathroom first.
*This is where the bet comes up*
After he left, our conversation went something like:
Stripper: I knew he was going to come upstairs
Me: How's that?
Stripper: You can tell by his body language. You're a maybe, but maybes are usually a no.
Me: Interesting, so what about that guy (point too a guy sitting by himself up against a wall)
Stripper: Well, he's drinking alcohol, he's by himself, and he's been her for about half an hour, so probably.
Me: Ok, what about them (point to a group of 2 guys, one in a red t-shirt, the other in a rangers jersey)
Stripper: Well, the guy in the red t-shirt already went up, so if his friend was going to go up, he would have gone already, so no.
Me: I bet you he would go up
Stripper: Alright, 5 bucks and I'll actually try my hardest game.
Me: Ok, when you come back then.
So, long story short, those guys left before she got back, so I picked out a different group of three. I decided to go in frist and talk to the guy for about 5 - 10 mins. Then went back and got the stripper. It didn't work and she came back to my table, took a seat and told me what happened. I gave her the 5 bucks and she said her friend was sick and she was going to check up on her and for us to see her before we leave.
So, is this bet game a bad idea? Does it make me look like a customer cause technically I am giving her money if I lose? Or should I try harder to convince the guys, so I win the bet, which would be DHV, right?
All in all she spent about 30 mins at our table before going up with my buddy and she talked to me by the bar for another 5 mins while we were scouting a sucker. And came back and sat down again with us afterward. So, I think there was definite interest and I got her out of stripper mode, but maybe my friend messed it up when he got the dance. I don't know, but this was a long post, sorry about that.
Five bucks is not big deal. Don't worry you are not in the customer zone for 5 bucks. On the other hand, it doesn't sound like you made much progress gaming her either. Nothing to do with customer zone, just weak game.
No. That's standard stripper routine.
She's asking what I do for fun. So, I'm guessing IOIs, right?
So, the bet thing could work then? Just gotta work on some DHV stories. It's just kinda wierd for me to be like "Check this out..." and go about telling a completely unrelated story. Also, she never asked me for a dance, which is a good thing, right? That's why I think I got her out of stripper mode. I did a quite a bit of teasing, but a whole lot of fluff I guess. It's just hard to diffrentiate between stripper mode and IOIs.
Well, i don't have enough info but, did she
(1) When you ask for her real name. Did she Tell you her real name?
(2) Did she ever ask you if you want to get a dance...etc after your routine?
I never bothered asking her for her name.
Originally Posted by wwejonathan
She never asked me for a dance, but I never really gave her a chance to. When she approached, she asked me my name, wanted to join me, and asked where my friend went (standard stripper stuff). I just cracked a few jokes about where he was to get her laughing and she just went on to fluff. Later on, she said something like, "i've been talking to you for so long and I didn't get your name", so i told her my name again. I guess I could've asked her name, but I figured it was a lost cause I'm guessing I would've gotten the stripper name.
Yes, her not asking you for a dance is a good thing. As for all the IOIs, those can and will be faked so they don't mean much.
she never asked me for a dance, which is a good thing, right?
5 bucks is peanuts so not an issue, if you were to get a guy to have a dance with her then she might start being impressed and seeing you as more value than regular joe.
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