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    Project Rockstar 2012 Daily Journals

    Project Rockstar 2012 is here!

    As with each years' program, the Rockstars will be posting daily journal entries about their journey. Given what these guys are going to go through, it's going to be some seriously insightful stuff. 9 weeks, 24/7 instructor attention, and over 50 continuous days of in-field training spanning Montreal, Budapest, and Stockholm - 3 locations known to have some of the hottest girls in the world. It's going to be one hell of a ride.

    The curriculum for Project Rockstar brings forth something very special and important to me. Last year, Gary and I set out to create the first Love Systems long-term training curriculum, spanning everything he and I had ever learned from the dating science community. We took the complications of everything we knew and distilled it down to something very simple and effective, which we coined "Game 3.0" (www.theprojectrockstar.com/game-3-0/). It's a style of game that focuses heavily on natural game, (re)discovering your masculinity, and learning how to "feel" your way through interactions. Moreover, it's predicated on realizing that girls are actual people with emotions and feelings, not just numbers and conquests.

    Game 3.0 blew the minds of all the Rockstars last year (http://goo.gl/0pdmi), it blew the minds of the students on the 10-day bootcamp we created (http://goo.gl/ESx4l), and we've only made it better since. Keep an eye out for what this year's Rockstars say about it, as well as the students from the upcoming 10-day bootcamp in Las Vegas (www.10-day-pua.com). Pushing the dating science envelope, that's what its all about.

    The Rockstars have been taking part in a 12-week pre-Rockstar training program. The program was heavily focused on getting these guys into the best shape of their lives before coming into our hands. The guys will tell you more about their experience with it below, but believe it when I say they all worked their ASSES off. The results are pretty jaw dropping, these guys are stacked now! We had them go through this for good reason. I can't emphasize enough the importance of being fit if you really want to get good with this stuff. It'll build more raw masculinity within you than any other thing you can do, girls will love how you look and feel, and your confidence will go through the roof. It doesn't come easy... but nothing worth having does.

    We've also had the guys doing weekly exercises as part of the pre-training program to get their minds working in the right way. The boys can tell you more about that below.

    A special thanks to the participating instructors this year (more to be announced soon!):

    Vici
    Mr. M
    Future
    Cajun
    Tenmagnet
    Starlight
    Biskit
    Intrigue
    Mark V
    Farmer

    Also a special thanks to the army of interns, Rockstar alum, ACs, and mentors who are making this possible.

    So without further delay, Gary and I are proud to bring to you the Project Rockstar class of 2012!

    Sterling



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    James T Introduction

    Hi everyone!

    I can’t describe in words how excited I am to be about to take part in Project Rockstar 2012 and I’m also really happy to have the chance to share my experiences throughout my journey with everyone here in this blog.

    To be honest, Project Rockstar has already begun for me. As part of the deal of being accepted this year, we all agreed to take part in a 12 week full body transformation. Including (for my body type) a strict weight gain diet plan consisting of 9 meals a day and heavy gym work. I am now in the best shape of my life and my confidence has increased shitloads. I’m so proud of the body I have now, Its winter outside and freezing and I am walking around with no shirt lol. I put in so much work to get there tho, it was really tough.

    We were also given weekly game assignments to complete to improve our skills leading up to it. The focus was mostly around banter and teasing. I found them to be pretty tough because we had to come up with all our own teases, not canned stuff. I am already finding my mind starting to think more in that way. I am now always looking for what I can playfully tease about in my interactions.

    A bit about me and my background. I am a retired professional surfer from Australia. I used to travel the world competing in surfing competitions and doing photo trips for surfing magazines. I gave that up to follow my real passion, which is music. I am now a progressive house DJ/Producer. I have had a few of my own productions released and played by some of the Worlds biggest DJs including Paul Oakenfold and Above & Beyond and up until recently, I held a residency in a popular nightclub in Australia.

    All throughout my life I have been terrible and terrified of women. Before I got into game, I thought that women only went for successful or rich guys so becoming a pro surfer would fix all my problems with dating. Instead of going out and working on becoming better with women and in social situations, I put all of my effort into surfing and eventually I turned pro. It didn’t do anything what so ever to help my success with girls. I then thought that becoming a successful DJ would help me but that also didn’t help at all. I figured it must be something wrong internally with me and that’s when I started searching and found Love Systems. I read magic bullets and quickly discovered that pretty much every single thing it says not to do with women I was doing and my first thought was “Wow I have a long way to go”. Then I started on the long journey of breaking a lifetime of bad habits and self-defeating behaviours.

    I have been in and out of Psychologists offices most of my adult life and spent a small fortune on Doctors bills. I was diagnosed with social anxiety and for a long period I was on antidepressants and anti anxiety medications. Almost a year ago, I took a LS bootcamp with Cajun, Bullet and Tenmagnet and I have to say it was the best thing I have ever done (btw I am not being paid to say this). To give you an idea of where I was when I started. I was so nervous about doing the bootcamp I almost didn’t go even though I had already paid. Since taking my bootcamp and forcing myself to get out of my comfort zone and learn game, I have now learned that social anxiety is not something that you are stuck with, it can be overcome and I have come so far in a year compared to when I started. I still have a long way to go to get to where I want to be, socially and with game. I hope to achieve that during Project Rockstar 2012.

    What I hope to learn during Project Rockstar is how to become more internally validated and how to improve my confidence and self-belief with women and in life in general. I want to get rid of my negative beliefs about myself, which are proving to be quite hard to shake and I want to learn how to forge a dream life for myself that is abundant in every way. A true rockstar lifestyle.

    Finally, If anyone would like to post any questions they have, I will try my best to answer everyone. Feel free to get involved and post. I look forward to it. Jimmy T

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    Pre Training reflection post

    90 whole chickens, 18kg Tuna, 18 kg steak, 10kgs brown rice, 25kgs weight gain powder, 6kg protein powder and 60 bags broccoli later here we are. Wow! What a journey, that was frickin intense! I just completed my first ever 12 week body transformation program.

    I can’t believe how much weight I have put on! 17.5 pounds in 12 weeks! It was not easy. I had to eat 9 meals a day, eating every 2 hours. My body was constantly sore and every muscle group was hurting. Eating all that plain food was by far the hardest part. My stomach was constantly bloated and I haven’t felt hungry for the last 3 months. There were also days when I was really tired after work and I didn’t want to go to the gym. I had to kick myself in the ass and go anyway even when every fibre in my body wanted to sit down and rest. Every day was a challenge in the gym, lifting to failure on every set and increasing the weight I was lifting each week meant I was never in my comfort zone and always hurting.

    I got through the first few weeks relatively easy, I remember thinking, ‘this wont be too hard’ Wrong! By the 3rd week I was craving McDonalds so bad and I NEVER eat McDonalds. I just had this craving for a greasy hamburger, the greasier the better, you know the ones where your hands are wet all the way to your arm when your eating it, yeah ones like that but I didn’t give in! By the 6th week I was so over eating all that food with no flavor, I was almost throwing up every time I ate, just because I was already so full and also the food was so bland. I didn’t know how I was going to do another 6 weeks. This is where my will power was really tested, every day for the last 6 weeks, especially when my friends at work were eating hamburgers, pies, chips and chocolate next to me everyday. I had to block out the pain and the cravings and keep focused on my end goal. The last 3 weeks were the worst, I wanted to quit so bad and eat some nice food but I had to prove to myself that I could last the full 12 weeks without cheating or quitting.

    I feel I have learnt a lot about myself and gained some important lessons from doing this 12 week transformation. One of them being I can do anything I put my mind to and another being, no matter how much pain I’m in I’m not a quitter. These are both confidence building mindsets for me. Also I feel like I have become more comfortable about my body and looks now also which is nice. I think it was a great idea getting the rockstars to go through this 12 weeks transformation before the start of rockstar as we will all be going in with more confidence and self esteem which will help get us through the though times. We weren’t alone in the transformation, Sterling Gary and Vici all did it with us. It was Sterling and Vici’s 3rd time doing the 12 week program and I saw photos of them they other day, they are both beasts! I would definitely recommend anyone to do the program, the added confidence and masculinity you feel is so worth the pain.

    With under 4 days to go until rockstar begins I am feeling a range of emotions ranging from excited to nervous to ‘wow this is actually going to happen, I am really about to do project rockstar, I wonder what crazy shit they will make me do’. It still hasn’t fully sunk in yet.

    Im out for now

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    ARYEH J Introduction

    Up until now I’ve lived a pretty interesting life. I’ve spent numerous semesters abroad, lived abroad for a few years after University, published a book and have a job that many students graduating college would love to have. However, I’ve always felt that something was missing. The life I am currently living is not for me. Life is short and I want to enjoy every second of it. Now, I’m 26 years old working in finance, at job I don’t particularly like and I realized that I needed to make a change. Too many people just settle, whether it’s for money, or because society tells them to or just because they are too lazy or too scared to make the leap. I refuse to be one of those people. One of my biggest fears is being one of those old people that say, “I wish I took more chances when I was younger”, or “I wish I travelled the world”. When I’m older I’m going to look back at my life and say “That was a fucking awesome ride”.

    For one reason or another I’ve never quite been able to figure out women. I’m good looking and have done many interesting things but I’ve always relied on that to attract girls. Even though it may get you in the door and get you some initial attraction, that’s about all it will get you. I’m proof of that. As tough as it was I had to look at myself in the mirror and admit that I have limiting beliefs of myself and with women, I knew that needed to make a change if I wanted understand what it really means to live.

    One thing I’ve learned is that ultimately you can do anything you want if you want it bad enough. I want to be incredible with women and I want to live an awesome life and I will do whatever is takes to get there. I left my job and making the leap -- Project Rockstar!!!

    Though Project Rockstar hasn’t happened yet, I already know that going on it is one of the best decisions I've ever made. There are few things as empowering as taking control of your life. The chance to make to take life in a new direction, break down comfort zones and do it with like-minded people is a gift. I am excited beyond belief and I do not have words to fully describe the excitement and exhilaration I feel inside. I have no idea what I will do after Rockstar and where I will be -- I’m leaving that up in the air. I think that’s part of the Rockstar experience -- you make the leap and see where it takes you. I’m a firm believer in the saying “Fortune favors the bold”. I must admit that as excited as I am, I am also extraordinarily nervous. Expanding ones comfort zones and facing fears is probably one of the most difficult things to do. It’s painful and damaging to the ego but I believe that it is a necessary step in becoming my best self.

    I hope to leave Rockstar feeling more confident in myself, amazing with women, amazing with people in general, a better understanding of how to live my dream and the steps to begin living my dream – an all-around better and more fulfilling life. Not to mention an unforgettable 9 week adventure filled with stories that I will have for the rest of my life. We often don’t follow our dreams because we are fearful and my intention throughout Rockstar is to break those fears.

    For the 3 months leading up to Project Rockstar, all of the Rockstars have been on this incredible body transformation exercise and diet plan. The plan requires 1.5-2 hours every day in the gym and consuming 8-9 meals a day, which definitely is not easy. The first month was really hard but at this point, with one month left I’m in the zone and have never felt so healthy in my life. For those that have the commitment I would highly recommend doing one of these intense transformation programs. Your confidence will skyrocket. It’s a funny thing about exercise and diet – it’s really a game changer. Coming into this program I was very skinny and always felt like I wasn’t masculine enough. 8 weeks into the program I’ve gained 8 pounds and I just feel more like a man. It’s pretty interesting how the more masculine I feel the more sexual tension there is in my interactions with women. It’s as if women are naturally drawn to the masculinity.

    To end this off, I am once again extraordinarily excited about Rockstar and I hope that my leap and journey to live the dream will inspire others to do the same.

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    Pre-Training Reflections

    Last Sunday was the final day of the most intensive workout and diet regimen that I have ever done – literally insane. Completing something this intense with almost 2 hours of exercising daily and eating 8-9 meals a day for 12 weeks straight is a real accomplishment and I feel a sense of pride. I’ve achieved the body I’ve always wanted and health wise I feel great. Generally, looks aside, being healthy just feels good – I’ve got more energy, more confidence and I look stacked.

    When I was first told that I along with the rest of this year’s Rockstars were going to have to be on this regimen I really didn’t think it was possible. I’ve never completed anything that required this much discipline and self-control. This accomplishment has taught me that most things are possible if you want it badly enough. It’s interesting after completing a program like this how much more attuned I am to people complaining about being out of shape, being too skinny or generally just complaining and not doing anything to improve their situations – they can get it if they really wanted it.

    After these 12 weeks I feel more confident and masculine. All of the eating and exercising really boosts testosterone levels and it seems like everyone around me is picking up on my masculinity. As funny as this may sound I feel more like a man and I’ve got a little more of an edge. At one point during the transformation I was at a concert dancing with this girl and I decided to pick her up and was able to just lift her straight up into the air with ease. It felt so good to have the strength to do that and she just kind of melted after that. It was a great feeling and one I would not have been able to have 12 weeks ago. Additionally, I feel like I get more respect from other men. It almost seems like there’s this club of people in shape and you respect each other for it because you all know what it takes to get that way.

    Two very important lessons I’ve learned from the transformation are the importance of accountability and the importance of having a support group.There were times during the transformation where I just wanted to quit. I was insanely full at all times and would often be on the verge of throwing up from all of the food. My body was constantly sore and I often had to give up hanging out with friends and family in order to keep up with regimen. Had I not had a support group it would have been easy to quit. Knowing that Sterling, Vici, Gary and the rest of the Rockstars were doing the program with me and having to submit pictures, weights, and body fat % really kept me going. Accountability is key. It’s too easy to back out of something or not give it your best if you’re not accountable for the results.

    From now on, whenever I take on any new effort I will definitely keep track of the progress. There were times during the transformation where I felt that I had plateau’ d a bit and then I would look at pictures from a few weeks earlier and I’d be amazed at the difference. It’s hard to give yourself credit when you don’t recognize the progress that you’ve made.

    With Rockstar around the corner, I’m on a high from this accomplishment and the positive energy really comes across in my interactions with everyone. I feel more comfortable in my own skin. Being in a positive mental space, feeling confident and looking great is an amazing way to kick-off Rockstar. So pumped!!!

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    Introductory Post

    Whattup!!
    Im writing to you here from Australia. A bit about myself to begin with, I’m 22, and had attended a LS bootcamp not too long back. After seeing what a 3 day bootcamp could do, I knew that Project Rockstar was for me. I have worked on my life countless number of hours and am honoured that these hours have paid off in the acceptance in to PR2012.
    At this stage I am not to sure what to expect of the program. I think it is an unbelievable program to offer to anyone and I am privileged to be a part of it now and in the future. I know its going to be intense, challenging, fear facing and somewhat emotionally testing, but I am certain it will be the most rewarding time of my life coming out the other side. I am currently gearing myself into being ready to become my best self.
    What I hope to get from the program? Most importantly I hope to get forever lasting change, I am a little locked up and subdued in certain social situations. I feel a lot of the time I settle for less attractive girls then what I can get with a little more confidence.

    Our training is already underway. It started on the 2nd of April. We were given our instructions on our 12 week transformational fitness and dietry program. We were split into two groups. Gainers and losers. I was in the losers group. I have always had trouble gaining weight and only 2 years ago was very skinny and out of shape. With a huge amount of gym work and numerous stages of eating a lot of food I was able to gain a solid 20 kilograms. A lot of it was also in fat mass, so going into the losing diet, I had some good confidence in being in a pretty ripped shape coming into Rockstar. The first 1-3 weeks was tough. Food was constantly on my mind, I actually had a few dreams about eating. One in particular where I dreamt I ate a burrito, then felt really bad after it only to wake up in the morning realising it was a dream. Although food is always on your mind, after a while you do get used to not eating so much and once you start to see results that’s what you begin to focus on. I am allowed 1 cheat meal a week but so far have had only 4 in 8 weeks.

    Over 6 weeks I had dropped nearly 10kgs, or about 20lbs as we are to keep our stats in. A huge amount of size, weight and fat mass. I was then able to add an extra few calories to my daily intake as long as I stepped up the intensity of my cardio. I was fine with that and am also feeling even better about the exceptional shape I will be in, if not by the beginning of Rockstar, but by the end. And the feedback we all got at the half way mark I think all the other guys will be the same. And I can’t wait to be in the environment where all of us guys are as focused as each other.
    We have also had a number of game assignments to complete. Mostly being He Said/She Said exercises, banter themes and IVS notes.

    Everything that Rockstar is about, game, fitness, entrepreneurship, etc, is what I am truly passionate about already in my life. It has been a dream for me to find that “Navy Seal Team”. This is going to be an amazing few months, I just cannot wait guys!!! Plus most importantly I cannot wait to bang some of the hottest girls of my life. YEW!!

    I know I really connected with last years rockstar blog posts so i will do my best to get as much good stuff in here as i can!

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    12 week Reflection

    So i just arrived in Canada a couple days early, 30+ hours of travelling (had to get a couple detour flights) sucks when you can't sleep on a plane, i think I'm going to have to work on that with the lifestyle we are about to create


    Looking back at these last 12 weeks it has been tough on one hand but so easy on the other. It is easy because I am so focused on doing the best I can for Project Rockstar as I am so grateful for the experience. Just thinking about life after it is driving me even harder than normal. Juggling the 2 cardio sessions a day, gym 3-5 times a week, eating properly was pretty hard at times fitting into your work schedule, home renovations and social life. But once you get used to it and realise how possible it is, then there are no excuses. Yes, sometimes you do look like an idiot going away somewhere for the weekend with 4-5 bags full of your meals, supplements and training gear. The people around you eating anything they want and you there with your chicken and veges, does get tough, but its not impossible to stay on track.

    Why has it been tough? Well beginning with the fitness side of the program. The first 8 or so weeks for me was tough being disciplined enough to not over eat. I was in the weight losing group. I dropped something like +20 pounds in the 8 weeks. Just absolutely shredded, got to the point where I was unhappy because I was getting very small, and losing a lot of strength as well. After going over the results with the instructors I was then moved in to the gaining team. I now eat close to double the amount I was at the beginning of this program. In the first week of gaining I put on 10 pounds, must have been a huge shock to my body. We were also required to not have any alcohol at all during the 12 weeks. I thought it was refreshing. It did make some social gatherings harder though, social peer pressure can be a bitch sometimes but I was pretty dedicated to my end goals so was no problem. Looking back it was well worth it though, I am in great shape, and its only going to keep getting better. A couple of mates from home realised how much i changed my body in such a short time and i have since become somewhat of a mentor for them, giving them programs and diets to follow.

    We have also been completing some game assignments. He said/she said exercises, teases, IVS notes and banter mostly. I really have to push my mind into thinking about these teases. Receiving these assignments and reflecting on them together has been great for team moral and team bonding through email. I can feel the excitement from everyone through emails so it is going to be ridiculous once we are all actually together.

    So my thoughts so far about this pre 12 weeks is that it is definitely essential to try and get everyone on the same page and thinking the same way to help us get to where we want to be as soon as possible. For the first time in 2+ years of working out I have felt that I have been working towards a certain result in the gym by a certain time limit. I feel as if the last 2 years have been somewhat useless due to having no goals, or no real set workout schedule to maximise results. All I was concentrating on was bulking up, which was done completely the wrong way which is why I put on more fat then muscle I guess. Having a set goal and a set time limit, and believing that basically your future depends on achieving that goal, then it makes it a lot easier to commit to it. That’s one of the broader lessons I have learnt from this 12 weeks so far.

    As it gets closer to the 1st day there are so many different emotions coming up. Mostly excitement, but also a lot of nerves. It is a bit weird knowing that from the beginning of that first day my life will never be the same, I don’t really know what to expect at this point. I know it is going to be the most fun, life changing experience of my life. I think it will also be, at times, some of the most painful times of my life too, but the pain is a must to force change. I have worked hard to get where I am. I haven’t been afraid to step outside of the norm and be judged by the people around me, so I am taking this opportunity and giving it all I have got. I am so grateful.

    As for after rockstar, well we are all just going to have to wait and find out together. I know its going to be an extraordinary journey and i hope to have a super badass team of guys, the other rockstars, by my side all the way to creating amazing lives for all of us.

