PE from Frenulum Breve?

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  1. PE from Frenulum Breve?

    I'm an uncut 20 year old in my second year of university. Ever since I became sexually active at 16, I've suffered SEVERE premature ejaculation. I'm talking 95%+ of the time I will cum in under a minute in any position other than her on top, and even then I struggle to pass 3 minutes, and it'll be under 1 if she's riding up and down instead of back and forth. Oddly enough, I can go 5-10 minutes from a blowjob if she's doing a lot of teasing, but again if she goes at it PEW.

    Up until recently, I put it off as a mental block and swore to see a therapist when I had the time in order to try and work through it. However, in the past 3 months since I've become single again I noticed a few things and thinking back made some connections.

    - It is always when my foreskin gets pulled back that I feel the urge to cum and lose control.
    - Gentler contact such as blowjobs or girl on top allows me to last slightly to much longer.

    I also always used to masturbate without really pulling my foreskin fully back over my head, as I didn't use lube and it was always uncomfortable to do so until I started getting precum, and as soon as I'd start doing full strokes pulling the foreskin back I'd blow. This is not due to oversensitive glans as they can take a LOT of direct stimulation in any situation.

    So recently I heard of a condition called frenulum breve, which is where the frenulum is too short to fully retract the foreskin. Upon thinking back, I realized I've actually gotten little tiny tears on my frenulum 2 or 3 times from sex that took weeks to heal in the past.

    I'm fairly big, a little over 8" long and 7" girth, and upon checking to see if this might be the cause, I realized it seems as though I have a moderate frenulum breve as my foreskin won't retract fully without pulling down the underside of the glans and curving my dick slightly.

    Then after I realized this, I also realized that when I vigorously masturbate or have any kind of full penetration where my foreskin gets pulled back, after a certain point it causes a pleasurable pain-type feeling that forces my PC muscles to clench. I realized this was possibly why when I masturbate without fully retracting I can last pretty much however long I want but when I retract fully I blow in under 5 minutes. This also made sense in real sexual situations as well.

    Do you guys think this could be the root of my PE? I'm sure I've built up a mental block as well by now, but I feel like this might be what caused it from the start. There is a minor surgery that can fix it, but I would lose a lot of the sensitivity the frenulum provides, and it's one of the most sensitive areas a man has. I think I might be willing to make that sacrifice because I derive a lot of my pleasure from pleasing the person I'm with.



  2. Wow, this is a very detailed and self-aware post. It would be a lot more interesting if more guys would write in such honest detail, then I think we'd all learn something as this isn't exactly the kind of subject that guys normally talk about with their friends, even in the locker room. And I find doctors are generally ignorant or unhelpful on these topics unless maybe they are the top national specialists.

    that forces my PC muscles to clench
    This is the root cause of your PE. At least, my opinion is that clenched PC muscles - or more accurately, clenching the nearby muscle called bulbocavernosus - is the cause of PE in almost all cases. See my previous post here: http://www.theattractionforums.com/s...tml#post912141

    Unless you can train yourself to overcome the pain-type feeling and not clench your PC muscles, then if it were me I would think it a good idea to look into the surgery, because you are basically not able to have a 100% satisfying sexual performance right now. A relative of mine - not me - had the surgery when he was a kid to fix a slightly curving penis, and he had no after effects which I know about - OK, true I have not asked him about sensitivity but there wouldn't be much point because he had it done when he was a kid so he wouldn't have anything to compare it with, but as far as I know he is getting laid with no problems. And, if it were me, I would be willing to trade let's say a 10% loss of sensitivity for a 300% increase in duration. Even apart from pleasing your partner, I find a male orgasm from intercourse is much more deeply satisfying if you take a decently long time to build up to it.

