HB10 in love with me and vice versa , need help..she really is the one!
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    HB10 in love with me and vice versa , need help..she really is the one!

    Please read and respond it is almost

    It will a bit long , but i think i should explain you some thinks to get it guys...

    I know her for years , we meet each other at vacations, we go every year at summer , eastern and some other 3-4 days vacations, this place is a very close community , i never had something with a girl in front of other , only in secret , that how it works there..and the same for her...i have very good reputation there and some of the most beatifull girls there all these years ...She is really HB10+ , we never had anything other than a hi and bye all these years , except the last summer...and here is the story ...

    The last summer we met there , after a week we started talking more and more to each other cause we both broke up with 2 year relationships at the same time , after 2-3 days of some flirting we started drinking kinda lot at a club and finally we ended up kissing outside the club ( in public ) people saw us, we stopped.

    The next day she had to leave , we talked a bit in the beach , nothing special , just that we drunk too much and that everyone talks about we kissed in public but we dont care . We dont change phone numbers

    After 1 1/2 months we met again there for some small 3-4 days vacations , we talked the first night about what we ve done at summer , and that she liked it (she was very open to me) and she started telling me that she wanted to do some more with me , but she is afraid that my friends will tell everyone else what we did , so the i explained her that i never say what i do cause i dont care and i dont need to be promoted cause i fuked her and other thinks that she responed "i didnt knew you are not like all other men " and other thinks like that , and that she wants to do something with me .

    The problem was we havent got a place to go f close( i leave with a friend there when i go and his sister was there too , and she leaves with friends too ) we had some fun with that situation , and finally the 3rd day we found the house i leave empty , we went there we fclose , 2 times , it was really nice .
    After that we went out , and we started kissing in the club with all people seeing us , and we didnt care ! after we split to go sleep , we sent texts for 1 hour before we sleep , and she was like she is in love with me , so i was good with her too ( not too much ) the other day the same , we were like a couple in front of everyone (that really matters in that place) anyway i left a day before her we sent texts and calls all day (ALL DAY) but here is the problem :

    We leave in same town but her university is some hours away , and she had to be there , we talked all day in the phone , we were like a couple , but here was my big mistake ...i tried to game her (no fucking reason) the only reason was that i was a bit bored cause i could have her only with the phone , anyway it was a mistake , i didnt respond to some texts and she stopped sending , i decided to not send again cause it was worthless (i dont like far relationships)

    (from this time i started learning Mystery method )

    Now after some months i went for easter there she was there , the first day we didnt talked at all (i saw her ,we have only 1 club there) but i saw that she and all her friends was looking at me , i had some ex girls there i used them for her to be jelous (worked) . The other day , at night i was out for a phone call and she came to call too (hmmm) i told her "hey" she responded "hey?? you are a dork! " (she smiled a bit) then my phone called again and she went inside . Then i went in the club and i asked her why i am a dork , she told me her story ("you stopped sending texts bla bla bla") i explained some thinks about the distance etc ( i have my way to get thinks right ) and she said "ok , like you said u are right" . The night ended.

    The other day we talked a bit at the coffee at the evening , and we started talk about us , and that we had a great time bla bla , at night she told me that " too sad that we have the house empty now and not when we were together " (by that time i learned that she was again with her EX , but they are about to brake up ) and we started talking about us for like 2 hours , we went out of the club , we sit together , i had her in my arms but not kissing cause we didnt wanted to hurt the people we are together now .

    The other day we travel back together , 8 hours, we were ALL the time together , and i had her in my foot , and hugged her (in all trip) we were like a couple again , and in the hole trip we talked about us , and she told me that she knows one day we will be together , and many other thinks . her sister and her friend they were saying how in love we look etc .

    today we talked in texts and she called me ...

    What i have to do now , she is with him , is a relationship that the break up all the time etc , she clearly said she wants me , i said the same....

    some thinks to know , she finishes her studies in 2 months and i will meet her again in that place . the girl i have is not something serius (there are 2 anyway) and i dont care that much ... but i care about her TOO MUCH , i think i m in love (and is really difficult for me to be in love) ...so please help me and tell me what i have to do from now on....PLEASE



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    This is plea from a desperate man or the greatest screwed-up romantic story of April!!

    -- When is the Titanic sailing off again? Will Jack and Rose ever be reunited again?

    Does she know you have 2 LTRs?
    Can she break up with her bf and be with you? Will she? Or is she playing you up? You seem to be a catch in her eyes (and her in yours) because you're not together [and haven't had sex yet neither]. Is that going to change once she knows the real you, and you the real her? How much deep comfort have you built with her?

    I'm taking out popcorn. This is going to be a cuddly romantic comedy.
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    Got the carpenters outside building the gallows now....

    Quote Originally Posted by miaddict View Post
    Such a romantic story...

    1. Break up with your mLTRs.
    2. Get her to break up with her LTR.
    3. Have wild passionate sex [again and again].
    4. Get together, marry and live happily ever after.

    The end.
    [I know that JohnnyS is going to lynch me for giving the above advice].
    No need to lynch you, M... you compensated sufficiently for your logical-transgression with your final comments

    I would like to corroborate your notion of the 'Honeymoon Period' for Salaz:

    Salaz, your ongoing infatuation (which you call 'in love') is a very emotionally potent and profound feeling, kept at its sharpest by the fact that you don't see eachother often, and that she has what you perceive to be an interfering pre-existing negative relationship. It's very energizing, intense, and exciting - it's also hormonally-enhanced and addictive - AND FLEETING.

