Should i still carry on with the lunch?

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  1. #1

    Should i still carry on with the lunch?

    Theres this woman im attracted to

    we used to be very close but she changed once she made new friends... she started to give "can't be bothered" replies and no longer tried to make conversations... Basically she chucked me aside..

    Once inawhile she will suddenly be nice to me and within a few days she will be back to her "can't be bothered" attitude. Basically she was showing me no respect.

    i eventually got fed up and decided on no contact.. went on for 5 months before she started making contact

    this time she appeared v nice again n tried putting effort in convosations and no longer gave one word replies

    last week i asked her out for lunch, and even though she wasnt free on that day she suggested a few other dates until i could find one in whihc i was free. we also started talking nicely until suddenly BAM.. she stopped replying all of a sudden

    suddenly it brought back memories of the past where she used to not reply messages and give "can;t be bothered" replies

    now im in a situation where i got the lunch appointment set but her sudden no reply has pissed me off

    its been 1 week and she hasnt tried making conversation with me

    now the scheduled lunch is next week.

    My question to you guys is "Should i ask her if we are still lunching 1 or 2 days before it?" or should i juz **** it and don't ask at all

    if i don't confirm lunch and assuming tt she doesnt reach out to confirm as well expecting me to be the one doing it... will it piss her off and ruin any chances i wanna have??
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  2. Don't bother! She's ignoring u so I wouldn't bother too much about what she thinks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cman View Post
    Don't bother! She's ignoring u so I wouldn't bother too much about what she thinks!
    yeah i know...

    juz that i know if i dun confirm if lunch is still going ahead or not... she will juz use it as a reason to think im a jerk (regardless of whether she still wanted to lunch)

    and this might juz make her not wanna contact me anymore

    afterall i m intrested in this girl, so wondering if i should take the risk


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    You're acting like you are her bitch.

    You are not her bitch.

    Send her the following text:

    "Sorry, have to cancel lunch."

    Period. Never contact her again. Never respond to contact from her again.

    Now, reach down between your legs. Feel around a little.

    There should be a cock and two balls there.

    (If not, that's another problem.)

    If you find them, though, then thank God for them and NEVER let her or anyone else (male or female) treat you like a piece of shit again.

    Ya dig?
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    Quote Originally Posted by DeadEyeDick View Post
    You're acting like you are her bitch.

    You are not her bitch.

    Send her the following text:

    "Sorry, have to cancel lunch."

    Period. Never contact her again. Never respond to contact from her again.

    Now, reach down between your legs. Feel around a little.

    There should be a cock and two balls there.

    (If not, that's another problem.)

    If you find them, though, then thank God for them and NEVER let her or anyone else (male or female) treat you like a piece of shit again.

    Ya dig?
    i get wat u mean

    this will work for the part of not having her treat me like a bitch

    but how abt the part where i get her? any suggestions for that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by in2deep View Post
    i get wat u mean

    this will work for the part of not having her treat me like a bitch

    but how abt the part where i get her? any suggestions for that?
    She is not interested in you at all.

    She contacts you when she's bored.

    This Forum is about attracting more women into your life, not pursuing people who have shown ACTIVE DISINTEREST. So, keep that in mind.
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  7. I've given this thread a lot of thought... and then I decided on this reply....


    You're acting like you are her bitch.

    You are not her bitch.

    Send her the following text:

    "Sorry, have to cancel lunch."

    Period. Never contact her again. Never respond to contact from her again.

    Now, reach down between your legs. Feel around a little.

    There should be a cock and two balls there.

    (If not, that's another problem.)

    If you find them, though, then thank God for them and NEVER let her or anyone else (male or female) treat you like a piece of shit again.

    Ya dig?



    (I really hope plagiarism isn't a problem on these boards)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maverick76 View Post
    (I really hope plagiarism isn't a problem on these boards)
    Your reply was pure genius.

    You are clearly a man of wealth and taste, and I see no plagiarism here at all.
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  9. If u want this girl then move on until a point she shows you some respect if never then so be it imo

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    Great advise from u guys

    Get where u guys are coming from

    Sigh... It's juz hard to juz not ask abt lunch n give her the reason to think that I m the one whose being a jerk by disappearing after I was the one who set up the lunch with her

    It's like giving her a free pass to think that I am the one who was a jerk

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