Playing "social theater"

first I just want to say I really like this forum. I just accidentally googled one of your articles, and since than I started a Journal in the Field Reports section called MY SUMMER JURNAL. I've made incredible progress in just 3-4 days. But there is one thing I am stuck on.

I realized, that when you go outside, try to get girls or even talk to your male friends you have to play this "social theater". I have always thought that it is immature and unnatural to act this way, but when you play this theater, everything is just going well, compared to when people find you boring with your logical thinking.

But I have a tendency to slip back and stop playing the theater sometimes, because I am not totally convinced it is the right thing.
I want to ask you, more experienced people, do you also have this feeling like you are playing a social theater when you are outside? Do you think it is necessary to play the theater till the rest of our life? Is it really that important in life???
I am ready to start playing this "social theater" every day from now on, I just need words from someone more experienced to assure me.

Thanks for the reply, Also feel free to check my blog, it's full of my deep thoughts