    Well, time to catch up on some sleep because its going to be a massive few months......hmm nah f that I'm going to the gym first

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    Rockstar 2012 Intro, Brandon D

    Hey guys, welcome to my Rockstar blog! I'm sitting here writing this as I look forward to what will hopefully be one of the greatest adventures and most influential experiences I've ever had. We're about to travel the world with a group of, from what I can tell, some of the most interesting, social, successful, motivated and adventurous people you could hope to meet. That by itself is a recipe for having a great time. But on top of that we're going to be learning to have the women we've always wanted in our lives, and we'll be doing it in a lot of amazing settings and while partying like Rockstars. That sounds like an unbelievably fantastic time.
    I'm sure you'd like to hear a bit about me to see if you want to follow my blog. So here it is: I'm 6'4”, dashingly handsome, more interesting than James Bond, and own a yacht that transforms into a private jet. Just messing with you. Actually I'm 5'8”, don't own a yacht or a plane, and the rest is still true. Haha. But to be serious, I'm from Colorado and I'm a mountain guy that loves adventures and just about any type of social interaction. A crazy night club or a bonfire on the beach, it's all great to me. I always played a ton of sports and you could probably call me an adrenaline junky. At the same time, I'm fascinated by just about everything. I love learning how to do new things, psychology really interests me, I can dork out about new scientific findings, and I get excited whenever I learn some little secret bit of knowledge that has a practical use. I love the Jim Carey movie “Yes Man” because I'll pretty much say yes to doing anything that sounds like it could turn into a good time. (Minus that one incident in Tijuana...)
    I've always been a social person, but was often too nice to the girls I was interested in to wind up dating them. Most of the girls I dated, I met randomly by going up to them at social events where there was no previous social context. I had some natural talent with girls, but I didn't realize what it was and rarely used it with the women I wanted. My friends have always been pretty social and a decent number of them were good with women, but the concept of sexual tension flew right over my head. I'll mention more of my background with women in future posts.
    I came to Rockstar because I think your dating life is no accident and requires a level of attention just like your professional life. I don't believe in 'getting lucky.' I want to make sure that I have the experiences I want to have with women, I don't want to sit around hoping. I'd like to get three things out of Rockstar – First, a great experience that would be a page turner in any book. Second, a group of friends that I can call up whenever I feel like going on an adventure or getting into a cool business venture. Finally, I'd like to be a Rockstar with women. I don't want to be like every other guy that walks by the smokin' hot brunette and thinks “Man I wish” or just stares from across the bar. I want to be able to have great interactions with women wherever I go. And I'd like to spend enough time with quality women that I eventually find one I'd like to keep around.
    That's my little intro speech. So far we've been practicing some game concepts, and we're on a 12 week transformation workout and diet schedule. The diet's a bit of a pain in the ass, as it is very time consuming (I'm working to gain weight, and thus constantly eating. A huge pile of pasta is next to my computer right now). But the results have been good and the program certainly works. We've all been e-mailing back and forth, cracking jokes, giving each other shit for musical tastes, that kind of thing. I've hung out with my fellow Colorado Rockstar participant a couple times. I think we're all getting pretty psyched for the experience. Letting us all loose on a rampage around international cities is bound to be a sight to see...

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    We've reached the end of our 12 week pre-Rockstar training program now. The biggest component of it was definitely the workout and diet program through Krist Gethin's 12 week trainer. I competitively ski raced for a good part of my life, so the style of program wasn't foreign to me. But stuffing my face with 3800 calories of bland food in 6 daily meals is pretty difficult, particularly in terms of the time it takes to make and eat all of that food. It makes it hard to live life for 12 weeks, and even more so when you're dragging a bunch of odd food to friend's houses when you go to hang out. On the other hand, nothing that really impresses people in life comes without dedication – so if you want to show off some guns you better bust your ass!
    We also had a series of game assignments which were effectively targeted at getting us to start naturally incorporating game into our conversations. Or, maybe more accurately, to not have to put game into our conversations. Mostly we were practicing teasing and building sexual tension in a relaxed way, while also talking about ourselves enough to let someone get to know that we're real people and not a pile of lines.
    I struggle most from either getting stuck in teasing mode, or getting stuck in good conversation mode, and rarely combining both sexual tension and solid conversation at the same time. At best I do one and then the other and it goes well, but rarely both at once. So one of my favorite lessons from the 12 weeks leading into Rockstar was to go ahead and have a light hearted, fun, emotional conversation with sexual innuendo, but to occasionally throw in very powerful chunks about your life and your views. A quick piece can go a long way – you might spend a couple minutes on a riff about how important it is to you to have passionate and goal oriented people around you, or how much it means to you to be able to look after the people you are close with in life. Focusing on a real, but unusual and very well stated belief of yours in this fashion can convey a lot about you and really set you apart. Even better, the effect of that can last quite a while in the conversation and change the tone of the interaction. That way you can get back to teasing and having a good time while adding a totally different level to the conversation.
    I haven't had as much time to go out and use what we're working on as I'd like, but I have had a couple chances. When I was in real situations I found that I was doing a better job at mentally tracking whether I had gone too far to one side or the other in terms of balancing real conversation vs. teasing/fun topics. I did my best to put in the powerful chunks of high value views I mentioned above, and the results were pretty good. Generally the girls I was talking to seemed slightly overwhelmed and not quite sure what to say in response to confident expression of life values, in a positive way, but you just roll with it and get back to something more light hearted. A few minutes later they were even more into the conversation than before. Sometimes you have to blow her mind, to paraphrase Steve. Having the confidence that you can bullshit your way through an attractive conversation makes the whole situation feel more comfortable. Having to remember when to throw in routines can be stressful. I do have some good routines I like, but it's nice to only use them if you feel like it. At the same time, it helps to have had certain types of conversations a bunch of times so you can stay on top of a general pattern without having to stop and think much. That should come with a lot of practice. Right now it's just a matter of keeping my mouth moving and having faith that it's okay to have the conversation be normal and not that exciting for a minute as long as on the whole it's a kick ass interaction.
    Overall lessons from the program I have learned are some things that apply to anything and that I've seen with other stuff I've done – like be more determined than the next guy, stick to the process of improving until the end and trust the results will be worth it, and there's frequently no replacement for good mentors and trusting what they say. Some things I didn't know before, like what I mentioned about balancing conversation. Or that frequently just running your mouth is better than having something to say, as long as you eventually bring it back to useful topics. Game's not a matter of perfection, and for myself and probably a lot of you reading this, not worrying about perfectionism is a big part of getting the hell out of your own way and letting your natural traits work for you. At least that's the way I see it after these first 12 weeks. This whole experience is about big changes in point of view, so hopefully I'll have some more big mindset shifts in my next post!

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    Hello guys from Toronto -

    “Each person’s task in life is to become an increasingly better person.” -Leo Tolstoy


    With that thought I come into project rockstar.

    For the past 5 yrs Ive been working as an IT Professional in different roles - Consultant, Business Analyst, Project Manager, Team Lead etc. Most recently I was a Manager for one of the largest technology companies managing teams all over the world. I am in my mid 20s. When I found lovesytems late last year and took a bootcamp, it was to be able to date many women, but eventually I took a hard look at myself and realized I needed to improve other areas of my life as well. I needed to become a “10".

    What I am looking from Rockstar - Looking at it holistically, I am hoping to get a fully liberating experience in various aspects of my life from Project Rockstar. I am on a committed path to self-improvement and have carved my own game plan. I have benefited immensely, and made the most of, other LS programs, but I feel Project Rockstar would be the stride needed to become a “10”. I recognize being ones best self is a lifelong journey. I will try to elaborate my opinion of being a "10" more in my future posts if possible. I would like to have true abundance with the women I want. I want to be fairly consistent with my success rate with the women I want. I want to be able to quickly escalate consistently. Most importantly, I want to truly be the buyer and not the seller.

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    The pre-program for rockstar have made some tremendous changes in my life which is very funny because the program hasn't even "officially" started yet.

    I can say I have a major area of my health handled and am moving positively towards where I want to be physically. The gist of it is that I cut my body fat more than half of what it was originally 26% to 12% in a matter of 3 months - losing close to 30 pounds in a healthy way with a gain in muscle mass. This was all under the guidance of Project Rockstar instructors. I tried to be relentless in making sure I stuck to the program given which is why I was able to get the results I got. I did screw up what seems to be many times on my diet and cardio but I think I was 80-90% compliant with the program carved for me by the PR 2012 core instructors. I think my will power has increased overall in terms of my commitment to my health and ensuring I maintain a healthy lifestyle. I think I have truly realized what my body needs in terms of nutrition. I had full support from the instructors in monitoring my progress, giving me adjustments and answering my questions which was the cornerstone to my success. I think this has also bumped me up by a few points on the attractiveness scale and getting approached by girls isn't a rare occurrence these days. This is probably less than half due to the looks changing factor but more probably the way my demeanour has changed. This was a portion of my life I have always been yo-yoing at and it was great to get some solid direction to help reach my health goals. Ive spent money like many others on various fitness programs/trainings/products etc. with short lived results. I think the only time I was in shape close to this was in college when I didn't have much else to do and that too I was just pushing hard and not necessarily efficiently.

    The second half was the game assignments which helped me trigger some core thought processes around banter, teasing, framing etc. which becomes pivotal in having successful interactions with women i.e. not having a long term relationship with your right hand. It definitely taught me some important aspects on what "muscles" I should be developing and what I should be practicing/working on. I thought the exercises were very practical and are required to get proficient/master the above mentioned. Again on this I had the instructors full support to review and provide feedback which was also key. I definitely keep the lessons I learnt in mind as I am talking to women these days which resulted my banter and teasing to improve. I also feel we were given some of the premium resources out there to refer to which you can tell the PR 2012 instructors agreed upon collectively after going through the various resources available. The assignments were innovative and were kept interesting.

    Couldn't have asked for a better start and am really looking forward to PR2012 as from what I understand the REAL changes are going to be then - which I cant really comprehend now in comparative terms as my mind cannot think of how this will happen given the amount of changes that have happened so far.

    Thank you PR 2012 core instructors Gary, Vici and Sterling for all the help so far.

    Fucking psyched

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    Introductory Post

    Counting down: Project Rockstar's about to begin, and I’m both excited and anxious. I’m amazed by how much the pre-training program alone has already changed my life by pushing me to achieve goals I would have never gone through with otherwise. The diet and fitness program has been a great introduction for things to come. It has shown us that we can achieve seriously insane results together in a short period of time if we just stay focused. I can honestly say that I am in the most amazing shape of my life right now because of this program. I can only imagine the changes I will have made by the end this summer!

    So a short introduction to me and how I got here is that women have always been a part of my life, but I’ve always had a difficult time understanding them. I’ve also never felt my success in life (career, accomplishment, awesome hobbies, etc…) has been paralleled by my success with women so I dedicated myself to changing this a couple years ago. I’ve been getting attraction from average girls since I was very young, so that was never a major problem, aside from me wanting the hottest girls who only seemed to get interested in me on rare occasions. The biggest barrier I had to overcome was learning to be physically dominant in a way that women find attractive, and moving the interaction forward quickly by taking risks. I slowly figured out that girls needed to be led to sex and that it was entirely my responsibility. I had also been in a serious long-term relationship for the last couple years of college, and when we broke up, I began dating other girls and was completely dissatisfied with the lack of quality available to me through cold approach. This drove me to improve my dating options and I found the dating community and have since had several great experiences and realizations which have shown me how quickly things can (and most of the time should) move. I would still say dominance is an area of my game that has the most room for improvement and I think the program will help with that greatly.

    Honestly, when I first heard about Project Rockstar, I just thought it was a long trip that the participants took which just involved two months of game in different countries… Sounded fun, but I couldn’t convince myself it was worth rearranging two months of my life until I did more research and found out how much more to it there is than that. Difficulty is my change agent, and my success has always been proportional to the pressure I put on myself. I’ve always wanted to go through an experience like this just to see how far I can push the limits it because I know they can be stretched farther than I think. I’ve always known that I was meant to do big things, and I’m addicted to continuously improving myself and exceedingly happy with what I find as I shed the obstructions holding me back and get what I ultimately want.

    So I know Rockstar won’t be easy, and I like that. Everything worth doing is a struggle in some way. I also believe I am mentally prepared to man up to any obstacles that provide me discouragement. So bring on the change, I’m ready for the summer of a lifetime!

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    So to reflect on the pre-program a bit, It’s been 3 months since it started and my life is already buzzing with change. As I write this, I'm in the best physical shape I've ever been and I am more clear-minded and prepared to experience this 9 week lifestyle transformation than I ever thought I could be. The 3 months leading up to the program have been anything but easy. When that first email came through saying that we would be strictly controlling our diet and working out every single day, I was not looking forward to it. Not that I didn’t want to get in better shape, but the internal resistance to change started kicking in and the excuses started flowing; “worrying about my diet and working out this much is not really something I have time for,” “I am in good enough shape already, I play sports like 4 days a week,” “I can’t drink any alcohol or eat any fruit for the next three months – this is gonna suck!” I obviously didn’t know at the time that the dedication and results from doing this would change my life in ways that I couldn’t have predicted.

    I have learned several things throughout the pre-program, training-wise and game-wise. Training wise, I learned that the mind usually gives up before the body. This applies to pushing yourself past what you think is possible. When you’re at a point where you don’t think you can go anymore or push any harder, your body can still go on, it’s just your brain telling you that it’s time to quit. I’ve also learned so much about calories, nutrition, metabolism and supplementation that I don’t really even know where to begin. From cutting calories at times to shed weight quickly, to eating lots of calories to put on lean mass, I was able to learn several tricks to how I can use eating as a tool to get my body to look how I want it to. Personally, I went from 18% body fat down to under 10% in the first 9 weeks, which got me very strong and healthy, then I built up my lean mass like crazy in the last 3 weeks with the dramatic transformation principle and spikes in calories. The diet was such an important part of the transformation as it fuels your body with foods it needs, and cuts out food it can’t do anything with. I did have some cheat meals throughout the diet which also taught me some lessons: mainly that eating in an uncontrolled way doesn’t make you feel any better, in fact it usually makes you feel worse. That said, a certain amount of controlled cheat meals are ok every once in a while. I usually did this to reward myself after a progress milestone. Finally, I’ve learned the crucial role sleep plays on recovery, good eating habits, and your overall health and well being. If there were one thing I’d say is the most important as far as making it easy on yourself to achieve the results you want it would be to get enough sleep. I’ve gone through periods of good sleep and periods of bad sleep throughout this transformation, and I can definitely say that the periods of good sleep were responsible for around 80% of my results and progress from the program.

    As for game, the pre-program has already taught me some of the key concepts and mindsets that one needs to grasp to be great at this stuff. We’ve been prepared with many examples and clear pictures of what ideal interactions need to look like. Much of this has been done by studying effective teasing strategies, role playing scenarios, developing conversational themes and banter, as well as learning from the examples of others.

    I’ve also learned an import life lesson from the pre-program, which is that there are two requirements to achieving success: the first and more obvious is hard work. You need to work your ass off to get things worth having, it’s simple but true. There were many nights when I didn’t have the energy to go to the gym, and I had to push through that and go get it done anyway. The second requirement is discipline. How well you can control your discipline ultimately determines how successful you will be in almost any walk of life. This also played a part in the body transformation. You can work crazy hard in the gym every night, but unless you also focus on the self-discipline it takes to maintain strict control over your diet and what you put into your body, you’re limiting your progression. It is those who both work hard and have strong self-discipline that are always the most successful.

    My final note for this post is that even though the pre-program was painful and I had to push myself several times when I didn’t want to, I am now feeling better and more motivated than ever, and every bit of sacrifice has been worth it. I have gotten to a point where a healthy lifestyle has become a habit, and working out and pushing myself in the gym has become something I love to do. The only thing I regret is waiting so long to enjoy the benefits of a healthy diet and a solid physique.

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    Introduction

    I'm writing this on the morning of the first day of Rockstar2012! I had prepared my introductory post in advance of this date, but after seeing the other posts realised that I could do better. And I suppose that is what excites me the most about Rockstar. The prospect of meeting a group of highly motivated and like minded guys who are all striving for excellence in every area of their lives. This team aspect I hope will drive everyone forward to achieve things beyond their current dreams and ideas of what is possible. And even though it's not quiiiiiite the same, there is a certain feeling I have this morning as if I'm 16 again about to go on rugby tour with 'the lads'.

    My journey to applying for Rockstar 2012 began almost a year ago after I signed up for the 10-day bootcamp in Stockholm (August11), which coincided with the end of last years' Project Rockstar. Although I had had some experience with game prior to this, this bootcamp really changed my perspective on what was possible. To be around so many talented, driven and humble people all striving for self improvement had a big impact on me. After the experience of this bootcamp my life has taken many positive turns, not just in relationships but in a general sense also. I attribute this largely to the new model of game, Game 3.0 that was taught on this bootcamp. Once I heard that Project Rockstar would be running in 2012, and that it would be headed up once again by Sterling and Gary, I knew that I had to apply.

    Despite the progress I've made since then, I'm still not happy with the quality of women in my life. I'm generally told that I'm hard on myself and always feel I can do better, which is a good thing and a bad thing. It's a bad thing because sometimes I fail to recognise my accomplishments and that messes with my sense of self worth. It's a good thing because I know that I won't settle for less than what I dream is possible, and I see Rockstar as a platform for this.

    I also see Rockstar as a platform for developing new passions that will drive me forward in to the lifestyle I intend to live for the rest of my life. As I'm sure with some of the other participants, I have effectively dropped my life and a chunk of money to be part of this. I think that is an important step to make. I'l be homeless and have what can only be described as an 'indefinite' career path proceeding Rockstar. But I think I have just about the right mix of excitement and fear to make it work! One thing I have realised from the fitness aspect of the pre-training is that you don't truly know if you're passionate about something until you experience it, in an intense way and (not necessarily) over a prolonged period of time. Rockstar = new experiences = new passions.

    On top of the personal goals that I have for relationships, business and fitness, it is the group aspect of this that ultimately makes it all worth while. What I witnessed last year in Stockholm during the end of Rockstar 2011 was a group of guys who you would think were lifelong friends if you didn't know otherwise. These personal friendships were built over 2 months and this is testament to the intensity of Rockstar. There will be moments of pain, awkwardness and disappointment but in the end it will all be worth it. And we wouldn't have it any other way.

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    Pre Training Reflection

    After receiving the news that I was going to be a Rockstar, the preparation has been intense. Hitting the ground running will be invaluable to getting as much out of the Rockstar experience as possible, and by the time it comes around we will be bringing that level of intensity in our preparation to the very first day of Rockstar. The preparation has involved a rigorous 12 week diet/workout plan to ensure we all arrive at Rockstar in peak physical fitness. Every meal is planned, every workout is precise and cardio is done daily for 40 minutes. I remember reading the blogs last year and somewhere Gary being quoted as saying “this is not Project w, this is Project ROCKSTAR”. Well let me tell you, this workout program has left me under no illusions as to the nature of this program. We are here because we want to be challenged and we want to grow. That doesn't come easy.

    We have also been given weekly game assignments to complete. These have involved he said/she said exercises, engaging our creative side with banter themes and completing a hypothetical best mans speech! These should all give us the platform to start the program fast and allow the guys running it to focus on deeper aspects of game which ultimately separate “good game” from “great game”.

    Over the weeks leading up to the program, I already began to experience what I call "The Rockstar Effect". During the transformation I have changed my body from a bloated and overweight 5ft8, 170lbs, 20%bf to a lean 5ft8 (damn plateau) 155lbs, 12%bf. I am happy with these results and feel like they would not have been possible without the prospect of Rockstar. I mean they would have been POSSIBLE but they would likely not have been achieved. When I'm slogging away on the treadmill I tell myself “these other guys are probably some motivated motherfuckers, lets just put the incline up .5% more” or something to that effect. At the end of the day I am only ever competing with myself, but it certainly helps my short term motivation to know that there are 7 other Rockstars doing this alongside me around the world.

    One thing that has been interesting to note is the way that people react to you when you have lost weight/change your body composition. For the most part I have received a lot of positive comments from my friends and family, because I am lucky enough to have solid friends and family. If I mention that my diet is coming to an end though, I get asked “oh what now?” as if they expect me to suddenly get fat. The reality is that I have learnt so much about my body and about how to diet/exercise for a certain goal that I need never be in the confused state that I was in prior to the transformation. I know how cutting and bulking works and I know that 3500kcal=1lbs fat. I know the difference and merits to metabolic and tension oriented training, I know my base metabolic rate, my total daily energy expenditure and above all I know that behind all that fat was some goddam abs!! My goal now is to get down to around 10% bf. I know with what I've learnt that this is very achievable and that achieving this goal is entirely within my control. The habits and knowledge that I've picked up along the way on this transformation will stay with me for a lifetime.

    This is part one of the “Rockstar effect”; forming positive habits coupled with the motivation I get through the prospect of Rockstar enabling me to achieve something that previously seemed impossible. Part two is linked, it is all linked, but part two relates to self esteem and a sense of purpose. I am so excited to be a part of Rockstar and so psyched to have improved my fitness to a point where I am in the best shape of my life. All these positive things have naturally had a knock on effect on my game. 'Aura' is a fairly abstract concept. But it is often easy to look around and see who has 'it'. Who is happy with themselves, who is doing something they love or who is excited about the prospect of doing something amazing. I come in to Rockstar on an emotional high and feeling mentally and physically prepared for what lies ahead. Now I just need some clothes that fit!

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    On my way to Montreal right now with Future. Going to be an epic experience guys.
    E-mail me at intrigue@lovesystems.com if you are interested in working with me. Serious inquiries only!

