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11-24-2007, 02:41 PM #1
- Join Date
- Oct 2007
On two separate occasions this week I've been discreetly told by women friends that the reason my success has been so patchy over the years is that I can drive women away by acting needy or by crossing boundaries. It really knocked me for six to hear this - in fact it's painful to even write it - as I thought I'd completely understood why such behaviour is a total no-no and was beginning to get it handled since making the commitment to learn game.
Women friends think I'm still acting needy
I've learned to have a lot less regard for women's understanding and advice on the whole attraction process and even less for their appreciation of what it's like to be a guy trying to get a handle on this stuff - in particular this advice, though genuinely well-intentioned, felt like a good kicking because it was so rooted in the problem and not the solution. But it's alerted me that there's *something* I need to deal with better.
I feel completely knocked off course and depressed about the whole process. Can someone offer some words of encouragement as to how to (a) get back on track / restore my belief this is gonna work and (b) get a better handle on the whole neediness / boundaries thing?
11-24-2007, 02:49 PM #2
You've been in the game for few months now,
I haven't seen anyone go to sleep AFC and wakeup PUA next morning. It takes 6 months to see some change, and over a year to master this shit