I've been thinking of introducing my gf to my kids.

Iíve been thinking of bringing my girlfriend home for dinner to meet my teenage son and ten-year old daughter. Their mother and I got divorced more than a year ago and I know our separation has really taken a toll on them, especially my son. I donít want to jump the gun here, but Iím really into this woman and I think she would make a great mother. I met her through a foreign affair matchmaker company, and weíve been going out for a few months now. Iím anticipating a negative reaction from my children and Iíve already warned my gf about it. Is there a way that I can soften the news to them? I really want to introduce her to them, but Iím doubtful that it would go well.