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    Introduction

    So it is finally here. I am currently waiting in the hotel lobby to meet the guys and get checked into my room.
    It is almost surreal that this about to start. It seems so long ago since I applied to the program in February. I still can’t believe I took two months off from work to do this. I didn’t mention to most people what I was doing. Hopefully they all don’t talk to each other because my story wasn’t always consistent.
    There were two main reasons I choose to apply. One, naturally I wanted to improve my game. On some level I have had some decent successes with women in my life but I wanted to kick it up a notch. I wanted to get my game to the point where I am consistently hooking up with the women I want to hook up with and where I am the chooser. Who ever I end up with in the future I want there to be no element of settling. And until that moment comes I hope to have a good time finding her….. ok… a really good time.
    The second reason I choose to apply was that I wanted to turbo charge my personal development. I wanted to take my social skills, body language, presence, humor, charisma, confidence, networking, relationship development and a whole host of other “soft skills” and take them to a whole new level. While all of those skills will help me more with the ladies, I see them as skills that will help me more in life in general. Help me become the best self I can possibly be….
    And with that in mind here I am. It wasn’t easy getting away for two months. Work to say the least was not happy. How often does the opportunity come around to just focus two months on personal growth and development in a structured environment…. Not often. So the die is cast; let the adventure begin.

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    Pre-training reflection

    There was a bit of a pre-work before the main event. Over the last three months the instructors put us on a big time fitness program that was freaking awesome. Over the course of the program I ended up gaining ~13 pounds. Definitely have never been in as good of shape as I currently am. As your going through it you don’t really realize the changes that are happening. But when you get people saying how jacked you look based on some photos that were put up on facebook it does feel good.
    Sticking with the fitness program was not easy. There were many nights where I hardly slept trying to get everything done. My job is a bit insane. However, seeing the end results have been great and now the tough part will be to maintain.
    In addition to fitness the instructors had us practice a bunch of game exercises. I enjoyed these particularly the he-said she-saids. Although now I need to actually think of this stuff on the spot when I don’t have an unlimited amount of time to come up with the perfect response. That will be what the next two months in part are about.

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    Congrats Rockstars,
    Loved the posts and can't to hear your adventrues. Was wondering if you guys would be allowed to post some of your guys workouts for others that want to do a full body transformation. Looking forward to more posts.
    Cheers
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    James P Introduction

    Hey Guys. Thought for my first PR2012 blog entry I’d just tell you a little bit about myself, my journey with PU material so far, and the reason why I wanted to join rockstar (why wouldn’t I!?).
    Anyways, for all intensive purposes my name is James P and I am 27 years old. Growing up I was always the smallest kid in my class and by high school the smallest kid in high school. Luckily, I had a good group of friends and a pretty outgoing personality to compensate. By the time I got into University I hit a growth spurt and got up to 5’9. But I was still a baby faced kid. Anyways, I definitely had and still kind of have somewhat of an inferiority complex and never really quite felt like I deserved attractive women.
    I was lucky that the guys I hung out with were all kind of alpha males(ish) and were always bringing new groups of girls into our group that I got to interact with and on the occasional lucky night (where alcohol was involved) got to get to 2nd or 3rd base with. But I never had a girlfriend or anything like that because I had no game and looking back, was definitely needy.
    I lost my virginity when I was 19 at a party. She was a hot slut. I was in my third year of University.
    Shortly thereafter, I read “The Game” and it blew my mind. It made me aware of so many things I either took for granted or didn’t even know were going on. However, all the ‘lines’ and ‘canned openers’ didn’t jive with me well because they didn’t seem genuine to me and I knew I was always best when I was immersed in the moment and not trying to remember my next line.
    From there I got into a lot of stuff about body language as well as the Love Systems material (eg. Magic Bullets). I liked the Love Systems material because it gave me structure and frameworks I could work within, while still using my own witt and personality.
    So anyways, I really started to come into my own after I graduated from University and had started to internalize some of the stuff I had been learning. I wasn’t really approaching girls, but I was pretty good at social engineering and if pulled into a set I would use a lot of cocky funny and my own fun personality to escalate things.
    Right out of uni, I got a job serving tables instead of getting an engineering job, (it was something I had always wanted to do), and this turned out to be the best decision I ever made. I had the best year of my life serving tables.
    Approaching table after table and building rapport and showing my personality became amazing practice for me. I didn’t even care about the tips, (that was a bonus), I just thoroughly enjoyed the interaction. It really helped me develop my personality really well. I quickly became “team captain” at the restaurant and threw all the staff parties and such. Most of my co-workers were students at the nearby university, so they were all really awesome, dynamic people; still friends with a lot of them.
    Along the way, I met a new co-worker girl and we quickly fell in love. She was completely out of my league (or so I thought) but everything I ever wanted in a girl, beautiful, sassy, sexy, funny, intelligent, fun. Because of my confidence at the time and my status around the restaurant, she fell for me hard. The next two years were the most volatile, confusing, frustrating, exhilarating times I’ve experienced. I was not ready for the passionate relationship that ensued and did not know how to handle a girl like her. Without getting into the details, we broke up two years later and I was bitter and confused and ultimately jaded. I kind of forgot all the stuff I had learned along the way and started to turn introverted and more shy around people. I think it came down to trust.
    What I realized shortly thereafter, was that I was still reacting and not creating my own luck with women. I also began to realize that I had some strong deserving issues and some deep rooted insecurities.
    What I’m hoping to get out of Project Rockstar is to use some of the skills I’ve already developed in combination with the tools the Project Rockstar Instructors will provide to get to a point where I am choosing which women I bring into my life. I want to be able to attract the kind of high quality high value women that I would one day like to marry. I also want to immerse myself in this community that I think is so healthy and so helpful to the men that are brave enough to dive in. I know I am going to make a lot of friends with a lot of amazing people.
    The other big thing I’m looking forward to for Project Rockstar is being pushed out of my comfort zone. Growth happens in the unknown, and I’m about to dive in headfirst.
    Really psyched and anxious. Looking forward to Day #1.

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    Pre-Training Reflection Post

    For the 3 months leading up to Project Rockstar, we were put on a work-out regime to either bulk up and put on muscle, or to cut weight. We were split into two groups, gainers and losers. I was a gainer. My starting weight was around 150lbs and I had 13.5% Body Fat.
    Knowing that we were going to be working out hard didn’t really scare me as this is something that I’ve been pretty consistent with since my University days. I noticed pretty early on in Uni that the ripped guys with the big muscles were typically also the ones taking down the babes at the campus bar.
    Even though I have working out for 7+ years, I never really took it overly seriously and never got into supplementation other than protein shakes. Moreso, I had never been a big eater.
    Needless to say, even though the working out wasn’t tough, the eating was INSANE! I have never ever ever ever even thought about eating as much food as I did for the 3 months leading up to Project Rockstar, let alone actually doing it. I was essentially eating every 1.5 to 2 hours and it was all clean protein (chicken, salmon, tenderloin steak) and clean carbs (yams and brown rice).
    It took a whole of 5 days for me to get sick of eating, but it was something that I made a commitment to do, so I had to stick it out. Although I appreciate the huge gains made over the course of the 3 months (dropped to below 10% BF while bringing my weight up to 160lbs), I don’t think it was very easy on my body.
    Once Project Rockstar concludes I am determined to continue to bring my weight up to over 170lbs but likely with a more forgiving timeline.
    That all being said, all my coworkers noticed the changes in my body especially in my arms and my ass. I actually started splitting pants because I was getting bootylicious.

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    PR Day1-2

    DAY 1
    Still pinching myself to see if it is real. Im sure a lot of others can relate when I say that these opportunities don’t happen to people like me. Well work hard enough and you will get there. If I can you can.

    Everyone met, for a lot of us, for the first time. There was that normal tender awkwardness upon everyone but all the guys are super cool guys and we will all get along great for sure. Im bunking with my fellow boy from oz.

    We met in Gary's suite for the introduction. Everyone took turns in giving there background stories. Every single guy comes from a completely different background, but there is a commonality amongst all that we are all looking to become fucking awesome. It was great hearing also from the instructors and their backgrounds but also huge props to alumni rockstars (some of which are instructors and I know there are a lot more to come) ac’s and mentors.

    After background stories we dug a little deeper and everyone revealed why they were here. A lot of the stories got deep, but it definitely created a great connection amongst everyone.

    Finishing off we were told the rules and regulations of the program, each and every person involved, rockstars and instructors etc have put in huge efforts to come together to make this happen so it is only fair that we give our best shot and follow these rules.
    Our first night out was for a dinner then to see where we were at with our game. Me, personally for the night, was off a little but that’s fine, I was nervous, and i was in a situation that was so different to normality for me. Everyone was there having fun, everyone was talking to all of the girls around the bar, we winged for each other, doing the best we could for the small amount of time we spent together. I thought that it might take a few weeks until we all really gel together, but after seeing everyone tonight, I honestly believe it will only be a number of days until we are pulling off some incredible shit in bars together.

    Day2:
    Ever since getting to Canada a few days early its been non stop partying with one of the other rockstars. So I finally got a small sleep in, about 6 hours sleep so feeling a little better. Found a shop to pick up some supplements from for the few weeks we are here and headed for a quick gym session before beginning seminar. Small, typical hotel gym but the equipment should be good enough to maintain our bodies that we have put so much effort into. Had just enough time to smash a protein shake and head into basically our first seminar session.

    We covered so much content today, so much. Went through a few goals for the program and caught an insight into what we are looking to develop into. Future covered his Big 10. He is an awesome teacher, funniest guy. A lot of what today was about, was just things that we knew anyway. Stuff that was in our minds but maybe we had forgotten about them, or had never looked at them broken down in such a way.

    We also ran some exercises. Partnering up doing he said she saids, and an exercise that was huge for me in just keep on talking. Talking about a subject for a couple of minutes non-stop. Forcing your brain to keep thinking, getting you through those awkward moments where you don’t know what to say. If you just keep talking then you will eventually find a tangent into something that you will then fluidly be able to speak about.

    We broke down how conversations are structured and numerous ways to move forward with it. All this was awesome stuff that was fairly new to me. Seminar ended with vici covering traditional opening and transitioning which was review for most.
    Today was good to start thinking back to the basics of game. Especially after last night where I was in my head a little bit because there was some external pressures there from a lot of new guys. Tonight will be awesome.

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    Day 1 & 2

    Wow. What a first day! After a 42 hour flight from Australia to Canada stopping 4 times along the way, exhausted would be an understatement! I cant believe I am finally here and this is really happening!

    After checking in we all met each other and introduced ourselves. All the rockstars are frickin cool, we are all from very different, interesting backgrounds and I think we are all going to gel as a group. Sterling gave a very inspirational talk about leaving our old lives behind and drawing a line in the sand, crossing over that line and not looking back from here on out. That was my old life, now this is my new life, there’s no going back. With that decision comes certain responsibilities and we have to give this next 9 weeks our all. It was really moving stuff for everyone there.

    Later that night we all went out for dinner to get to know each other better. After this we had our first night of gaming for the instructors to see where each of us is currently at and what we need to work on. I started the night off really nervous and clunky. It took me a while to get comfortable, This is usually what happens most nights I go out to game but I think it was a little exaggerated by being around 20 new people and the jet lag probably didn’t help either. The important thing to me is I opened anyway and after a few awkward sets I started to feel more comfortable. I opened a Mexican girl and it went really well, after talking for a while I led her to a quieter part of the bar where we made out for a while and she gave me her number. I felt a bit more confident after this and approached a bunch more sets during the night that went ok.


    Day 2 was a theory day. The highlights for me would defiantly be Futures 10 rules of game lecture. The way he delivered it was so humorous but also very insightful. When he speaks he captivates the whole room, he is very animated and speaks with a lot of passion. He highlighted some things that really resonated with me. One being to never determine what is possible with a girl before you actually find out for yourself by testing the boundaries, this means never assuming anything such as “that guys her boyfriend” etc. Another was to keep talking even when it gets awkward as this is how you learn and grow, if you keep running away every time it gets weird or uncomfortable you will stagnate. Both things I am very excited to go out and practice tonight. I am jetlagged as hell and my mind is hurting right now from all the information. I am going to get some sleep before we hit it again tonight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misyc View Post
    Congrats Rockstars,
    Loved the posts and can't to hear your adventrues. Was wondering if you guys would be allowed to post some of your guys workouts for others that want to do a full body transformation. Looking forward to more posts.
    Cheers
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    http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/kris...y-trainer.html.

    This is the one we did. I ate a little differently than Kris, I am tall and skinny so I had add my body weight in pounds and x 24, thats how many caloires I had to eat per day. to gain wieght. 40% of that carbs. 40% protien and 20% good fats such as olive oil and the fats that come naturally in the lean meats you will be eating. I used a lot of weight gain powder, about 30 kgs in 3 months.

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    I am so excited for you guys, I remember the feeling like it was yesterday.

    Rockstar has certainly changed my life for the better and I still keep in close contact with fellow alumni. Now a year on from it last year, I have a super hot girlfriend, my business is making more money than ever before, I'm taking on deals larger than I would have had to confidence for in the past, I am making better gains in the gym, I have closer relationships with family and friends, and just love my life in general (which wasnt the case before Rockstar).

    Unfortunately it is unlikely that I will make it out this year, as I am so busy in my business it is totally consuming me at the moment. But I will be there in spirit and keeping up to date along the way!

    I can't wait to hear more about your journey, and looking forward to meeting those of you that I do not already know (which is 4 of you I think).

    Have you guys shared any more about your background anywhere? As most of you have just written about your history with women... I personally would love to hear more about where you have come from in terms of life experiences etc. if you don't mind sharing....

    Anyway, hope to see you all in the near future!

    Gary, Sterling, Vici... Keep on kicking ass and changing lives!
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    We've gotten through 3 and a half days of Rockstar now, and I quite seriously have no idea where to start. We've been doing a seminar that I expected would be good, but I thought the few days would be a repackaging of info I already knew, with big relevations later. I was right in a sense, but very wrong in others. Today and yesterday in particular contained some huge pieces of info related to how an interaction can be advanced through body language and physical contact. If you're reading this, I'm sure you've heard that body language contains most of the content of a communication a thousand times. What I had never heard was that you can create both attraction and a degree of warmth and gentler human connection using physical escalation, proximity, and eye contact (particularly the first two). I had always thought of physical contact as something that must be earned by attraction, not something that could create it. If you stop and think about it, it's almost a “duh!” moment, but it's so huge. I'm sure you've had someone that you were only mildly attracted to give you a back massage before, and next thing you know you find that you're suddenly attracted to them. Some of the other very valuable information has involved frameworks that allow the generation of routines on the spot, rather than trying to memorize tons of routines. I'm a big fan of learning abstractions that generate the information you need, rather than memorizing the information. It's like learning how to do multiplication, rather than memorizing a multiplication table (and no one memorizes those any more!). Since just saying that would probably leave you pissed off if I didn't give an example, one of the big things was using what Sterling and Gary called “filters” to create a passionate piece on something in your life. By describing, in abstracted but profound terms, how something significant to you has the elements of “past”, “fear/failure”, “perspective”, “adversity”, and “defining moment”, you can create a story that the girl you're talking to can imagine herself being in, feel emotions by listening to, and that can display high value beliefs and characteristics. Preferably in a way that implies you have those traits, rather than saying “I do this, I own this, I've been there, I've dated that.”
    Besides that, I've been fucking loving my time with the instructors. Future is a hilarious mother fucker. He dominated the conversation at the 3 hour never ending dinner we had the first night, keeping half the table of 20 people laughing until their cheeks got a workout that would make Gethin proud. And you better believe it's not easy to dominate a conversation in this group. He's also constantly picking girls up and carrying them around. On the elevator one day he went through a made up relationship with a girl next to him that started with “I'm having a fucking hard time with the fact that you haven't called me back after that beautiful night” (paraphrasing), went through marriages, divorces, and psycotherapy, all in 22 floors. We haven't had the fortune of seeing Gary, Sterling or Vici do many pickups to this point, but they're brilliant teachers and I've been having a blast just shooting the shit with them. Gary and I can have a fantastic conversation about all kinds of intellectual topics with no problem, especially in self improvement. All of the instructors, both from our program and the instructors that are visiting, can't say enough about how incredible Gary is in the field. He certainly knows what he's talking about, and I've seen proof that he has VERY beautiful women in his life. Starlight is just an awesome dude, great to hang out with. Then he busts out in a set and just has the right thing to say at all times and never loses the smile on his face. His teaching points are exact and very helpful. And my brother from another motha, who I have to ask for his nickname and thus I will call Big J for now (I'll update later with Big J's nickname - think it might be Intrigue), is the perfect instructor to go out with because he just chills with us like an old buddy, goes into sets with us or watches what we're doing, and then steps in and gives exactly what we need. He brings a comfort to any interaction when he's around. We went to a strip club the other night and he was talking to a very legitimate 9.5-10 and the hottest girl I've ever seen in a strip club, and even long after he said he wasn't buying a dance she was telling him how sexy she thought he was. When she asked him for a dance, without missing a beat he goes “Nah, I'm too tired to dance right now. Plus it's really not that fun for you if I give you a lap dance and have to keep all of my clothes on.” I was talking to the second hottest girl for quite some time and pushed through a lot of barriers to finally make some good headway with her. Needless to say, Big J and I are DEFINITELY going back there! Possibly later tonight. Keep posted for some more great stories about that!

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    Blog 1

    We've just finished day 3 of the program and things started with some introductions and a group meal in the evening. When I arrived at the hotel, I hadn't even checked my stuff in before I saw one of the hottest girls I've ever seen in the flesh. Obviously this was no coincidence, the girl was here visiting Gary before the program kicked off. I think everyone was pretty excited to learn from this guy. We moved in to the introductions and there was naturally a slightly subdued atmosphere. Then Sterling got us to do this visualisation exercise and expand to the group on why we were really here. This was awesome and everyone learned a lot about each other really quickly. We're all from very different and diverse backgrounds but it's cool to see there are many commonalities in the group that have brought us all together to be a part of Rockstar.

    The meal on Sunday night dragged on forever. Fortunately I was sat next to Future who has the most amazing energy and ability to have fun and engage with people. He said something that really stuck with me about making decisions, whether they be good ones or bad ones. Because decisions give you experiences and that leads to a bible of awesome stories. When you're on your death bed and that's all you have left, you will regret the decisions you didn't make more than anything else.

    The following day we moved in to the seminar which focussed heavily on sub-communications. It was great to begin with this as it's probably the most important aspect of game, but is traditionally overlooked. We practiced on each other which was awkward but eye opening and I was able to realise some of the things I naturally did and how that reflected my self image. I learnt to be more definite in my movements and Starlight did a great example for John M and I. His body language is very smooth and laid back but also completely dominant and masculine. After that we looked at some abstract concepts relating to passion and what it means to be a man, as well as how to relate to people through filters which bring your personal stories relevance to everyone. Sterling and Gary did a great job helping us bring our stories to life through the lens of a “life lesson”. That evening was a tough night for me as I struggled to open, but I forced myself to stay out when I was completely out of state so I guess that one positive was that I found some things out about myself very quickly.

    The next day the issue with opening was quickly addressed and the instructors brought in a rule for me where I have to open 3 sets within the first 15 minutes of arriving to the venue. We went through the Game 3.0 model and discussed the difference between chemistry and conversation. This was really all about how to inject sexual tension through your sub-communications and how to hold that tension and escalate it rather than break it, which is a trap I think I have fallen in to in the past. It's amazing all this stuff can be broken down to very simple but broad concepts like masculinity, warmth and passion. It's easy to see how everything that successful people do boils down to these abstract ideas when it's analysed through the model of Game 3.0.

    That evening I was in the Future, Intrigue, Starlight group and we hit a really big and lively venue which was a ton of fun. As soon as I walked in I started to open and after getting 3 or 4 sets in I was feeling good and in state. Future's 10 rules of pickup http://www.futuristicwords.com/futures-big-10/ really resonated with me and I was able to see that if I'm not having fun that is MY fault and I should not let myself be so affected by the environment and my thoughts. My favourite set that night I opened with a line from Vici, “how did he do” after I saw this hot blonde girl blow out some guy near the bar. She was semi engaged then I just told her she was hot in a very matter of fact way and things opened up from there. I opened a few sets direct that night and they were easily the best ones. Lessons from that night were to keep opening if my state dips and to go direct because it's really powerful and gives you that surge of masculine energy that brings out all the right sub-communications.

    The first few days have been up and down for me but I already feel I have learned a lot. The most important thing for me is to have fun and to express my sexuality more through my body language. Remembering that fun is something you 'do' rather than a random/uncontrollable lottery is important. A lot of the technical stuff I try and distance myself from because my mind is already over analytical. I need to actively practice taking risks and pushing boundaries in set rather than just trying not to be overly cautious (there is a big difference). I'm going to make progress infield with this over the next few days and am really looking forward to the weekend. We update every 3 days so my goal for the next blog is to have some “in set risks” to talk about and hopefully a blowout or get blown story for the fans. Time to hit the gym now.

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    Its been an amazing first few days and we've learnt some amazing throughtout the course. It seems like a journey almost even though its just been 3 days.

    We met the Rockstars on the Sunday and did our introductions. One of the memorable moments was when we went around the room and asked why are we at Project Rockstar. We all answered. Then Sterling asked us again to dig deeper and tell the group why we are really at Rockstar and we all answered again. That was when each and every Rockstar shared their experiences whole heartedly. I was astounded by ALL of the answers that the rockstars gave, and I see them in that light that makes me feel that yes we have all seen some good and bad times but we are all unique in a way that we made it anyway with our sheer determination.