    Myself, I'm uncut with a fully retracting foreskin, so a fairly sensitive dick. If I'm out of practice sexually and not doing the PC-muscle exercises, I get PE, I last maximum maybe 2 minutes the first few times I'm with a girl. Desensitising my dick is part of the way I overcome the PE (like I wrote on that other post, one way to desensitise is by plenty of fucking, you want to fuck a girl a second and third time immediately after the first). I definitely find the overall sexual experience is better for me when I don't have PE, even if that means my dick is desensitised or fairly aching. And obviously it is way better for the girl, making the girl feel more attracted to you and making her do things for you. Myself, I totally live for that time when a girl curls her fingers around the back of your head because she is so happy with the way that you fuck her.

    Plus, with your size (which is more than "fairly big", it's "in most girls' dreams big"), you have the capability to be a legend. If it were me, I would want to take maximum advantage of that.

  3. Quote Originally Posted by Headman View Post
    Wow, this is a very detailed and self-aware post. It would be a lot more interesting if more guys would write in such honest detail, then I think we'd all learn something as this isn't exactly the kind of subject that guys normally talk about with their friends, even in the locker room. And I find doctors are generally ignorant or unhelpful on these topics unless maybe they are the top national specialists.

    This is the root cause of your PE. At least, my opinion is that clenched PC muscles - or more accurately, clenching the nearby muscle called bulbocavernosus - is the cause of PE in almost all cases. See my previous post here: http://www.theattractionforums.com/s...tml#post912141

    Unless you can train yourself to overcome the pain-type feeling and not clench your PC muscles, then if it were me I would think it a good idea to look into the surgery, because you are basically not able to have a 100% satisfying sexual performance right now. A relative of mine - not me - had the surgery when he was a kid to fix a slightly curving penis, and he had no after effects which I know about - OK, true I have not asked him about sensitivity but there wouldn't be much point because he had it done when he was a kid so he wouldn't have anything to compare it with, but as far as I know he is getting laid with no problems. And, if it were me, I would be willing to trade let's say a 10% loss of sensitivity for a 300% increase in duration. Even apart from pleasing your partner, I find a male orgasm from intercourse is much more deeply satisfying if you take a decently long time to build up to it.

    Myself, I'm uncut with a fully retracting foreskin, so a fairly sensitive dick. If I'm out of practice sexually and not doing the PC-muscle exercises, I get PE, I last maximum maybe 2 minutes the first few times I'm with a girl. Desensitising my dick is part of the way I overcome the PE (like I wrote on that other post, one way to desensitise is by plenty of fucking, you want to fuck a girl a second and third time immediately after the first). I definitely find the overall sexual experience is better for me when I don't have PE, even if that means my dick is desensitised or fairly aching. And obviously it is way better for the girl, making the girl feel more attracted to you and making her do things for you. Myself, I totally live for that time when a girl curls her fingers around the back of your head because she is so happy with the way that you fuck her.

    Plus, with your size (which is more than "fairly big", it's "in most girls' dreams big"), you have the capability to be a legend. If it were me, I would want to take maximum advantage of that.
    Appreciate the well thought out post man, I'll have to schedule an appointment with my doctor to have him take a look and see if it really is a frenulum breve, although I can say almost 100% it is just by looking at myself.

    Another thing I've noticed recently is it is HUGELY oversensitive. I can rub strictly on my frenulum once I'm hard and I'll cum in like under a minute with no mental/visual stimulation whatsoever it's like I've got a clit on my dick... Ahahaha I swear that probably sounds like most guys dream but it's a bit of a nightmare.

    Guess it's time for a check up.

  4. Hi man.
    Im in the same situation completely!!!
    In my opinion its worth the trade, cause ejaculation is the real thing that gets us, not the feeling. And I bet youre tired of stressing out about how you gonna do it to satisfy her.
    I also suffer from pe since I started having sex. Tryed numbing the glans with local anesthesia, getting drunk, high, kegels and the other guys exercises and finaly I got circumcised thinking that will help, but nothing did...
    Now all I have left if the frenulum, which is pulling my head drastically, but oddly it never broke.
    So im here asking if you did the surgery so I know what to do. Im already blocked completly, and closed myself off to women and sex due to the embarrassment.

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