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10-07-2008, 11:35 AM #1
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- Apr 2008
sarging any tips on approaches for a first time sarge ?
10-07-2008, 01:43 PM #2
Yes, don't stop at just one.
10-07-2008, 04:54 PM #3
Well there are tons of tips for sarging in general on this forum so don't be lazy, read them.
If you talking about night game which I assume you are then I think you should maybe practice during the day first. If it's your first time approach anxiety is going to hurt so approaching as much people as possible will help.
Go out maybe even for an hour to the shops and approach at least one attractive girl and get her opinon on some thing.
It doesn't matter what just get talking and just be normal don't ofer think it.
Remember day game is less presured and it is easier to be yourself.
So if you decide to do that GOOD. Also its good to look foward to the night but don't put it on a platform. Remember this is just the begginning. Your challenge is not to get laid tonight but to get used to the things you've learnt and try and get them to become habbit.
I guess there are two ways you can look at it. Go all out!! Have a fucking ball and do really well! or, set realistic goals for your self. Open atleast 3 sets... try and apply alpha body language and alpha behaviour. And couple that with have fun. Theres nothing wrong with being optimistic but there will be a point in the night (hope not) where you get disappointed by some thing and if you not careful this could fuck up your whole mood.
So tonight go out to enjoy your self and try and view your self as a trainee. You are aloud to fuck up, you are training, you are trying new things, you are not perfect.
Also its easy to get your feeling hurt and so fear of rejection comes into play. This is not going to determine the rest of your life. This is not a job interview, this is a night of WHATEVER and fun. And getting hurt feelings is about as useful as arguing on the internet about who's dick is bigger.
The sooner you learn this the better you will become.
Ask your self what your long term goals are and how this one night fits into that?
So looking at the night objectively and being realistic. Setting goals etc.
That being said. That doesn't meen you have to throw pua concepts out of the window. I'm not talking about routines, you can use as many routines to help you as you want. But don't forget the basics.
Remind yourself to project alpha body language. Stand up straight, don't put your hands in your pockets, don't fidget!! keep reminding yourself (remember this is going to become habbit- the earlier you start applying it the better.)
Don't ask average questions. BE ORIGINAL. that is what gets attractive girls interested. No matter how bad you feel.... Asking a lot of lame questions won't help. So resit the earge to be needy. If you get blow out... MOVE THE FUCK ON..THERE ARE 3 BILLION WOMEN ON THE PLANET FOR GODS SAKE!!!
Be the prize. Set all your frames to get girls to qualify themselves not the other way around. In fact don't qualify yourself. Disqualify your self. Tell them you're gay or some thing, or you don't date alchaholics or whatever. Get them speaking about themselves and judge them.(not in asshole way of course, don't all of a sudden be an asshole now to hide your insecurity) Have standards and give advise....
The main thing I want speak about is ENERGY, enegy, energy ENERGY!!!!!
Make sure you got good energy. Be fun and happy. Smile and the whole world smiles with you (even the HOT ones) Don't enetertain people but vibe with people and enjoy them and let them enjoy you.
If you feeling anxious move around, listen to music, bounce around. And approach the place with high energy.... warm up sets are FINE when you not fully punped. Speak to anyone you feel like. You'll be surprised if you have a conversation about some thing other than pick up you may just get into a good space.
Thats a lot to do for one night. But don't focus on being a master. Be a young guy, with a good spirit, and his whole life ahead of him. Thats what you are. ACT LIKE IT.
so anyways I really hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck. And remember that knowledge is one thing and DOING is another. Information won't save you in the field. Getting out there and being open to new experiences will get you moving foward. After all the techniques mean nothing if you can't crack a smile
10-08-2008, 11:10 AM #4
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- Aug 2008
Wow nice post I agree 100%. Just have fun! It's not a mission. Thats what we're all here for anyway, isn't it? To have fun with girls. Good luck!