    Sunday was also when we went out to dinner. Gary had this 12 on his arm and we all went to this chic italian place that later turned into a nightclub. Good times.

    We started off the seminar on topics that are the cornerstone of Game 3.0 fun/Warmth/Passion/Masculinity/Sexualization. This has seriously blown my mind away. Its backward engineering some of the most awesome game and also subsequently exposes what wrong with the weaker technique which mostly result in failure i.e. not getting the girl.

    Future shared his 10 rules of pickup which is something I will always keep in mind and refer too.


    Future has a very strong presence which one can learn a lot from. The funny is always oozing out of his pores. And as he puts it - its because hes been doing pickup for "years and years and years and years and years and years".

    The following days Gary and Sterling took the seminars to a whole different level

    Its amazing how they developed a formula of the filters to run stories that convey your passion through - its like a secret sauce. This was a serious home run for me personally as I never really told stories in set because it never really hit. Embedded DHV stories didnt feel right when I told them. Gary and Sterling also covered non-verbal and verbal sexualization which was fucking money.

    I have no doubt my game is going to explode. Hide yo kids, hide yo wife and maybe even your grandma.

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    We're now on day 3 of Rockstar and the amount we've learnt in such a short span of time has been awesome. It's great meeting so many awesome people that are all successful in their own rights and willing to sacrifice alot and push hard to live the life they want to live. On the first day we all had to go around and individually speak about why we're here. It's amazing how much quicker you can bond with people once you lay it all out there. I have friends that I've had for years and I have a feeling that in the next week I will know more about my fellow Rockstars than most of those friends. In order to improve different aspects of your life you first have to recognize that there is an issue and be man enough to make the change. I think there is an inherent respect amongst everyone here for being able to look themslves in the mirror and recognize that there is a void in their lives and will do what it takes to fill that void.

    Walking into the room on the first day Gary was with this smoking hot girl that was really sweet. It was cool because you know that if you push yourself those are the type of girls you can have in your life. The seminars so far given by Sterling Gary and Vici have been so money. The models are so organic and make everything so much more simple. I find it so much easier to go out and not have to focus on canned routines.


    Last night I was speaking with Future and while we were speaking I shared with him a certain small issue that I was dealing with -- I've got a lot going for me and to some extent I feel a sense of shame inside about having to be on program to learn how to meet the type of girls that I want. This way of thinking is really flawed. Even if your fit you can still push yourself to new limits with a trainer. It should really almost be a sense of pride to be able to notice an issue and take steps towards making a change. Most people don't do this. The strength to go after what you want no matter what it takes is what separates the men from the boys.


    Every single night I've been out so far I've felt nervous. However, the more approaches I do the less nervous I become with each one because I don't care about the outcome as much. Starlight mentioned a great way to get into state once you get into a bar or club -- go up to 3-4 girls and just give them a compliment. There is no pressure to stay in set but it generally gets positive reaction and it just gets you talking to girls. I used this last night and it really helped. If there's a girl walking on the street you can even say something like "those shoes are fucking badass". Anything to get you in the mode of talking and getting in the zone.


    One thing I really need to work on is pushing my limits. I've started to focus more on touching and making things more sexual from the get go but I still feel kind of weird about it. I've seen that you can move things a lot quicker then you think you can. I watched z ripper and J intrigue pull girls back to the hotel within 10 minutes of meeting them -- Epic. It made me realize that you can make just about anything happen if you believe that it can happen. It also made me realize that you need to be able to pull the trigger. Last night I was talking to these 2 girls with Chris M and things were definitely getting sexual and at the crecsendo I should have pulled the trigger and I didn't. Once you pass that point things often go kind of flat and its tough to build it up again. Lesson learned.

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    It’s the third day of Rockstar and I can honestly say I’ve learned more about game in the past few days than I have in the all the other time I’ve spent on learning this stuff. It’s really hit me how amazing all the other rockstars are and that I’m really lucky to be here. You don’t realize how powerful this program is until you’re actually in it. I’ve worked my ass off to make it a priority to be here, and realizing the sacrifices the other guys have made as well just confirms how amazing this group is. I’ve gotten to know everyone at this point and we’re all gonna to do some serious damage in the coming weeks.

    The instructors are also bringing a level of knowledge and experience to the table that I’m sure couldn’t be found anywhere else. Sterling and Gary have introduced some concepts on organic conversation, attraction, banter, and qualification that have been super enlightening for me and have already caused drastic changes in the way I talk to girls. The responses I have gotten from some of this stuff have been mind blowing. Last night, we were out and I casually ran one of the stories they helped me develop on expressing my passion around what I do for a living and it literally caused this girl’s jaw to drop. The way it allowed her to relate to me so quickly was something that I didn’t even know could be done before this. Gary has also developed some escalation techniques and masculinity concepts that I feel will be the strongest additions to my game without a doubt. Seriously, watching him do some of this stuff is mind blowing.

    Future has an amazing teaching style and some of the most entertaining presentations I have ever witnessed. From his ten rules to his concepts on wingmanship, it has been enlightening and fucking hilarious at the same time. He’s gotten the energy of this group ramped up so successfully that I’m almost sure we’ve doubled our success because of it already. Two rules have stuck out for me the most, and have really been something I’m trying to live by throughout this whole program: Have Fun, and discover boundaries (don’t assume them). These are some of the most critical things I’ve learned, and it becomes so obvious after you’ve made a conscious focus to internalize them that if you forget about either of these, that’s when things don’t work out the way you want them to. Each night I’ve been out, having fun, whether singing little mermaid songs to girls at the top of my lungs or convincing them I’m a professional stripper have already given me some great stories to tell. On the contrary, not pushing the boundaries as hard has pretty much resulted in me not taking some awesome girls home each night.

    Intrigue and Vici have also been a great source of inspiration and are just fucking awesome guys to be around and get pumped up with. Just watching and hearing about some of their successes (like Intrigue’s 5 minute let’s get married pull two nights ago) has been entertaining and eye opening. Vici also has an amazing ability to analyze how my interactions are going within about 2 minutes from all the way across the room. Last night he gave me some great feedback on mini-isolation that really hit me hard after losing a couple girls that I could have easily hooked having used the concept. Lastly, Jesse has been awesome fun too. He’s probably one of the coolest instructors out there, and just being around him lightens the mood and gets me pumped up to do what we’re all here to do: approach, approach, approach!! I guess that’s about it for now, back to the rockstar lifestyle….

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    Thursday morning week 1
    The first few days of the program have been intense. During the last three days, we have participated in five to six hour seminars each day and gone out every night. I am really glad the instructors have set aside time today to write our blogs because after three days so many things have happened that I would like to get on paper.
    There are clearly a lot of benefits to being part of project rockstar. One of those benefits is how I get to meet and be around my fellow rockstars. They all come from different backgrounds and are working on different aspects of their game. Yet they are all incredibly established and successful people in their own right. My roommate Henry R. is a professional poker player. James T is a professional surfer and DJ. In addition to those cool professions we have a few business owners in the group. Although each of them is a very unique and different person, the common thread is that many are following their passions and carving out their own space and path in the world.
    That is a lesson that the instructors are trying to instill in us. One of the foundations of Game 3.0 is exactly that: living a life of passion. Gary really crystallized this point for me when he said that this means “sticking a pole in the sand and saying this is what I want and it is what I am going to go after.” I spent a good part of the year after getting into rockstar in a funk and it was precisely because I was not living my life fully aligned with my passions.
    After graduating from business school, I made the decision that I was going to leave the U.S. and move to another country because I really liked the country but more importantly the opportunities for the industry I wanted to work in seemed bright and promising. I ended up taking a job in another industry because it made my move easier. That was fine. However, at some point I lost sight of why I had moved there in the first place and began to settle a bit in my current job and to think of it as my career when in fact it was not. It is a great job and can lead to a rewarding career just not the one that I want. While I tried to convince myself otherwise and be happy in the job my inner core just would not accept it.
    Being a part of rockstar and seeing the example of my fellow rockstars and the instructors, I know that there is no going back. Once I get back home, I have to realign my professional life with my purpose. I think I have a very clear idea of what that is right now. Perhaps after Starlight’s lectures (which I am really looking forward to) that will change. However, what I do know is that it is not what I am currently doing.
    I briefly touched upon Game 3.0 above. This is the evolution in game that both Gary and Sterling are teaching us. I will touch a lot more on this in my blog post on Friday but I briefly wanted to touch on one of the 10 rules Future (who is incredible in action) taught us. All 10 are absolutely brilliant. But if I had to pick one that really resonated with me and that I want to try and work on it is rule number 9: everything I say is right… everything is going according to plan. During the seminar we talked about it in the context of handling the shit tests women throw at you. It is clearly useful for that. If that is your frame than I feel it makes everything else they are teaching us easier. However, this is the type of rule/ attitude/ frame that I think is transferable from the pick-up context to life in general. In some ways it is the ultimate stoic disposition and one I want to incorporate as part of my general constitution.
    In my next blog post I will discuss in more depth the amazing things we have been learning, but I wanted to briefly finish my post by mentioning where my game currently is at and what I am trying to work on. The first three days have been a bit more difficult for me than I expected. One reason for that is that we are not allowed to drink. Ever since I was young I have associated drinking, going out and hooking up together. Being out there and having to open sets with the right energy and saying funny things is a lot more difficult for me without several vodka red bulls going through my system. I get a bit nervous. Yet in the long-run I think it is going to do me a world of wonders. The chief reason I believe I didn’t advance as much after my boot camp in December – even though the boot camp with Cajun and Tenmagnet was great – was because most of the times I went out, I ended up getting too drunk and unable to consciously practice anything. I am hoping this experience will finally help me overcome that hump.
    However last night I finally felt things coming into place again. Both Intrigue and Ripper (who has been killing it the last two nights – taking a girl back one night and fingering a girl in an alley last night) were incredibly supportive in terms of observing what I was doing and giving me some great advice. I was able to open and hook lots of sets. Most of the sets I ended up leaving were because I was ejecting with the intention of coming back later. With one of the interactions I was able to use what vici taught us regarding physical escalation (his material on same night lays and sexualization is so good some of the other instructors are currently learning it and incorporating it in their game) and get her back to my room before encountering some last minute resistance. Despite that it was a good night; I am pumped and looking forward to tonight.

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    Day 1-3

    So, we’ve been through the first 3 days of seminars and the first 3 nights of going out and practicing what we’ve been learning…and all I can say is that my head hurts. I have learned so much in such a small amount of time that I found I had to write up a little cheat sheet to take to the bar with me last night. It’s awesome.

    All of the Rockstars so far seem like pretty cool, normal guys. They all come from relatively successful backgrounds and have all had some kind of success with women in the past and the common denominator between us all is that we are all driven people who all want to get better and improve the quality of our lives by handling this aspect of our lives. So far, I’ve connected the most with Brandon D who is an Engineer (like me) from Colorado and James T an ex-pro surfer from Australia. Brandon D seems a lot like me in that he is smart and witty and is here to find the missing puzzle pieces, and James T just seems like a really nice guy with a good heart and one main similar interest as me: surfing. I think James T has a lot of potential to be great because he’s tall, good looking and just seems to have some insecurities that once he can conquer, will be a machine. That being said, I’ve already seen him makeout with a certified 8 or 9 at the bar the other night. She was totally into him.

    So far we’ve been meeting up in the Vice Presidential suite of the hotel we’re at (which by the way is super swanky) around 1pm every day for our theory seminars. In addition to the Rockstars and the main instructors (Sterling and Vici) there are also some guest instructors that have joined us both to contribute their two cents in the theory sessions as well as to come out and party with us. These instructors are Future, Intrigue and Starlight. It’s really cool to see just how different all the instructors are from one another. Gary and Sterling have a ninja-like quiet but very strong presence/confidence about them, Vici seems like the cool guy from highschool that’s taking you under his wing, Starlight seems like a sweetheart with a killer instinct, Intrigue brings the party with a huge smile on his face, and Future…well…

    Day 1 was kicked off by Future giving us his 10 Rules for being successful with this material. If you have never met Future, he is hands down one of the funniest, most high energy people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. He is always ‘on’ and brings a really fun energy to anything we do. Of the 10 rules he went over, I think the one that rang the most true for me was “Don’t determine boundaries, discover them” which he put more succinctly as “Blow Me or Blow Me Out”. This really spoke to me because I know in the past I have been the guy to eject early as soon as it starts to get a little awkward with a girl or group of girls. As I’ve been applying this in the evenings, I’ve found that if you can get through the awkward parts of a conversation, it will eventually get good again and it almost shows the girl that you are confident enough to stick it out. From there the main instructors went on to discuss Openers and Living with Passion. Passion seems to be a really strong focus of the program so far under the theme of being a real man to her woman.

    Day 2 is when things really started to get interesting in the theory sessions and I started to learn a lot of things I had never learned before. The best (and worst) part of the day was when Gary taught us about using our body, eye contact, proximity and touch to escalate the interaction. I say it was the best and worst because the information was amazing but they forced us to pair up with another Rockstar and practice some of the “moves” that Gary was discussing. It was pretty funny to essentially hit on another rockstar while doing things like holding his hand or smelling his “hair”. It was pretty enlightening and hilarious all at the same time. But, if I can do it with a guy then I couldn’t wait to try it with an attractive girl. All part of the growth process I guess.

    Day 3 we got into sexualizing an interaction and this seems to be where Vici is a subject matter expert. There were a lot more demonstrations and examples of things to say that were thrown around. My toolbox is already overflowing with awesome things I can do and say to steer things in the direction I want to go. It was great.

    Going out in the evenings has been a lot of fun too. As Rockstars, we are forbidden to drink and I think that is making a huge difference for me. It felt really awkward at first to be in a really social environment while dead sober. But I found that as I opened set after set I got more and more comfortable to the point that by the end of the night I didn’t even think about it. I guess, in a way, we’re learning how to be naturally social creatures.

    One of my biggest breakthroughs is that it’s completely ok, and even more beneficial and easier, to go in direct when approaching a girl and telling her exactly how you feel. So, a lot of my approaches have simply started with “Hey, I think you’re absolutely gorgeous, my name’s James P”. The response has been generally really positive and I’ve gotten into a lot of great conversations with a lot of great girls. As the program progresses I know I will learn how to continue to escalate these interactions. But for now I’m just stoked I’ve faced a fear of direct approaching. Even this morning I mustered up the courage to tell my hot waitress that I thought she was absolutely beautiful. I wasn’t looking for a response or a reaction out of her and I think that made a big difference; I just wanted to make her day and put a big smile on her face, which it did.

    One of the funniest parts of going out so far was last night when Gary decided that it would be funny for us to have to sing the first few verses of Disney’s The Little Mermaid “Under the Sea”. The rule was, as soon as one of the guys walked into your set and started to count down from 10 you had to start singing….

    So on two occassions I was having a nice conversation with a girl when I hear “10, 9, 8, 7…” and I had to start “The seaweed is always greener in somebody else’s lake…” It was hilarious and the girls seemed to love it.

    There’s just an amazing energy between the guys when we go out together and I’m looking forward to continuing to learn and grow with everyone. Can’t imagine what else there is to learn!

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    Day 3 & 4

    Learnt about filtering stories through a few filters to create raw emotional passion. Its an epic model developed by Gary and sterling. Was something huge for me, not just for game, but life in general. Also covered a model on how an interaction should go between fun, passion and sexualisation.

    The night out, holy shit. Tonight was one of the best nights I have ever had in a nightclub, so much fun. After last night being pretty quiet it was good to see some people in the bar. I opened at least 5 sets in the first 20 minutes, all awkward as shit but everytime I ejected I laughed at how awkward it was. After a number of these I was in state ready for a banging time. Went direct on a pretty hot blonde, holding her hand as I asked her questions. Ran out of a few things to say so she bailed. I know now what I could have done to get her friend involved so she didn’t drag her away.

    Kept bouncing around the bar, winging for the other guys, opening and just having a fucking sick time. Accidently built to much attraction with a chubby girl, lovely personality, fun girl but just wasn’t the type I wanted to seduce. Got to the point where I could see she was getting to attracted so I stopped touching her completely and tried taking things back a step but she basically grabbed my face and dragged me in to kiss her. She ended up grabbing me and pulling me into her face so I made out with her for 5-10 seconds, I guess she deserved it, she worked hard lol. Went direct on another super hot blonde, probably the hottest I have ever gone direct on and it hit. Totally caught me off guard and I eventually led the conversation no where. I read the whole situation wrong when she said she had to leave, Intrigue n zac (last years PR) come straight up to me and told me I should have escalated hard and that she was into me, damn. Its awesome they saw that though and I appreciate it, push boundaries next time with super hot girls!!!

    While chillin near the bar with the boys a lil cutie walked past and look at us. I reached around someone and pulled her back in telling her she couldn’t stare and not say anything. Told her she was a little cutie, bit of teasing then made out with her within a few minutes. Went through the whole marriage role play and got her to the point where she told me she would have a 3some with me with another girl. She was a sweetheart but after a while I got bored and just number closed.

    Overall I must have been in 30+ sets, we absolutely terrorised that place. Was amazing.

    DAY 4:

    Yet again covered some more awesome shit. The biggest thing that stood out for me today was being forceful with touching. Creating that strong forceful feeling when the girl is really into you to create a huge amount of sexual tension.

    I actually tried to use my body language as much as possible tonight. Intrigue was right behind me at the perfect moment while I was in set. If he saw the girl getting uncomfortable he would just grab my body and move me away. He also took the time to do a demo on me in the middle of the club. It may sound stupid to do this in the club, but the amount of ridiculous fun this guy has, its just normal. Was pretty awesome.
    The same girl went off and I opened a 3 set, they were all pretty cute. The interaction was going nowhere but the girl from before saw me talking to them when she was heading to the toilet. On her way back when I was still there I caught her eye and smiled and she just came straight over to me, grabbed my hand and told me we were going on the dance floor. Shows how much pre-selection and jealousy plot lines work. Was a pretty cool moment for me.

    Its still only a few days in, but I have had so many realisations already about the way things work. All of what I just mentioned above, plus social proofing the room and how to get in state. Its all just baby sets, I cant picture how good my game will be at the end of 9 weeks, but I know its going to be pretty epic.

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    Week 1 Recap (July 1-7)

    It is currently 9:35pm on Saturday night and I’m sitting on my bed waiting for yet another gong show of a night to commence. We’ve been going out every night so far and I’ve been learning more and more each night and getting more and more confident as time goes on. I can also feel my Approach Anxiety becoming less and less of an issue.

    Because we’re rolling in such a big group 18-20 in all with all the periphery instructors and mentors included, we have had to split up into two groups when going out. Last night my group went to a badass club at the very top of a highrise in downtown Montreal. Can you say ballin?! It was one of the coolest (if not THE coolest) club I have ever been to and the girls were bangin.

    Shortly after entering the club I noticed a cute little asian girl whose eye I think I caught when I initially walked by. So when I walked by her again I went up to her and said “you are absolutely gorgeous, I had to meet you, my name’s Pat”. She gushed and we quickly started chatting about what she was doing in Montreal and got into an organic conversation. As instructed I made sure to use my touch to escalate the interaction while throwing in a word or two in her ear about how cute she was. About 5 minutes into talking to her, I went in for a kiss, but she gave me the cheek. Although, she didn’t kiss me, she didn’t run away, so I moved her outside and introduced her to some of the other guys. Future tried to “marry” us, but she didn’t kiss me when it came time for me to kiss the bride.

    Again, she still didn’t run way or get awkward, and even held my hand. Maybe just a slow moving girl. As time went on, I realized that this girl was going to require a lot of work and I just wasn’t ready to spend my whole night working on her. I’m here to learn not to fall in love. So, I pulled a huge dick move and brought her to the dance floor and “left to go to the bathroom”. Again, I’m here to learn, not to make friends. This is really not my style because I’m a really nice guy. But how am I supposed to get better if I continue to do the same things I would do back home?

    As the night went on I opened a ton of other sets, but most of the girls in the club seemed to be with some kind of exchange program and really stuck together or had just turned 18 and thus had really poor social skills. Either way, I teased a lot of girls and practiced escalating physically. What I mean by this is simply touching girls on the arm while I talked to them, pulling them in when I have something to say, putting my arm around their necks and on the small of their backs while also keeping the push/pull concepts in mind. Although I didn’t get any makeouts or pulls, I still feel really good about the night in general because I had a lot of fun and had a smile on my face for most of the night.

    The night before that, the rockstars went out alone without the instructors (both groups needed a break from eachother). We went to one club and within 5 minutes of being in there I walked up to a certified 9 on the dancefloor and used the same line “hey, you are absolutely gorgeous, I have to get to know you…wanna dance”. She quickly obliged and we started grinding. Because we were already doing something with sexual undertones, I decided to escalate sexually (as discussed in our theory sessions) so I started to pepper things in her ears about how sexy she was in the middle of our conversation where she was telling me what she was doing in Montreal (Law Student). The amazing thing was that everytime I said something sexual in her ear, I got immediate feedback from her body because she would grind me even harder. It got to the point to where I was as hard as a diamond in an ice storm and she was essentially thrusting herself into me. Like really working my dick like it was her job.

