Lied about my age, should i tell the truth?

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  1. Lied about my age, should i tell the truth?

    Hey guys!
    So i met this girl online a couple of months ago and she is 20. since i figured no girl would want to date a younger guy i told her i was 20 as well. she isnt particularly hot(maybe a 6.5) and has had 2 ex bfs.
    we met and we're dating now and refer to each other as gf/bf. she has even introduced me to some of her friends.
    a couple of nights ago she invited me to stay over at her place tonight. the thing is, i'm actually 19.
    i do really like her and its not cuz shes hot but cuz shes one of the most considerate ppl i've met.
    she is my first gf and ive never full closed before.
    So my main question here is should i tell her the truth when we meet tonight or wait a while more or forever hold my peace?
    Many thanks!!



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    Don't worry bout it.

    When it's your birthday then your 20.

    Feign forgetting, then laugh that you told her you were 20.

    A year gap is no big deal. I have no issue with women being 10yrs older or younger than me. If they do then oh well...

  3. just by asking that question you have answered it. tell her. she wont care just say that you didnt think she would like you if you were 19 and shes already your gf so shes not gonna really care.

  4. Quote Originally Posted by DanJer View Post
    Don't worry bout it.

    When it's your birthday then your 20.

    Feign forgetting, then laugh that you told her you were 20.

    A year gap is no big deal. I have no issue with women being 10yrs older or younger than me. If they do then oh well...
    thats pretty good advice also i think either way its really no big deal.

  5. Thanks guys!

    DanJer: Thanks but that won't work cuz she asked how old i was at least 5 times. this is because i guess i'm pretty high energy and most 20 yr old guys she meets are quite quiet. i also came up with a lie on me repeating a grade which is why i'm only a junior despite being 20.

    TheChronic: SHould I tell her or tell her baby theres something i need to tell you and give her my id card where my birthdate is and point at it?

  6. Oh and should i do it before or after tonight?
    after might seem insincere but i guess its less likely she'll dump me

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    You've repeatedly lied to her and then built on that lie. (grade thing)

    When she finds out there will be tears. Apologise and tell her you were acting retarded because you really like her.

    You'l prob break up.

    Don't get one-its.

    Wait.. Is all this online? Have you meet IRL before?

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    Tell her. Be cool. Don't sweat it. Whatever happens, happens. Whether she cries, laughs, rubs shit in her hair or spontaneously combusts right in front of you, chances are the sun will still rise tomorrow.

    And you'll open your eyes to it.
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  9. Yes we have met IRL, many times. And she has also introduced me to her schoolmates and colleagues IRL. But we first met each other online and her age was on her profile(mine isn't)

    Do you really think we'll break up for sure?

  10. DeadEyeDick: Lol. Thanks for that vote of confidence! Should i tell her before or after tonight? Thanks again! =)

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