Below is a list of behaviors that I have seen in those strippers who have fallen for me, as well as those that I have seen fall for other guys. My style is such that typically if I encounter a stripper that strikes my fancy, I’ll go back to see her weekly, each time flirting, subtly, deliberately. If all goes well, we’ll become closer with each passing week until it reaches the point where either I’ve tired of her or its reached the point where it seems most imperative to ask her out – possibly a month or more since I first encountered her. Typically it takes a slow start if you want a relationship to last beyond a few dates.
Indications a stripper likes you.
You can see it in her eyes. Typically you can tell how much she likes you by the way she looks at you. At first meeting she’ll likely have a look of delight which will often turn to a look of curiosity, possibly a longing curiosity. Once she decides that she likes you, that she feels a friendship of sorts with you, she’ll give you looks with little nods, or winks, or the like in a gesture that lets you know, pointedly, that she’s willing to play.
Typically, if she is pouting or giving you a sultry look, she is most likely just gaming you.
She heralds your arrival. After you’ve already met a stripper and when you then return, when you first arrive, or at least when she first notices you that visit, she’ll call out your name, or possibly a more generic “hello baby” or the like. It depends a lot on the girl’s shyness or not. Some will just smile and nod or wave. Some just give a knowing look.
She keeps track of you. When you’re in the club she will keep an eye on you, knowing what you’ve been doing, who you’ve been talking to. It comes up in conversation. It seems to me that things work better if she thinks that you’re there to see her. If she sees you getting too friendly with the other strippers, she’ll tend to lose interest.
She dances more innocent-like, more playful. When on the general stage, as she dances about, she presents herself to you differently than she does to the other customers. Usually she will dance more innocent like. It seems that all women are like this to some extent, when they’re out looking for guys they tend to act somewhat slvttish, as a way of advertising their availability, but once a guy who strikes her fancy comes along, she’ll act more reserved towards him. At great enough interest and she’ll dance to you at the expense of other, possibly higher tipping customers.
She Squirms when you get close, especially the first time. Some women do this thing where they tense up and release in a shivering type motion. As best as I can tell it is an uncontrolled response. I’ve never known of a woman to fake a squirm. Thus with a stripper, if she squirms before you, it means you’re turning her on.
Your conversations with her become more personal. The more you talk, the more the conversations should flow easily into your and her personal lives. Often topics of conversation can carry over from visit to visit – a sign she thinks of you when you're not there. If the conversation remains at a superficial level then she has little interest in you. It takes quite a bit to get most strippers to give up little details about their life and their background. Sometimes it seems to me that when a stripper is confiding in me with her secrets, fears, and aspirations, in many ways it is much like when a more modest woman, who when we get alone, unbuttons her blouse, in a sign of submission. Her baring of her soul is a sign of submission.
She sings your praises. In your conversations with her, by the things that you tell her about yourself, in the way that you tell her, and in your demeanor she finds things about you that she finds attractive. She’ll point out those aspects about you that she most likes - not only to you but also to others.
She defends you. Whenever someone says something to you, or about you, that is disparaging, even if in jest, she always jumps up in protest.
She shares with you. When I hook up with a woman I tend to think of it in terms of us rather than as her and I. I think most women, once they get to where they think there is relationship potential; seem to think the same way. As such we tend to share whatever it is with the other even if it means giving up that last piece of one’s favorite candy.
She gets jealous. This may seem odd that I add it here but only women that fall for you get jealous. I much prefer women who don’t get jealous but it seems that all do, to some extent. When going to see a particular stripper, try to pursue only her at that place, that night. It keeps jealously issues at bay and it makes her feel more special.
She grooms you. She’ll pick lint off of your clothing, put a wayward hair in its place, and use her napkin to wipe drippings off the edge of your mouth, straightens your shirt…
She touches you. She runs her hand across your shoulders or your back as she walks behind you, she pokes you in the side as she walks up to you, she leans against you, when you’re talking she reaches out and touches your arm, your knee, your thigh especially as she makes a point.
She offers hugs. As I arrive at a strip club and when I leave she’ll offer and expect a hug. Within those hugs lots of things can be going on. Watch strippers at work and you’ll see that as they give hugs to their customers that many of those hugs are done rather superficially. Most strippers will tell you that most customers that ask for hugs are really just hoping for a quick grope. Thus strippers tend to hug in ways that minimize this. If a woman is hot for you, she’ll let you know when she hugs you – or maybe the stripper is also out for a little groping herself.
She asks you to stay/come back to see her. Quite often strippers will make comments encouraging their customers to return, which is to be expected as strippers are doing a business. However, if she really likes you, her request will be pointed and personal.