    Remembering what Future had said the day before, that if you are hard then chances are she is also aroused, I decided to go for the pull and whispered in her ear “wanna get out of here and fuck”…she kind of giggled and said “no…but I love your attitude”. Shortly there after her friends came and grabbed her and they left…she left me with a bruised penis and some blue balls. However, the fact that she said “I love your attitude” really opened my eyes about what you can get away with when talking to girls. They want you to escalate…they love it.

    I’m still blown away by how much the instructors have simplified things for me. I used to have so many blocks in my mind about what I could and couldn’t do. For example, I thought it was suicide to talk about work or to come in direct and introduce myself. And I’m finding that these things don’t only work, but girls actually relax and are open to having a conversation and some playful banter when it doesn’t seem like you have hidden motives. I love being transparent and upfront with girls and I think they appreciate that I’m not running “techniques” or “lines”.

    Today we discussed day game and it doesn’t seem like the approach is much different. Future showed us some videos of him running day game and to the untrained eye it looks effortless and painless. Obviously, though, it takes years of training to get to the point where you’re comfortable enough with yourself that you can open a girl on the street while suppressing your nerves. That being said, it’s not a bad thing to be nervous as long as you have the balls to approach!

    Tomorrow, we have a much deserved day off and I’m looking forward to exploring the city and taking some much needed R&R to absorb all the information they’ve jammed down our throats over the last week.

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    DAY 5:

    De-briefing last night with the instructors was great. Got some good feedback. A big thing I actually got was from Charles J’s feedback in qualifying the girl. A lot of sets in the past few nights I can now see where I may have had an opportunity to take things further. Just by simply implying that you are actually hitting on the girl and not just there to talk to her. And that can be done as simply as saying, “ come over here so I can get to know you more so I can start hitting on you”. Instead of running attraction material over and over and over again.

    The rest of the seminar was spent reviewing attraction material, teasing, roleplays, takeaways which all ties in with push pull. Following up with text game. The model Gary and sterling created makes a lot of sense. And so much work can be done in texting if done right. I can see now with so many of my past text interactions I have either been too needy or over compensated with too much teasing and not bringing it back to genuine conversation.

    First night out with no instructors, they went and did their own thing. And left us rockstars to do our thing. Most of us went for sushi, was good bonding. We didn’t end up getting out til fairly late tonight and went to the loudest venue ever straight up, like my ears were physically hurting after it. Aryeh J was feeling it though, saw him grinding up against a smoking hot blonde. Champion.

    We moved onto the next venue and caught up with some other guys. I had 3 awkward sets there and the place was full of dudes. We heard that another venue a bit more downtown was the shit on Thursday nights so we headed there. That also was where a girl I number closed a few days ago was going to be. Was actually a sweet bar, opened up to an outdoor and rooftop area. Opened another 3 awkward sets before some of the other guys found the chick from the other night. After all the sexualisation talk in seminar so far I ramped it up and bounced her out of the club and back to my room within about 10 minutes. I also got to run my passion story and she melted. So much of what the guys have been teaching us is already making so much sense.

    Day 6:

    Inner game was seminar for the day taught by Vici. I think boundaries are a pretty huge thing for me. But knowing that your boundaries must be iron. There is no reason why boundaries should be violated, but it shouldn’t need to get to the point where harsh action needs to be taken. Boundaries should be enforced early and in a nice way. Well that’s the most effective way for everyone.

    At night we went to a sweet rooftop bar. One of the better clubs I have ever been to. Most of the girls were friendly but I found the language barrier a lot, early in the night. A lot of the girls here are French Canadian and just don’t understand how aussies talk sometimes. A couple of sets went really well. One with a hot hairdresser with red hair and another with a young Italian girl. I could tell the Italian girl wanted to take things further but she was really young, 19, and was out with a few guys, them being her chaperone, as she was a very family oriented girl and that is the only way her parents would let her out. Weird but meh. Going over it I should have qualified her hard to create a real connection.

    Week 1 Wrap Up:

    Well week one was a blast. We have been bombarded with so much seminar learning, 5-7 hours a day, everyday, followed by spending all night out, every night. And I am overly exhausted. Saying that though I don’t feel like I need to slow down. I can see from now on, going out day and night, our game is going to get good, quickly.
    We finished up today with day game seminar, taught by future. It is was only a short seminar as we only needed to fill in a small number of differences, to add in from what we have already learnt this week. A big thing I noticed from futures in field videos is that you don’t have to be perfect when saying things in day game. It can sound like your very nervous, as you probably will be, and even call yourself out on being nervous. But by just having the balls to stop a girl in the day time, in the middle of the street, gives you enough value to fumble a bit.

    We finished up with group meditation. This isn’t part of the rockstar curriculum but future has been doing it for a year and a half now and notices great success. It allows you to live with less sleep essentially, which is going to be huge for rockstar, but also life after. Because fuck sleeping when you could be out having fun, right!
    I had a pretty average night out tonight, went direct on a number of girls and they all stuck around with a weird look on their face. All didn’t speak English , haha damn. From there I didn’t really know what to do, I tried talking more but they kept saying they didn’t know what I was on about. And neither did I. Vici just told me to make a love heart sign with your fingers and point at them next time. At least creates a fun vibe. Even though it was average, still fun with the guys.

    To wrap up the week, its been full on since arriving and I have barely had time to sit back and chill and take a breath. But all the guys here, instructors, mentors and especially all the rockstar boys, are the some of the coolest most successful guys I have ever met in my life. We are all starting to create some great relationships and beginning to understand each other a little more. Another night infield tonight then we get a day off tomorrow. Which I cant wait to sleep in til 12, wake up, do some meditation and just having a chill day. Beginning Monday guys, stay very up to date with our blogs, we will be going out day n night and I know there will be some crazy stories.

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    Great Journals guys, Keep up the great work. It gives the guys who wanted to be there a chance to grow by reading what you guys go through. Thanks for doing this and once again can't wait to read more about you guys.
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    This first week has been awesome. It's been jam packed with information and I'm excited to be able to process everything over the next 8 weeks. It's important to note that you can learn all of the theory in a relatively short amount of time. Now it's a matter of continuing to |go out and applying the knowledge.|

    After going out a few nights in a row I can feel the approach anxiety subsiding a bit. It's still painful at first when you do an approach and you can feel the interaction being awkward. I've been pushing myself through those initial awkward interactions and I can definitely feel a difference. I am still nervous to do approaches but I'm learning to adopt the idea of feeling the fear and doing it anyways. It can be painful but you've got to do it and I'm always happy that I did it. I'm going out in a few hours and I can already feel that anxiety in side. Starlight mentioned a great method that has been working great for me. When you first get into the bar/club just go up to a few different girls and give them a compliment. It's very low risk and its gotten me in a friendly social mode pretty quickly. It's also cool because you will see those girls later on in the night and opening them up isn't as hard.|

    There have been a few different light bulb moments this week. It's amazing how many limiting beliefs I have about girls. You can go into a set and be very physical right off the bat. I've been working on pushing myself in this regard. I really need to push it harder -- I'm still not so confident when it comes to bringing a girl in close and whispering how sexy I think she is in her ear or biting her neck. This is a belief that is going to change very fast because I've already begun to push the boundaries. It's amazing what you can get away with and what girls will let you do if you have a strong enough frame.|

    Over the past few nights I've approached a number of really beautiful girls. I realized that I was extra nervous to approach the really hott ones because I was making assumptions about them. I've found more often then not these girls to be really friendly. I'm still nervous to approach the really hot ones but I'm seeing more and more that more often then not you need to just treat them like the rest of the girls.

    Starting tomorrow we're essentially going to be doing day-game and night-game every day. Things are going to ramp up very fast.
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    Week 1 Recap (July 1-7)

    Hard to believe the first week is already coming to a close. It has been a whirlwind both in terms of going out every night and the information we have had to absorb in seminar. The amount of information has been almost too much to actually process. I am really looking forward to Sunday when we will have time off so I can go over all my notes and reflect on what we have learned.

    Thursday night (rockstar only night) was a pretty good night as I came within a few seconds of pulling off my first bathroom pull. I opened up a three setter with a direct opener on the girl I was targeting and than quickly transitioned into some fun material. Once I had her laughing I switched into some passion stuff. All the while I was escalating sexually through my physical presence. I mixed up a series of the techniques Gary taught us earlier in the week – deep eye contact, stepping into her space, smelling her hair and lightly holding her hand. Then I left the set and came back later in the night.

    She was the designated driver for her friends so I knew the logistics of taking her back home wasn’t ideal (although earlier this year I had a SNL with a girl who went and dropped her friends off before heading to my apartment so you never know). At that point I thought to myself what would Barry White do and it hit me…. He would go for the bathroom! So at this point after we started making out I began escalating verbally and really talking dirty to her. I then walked her over to a part of the bar that was closed off and just dropped all inhibitions with regards to my touching. At this point I knew it was now or never. So I told her what I wanted to do and just grabbed her hand and lead her over to the bathroom.

    The only bathroom we could find was the ladies bathroom. However, I though it was better to take her to the men’s bathroom because I mistakenly thought other women in the bathroom would have a freak-out if I went in there. Yet when we went to go look for the men’s bathroom we bumped into her friends and they wanted to go home….. in my mind I let out a loud NOOOOOO!!!!!! To make a long story short it didn’t work out and I ended up setting up a date with her for this Sunday. She is going to come over to the hotel to watch a movie and eat candy. That was a date idea I took from Gary. And just in case you were wondering, in the debrief the following day the instructors said the women’s bathroom is better, but at the end of the day it doesn’t matter…just get her in there.

    Friday we had a whole session on inner game. That stuff is truly phenomenal and potentially life changing. Sterling (who is an amazing teacher and great at explaining concepts in a methodical clear way) had an amazing talk on limiting beliefs and how they can be quite small at first and quickly snowball into something utterly debilitating. I will try to do it justice here.

    Imagine there are three types of girls in the world: girls who will never like you, girls that will like you no matter what and girls who you can win over with good game. Now if your starting point is all girls like me then you will always give yourself a chance with the third group and potentially could even begin to win over the first because you are acting with the confidence and frame of an extremely attractive person. However, if you think to yourself that tall girls don’t like you because some tall girls in the first group rejected you then you have just closed off the possibility of hooking up with the tall girls in the third group. This can then feed on itself. Perhaps you go up to a tall girl who also happens to be rich in a weak way and get blown out. Then you might think rich girls don’t like you too. Once again you have closed off more girls in the third group to yourself.

    Inner game is all about controlling the way you talk to yourself and perceive the world so that ideally you are the type of person who thinks of course she will like me, of course she wants me to talk to her. Sterling talked to us about a friend of his who is a natural and mentioned that that belief was the key thing separating him. That will be the challenge over the next few weeks, months and years. Thinking like that is not something that can happen over night. But I look forward to taking baby steps every day in the hopes of getting there.

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    Week 1 wrap up (days 5-7, July 5-7):

    Getting better at anything is always a fascinating process – I've found that in some respects you're frequently much closer to your goals than you realize. At the same time, you are also often farther from separate aspects of your goals than you had thought. The night after my previous blog post, we went to a bar that was a fairly challenging environment. Several groups that didn't speak much English, a very loud dance floor, a bar that was very poor for talking to anyone, and not that many sets. As with anything, you can bitch about the situation all you want, so long as what you do about it is accept it, charge ahead and make the best out of it. As Future says, all of your excuses are absolutely true. The music sucks, the girls are bitchy, the bar's laid out poorly, the guys are douches and haven't showered in days. But it doesn't matter how bad any of that is, because that's where the girls are, and if girls are what you want you need to make yourself have fun and just go with it.



    So after a couple failures going into pretty tough situations, I grabbed Charles J and we went to a booth full of girls to sit down. Long story short, I was sitting next to a very cute girl that I wanted to talk to, but she was fairly unresponsive and kept her body language facing very much away from me. She'd give me short answers and kept a lot of her attention elsewhere. Future came in and dominated the energy. I assumed because she kept checking her phone that she was waiting for a guy to show up and wasn't interested. After a while I stood up and started working on other things. After explaining my thoughts to Intrigue, he hit me with exactly what I needed. “Why are you assuming that she's waiting for a guy and doesn't want to talk to you? Don't assume things! Find out!” By “find out” he didn't mean go ask her, that's like looking up what happens when you throw a baseball when you need to go throw the baseball and see what follows. He told me to go express that I thought she was very attracted, and see how she reacted. If she completely rejected it, then I found out that after the conversation we had she wasn't going to be interested. If she accepted it, I had assumed wrong.



    I grabbed her arm and pulled her in, “Hey, I think you're super cute and I'd like to get to know you more.” (As a side note, 'super cute' doesn't seem to work as well on a 10 with a bitchy exterior as it does on a cuter girl. At least in my more limited experience with this. With the 10, say “fucking gorgeous” or “fucking stunning” or something more unusual and that takes bigger balls). The reaction was totally unexpected – she lit up, said something like “really?” and moved over to the side away from her friends so she could have a one on one conversation with me. I sexualized the conversation and she easily accepted that frame. We talked for a bit, and then the second thing Intrigue taught me came into play. He had said “You're sitting there beside her and with your friends, you can't escalate very well physically and only a bit verbally – so escalate logistically. Take her to the dance for or something.” So when it seemed pretty on I asked if she wanted to go to the dance floor. She giggled and said yeah. Right away she just wanted to make out, not even dance. She just needed to be away from her friends. Then the third key piece brought up by Future and almost all of our other instructors came in – if you make out in the club, you resolve the sexual tension. Resolve the sexual tension and you stop the escalation process unless you can advance right then. That's why the sleezy dance floor makeout guy frequently gets ditched and you see the girl he was making out with running around the club by herself a bit later. So I kissed her about three times, and then said “Not too much” and used things like running my fingernails down her back, pulling gently at the hair at the back of her head and other escalation to build a lot of tension.



    Then I asked her to go out front. She wanted to sit in the outside patio instead, not ready for that move. I did, but the other bit of wisdom they had taught us was that if we let the tension drop, she'd think about what was happening, feel slutty, and stop it. So as we sat there, I massaged the back of her neck and ran my fingers along her leg. We were talking about passions in life, not a sexual conversation for the most part, but the subtext kept the tension. Then I asked if she wanted to get out of there. I should have said “Let's get out of here” rather than making it a question – but it worked. She not only wanted to, but she got her stuff from her friends, told them she was leaving, and didn't get stuck in their objections as I was pretty sure she would.



    The only tough part left was the walk back. I knew from previous experience that a long walk back could easily kill the sexual tension, let her think about what she was doing and get her to stop it. I put my arm around her waist and kept a bit of tension by running my fingers around on her side. Still, it wasn't a lot and I was worried it would fall apart. To help counter that, I just talked non stop and kept her talking. I figured that using bullshit baffles brains would keep her from having time to think. It worked and we wound up in my room. I had learned that in some ways, I was much closer to my goals than I thought – a minute long conversation with Intrigue made all the difference between me ejecting from a set and winding up back in my room with her.



    That story was super useful for me. Don't assume your boundaries, and don't ask people what they are. Push up against them and see. If you can't physically and verbally escalate, logistically escalate. Don't make out in the club, a bit of kissing and cutting her off will lead to better things. Unfortunately, I don't have time to talk about many of the other fantastic lessons we learned, but will soon. However, I will say that one of the instructors did a demonstration for another Rockstar where he picked up a girl that didn't speak English. The story was pretty amazing. He did it by blabbering on to her in English and effectively using nothing but body language and physical escalation. He built attraction, tension, and value all physically. At the end he got a pretty intense makeout from what everyone who watched said. Chris M and I would up trying something the next night that was very similar, and surprisingly enough it actually went decently well. We didn't manage to close, but for not being able to speak to each other very well, it showed that the whole interaction really can be physically driven. Right now I feel like I'm on the verge of putting together the two biggest components I've been missing in my game, and considering how well it's going without those in place, I think this next week could be absolutely awesome. Vici and Sterling have been incredibly useful in teaching us how to get these concepts down – if you want good teachers, you can't go wrong with any of these guys but they are particularly good at conveying the material so you can go out and change game. As is Future. Intrigue and Gary kick ass at helping in field. Very, very helpful. And Starlight is great to spend part of your night with and absorb his knowledge. Can't wait to see what Starlight has to say in terms of business, as well. Smart guy.

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    Week 1 Wrap Up

    Week 1 is in the books! I'm writing this on the Sunday which is our first day off; a good chance to recharge the batteries and see some of the city.

    This week has been heavily focussed on theory and I think that will be toned down a bit from now on. We did day game with Future yesterday which was presented with his usual brand of humour and insightfulness that I think gets everyone engaged and eager to learn. We watched some infield footage of him doing day game approaches, and the most notable thing for me was to see that it's natural to be nervous (and better, to a degree) and that you don't have to do everything right verbally. The important thing is to just maintain your frame and plough through, because the sheer fact that you have the balls to do it will do a lot of the attraction for you. I'm looking forward to practising this and with the emphasis now on going out infield every day and night we will be getting a ton of approaches in.

    These past few days I've seen some improvements infield and worked on the things I've wanted to. My focus has been on trying to be dominant and show sexual intent with my body language. The inner game seminar led by Vici was money and really hit home with me. The pie chart model that Sterling drew up made me realise how my assumptions and the way I perceive reality have held me back over the years. I've always had this mental block about getting in a girls personal space and getting physical almost as soon as I meet a girl. It's as if I've labelled this behaviour as 'sleazy' or 'it just isn't me' in the past. In order to break out of this I've tried to actively practice the behaviour which I've always avoided due to my distorted perception of reality. One breakthrough for me was at the terrace club on Friday night where I grabbed a girl on the dancefloor and made out with her within a couple of minutes whilst barely speaking a word to her. This led to some buyers remorse when her friends broke the state, but it was great to experience that “bubble” feeling that the instructors always make reference to. I'm really searching for ways to stir that feeling in me because it seems to be a game changer. Seeing guys like Steven, Intrigue and Vybe do this stuff first hand really makes you realise what is possible and is a great catalyst for changing those limiting beliefs.

    During the inner game seminar we also looked at the connection between actions, emotions, thoughts and beliefs. Starlight did a great job illustrating how these were connected and how we could change our beliefs by first changing our actions. The important thing is to take action toward that long term goal and trust the process. It's not natural to have complete detachment from sets, but it is important to realise that your actions should effect your emotions and not visa versa. This has become easier the more we go out approaching and I have felt my frame growing stronger over the last few days. I noticed this on the Thursday night after opening two girls who didn't speak much English. Whereas previously I might have ejected, I stayed in set and continued to just talk English to them and focussed entirely on powerful and sexual body language. This worked pretty well and I could tell they were attracted. Although the set wound up going nowhere this experience was a very powerful indicator of the importance of focussing more on sub-communications and less on verbals. You can get somewhere with no verbals, but you will almost always get nowhere with weak sub-comms.

    This week I want to get through a shit ton of approaches and try and blast through my existing approach anxiety. I've been getting through my warm up sets as planned but need to flex my 'fun' muscles more during the earlier part of the night as I think that vibe works better for re-opening and getting the kind of reaction you're looking for later in the night. I worked one passion/warmth conversation with a girl I was in set with for around an hour in the W lounge and I think I'm pretty good at that. I could sense that melting feeling as she talked about her fear of travelling on her own and how that was influenced by her upbringing. Gary idea of "seeing the girl for the girl" really came to life in this instance. My focus now needs to be on working much more fun, presence and sexuality in to my game so that I'm no longer the nice guy.

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    Week 1 wrap up

    This week has been an overload of epiphany moments from texting to inner game to day game.

    It has been great seeing myself grow. More importantly its great seeing my rockstar peers grow. My mind has been blown a few times seeing the rockstars in set and where they are now in just a week. Good things are in store.

    We have been doing meditation with Future as well. This is a pivotal moment for me because I have been wanting to meditate for a year now. Weve had only a few short sessions and already I feel the anxiety going out and the serenity slowly coming in.

    Ive had some great interactions throughout the week but I need to make them more fluid in general. I will be working on that throughout the week. I also need to hangout at more strip clubs in montreal :|

    I am going to post a bunch of things now that were mentioned in the debriefs that hit it home for ME -

    Text game

    When you are having a text msg interaction you are NOT starting the pickup all over again
    Being real is something that most guys are missing

    Inner game

    When your inner game fucks with you even if you do approach it becomes a case of running poor game because you think your going into a losing battle.

    There is long way to go .. if you keep improving you will see massive changes.

    The past does not predict the future only if you choose not to life in the past.

    Negative beliefs compound on each other. If you hold a belief i.e. french girls dont like me etc. that will build on other beliefs and effect your overall game. You need to cut that disassociation.

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    First week wrap up

    I can’t believe were already a week into project rockstar. Man, I feel like I have progressed more in a week then in the last four years. Not just with my game but with my self-esteem and just knowing myself better as well. It has been a battle every night pushing myself out of my comfort zone but I am stating to see my confidence increase quite a lot and Its taking me shorter and shorter times to get in state when I go out and I have to burn fewer warm up sets which is awesome!

