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  1. everything that has a beginning has an end.

    Like the title says everything that has a beginning has an end. It has taken me 15 years to comprehend, accept and internalize the true meaning of this phrase. It has also taken me 15 years to realize that I have been living in my own hell. One that shape shifts into an illusion of comfort, safety and fake pleasure(porn) while demonizing the idea of stepping outside my secure boundaries' even if paradise(relationships, sex, financial opportunities) were on the other side. I created this inferno by not taking action to create the life that I desire to live and I take full responsibility for that.
    I will spare you the details of how bad I am with women since a good number of you on here are on the same boat and can probably imagine what that looks like. There fore this thread will be about my journey out of hell and its aim is to inspire any of you reading this to put down your computer(phone/porn), drop your excuses and take back your life while I take back mine! I will no longer walk asleep through life letting my opportunities pass by. I will bring an end to my excuses and my reality as I know it. Because everything that has a beginning has an end and the end is always a new beginning. This is the cycle of life.

    I will post to this thread regularly at least twice a week I will be day gaming every day for 8 hrs from now on. I have done game and been a part of local laiers before(pick up groups). But I have decided to go lone wolf because I end up talking more about game than actually gaming when I'm with other people. I am open to criticism so don't hold back.

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  3. thank you day game Australia I would like that but I don't have any money to be using for boot camps for now

  4. Sharpening the arsenal on the eve of war

    It is true that when war is inevitable there is no escape, but you can choose to enter the war with a knife or an AK-47. so today I spent the day training with the AK and this is what I worked on.

    vocal projection- my voice shivers and projects my fear of being in front of a hot girl, which is what gets me killed in the first 10 seconds of an interaction.

    Thinking too much and running out of things to say- these two go hand and hand together and are self explanatory

    text game- I think too much and express too many thoughts in one bubble of text. I reply instantly and it leads to longer time responses from girls or loss of interest.

    so this is what I did to counter these problems.

    -for vocal projection I spent an entire hour playing with my voice until I could keep it in a tone that would project confidence and masculinity.

    -after this I practiced talking to random trees on the pavement as if they were girls. And held the conversation from 2-5 min averaging 2 min most of the time. conversation is still not flowing properly but that comes with practice.

    - and last I pretended these trees gave me their number and went home to practice text game. I opened a tinder, an ok cupid and a scout account and approached a total of 30 girls on two of the apps. every text was unique and short. I practiced saying something immediately within the span of 3 seconds to the girls as if I was doing it in real life wiring my brain to take action fast. I used my observation skills to create my texts

    I managed to get one awesome conversation with a girl and I will b texting her tomorrow after I have accomplished tomorrow's goal.

    ok this concludes what I did today. now its time to take massive action. tomorrow I will be entering one of the belly of the beast. my goal is to get rejected so that I become ok with the fact that I will get rejected a lot. After this I will just attempt to be social and enjoy the conversations I'm having. This is tomorrow's goal stay tuned

  5. wow honestly I don't know how I haven't had a mental breakdown today. I feel like an alcohol virgin taking my first shot of fully loaded vodka! I approached 7 girls today, each of them made me feel like my guts where coming out of my body and choking me. The first 2 girls I approached; my words didn't even come out, and mind went blank. the two openers I prepared went straight out of my mind and I felt my soul jump right out of my body. infact after they asked if I was ok, I told them that I just lost my soul trying to approach them and they laughed and well it was an ok interaction but the girl did have a bf. the other interactions were pretty scary though and the girls were not as friendly and I felt lightheaded after every single one.
    I'm not gonna lie I did tear up a bit today it was hard to see that some of these girls didn't even acknowledge my existence and its hard not to take it personally. But I need to do more approaches 7 approaches in 8 hours is not even close to what I need in order to see change. my text game however was on point today I got plenty more responses than I usually get. nothing special happened except for the fact that I met my first gold digger today and politely told her to f off. But other than that everything was fine. like I said I use tinder and scout as a way to practice text game and only spend about 2 hours of the day max on them I don't want them to become a Krutch. anyways tomorrow will be another day.

  6. ok I went out today and I had a guy actually see what I was doing and curious as he was he asked me if I was hitting on random girls and if I had ever gotten any luck. Told him I was a beginner but I have seen other guys in my old group pull girls doing it so I was here to learn. He asked me if he could join me. I was reluctant to at first but thought the pressure of having someone there could be of some help or motivation for me to approach. however what happened next was unbelievable. The man ad age 30 ended up showing me what I looked like in front of a girl and what my future self would look like if I didn't fight for what I wanted. he made the same excuses and had basically the same body language that I do I was able to see a mirror image of me going in set. And what I saw was terrifying!!!! Getting him to approach was almost impossible but once he did I saw the unattractive body language and voice projection/vibe I was giving and this wowed me!!! If I could feel it how must the girl have felt!!!! now I see what I have to work on. He quickly gave me a good luck thumbs up and disappeared never to b seen again. So here is how my game went today

    I approached 8 sets. 5 of them didn't acknowledge my existence (which for some reason it bothers me more than a bitchy girl)

    the other 3 girls were stunned and happy to talk to me. I got my first numbers in a while but they did not reply.

    however todays experience was unforgettable. cant wait to get out there again

    text game has improved amazingly getting good response ration and the amount of catfish I am dealing with gets less and less. Thank god for skype and face time.

    I have a girl that is interested, she looks amazing and is really smart. we have been texting for 3 days and is showing signes of wanting to meet me. However she does live far and I don't want to go AFC for her. I will continue to do what I'm doing and if something happens with her then it happens.

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