    Consider my following speculations, before you attempt to follow Miaddict's romantic advice:

    1) You don't appear REALLY to know this girl objectively, and you don't know how good a couple you'd make, except that the sex is nice, and you seem to be eachother's obsession.

    2) If she's as obsessed with you as you are with her, there must be SOMETHING positive, or at least compelling, about her current boyfriend? After all, their infatuation-phase of their relationship has clearly finished, and yet she still persists with him despite the existance of yourself?

    3) When a girl is particularily beautiful, it's man's nature to double her IQ, in his mind; to fail to notice judgement-call errors, mistakes, and evidence of questionable reasoning... Are you SURE this girl is all you'd like her to be, holistically, and not just "into you" and perfectly beautiful?

    There's lots more, but to save time I'll leave these three for you to work with up-front.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miaddict View Post
    When is the Titanic sailing off again? Will Jack and Rose ever be reunited again?
    I haven't seen the trailers for Titanic II yet... Strange for a Hollywood movie, not leaving some room for a sequel?



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    hahaha - i'm such a romantic still, Johnny. Damn. You already saved up my initial 'advice' before I edited it out.

    But it seems we are on the same wavelength overall[see the second version of my post].


    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny Soporno View Post
    I haven't seen the trailers for Titanic II yet... Strange for a Hollywood movie, not leaving some room for a sequel?



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    Really thanx about your posts !!! yes its a romantic story , i found my romantic side again after years and i dont feel empty with some sex only girls.
    now about your posts :
    Quote Originally Posted by miaddict View Post
    This is plea from a desperate man or the greatest screwed-up romantic story of April!!

    -- When is the Titanic sailing off again? Will Jack and Rose ever be reunited again?

    Does she know you have 2 LTRs?
    Can she break up with her bf and be with you? Will she? Or is she playing you
    up? You seem to be a catch in her eyes (and her in yours) because you're not together [and haven't had sex yet neither]. Is that going to change once she knows the real you, and you the real her? How much deep comfort have you built with her?

    I'm taking out popcorn. This is going to be a cuddly romantic comedy.
    1) she knows i have a LTR yes
    2) i think she can cause that what her sister and her friend was telling her in front of me , and she agreed.but i cant ask her that , she will be away for 2 months for the university , after that she ends studies there .
    3)we had sex twice like i said in my first post : "and finally the 3rd day we found the house i leave empty , we went there we fclose , 2 times , it was really nice ."
    4) the comfort is that we talked like 4 days all day about us , how good we are together , and that we must be together . Also something important is that we kissed many times in front of all people there , that is something important cause like i told u in the first post , nobody do that , only if is something serius (it was my first time to kiss a girl there in public , and i was the 1st boy she kissed in public there)



    Quote from Johny Soporno :

    "No need to lynch you, M... you compensated sufficiently for your logical-transgression with your final comments

    I would like to corroborate your notion of the 'Honeymoon Period' for Salaz:

    Salaz, your ongoing infatuation (which you call 'in love') is a very emotionally potent and profound feeling, kept at its sharpest by the fact that you don't see eachother often, and that she has what you perceive to be an interfering pre-existing negative relationship. It's very energizing, intense, and exciting - it's also hormonally-enhanced and addictive - AND FLEETING.

    Consider my following speculations, before you attempt to follow Miaddict's romantic advice:

    1) You don't appear REALLY to know this girl objectively, and you don't know how good a couple you'd make, except that the sex is nice, and you seem to be eachother's obsession.

    2) If she's as obsessed with you as you are with her, there must be SOMETHING positive, or at least compelling, about her current boyfriend? After all, their infatuation-phase of their relationship has clearly finished, and yet she still persists with him despite the existance of yourself?

    3) When a girl is particularily beautiful, it's man's nature to double her IQ, in his mind; to fail to notice judgement-call errors, mistakes, and evidence of questionable reasoning... Are you SURE this girl is all you'd like her to be, holistically, and not just "into you" and perfectly beautiful?

    There's lots more, but to save time I'll leave these three for you to work with up-front.

    Johnny Soporno"

    Hi johny

    1st) i know her like 5 years , we werent that much of friends but i know what type of person she is . But i guess you are right i dont REALLY know her that much.

    2nd) like i said , from the conversation they had with her sister and her friend in front of me , is like they talked those days about me , and she wants to be with me and break up with her boyfriend (its a big story how that came out) but again , from what she told me i understand that she is afraid to break up cause she is not sure we will be together (i will see her in 2 months again , but after that , she will be in my town again , end of university) . And maybe is my mistake but i dont give her 100% of my feelings cause she is hb10 , so i dont say "break up with your bf i will break with mine , and lets be together" type of thinks .

    3rd) she is the one.


    i wait for the much more , thank you all

    BTW , i think the only think i can do , is to text-phone game her , to keep her interest up , i did that for 1 1/2 month before i stopped text her the last time ... any good idea about this?

    Thanx again , <3 all

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    OMG, Coming back and read your 12 years ago self is FUN!!! btw the girl was not a 10 lol

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