    My biggest problem going into this was that I am always too much in my head when I go out. This is something I have been working on so far by following Futures first rule “Have Fun”. Its been made much easier for me because every single one of the rockstars is a fuckin champ! Man some of these guys are gonna be unstoppable in a few weeks. It’s awesome watching everyone progress with their game and we all get along really well as a unit, which makes going out super fun.

    And the instructors are super cool too. Man, going out with Future is awesome! He is the funniest guy EVER! Starlight is super cool and always chimes in when we are in lectures with some very insightful stuff. Intrigues game is of tha hook, I feel sorry for his roommate who has spent more time sleeping in the lobby than in his room haha. I got the chance to see Vici in set with a super hot bartender and learned a lot by watching his body language, I really like the style of game he runs, its more of a slow burn game and something I think I would suit me and my personality.

    My biggest challenge now is to try and digest this massive amount of information we have been taught. I feel like the sooner I can remember all this GOLD, the sooner my game will improve. I have made tons of mistakes in set lately because I have forgotten to do various things, for example I have been pulling the girl in with a lot of physical escalation but I have been forgetting to push, giving off a vibe that I’m too into the girl. Last night I focused on pushing and pulling and I saw how powerful it is. I have gotten a few make outs this week and loads of numbers but none of them are turning into any dates which is pretty frustrating. Really excited because tomorrow is our first chance at day game, day game is something that I can see myself really getting into in a big way.

    Week 2 begins tomorrow and if there’s one thought I will be taking into this week its this. I will get out of this program what I put in, I don’t want to have a single regret from project rockstar and I’m going to give it my 110% and push thru my barriers and limits. This is going to be frickin painful but it has to be done. My days of being a pussy are over, its time to man up and go after what I want, no matter what hurdles are standing in the way. This is man game baby! Game 3.0!

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    Week 1 Recap (days 4 through 7):

    If there’s one phrase I’ve learned to live by these past few days it’s this: push the boundaries. I’ve seen my own personal success and that of all the other rockstars who are doing this dramatically increase just by keeping this principle in mind on top of being able to run decent game. It is really the difference between the good and the great. It doesn’t matter what your style is, this principle is a must if you want to get good. Case in point, I just got home from a night out with some of the guys. Opened a really hot blond girl who was with a not so hot friend (Btw, Henry R and Charles M are the shit for taking turns winging this one – you guys both did awesome). This girl was cold at first, didn’t speak good English, wouldn’t dance with me, and so many other guys in the bar were running up to her and hitting on her that I didn’t think I stood out enough so I went back to other sets and having fun with the guys, etc. About 20 minutes later we were getting ready to leave and I realized I hadn’t pushed the boundaries with this girl yet so I made it a point to go find her again. We found her on our final lap around the bar and Henry went and re-opened. I quickly followed suit and came in, started teasing both girls lightly to spike some attraction and played along with Henry’s banter. I then made my intentions very clear and inserted a dominance spike, and boom… She gave me her number enthusiastically and expressed her intentions of wanting to see me again. Just watching her melt into my frame was amazing and something I have seen happening more and more often since I have internalized a lot of this game 3.0 material.

    The point here is that before this week, I had been in several situations like this with hot girls being hit on by other guys, only to let them go without pushing for something or getting rejected. There’s so many excuses that come up in your head saying you shouldn’t do this: “she didn’t wanna dance with me so she probably doesn’t like me,” “she must not be out to meet guys tonight,” “If she liked me, she would have stuck around.” The bottom line is that you need to get used to ignoring these excuses if you really want to get good. Even if the excuses seem legitimate, pushing through them just to see what happens has led to some seriously insightful experiences and successes over the past week that I would have not had otherwise.

    Other than that milestone realization, the first week has been filled with tons of other awesome seminars and outings. Sterling led a great seminar on organic qualification, and showing a girl that you like her for reasons other than her looks by using body language and organic conversation techniques. Gary made some great contributions the past few days as usual by teaching us some great sexualization strategies. One of the big ones for me here being that silence creates more tension than words, and that treating a girl as if she was already your girlfriend can create some massive attraction and is a great way to sexualize things.

    Vici also had some great stuff on teasing and inner game that was really the icing on the cake this week. The biggest inner game principle that hit me hard was how we build narratives in our heads of who we think we are and what we believe we deserve based on our past experiences. Most people live with their beliefs because changing them is hard, but with a certain amount of recognition and action, you can better your emotions, which can better your thoughts, which will ultimately lead to better beliefs. Guess that’s it for now, signing off….

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    Mid Week 2, July 7-11

    The only way to learn this game is to fail and push your own boundaries. It's cliché because it couldn't be more true. It doesn't matter how much time and effort you spend learning about pickup, and you might even get good without going out several nights a week. But if you're not willing to fail and push your boundaries right here, right now, you're screwed.

    You have to make a commitment to yourself that being afraid and not wanting to get blown out and being in a bad state will not, under any circumstances, hold you back from getting what you want. I made that commitment to myself before coming here, and without that mindset I could have psyched myself out of doing day game as soon as it started. A couple people with us have struggled to push themselves a night or two, and because of it those nights were wasted for them – they learned nothing, and felt bad about it too.

    Why did I start off talking about this? I guess I should start by saying that I'm no model, but I'm not horrible looking either. Girls that I'm not interested come up to me and make it easy on me to pick them up not infrequently. Girls that I'm interested in rarely want me for my looks. That being said, ever since I first learned that game existed I don't think I have EVER been blown out of 10 sets in a row, right from the get go. The balls to approach a girl combined with the fact that I'm decent looking meant that I could walk up to 10 girls and say hi and one of them would at least sit there and give me a minute of her time.

    Then I met Rockstar day/street game. The direct approach day game we were taught (which is really street game) involved walking up to a girl who is walking ahead of her, turning her with your hand on her arm in a way that's neither pussy nor mugger-ish, and then using a direct opener. I thought I would have it in the bag, as I understood the concepts, was having success with night game openers, and have done a bit of street game in the past (using indirect openers). Then the first girl yanked her arm away from me, told me she didn't speak English (in a decent English accent) and stormed off. The second girl jumped when I touched her arm and ran away. Two more girls said they didn't speak English and wouldn't stop for a split second for me.

    I started being more persistent, walking with the girls when they wouldn't talk to me. A girl and her friend gave me nonsense answers for an entire block, laughed, and refused to say anything remotely friendly. And this was on the heels of telling them that they were “stunning.” I'm sure that was a horrible road block in their day. Intrigue, Ripper and Venture saw I was having a hard time and stepped in and started helping. They told me to make sure I was a step PAST the girl before opening. To step around a bit in front of her path to encourage her to stop. Not like you're confronting her, but enough so she would have to dodge you to keep walking. To plant like a tree the moment you do that step and not move an inch even when they look ready to storm off. It's that manly unwillingness to move that reigns the interaction in. Intrigue and Ripper have literally been getting laid every night, and Venture has been ranked as one of the best pickup artists in the world, so of course I listened.

    But I still couldn't get it done! Sets 5,6, and 7 stormed off without more than a slight pause. Venture, fully understanding the process and legitimately caring about my success kept sending me after more sets and patiently correcting my errors. He kept me in as good a state as he could, considering it was like a Rocky movie for me. Ripper was incredibly good at continuing to correct exactly what I was doing. Finally, somewhere around set 11 I finally got a hispanic girl, her brother and her friend to stop and chat with me and she would've easily given me a number had she had a Canadian phone. I wound up with a Facebook instead, but it took so much pressure off to finally get somewhere after banging my head against the wall for so long.

    Three more days of day game later and I'm e-mailing an apparently famous model (I don't recognize her, but one of the guys in our group does). I got two numbers in about 6 approaches yesterday, one for a very attractive and elegant woman who is a set designer for high budget films. The majority of the girls I have been stopping have at least been very happy to have had me come up to them, even if I didn't get a number or any result from the interaction. The failure pays off, but only if you push through it. Without a stubborn mindset and Intrigue, Ripper and Venture there to help me, I probably would've decided that the direct street game opener didn't work for me and I would've given up. Don't make that mistake for yourself.

    Quick recap of some night game lessons from the last week- going very direct and very bold to the hottest girl in the bar can actually be EASIER in some cases than doing the same with many of the other girls there. If a girl's that intimidating to you, she's also intimidating all of the other wannabe players in the club and that means she might well be more open to intention. She also sees a lot of balls in someone being that forward with her, since the intimidation factor probably prevents most guys from doing so. I had a set like this and she blew wide open. She was a flirty girl and was out looking to get laid, but hardly anyone was hitting on her at the same time.

    Unfortunately, even though it was going well, I was a bit nervous that I would screw it up. So I'd talk to her, hit a high point, and then leave. I'd come back in and do it again. I told her she was fucking sexy, but I had to get to know her first. Then I hesitated to come back after saying that, knowing that I had stay talking to her and push things now. While I was hesitating, she started talking to someone else for a while and by the time I went back the momentum I had built was gone. All I had to do was act like I would with a much less attractive girl, even if I was afraid to do so, and go back like I owned the place and didn't care and it could have gone much, much better.

    I had another lesson in persistence when a great interaction I had with a very cute blonde kept getting cut short by her obnoxious little friend that had a crush on her. I would basically grab her away and bring her to my friends whenever there was an opening, and I wound up with a pretty solid number and a great overall pickup. Had I given up with her friend's attempts to take her away, that would not have happened. Venture was also the one pushing me to keep going after that. And, as always, he was totally right.

    I got another shot at the hottest girl in the bar a few nights later. I opened her very direct, she smiled and enjoyed it, but told me she didn't speak English. I ignored it and teased her and kept going, but it turned out she really didn't speak English. I told her she was adorable, but I couldn't talk to her and left her alone. I had learned my lesson about persistence, but I was putting exceptions on it. Chris M took the opportunity and started talking to her. He would just talk to her in English while spinning her and smiling and so on, and she was loving it for a little while. I realized I'd bailed on a situation that could have went very well. Eventually he got blown out and I realized I needed to go back in.

    So I went to talk to her, got a little distance, then she'd put up a wall and I'd walk off. Later I'd see her again, reopen her and repeat. Eventually her responses just were not going where I wanted. I took a page from Venture's book and stopped talking, held her hands and stared deeply into her eyes like I was banging her on a bathroom counter. There was a lot of very clear tension in the air, and eventually she broke and cut the tension by loosening up and starting to dance with me more. The difference was quite surprising. However, after several minutes of dancing and looking into her gorgeous blue eyes, she was still being a bit stiff.

    Then I looked over towards the bar and saw James T. Without giving it much thought I yelled “Jimmy!” threw her hands down (literally threw, not dropped), and barged through the crowd straight up to him, giving him a big high 5. He told me he could see her staring at me over my shoulder as I did it. That was what ultimately sealed it for me. When I went back a few minutes later, she was again resisting and I persisted – but when she broke down this time she started talking to me. Her English was very broken, but she could get some stuff across. Turns out she's shy and insecure about her English. Quickly she wanted to know that she was qualified to me – she obviously didn't want me interested in her for just looks. She wound up telling me she was a radiology student and a model. Then she started asking me if I had a girlfriend and what I look for in girls. Suddenly the interaction was very different.

    She shrugged her friends off when they asked if they need to get rid of me. She giggled and stared into my eyes and acted very nervous. Eventually I found out she had a boyfriend of 2 years, but there was definitely a part of her that was fully intrigued by me and the boyfriend thing was a logistical afterthought.
    Sorry for the long blog post, but I'm breaking through my barriers to get to the 9's and 10's and I figured that anyone reading this would be interested in the exact same thing!

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    Mid week 2 Day 7- 11

    A ton has happened over the last few days. I had another near miss on Sunday and on Tuesday. Those misses taught me some good lessons that helped me finally seal the deal Wednesday night. A big part of what we are learning on Project Rockstar game wise is rapid sexual escalation. Venture has tried to get it in our minds that girls when they go out are looking for sex. Our job is just to navigate the roadblocks they put up and give them what they really want.

    Sunday night my main problem was logistics. My fellow rockstars and I were rocking out at Terrace Bon Succor dominating the dance floor all with the idea of adhering to Future’s rule number 1: Have Fun! I saw this girl who looked at me as she walked by so I went and opened. A key insight that Venture, Sterling and A Vici have taught us is that physical escalation doesn’t wait till the girl is attracted to you but is a component of generating attraction. That is one area where I feel I have been doing well and did well in this set. Before I even finished my opener I had my hands on this girls back, was right up in her physical space and talking in her ear. I can’t recall whether or not I used any takeaways but that is the key thing I am trying to incorporate in my game right now. I have been all pull and no push. Intrigue taught us some great takeaways this week and summed it up perfectly when he told us that the best people at takeaways are hot girls and we should do what they do.

    Well that tangent aside, once I opened the girl it just rapidly escalated sexually. Within ten minutes I had taken her outside and was going to have sex on the bench but unfortunately the cops came by and that spooked her out. I should have done a better job of picking the location.

    Then Tuesday I had another near miss. I wasn’t in the best of moods when the night began but I just kept reminding myself what Future had told us earlier in the day: it’s always the next one. And lo and behold it was. I was hanging out with the boys at Winnies and saw this super cute girl walk by and opened very directly. Again as I was opening I was already in the process of escalating physically and she just complied so within two minutes we were making out. However, this one escalated way too fast. It was a whirlwind. My head kept telling me I needed to slow down and qualify her. Yet she just wanted to keep on making out and I made the mistake of letting her control the interaction instead of taking the reins and leading it where it needed to go. When you have a cute girl all over you its hard at times to say no. In addition I soon ran into a major obstacle with a black belt in cockblocking.

    Vibe (who has been crushing it both with the ladies and with in-field advice) saw the whole interaction play out and gave me some ninja advice as to what I should have done differently: 1.) slow things down and qualify 2.) move her around more 3.) introduce her to all my friends 4.) pick her up. This would have created a more well rounded interaction, which might have solidified the connection and at least helped to convince the obstacle that I wasn’t just looking to molest her friend but was actually a cool guy who her friend should get to know. In the debrief the following day Venture also pointed out that a key part of SNL game is that when you feel things escalating way too fast and that it is not the right time to pull her yet you need to switch to boyfriend girlfriend mode. Doing what Vibe had mentioned would have helped there.

    Wednesday night we went to Terrace Bon Succor and my mission was to work on my takeaways and do everything Vibe had told me to do the night before if I was in a similar situation. I opened one set without a specific target in my mind and quickly ejected. I wasn’t feeling it that night at first having almost been worn down by having gone out every single day for the last week and a half. But in that situation I just returned to Future’s rules and thought to myself ok I need to take ownership of my fun and just keep opening. Then I was speaking to Brandon D and Chris M and they said to open up one group because one of the girls had been looking at Brandon D. I went in and opened the group again without any specific target in mind. I used the good old “hey, you guys look like fun” opener.

    I meet some resistance at first with the two girls nearest me: one backturned me and the other made no effort to move and give me room to talk. But when I introduced myself to the one who made no effort I moved her as I shook her hand to let myself in the group, introduced myself to the two standing on the other side of the table and teased the shit out of the one who backturned me. I then quickly went into the fun material I had been working with. As I was chatting the group up I noticed the girl across the table and thought she was really cute and felt the vibe from her. I now had a target. When Smitter S entered the set I introduced him and then went to the other side of the table and placed myself beside the target and mini-isolated her. Yet I mixed that up with some backturns when speaking to her friend who was next to her. During that whole time I never moved my hands from her and when I gave her a mini hug for saying something cool she kept one hand on me.

    I took her with me to get the rockstar drink of choice: water! When we were at the bar we started making out. I said to myself ok, I am doing everything Vibe told me to do the night before. I began introducing her to all the instructors and the rockstars, moved her around the bar, and qualified her hard. It was actually easy to qualify her because she was awesome. I even pulled out a line Future had taught us “its kind of nice when you meet someone and it’s just easy.” She ate that one up… but I was 100% percent sincere about it and we formed a really solid connection. (I have not been very good at qualification this year and I wonder if in my part that is because I really haven’t found many of the girls I have met to be super awesome.) I introduced her to Intrigue who had been watching the interaction and he suggested I take her outside, so I did. To make a long story short she ended up coming home with me and spending the night (thanks to my roommate Henry R for being a good sport). All told I think I was at the place for less than 40 minutes. The only problem with the interaction is that the qualification went too well and was too sincere: I would like to see her again but know it’s just not ideal given what the mission is.

    All and all I feel I have made great progress over the last few days and am looking forward to Friday and Saturday night to try and continue working on my push skills, both takeaways and teasing. And I just wanted to give a final shout out to Intrigue, Ripper (who are amazing in field and have been great about working with me throughout the last two weeks) and Venture for helping me pick out some awesome new clothes and to Vibe for giving me perfectly actionable advice.

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    DAY 7

    First chill day. Slept in until about 1.30, did some meditation, got some food, went and saw TED at the movies with a few guys then hit the gym. What a sweet ass Sunday to end the week. I wasn’t really feeling like going out tonight but still did with a few of the guys. We were told about a club on the water in old montreal. Old montreal looked beautiful by the way and a sweet place for dates. Noted! Back to the night out, was only a small bar, everyone seemed pretty cliquey but a few of the guys did alright in their. Tried to get back home early but that didn’t work. Another 2am finish. The city is pretty dead at this time on a Sunday anyway.

    DAY 8:

    Day game! We have a bit of time after our street approaches so I am writing this down now to try and encapture the feelings of breaking the day game cherry. My first approach was terrifying, I have never felt so nervous in my life. My lip was quivering, my gut was wrenching and I was stumbling, big! She was really receptive, really hot too. After about 40-50 seconds I am guessing, felt like forever though, she excused herself and went about her day. When I got back to Vibe and the guys I had to take in some deep breaths and recover from that shit, realising wow, this shit is really going to be awesome once I figure this out. Vibe is an AC on the program (about to become an instructor), I was lucky enough to have him help me out at my bootcamp, so we get along great. I feel this guy has given me so much spot on info with my game because he takes a good amount of time to see me in set and wing. We always have a sick time together and today in day game he was especially good at telling me what to work on next, and I did.

    Another couple of approaches, another couple of stumbles. Then my last approach was a game changer, I followed her down the footpath, across the street, then down the footpath again. I stopped her, motioned for her to remove her ear phones and delivered the line with complete intent as she was amazingly beautiful. She lit up, completely. She was so bubbly, so receptive and it all flowed great even though her English wasn’t the best. In all my sets I pointed out my nerves, she said to me in this one, “sorry I am so shy right now”. And I replied with “yes, I know its ok. I am so nervous here talking to you too but I just felt completely compelled to come and meet you”. And that changed things. She actually asked me for my cell phone number and we talked about plans for Friday night as that is the only time she is free. I ended on a hug and we went our separate ways, this was a great feeling.

    Night game: for a Monday night it wasn’t too bad. Well the night to begin with was shit/funny. I wont mention his name but I winged another rockstar on what he thought was a bit of a date. Once we got to the bar where this so called date and her friend was they were leaving. They were really drunk and being dragged away by some dude. Any we checked in at a loud club after that with the other guys. For a Monday it was fun, we basically talked to every girl in the bar and had a sick time with each other. I actually took some time to look around at all the serious looking guys. Thinking they are cool standing up against the bar, but I could see the envy in their eyes because we were the guys having a sick time dancing, hi-fiving each other and pulling girls into our world. Ended up number closing a really hot French Canadian girl, I found it so hard to get anywhere with her but Venture kept forcing me back into the encounter. And it was exactly what I needed. It took a while to get her number, but I knew I had to get it to keep Venture happy. And it actually happened in front of about 5 dudes who she was with, they had bottle service, so I think her and her friends were just using them for drinks haha suckers! I dunno if the number will be solid but if so then that’s 2 smoking hot girls on the go for the weekend. Lifes good.

    DAY 9

    Im going to keep today short as I was totally exhausted. Did a couple of day game approaches in between shopping. One girl was super hot, blonde, definitely my type. And she was flattered with the opener but couldn’t speak much English. She wanted to stay around and talk more but it was just so hard. Makes me wish I paid more attention in school when learning French. Damn!

    Got into the business stuff again to finish the day and I am super excited about what Starlight and the mentors have lined up for us.

    Night game, was a good night to be out. Did a number of sets but couldn’t keep up with the high energy environment. I also didn’t set myself any goals for the night. It was a struggle from beginning to end. But I think that may be expected every now n then. After all I think tonight is about my 12th night out in a row.

    DAY 10:

    Z Ripper ran through voice coaching. It’s a mini series of videos that we are going to work on over the next few weeks. Should be good. Intrigue put us through takeaways, then some more day game. Did a few approaches with little anxiety, but got the bf line every single time today. Oh well.

    Goals for tonight, tell every single girl that I am out to lose my virginity. Actually got me blown out a lot. But was fun. Was an intense environment, packed in completely with barely any room to move, was crazy. The girls weren’t into hanging around too long, I think they enjoyed getting hit on every couple of minutes.

    DAY 11:

    Starlight ran through business again. I got to have a chat with him about some ideas I have had in the past. All this business stuff is mind blowing for me, everything is new. It is great to find someone to introduce me to this stuff.

