Need Some Advice

Hey guys Im Cruian Ive been following the MM since this summer and it has worked for me a couple times where I gamed right and it was perfect hell it even got me laid for the first time. But here is the problem Im a drummer and my band is known in the local underground scene this helps me get 9 and 10 goth,punk and emo chicks. And Im known as a rebel in school people always like me but becouse girls dont trust me they dont date me becouse of my different style of thinking. Ive laid my eye on some very pritty good girls but we have nothing in common. what kind of an approach should I try on them so I can get there shields down and actually get them to talk to me.