    Today with game was slow. Still fun but. I don’t really have any approach anxiety anymore. Day or night. Which is good because if your first set is someone you are completely attracted to then you are ready to turn up the heat straight away.
    A number of the guys got laid tonight after their dates. Fucking champions. Everyone is coming into the weekend with some momentum. I think its going to be pretty awesome weekend.

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    No. I still haven’t gotten laid yet...but to some extent that's been by my own choice.

    However, there have been many close calls, and I’m being picky. That all being said, I still have had a lot of success and really fun conversations with a lot of great women. I’ve gotten a few numbers. But, at this point, because I’m so frustrated with the women in this city, I’m not wasting my time following up with 6s or 7s. I’m not going to give them the gift of my cock. My dick is on strike at the moment and is waiting for a 9 or a 10 that actually has a brain and can contribute to a fun and interesting conversation. I don’t want to have to talk myself into fucking a chick especially since I don’t have the luxury of beer goggles. Put a few pints in me and I might be willing to make some mistakes.

    I feel like I have a pretty good handle of the Game 3.0 approach at this point. It really helps going out every night and essentially practicing the sequence from opening to banter to passion to banter to passion, etc. while escalating with my touch along the way. I have dry humped girls in clubs, bitten necks, sucked on ears, swept girls off their feet and tried to kidnap them out of the club, put girls hands on my cock, molested asses with my hands, made-out…so it’s not like I’m a wall flower by any stretch of the imagination

    Night game aside.

    I conquered one of my greatest fears in life a few days ago: Approaching a girl DIRECT during the day. This is something that I have always wanted to do, but never knew what to say to do it properly or more so had the people to give me that extra push to go for it. It really came down to having the balls to do it. Now that I’ve approached a few 9s and 10s on the street and told them exactly what I think of them (that they’re gorgeous and I wanted to me them), I feel like I’ve conquered that fear and have a new tool in my tool box.

    Vybe has worked with me quite a bit on my day game and gave me some amazing advice and tweaks. He even showed us how to open 2 and 3 sets on the street and how to wing properly. You can tell day game is an area where he is very experienced and has a lot of knowledge to impart. It was really good to have him around and to essentially force me into running after girls. It’s like he could tell which girls were catching my eye and would call me on it. There were also a few girls that he caught eye-fucking me, that I didn’t catch, and got me to approach them too…unfortunately, there are a few guys in the group that are literally faster than me that got to them first.

    The rockstars are at a point now where we have all the knowledge that the instructors can give us (other than the odd in field tweak) and it’s really up to us now to go out together and simply get better by practicing every day and every night. The instructor that I’m trying the most to model myself after is Venture because he’s got great style, great presence, and I like the way he interacts with women…it’s very masculine. I find that I’m a very high energy guy, so I would like to tone that down slightly and combine it with Venture’s “I invented cool” approach.

    So, game aside, our theory sessions have turned to business and entrepreneurship, led by the very enthusiastic and knowledgeable Starlight. I am really really excited to learn from Starlight because he just knows so much about business and how to get started from the ground up. This is a very foreign concept to me as I have always been a company man and never really had to think about the inner intricacies of running a business, let alone getting one going.

    Starlight has already provided us with his E-Book that is going to be released in Asia very soon titled “Lifestyle Entrepreneur: Make Money Doing What you Love, Even in Hard Times” and it’s been amazing to have him go through all the concepts that he explains in his book in person. I have always had a few business ideas of my own but never really knew the resources or the approaches to take to get them going and in only two sessions with Starlight I already feel 100% more confident in what I am capable of. Both because of the mentorship he is providing as well as the external tools and resources he is telling us about that are essentially game-changers.

    It’s a fucking privilege to be able to sit down with Starlight one on one and just have him get really excited about my ideas and to discuss ways to make them reality.
    I think I’m more excited about his component of the program than the picking up chicks part. Fucking amazing.

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    These past few days have been full of ups and downs. Some nights I go out and I feel on fire and other nights it's a bit more of struggle. Shortsetting has been awesome generally gets me into the zone. I'll often feel a bit anxious towards the beginning of the night especially since we're not drinking alcohol and going up to girls and complimenting them on something and then bouncing has been great. It's also awesome because you will see them later on in the night and you can easily approach them.|

    I've been doing a lot of approaches and some have been hooking and others not as well. As I was doing a debrief of my night with Venture and Future they pointed out that I wasn't gearing the conversation towards my passion topics. There are a number of topics i.e house music, travel, writing...etc that I get really passionate when I speak about them. I made sure to do that when I went out that night and sure enough I hooked a girl really hard -- maybe even a little too hard. I combined my passion topics with some teases and takeways and lots of touching. I was trying to get her back to the hotel but I wasn't being assertive enough. I've come to realize on this program that you need to just man up and lead the interactions. We ended up getting lost on the way back and every time I felt the attraction dying down I would either throw her against a wall and make out with her or pick her up and run. We ended up making out in the park and she gave me a handy. At that point we were near her apartment so I told her "if we go back to your apartment I'm going to fuck you hard". I've never really sai anything like that in the past but she loved it. We went back to her apartment and her dumb drunk female friend was waiting outside and didn't have a key and killed the vibe. I ended up not h/u with her that night. The following day I sent her a text saying "lets have drinks at the hotel at 8pm -- wear something cute". Once she said she was coming I knew it was on. Instead of getting dressed up I went downstairs to meet her in shorts and a tshirt and I told her that I was sorry I didn't get a chance to change yet and I took her by the hand and led her upstairs to my room. Once she was in I showed her this cool music app on my ipad and it was on. I then proceeded to show her the time of her life.....twice She sent me a text later that night that she wishes she felt that good more often. The whole interaction taught me a lot about the importance of taking the lead and dealing with last minute resistance.It's important to always keep a strong frame.

    I've been having |lot of success day gaming as well. It makes every day so much more fun. Most people wait to go to clubs to get drunk and meet girls but now every time I go outside I could meet someone. Future has gotten laid 3x already from day game approaches this past week. It can be really powerful if done right. I |need to work on my post day game texting to build in more warmth and sexuality.||

    Part of Rockstar is about building an awesome lifestyle which includes many different aspect in addition to women. Starlight has been giving these awesome seminars on life style entrepreneurship. Essentially the focus is being able to work in such a way where you work where you want when you want. It's amazing because most people think that they cant start there own company but its actually pretty easy. Most people have something to offer and can learn to monetize it. Venture and Starlight have created businesses which allow them to work seamlessly anywhere in the world. I met with Starlight last night to discuss a few different ideas and he has great insight in starting businesses and improving existing businesses. Generally, just awesome stuff. Life has so much to offer and these days with the internet you can live a life of freedom and make your own schedule if you structure things the right way. I'm excited to already be taking the steps to live this sort of seemless lifestyle. From here on in I will be writing my blog daily so it will be easier to keep up with my progress.|

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    Week 2 Mon-Friday


    Times moving fast, here are some of the things I have been working on this week and some of my thoughts. I’m still not pushing my boundaries hard enough, im seeing some of the instructors do things before my eyes that I never thought possible, Future banging a 9 in less than 5 hours from first meeting her in the daytime, Vybe banging a girl in less than 10 mins from first meeting her, but I somehow I still have the belief that its not possible for me. Really good biz lectures from Akira and Jesse Starlight. They have opened my eyes to some things I never thought possible in the biz World.

    Monday
    We day gamed for the first time ever, I got 4 phone numbers, surprisingly I was not that nervous going into it, I think because we have been going out to night game so much that my AA has been reduced. It was still nervous but nowhere near as much as I usually would be. I feel like my confidence and AA is like a big round stone, it takes a lot of effort to get the ball moving but once its going it gains a lot of momentum and makes everything easier, as long as you don’t stop.

    Finally got my first lay of rockstar, with a pretty smoking hot blonde girl too. I learned a big lesson from tonight. I saw this hot girl who had been hit on by loads of the other rockstars and I thought to myself “she has already rejected them she going to reject me, whats the point?” I was about to leave and I remembered futures rule “Never assume anything, test it for yourself”, so I approached. I ended up fucking her all night and it was awesome! I was so close to leaving that night by myself and nothing would have happened. Never assume! Test!

    I have to thank Vybe for making it happen tho! That was the best winging I have even seen! Vybe is here as an AC and that guy is the man. His game is off the hook, he winged me in that set and was hooking up with her friend in about 30 seconds of meeting her and was banging her within 10 mins of meeting her. Unbelievable, I never thought that shit was possible! He has got time for everyone and his advice is spot on. He is going for his instructor test with Savoy next week and I think he is gonna make a great LS instructor.

    Tuesday
    Ventures game is off the hook! He made out with not 1 but the 3 hottest girls in the club tonight! As for me, I found myself really drained and not wanting to talk to anyone. After I had such a good night Monday. I mentioned to the instructors that I was feeling really drained and not wanting to speak to any girls tonight, they told me this is why its important to steer every conversation back to your mastery topics, things you like to talk about and could talk about all day. Also make it fun for you, if your only out to amuse yourself and not trying to impress the girl, you will find yourself getting less drained and put less pressure on yourself to perform.

    Wednesday

    We went to an awesome club that got soo crowded you couldn’t move, even tho there were the hottest girls ive seen so far, I had the worst night of the whole trip. I let the environment get the better of me. People stepping on my shoes, pushing past me and spilling drinks on me. It was shoulder to shoulder and no one could move, I let this get to me and went into my head and started making assumptions like, “the girls have been hit on too many times, they don’t want to talk to anyone”. This came out in my sub coms and because of this I got savagely rejected by loads of girls. In contrast to this, some of the other rockstars were having the night of their lives and at least 3 of them got laid.

    This is where I realized that the difference between having the best and worst night of your life simply comes down to a thought or way of processing what is going on around you. We were both in identical situations, but they decided to process it one way, which lead to the result I wanted and I processed it another way, which lead to me having the shittiest night ever.

    Thursday

    Light bulb thought. Man, last night was pretty lame for me, talked to a few but nothing worth talking about. I went up to a easy 9 and got blown out pretty hard, usually in this situation I would have gotten down on myself at least for a little bit but I have noticed something’s changing in me, I actually became more proud of myself than ever before. You know what, I had the balls to go after what I want as a man, whether or not she likes me is irrelevant to me now! The fact is that I had the courage to put myself on the line and went after the girl that I wanted, not the girl that I thought was in my league or I thought I could get but the girl I really wanted.

    I’m no longer going to worry about things that are out of my control like what she thinks of me, all I have control over is my choices and actions in any given moment. A long as I am true to myself and go after the things I want in my life, regardless of whether I get them or not, I will be always be happy and proud of myself.

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    What a great week ... day game/awesome biz talks/awesome nights out.

    The enterpreneurship talks have really started to ramp up ..... jesse starlight exhaustively covered various lifestyle and enterpreneur topics with different options tailored to our interests/choices etc. This has been of immense value and laid a firm foundation around for our future descisions. I had an extremely productive session with Jesse Starlight around 2 business ideas I had and we discussed it at length and gave me important takeaways to start actioning right away to make those ideas a reality. Jesse Starlight's new book also is a treasure and will be a constant reference point for me. The seminars were awesome giving a clear cut path on the steps needed to form a business from ideation to launch for the various types of business models. Akira also gave some great lectures on positioning yourself for internet marketing and also speeches on how to position yourself as an expert.

    Day game has been amazing .... the girls in montreal are SMOKING... Future has had some epic pulls from the day and gave us a blow by blow account which has been great. He also gave us his day game seminar which was money - I think day game is a form of game every should be doing or various reasons around reducing AA, improves conversational skills etc.


    Night game has been great too Intrigue, Venture and Vybe are killing it - they have been epically pulling like crazy. Weve been to some great venues.. Wednesday night was one of the largest number of hot girls ive seen in a fucking while and ive had my fair share of clubs around the world.


    My rockstar peers game has been improving drastically..everyone is doing very very well compared to where they came from.. its enjoyable to see everyones progress.

    its been a tiring experience and ive had my ups and downs but as one of the interns said who unfortunately isnt writing any reviews - "single best positive experience of my life" - couldnt agree more !

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    Week 2

    After a relaxing day on Sunday and a fairly low key night out with the Rockstars, we dived back in to seminars on Monday. This week we've been looking at business ideas and learning some basic concepts behind starting your own business. Starlight has put together some great material and we all have the opportunity to work pretty closely with him to formulate our own business plans. I'm really excited about this. He has a ton of knowledge and is able to get his ideas across concisely and with numerous points of reference experience. This is very useful particularly for someone such as myself as I don't have the first clue about the inner workings of a business. One aspect of this seminar that I found particularly useful was the ways in which we could fit our ideas in to the lifestyle we wanted (rather than visa versa) and create businesses that would accelerate out journey towards 'supernova'. Starlight's 'Identity' model where we drew up our three circles of knowing was particularly helpful in bringing this to life. We've been given a copy of his book “Lifestyle Entrepreneur: Make Money Doing What You Love, Even in Tough Times” ahead of it's release so I hope to get through some of this in any downtime we have and really have some solid direction for a business by the time Rockstar ends.

    We've also moved on to day game this week which is a lot of fun. Going out with the boys in the sun and hitting on girls is a pretty nice way to spend an afternoon. I haven't had much success so far but my opening is sticking more and I am getting in to longer conversations. I need to work on building a connection and perhaps qualifying a little more, as I think sometimes I just get stuck trying to build attraction when it's not necessary and holds the interaction back. I opened a really hot girl at the mall yesterday whose number I got, but felt it would probably flake and it did. Not going to beat myself up about this one though as I think I pushed through a lot and learnt a great deal. Vybe came in and winged me like a pro and it was cool to see how he kept the interaction moving forward by keeping things fun and light hearted, whilst always pushing logistically. The important thing to remember is to always push through as a default; I saw Future backpedal about 20 paces whilst talking to a two set before they eventually stopped and engaged him in conversation.

    One thing that I have noticed now is that my reaction to girls I find very attractive girls is changing. Whereas last week I might've shied away from opening a girl I'm really attracted, I am now having a more positive internal reaction to these situations. Taking on 'mission impossible' with Vybe was particularly enjoyable in this respect. I had spotted a painfully cute girl in the club surrounded by three guys and quite clearly in a big group of friends. Positioning myself at one end of the bar, Vybe came in from the other side and opened the guys whilst I ninja'd my way through the wall of chode's surrounding her and opened direct. Knowing that I might not get much time I tried to push quickly and get her turned on. She told me she was here with her boyfriend and her friends and I look around and there was this circle of guys stood around us. I acknowledge the boyfriend and continue to hit on her. Then one of his friends just shouts “what the fuck is going on” as they all stand there and do nothing. It was a really hilarious set and showed me how powerful it is to have no expectations or outcome dependance.

    This weekend promises to be pretty exciting. Everyone is starting to get layed and have success and although I'm not on the scoreboard yet I can feel my game getting better. I have a date set up for this weekend with a girl I probably should have closed as a SNL. Venture and Vybe gave me an extensive debrief on this one about leading and escalating logistics, as well as keeping her state pumped. Also need to remember to have Future on hand with a sniper rifle to pick off any unwanted family members that intend to cock block me.

    One of the great things about Rockstar is that you have such a busy schedule of going out and talking to hot women every day that you carry a bit of an abundance swagger about with you just from that simple fact. This makes everything that much easier and I've definitely been able to implement some of the takeaways that Intrigue taught us with an air of genuine 'take it or leave it' mentality. Things are only going to keep getting better from here, and I can already see that the Rockstars are becoming a well oiled machine. We've had to introduce a safe word now since everyone is starting to get good and there's naturally going to be some overlap with girls. I'm sure there'l be lots more of these good problems to write about in my next post!

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    Second week wrap up (July 11-14)

    A quick note on some of our instructors in case you're looking for one on ones or anything of that sort. As I've mentioned before, we don't have a remotely bad instructor in the group – Starlight, Future, Venture, Intrigue, Sterling, and A Vici plus our assistant instructors and Ripper a (hopefully) soon to be instructors are all the best. Our assistant instructor who I'll call Big H has been super helpful recently, I'll find out what he goes by so I can put that up here. In field, Future, Venture, Intrigue and Ripper have been killing it even more than you would expect from an instructor. Venture and Intrigue in particular. Venture pulls off the impossible sets, and if you don't know who Intrigue is, find out! He's been an absolute wrecking ball and it's hard to dispute that he's had the best two weeks of everyone here. We've even given him a Chuck Norris quote - “The women of Montreal don't leave night clubs, they go home with Intrigue.”

    This blog period started out with a wall of near impossible hotness wrapped up in bad opening logistics for all of us. Wednesday night we hit a cool place with hot girls that was way too packed, where most people came to hang out in their social circles, and where a series of tables created this lazy river of people that constantly milled about and wouldn't talk to anyone. Ramping up energy above the surroundings and the sets we opened, making a fun group environment where we could carve out a section of the place and have fun with ourselves and toy with the people around us (including having girls balance empty glasses on their heads), and plowing through were the lessons. Most sets were misses for everyone, but in my last post I actually talked about the radiology model that I got through to nearly without any speaking. That was after a long night of “Crap, that was a pretty bad blow out. Well, let's do it again! Now let's hang out with friends and get our states back. Now let's keep trying.”

    Before going out on Thursday, Jesse Starlight kicked ass and had an AWESOME lifestyle and entrepreneurship chat with me. We talked for about 2 hours, brainstorming for business ideas and then making sure my business was properly set up to be ranked high in search engine results and that I could track how people used my page, where they came to my page from, and other features. It should be a huge boost for my business. I went to college in Silicon Valley among the world's best entrepreneurs and I know a TON of people that really know their shit. I've had a lot of classes on the subject. And still Jesse Starlight brought a ton of awesome stuff to the table and taught me a number of things I didn't know. If you want to really get down to making the actual implementation and operations of your business/business idea successful, talk to Starlight! And read his book. His knowledge involves a lot of missing practical pieces they don't teach in courses on running businesses.

    Thursday night I had my biggest success so far which also turned on a dime into an abject failure. I was with Ripper, Venture and Intrigue at the bar looking at a group of 9+'s that had just rolled up. I was going to wait for them to order their drinks so their wouldn't be a state break with the drink ordering. Intrigue simply said “Wait, masturbate.” So I scratched that and went in. It opened well, I got her laughing, talked a bit about passions, brought them over to meet my friends, and got on a roll. Venture quietly told me to quit playing it safe and start touching her. I realized I had been in an “I don't want to fuck this up” mindset, so I followed his advice and pretty soon we were isolated. I was running my fingernails up and down her back as we talked, building tension.

    Eventually she looked like she was tuning out what I was saying and started leaning closer to me. I said “You want to kiss me, don't you?” and she shrugged. I kiss her a few times, but cut her off saying “Not too much, I want to get to know you better.” She said “Guys in clubs never want to get to know you better” and smiled. Then she started asking me questions, and we kept talking. I blew her mind and managed to build a lot of value. But it was at this point I made my first mistake, which was that I should have kept building sexual tension while making a connection. I had freedom to run my fingernails up her thighs and do things like that, and I could have easily done so as we talked. That way she would've felt we had a connection, but emotionally she would've been dying to get out of there with me. If she couldn't have left because of her friends, she would've been eager for next time.

    Her friends took her away, very nicely as they liked me, and I leaned into her ear and said “You're very sexy. If we weren't with your friends...” and she smiled and giggled. She thought they were leaving, but a little while later she walked back past me as I was in the middle of telling my friends something about it and I said “they're a bitch” very loudly in an unrelated way. I'm pretty sure this was unrelated to later events, but you never know.

    She showed back up with a blue slushy drink, I asked her what it is and tried it. She sort of lamely said “I have to go over there, I'll see you in a bit” or something along those lines, which was not congruent with the previous interaction. We went downstairs to look for other girls, and I texted her “If you drink all of that blue thing by yourself and don't save me some, we're getting a divorce. That thing looks too good ” She never responded, which I thought was weird.

    A little while later, we came back upstairs and I wound up walking past her while she was talking to another guy. I only noticed when I went right past them, and she saw me see it and walk by. This was mistake number 2, but Venture and the other guys I'm sure would agree it wasn't a big deal. I should've done something with the fact she was talking to another guy. Like smiled and gave a very joking/exaggerated thumbs up and a “Wow, very good work!” Or winked. Or gave her the I'm watching you thing. Something. Her friend saw me walking by and goes “Hayley's over there”. I nodded and kept walking. At that point I should probably have grabbed her, said “I need to borrow this girl” and drug her away to my world.

    I went and asked Venture for a tip on what to do, and he gave me the smile and thumbs up thing. She was in a big group of dudes having a good conversation now, so it didn't make much sense. When she came to the bar with one of them, she was in my direct sight where I was standing with my friends, talking with this guy. So I was standing there not talking to any girls while she was hitting on another guy and she could see me. Not ideal. I caught her eye and did what Venture suggested, but from across the other side of the bar, it likely looked passive aggressive. That may well have killed everything for me.

    I tried to find a set I could open and talk to in her line of sight, but couldn't because the place wasn't super packed and we'd talked to nearly everyone already. She separated from the guys and was talking with her friend. I went over and told her she was fun and I wanted to talk to her more, pulling her away by her hand. She said she was talking to her friend, I was persistent but she wouldn't come. I did a hand throw and walked off – another mistake, as this was reactionary rather than seeming like I could care less. It probably came across as a tantrum. Later she was isolated with the guy she'd been talking to, and she let him sit her down on a bench and put his arm around her right where I could see her. She was conscious of that, so she was either playing at something or didn't care about me any more. That was pretty much the end of it.

    I finally got another set and sat their talking to her at the bar in sight of the other girl, and eventually she got up and left – I think with the guy. We'd had too many miscues and been pushed to far apart at that time. I might have saved it by going over and taking her from the other guys, but I think she wouldn't have allowed it at that point. The guys advised me to wait and try picking it up in text game the next day. And she never responded. Of all the sets I've done, that one had the most emotional effect on me and it sucked quite a bit. But, of course, the only way to get over it is to go out again and do even bigger, better things. There are new girls every night here, and I'm still seeing the girl I brought back last week – so the only solution is an abundant mindset.

    The big takeaway is to listen to Future's advice, however. In the conversation, before you leave her for a while (and only if it's going REALLY well), seed the fact that if she's talking to other guys you're going to carry her away. Tell her you won't even say anything, you'll just pick her up and carry her off. Then go “Like this” and pick her up for a demonstration. Then, when you're walking around later and you see her talking to another guy, literally, without warning, pick her up and carry her off. She'll go along because you seeded it. Had I done that, she would've been mine to do whatever I wanted with. Instead I'll never see her again. That's the choices you have to make when it seems scary to do something in the world of pickup. Either man up and face your fear, or never see her again. Period.

    On Friday night I wound up with a fairly lackluster night, with the exception of a girl I picked up via dancing (something I got good at in college) and then an after hours adventure that Chris M and I went on. I would never try to break onto the roof of a hotel with two girls at 5 AM... Never.

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    Week 2 (days 7 through 14)

    What a week! I think we’ve all started hitting our thresholds for exhaustion. We started daygame and have pretty much been running non stop ever since: wake up around noon, 3 – 4 hours of debrief/seminar, daygame, 2 hours of evening seminar, workout, get ready, night game, go to bed around 5 AM, and the cycle repeats itself. Super intense but we’re all making the most of the time we have here. The girls I have been hooking are getting hotter and hotter too, and I’ve also begun to see a couple of them multiple times and have more dates planned than I have time for. Also, the stories are starting to develop: like when me and Brandon D went on a mission to get these two girls on the roof of our hotel at 5 AM a couple nights ago… Finding creative ways to pull girls out of the club and away from their friends… Staying up until the sun comes up and just good times overall.

    Daygame has been going pretty well for me. Future broke down the basics of the approach and some common lessons and strategies he has learned over his lifetime of experience. Then we all got to open him in front of all the other rockstars which was more nerve racking than approaching any hottie on the street. At the beginning of the week I was just getting comfortable running direct openers and transitioning smoothly into organic conversation. I’ve been getting 2-3 numbers per day, and most of them have turned out to be flaky, but some have converted into dates. Future warned us about how flaky a daygame number can be because the interaction is so short. Vybe was also a great help in showing me how to make the biggest impact possible with the approach. Some of the things he taught me was how to deliver a pause between stopping a girl and delivering the opener. Another huge revelation I had when doing daygame approaches was to really pump myself up on my way to approaching the girl. This is my trick for subcommunicating my interest to the girl in a very genuine way and pretty much makes the difference on whether or not an approach goes good or bad. I noticed a direct correlation between me being actually excited and sincere in my approach with how much the girls face would actually light up when I did it. Another daygame strategy Vybe got me to develop was making the number a lot less flaky by seeding ideas for future plans and getting her to buy into something before you get her number rather than just pulling out your phone and asking for the number. This has made the numbers so much less flaky the past few days and I ended up going on an instant date with this strategy. She’s coming over again tonight as well, so it’s safe to say I’ve been internalizing the concepts of making my daytime approaches hook harder.

    We’ve also been learning tons of business and lifestyle stuff from Starlight. The stuff Starlight is giving us is one of the main reasons why Rockstar changes your life completely. He’s taught us so many creative ways to generate income effectively doing what you love that I can honestly not see any of the Rockstars returning to what were doing for money before we came into this (at least not in the same way). The strategies Starlight has covered from finding your centerpiece and your true passion to using google adwords and analytics tools to quickly determine how fruitful the market might be are amazing.

    Another concept Intrigue has helped with is takeaways. His game is stupid good and he’s the fucking man when it comes to his ability to get girls to chase him and treat him as the prize. Probably not a coincidence that he seems to pull every night we go out! He really caused a breakthrough moment for me when explaining how critical takeways were for getting 9s and 10s. Him and Venture have really opened my eyes when it comes to picking up the hottest girls. No matter how good your game is, if you don’t have the masculine side of the puzzle covered and demonstrate the willingness to walk away, you just won’t get 9s and 10s (at least not with any kind of consistency).

    Voice coaching also started this past week. Z Ripper has taught us some great exercises to help project our voices with power. He’s definitely qualified because you can tell by hearing him speak that he’s worked on his voice quite a bit. I never would have thought singing bah bah black sheep with your fist in your mouth had such a practical application. Z Ripper’s also been helping us all out with our stand-up comedy routines, which we’re going to deliver early next week. Apparently we’re each delivering 3 to 5 minutes of routines and each minute of material takes several hours to develop. We’re all pretty nervous about it but facing your fears is what this is all about!

    With all the phone numbers, meetups, and dates starting to hit as a result of the past week, one of the things me and the other Rockstars have learned is that time management is a bitch. It’s a good thing Starlight also introduced an awesome concept called the Power Hour: taking an hour to consolidate a number of tasks and make significant progress on them in one hour. I’m writing this blog as part of a Power Hour right now actually. I’ve also set aside certain times to reply to all my text/facebook messages with the girls I have been meeting. Without time management strategies like this I can tell I would be far too overloaded several weeks in….

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    Week 2 Wrap Up

    Week 2 is coming to an end and things have really been heating up. Between working out, thinking of business ideas and constantly cold approaching there has hardly been time to internalize a lot of what has been going on. These blog posts are a great chance to reflect and I want to give them my all. If you're reading and are curious about anything I write please don't hesitate to ask; I'm really passionate about this process of self improvement and would love to engage with you guys as much as my time allows.

    On top of the current schedule we've been tasked with writing and performing a stand-up comedy set. I sat down to write some stuff today and am finding it really hard. As advised by Future I think a few of us are going to get together and bounce some ideas around as this is generally how the best stand-ups work. Either way it is probably going to suck, but if there's anything I've learnt from ploughing through in pickup it's that coming out the other side of fear will feel great.

    Thursday night was Rockstar night and we kept it pretty low key. Went to a semi busy bar with an ok crowd and chilled with the boys. Only opened a couple of sets and mostly just winged and had fun with that. Afterwards we went to a high energy club for the last hour before everywhere closed and I ran a few caveman sets, one that went very well very quickly and would've resulted in a bounce if it wasn't for logistics. It's cool to be able to go from pretty low energy and tired to rampaging through a loud club at the end of the night. I'm starting to get a better control of my state.

    Friday we covered some business stuff in seminar that was very useful and applicable to the ideas that I'm having at the moment. I'm piling up a ton of notes and don't really feel like I've internalized a lot of the stuff yet. My focus now is just making sure I have good notes and having my mind switched on and focussed for thinking about business. Right now I have a passion project that I hope to work with the SEO expert on. His lecture on Saturday was very effective in covering the broad-strokes of how SEO's work and he has a very simple and matter of fact way of presenting things. A lot of this stuff follows logical patterns of simply getting inside peoples' heads and realising why they do the things they do, and understanding incentives.

    That evening we went to what has now become my favourite club in the city. I think everyone feels the same and the buzz we all get in this venue is infectious. I warmed up quickly that night and had a few really good sets early on. Opened a girl as she was walking towards me through the lights. I couldn't really see her and had to pause and investigate her full figure before opening direct. Her body delivered and so did my opener. Within about 20 seconds she had just completely melted in to me and I was talking dirty to her. Without seeing Intrigue, Venture and Z ripper pull this sort of shit it's hard to realise it's possible and internalize it. But just seeing it gives you the confidence to try it yourself and know that the ultimate thing a girl wants is to be able to melt like that. A big part of game 3.0 is allowing the girl to feel what she really wants by expressing yourself through relentless masculinity. I need to get that 'relentless' part down, so I don't break tension or back down when I have a girl hooked for fear of losing the set. Play to win. I lost this girl because I short setted it as it was early in the night and I didn't think I could keep ramping tension. I tried a few times to isolate her after I re-opened but wasn't forceful or dominant enough. Vybe gave me some great advice about mini isolation and taking baby steps to the bounce, which would breed trust, familiarity, comfort and all those good things, as well as allowing me to qualify her. Those lessons stick that hardest when you lose a girl you really want.

    On Saturday the groups broke and I ended up at the same club as the previous night. There was a group of girls that John M, James P and I had met the previous night that we ended up bouncing back to the hotel. I encountered a ton of LMR with my girl. She was in a long term relationship which she had told me the previous night, before she asked for my number and told me she was in town for one more night. We got back to my room where “the real sea-biscuit” Charles J already had a girl in bed. I tried everything to escalate on this girl and dropped some serious comfort bombs on her but in reality I probably should've just put a boundary on her about 2 hours before I actually did. I'l be debriefing this one with the instructors tomorrow so maybe have some lessons to talk about in my next post.

    Coming up to present and this Sunday is the first day since I arrived that I've not gone out. I had a date this evening which required some logistical tinkering due to time constraints. Ended in a bj after copy pasting Z rippers' date blueprint. I'l be seeing this girl later in the week and will probably qualify her properly as I haven't done that yet and there are some things I really like about her. I want to build healthy connections with the girls I meet during this process whilst maintaining appropriate expectations. A lot of the game 3.0 model that Sterling and Venture have devised is tailored towards these kind've connections so this should flow fairly naturally.

    The growth in all the Rockstars has been amazing to see and I'm starting to build good friendships with these guys. The first week we were all running around like lone rangers but now the power of having a group of twenty successful good looking guys from all over the world is really starting to shine through. I'm having way more fun with everyone now and I can see why that is Future's number 1 rule. Excited for this week as I think we are really going to dominate and take over venues. Also I believe the return of Sterling and Vici is imminent as well as a couple of the Rockstar 2011 alumni!

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    Project Rockstar 2012 is awesome!

    Although the format has evolved and grown since I was a Rockstar on the pilot program in 2008, the core value proposition remains the same: Give us 2 months of your life, and it will be forever changed. That is the call that attracted me to Project Rockstar years ago, and it's the same promise that inspired me to put my life on hold for a few weeks to come to Montreal this year. I love the dynamic of this group of 20 odd twenty-somethings learning game, business, fitness, social dynamics, comedy...and everything in between!

    It is an honor to have learned, grown and experienced enough since I was a student to be invited back as part of the instructor team. From reading your posts it sounds like you've all learned a thing or two about Lifestyle + Entrepreneurship from my talks (and Akira's) last week. Nice

    Some of the main ideas covered, for anyone following the action, are thus:

    Discover Your Identity - An exercise using a Venn diagram of 3 overlapping circles, each representing some interest, skill or passion in your life. Determining the overlapping areas and the centerpiece activities, where you feel like you're firing on all cylinders is the goal of this exercise. Anyone can PM me for a copy of the diagram worksheet we've used in seminar.

    The B-TEA Framework - Beliefs, Thoughts, Emotions and Actions. Understanding that Beliefs are difficult to change even if we want to, but that taking consistent right Action, we can feel new Emotions that allow us to Think about the situation differently and ultimately replace limiting beliefs with Beliefs that support your goals and dreams

    Threshold Theory - Crossing thresholds in each entrepreneurial action is akin to "putting the ball in someone else's court". If you are hiring a graphic designer, give him specific instructions on what color schemes to use, reference websites that have elements you'd like to inform your designs, and tell the designer to create 2-3 mock-ups for your review. This is a quick example of crossing a threshold; doing enough work where you can step away and someone else "picks up the ball and runs with it" before you tune back in and can review what has been done. Wash, rinse, repeat.

    This is just a taste...I've done my best to pack as much value as possible into the lectures I've delivered to the Rockstars, and have held office hours every night where Rockstars can come by and talk about anything and everything related to lifestyle design and entrepreneurship.

    Keep kicking ass boys and see you in Stockholm! I can only imagine how badass you will all be by then!!

    - Jesse Starlight

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    DAY 12:

    In seminar today starlight covered elance. How to use it, etc. I never knew about all this stuff being out there so I frantically took notes. Akira also spoke about how to position yourself as an expert. Thinking back to all the stuff I have bought from the internet, it is exactly the same model akira teaches, so was good to learn first hand to do it yourself.

    I didn’t get to day game today unfortunately, because its awesome fun. But I felt I needed to work on some storytelling and mastery topics. I feel that is somewhere im lagging with my game currently so any spare time will be spent doing that. Oh only once im done with my comedy routine, that shit is going to be scary/tough/fun. Any help would be appreciated haha, we are doing that next week sometime.

    DAY 13:

    Im just going to talk about night game. Went back to what is becoming a regular club. The rooftop nightclub, I love it there, big open outdoor area and always enough girls to attack. Last night I hooked up with some American girl who was going to be there again tonight. All signs were leading to it being on. The night began and I chatted to her after a couple of sets. We joked around for a bit, but I was getting bored. So I introduced her to some random guy, was pretty funny because she had to be compliant with him to be nice. After that her friend was using one of the chode guys to get free drinks, so I sent her in with them so I could join the guys and open some more girls.

    After that me and 2 of the other rockstars bounced these 3 american girls back to my room for an “after party”. We threw on some music and after a bit the other guys managed to get the other two out and I was left in my bed with my girl. Things were going great and it was just about to go down when she said “no, I cant”. By this stage I had already been finger banging her so my first reaction in my head was, I will just talk my way around this, its only LMR. Then she elaborated……”im a virgin”. Wow, way to kill the mood, I have never lost a hard so quickly, fuck that, if she was a virgin then why did she agree to bounce to the room with me. Well it was still a fun night, to look on the positive side of things, it was a good experience on bouncing girls out of the club as a group and then proceeding to isolate them in different rooms after a while.

    DAY 14:
    Week 2 Re-cap


    A Sunday evening in the lounge of the hotel, top level, is exactly what I needed. Looking out across the beautiful city of montreal is refreshing. Knowing that it had already been two weeks in, is crazy. Time is racing away quickly. Saying that though, there is still 7 weeks to go and I feel I have come a long way already. I am confident if I left here now, my life would be changed forever so I can’t wait to see results at the end of this.

    Week 3, Day 15:

    SNL’s baby. What an intense seminar, so much to cover but all epic shit. I learnt so much from this and was able to realise where I should have been slotting some of the stuff taught in past sets to turn things around, and also where I have, unknowingly, used some of what was taught in the past which led to SNL’s. I am going to be basing my game completely on what we learnt today moving forward. “I am really fucking attracted to you, it sucks I met you now when I am not looking for a gf” is something I will be using a lot moving forward. This could have been a game changer in so many sets I believe. In past sets that’s all I have needed to lead the conversation to the next level, to where I want it to go.

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    been an incredible first 2weeks...stories are going to continue to get more epic! got standup tonight and these guys are going to CRUSH IT!

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    The Rockstar journey continues to be a roller coaster. Some nights I feel on fire while other nights I'm having a hard time getting into the zone. One thing I've been struggling with is caring too much about the interactions I'm having. I go into my interactions hoping for a certain outcome which is a terrible way to go into the interaction. It prevents me from having as much fun as I could when I go out. Last night I had a real light bulb moment. One of the previous Rockstars is in town and he recommended saying ridiculous things to girls just to internalize the idea that I shouldn't be outcome dependent. I opened up a few girls saying ridiculous things and felt really good to just not care. I went in expecting to get blown out. I ended up hooking one of those girls hard because she thought it was so funny. I don't want to always do this but the idea is that first and foremost I need to have fun with every interaction no matter what and I can't be outcome dependent.

    Yesterday Venture gave his seminar on SNL game. It was money. A lot of what he said is really advanced and it will take some time to calibrate everything but the information is money. It ended up being a lot of information so I'm trying to go out every night with one or 2 sticking points that I want to work on. Whenever I have too much to focus on at one time it always messes with my game.

    Day gaming here has been awesome so far. I don't know if its this city or just me but the girls have been really receptive. It would be easy to set up a few dates just from day game. Within a few months of day gaming and going out you should have a pretty awesome group of girls to hang out with.|

    All of us here continue to get closer as we move along the journey. We are only 2.5 weeks in and we've already created some pretty strong bonds.|

    I'm at the point where I'm just starting to embrace my fears. Tonight we're doing stand up comedy and I am literally crapping in my pants. I've got a pretty good routine I think but getting up there and making a crowd laugh is fricken scary as hell. But, I'm excited for it too. Doing things that your scared of doing is one of the best feelings in the world and really helps build confidence. I'm excited for the rush and definitely for the feeling of accomplishment afterwards regardless of how it goes. Wish me luck.

    Btw, the girl that I h/u does not stop texting me and confessing her love. Use your comfort sparingly. It's not fun having a stage 5 clinger. I definitely learned a lesson from this one.

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    Week 2 recap

    So week 2 is in the books. Thursday night I took a night off of cold approach to finish my unfinished business from last Sunday. Friday night before going out I “hung out” again with the girl from Wednesday before going out. Needless to say, after three straight nights of sex I was pretty pumped to go out.

    The key thing I wanted to work on when I went out that night was just to continue pushing the envelope sexually. If I don’t consciously focus on being sexual its easy to just slip back into passivity as it still doesn’t feel 100% normal for me to push it so hard sober. The other thing I wanted to focus on was to continue incorporating a greater amount of push elements in my game through takeaways and more aggressive teasing.

    Both on Friday and Saturday I did an ok job of that. I was definitely solid on the sexualization part and had a very nice interaction with a very cool girl on Saturday where I also made good use of takeaways. That almost led to a pull and ended up going out with her on Sunday again… but I was thwarted by the menstrual cycle. She didn’t quite accept my frame that there was nothing wrong with it that a towel, a condom and a shower afterwards wouldn’t fix.

    But on Friday I saw the real power of the takeaways. There were these two girls who Chris M and I were dancing with. After a while I saw things weren’t moving forward so I began escalating. I escalated too much and she ended up calling me out on crossing a few lines. I just looked at her, smiled then turned to Chris M and told him I was going to eject from the set. I thought that one was over. Yet later in the night I walked past her and she re-opened me. We danced a bit then I tried to number close. She started coming up with excuses I just looked at her said ok and walked off again. Finally later in the night she walked past me. I pushed her and we started dancing again and this time she asked if I was going to take her number. For me that was a key moment where I saw the effect that just being totally willing to walk away could have.

    All in all I feel I made very good progress during my second week. I have done things and pushed interactions in ways I never would have imagined I would be able to sober. Looking ahead to week three I really want to ensure that I am opening every single time I see an attractive girl, continue developing and refining my push pull techniques and continuing to work on my masculine presence and my willingness to walk away.
    However, while I feel I have made descent progress I see that there is still so much more to learn. This was driven home every night that I see or hear about Intrigue and Venture in set. Those guys absolutely crush it. Intrigue has already had 6 SNLs in the first two weeks and several more he is working to convert on text and phone game. That guy has push pull down cold and I really hope to learn more from him in the weeks to come.

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    I can't wait to reunite with you guys. I am Vegas'd the FUCK out!

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    Days 12-16

    So we finally did stand-up comedy last night at an open mic night here in town. I say finally because this is something I’ve been wanting/dreading to do for a few years now and never had the balls to go on my own accord. So it was rad to finally get pushed on stage with no option to say no.

    So there we were 18 (or so) “really jacked guys” (as the MC put it) sitting in a small little pub all taking our turn going up on stage starting at 12:15am. We brought the party and were super loud and supportive, even of the comics that preceded us (no matter how badly they crashed and burned…and they all seemed to suck…I’m sorry to say). When it was finally time for the first comic in our group to get up there we went ballistic. Such an amazing energy…he could have said the most racist, offensive, sexist jokes up there and we would still have cheered for him. Fortunately, he absolutely destroyed his set referring to his stutter as the basis of his material. Yeah...a guy with a STUTTER did stand-up comedy...what have you done lately.

    In other news. I got laid the other night. It was a girl that I had met at a bar the night before and made out with briefly. It didn’t really go anywhere and I was reluctant to push for the pull back to my hotel because she was there with friends and made it clear that they were leaving together. The next night I bumped into her again. She was there with her 2 friends. Luckily, her two friends took a liking to a couple of the guys I was with. TEAMWORK.

    I escalated physically very quickly…doing things like biting her on the neck, nibbling on her ear (which turns out to be her kryptonite), grinding a little on the D-floor and the odd make out here and there. It was going really well and she was definitely ready to have sex. However, there were the logistics problem and I also hadn’t qualified her enough. Vybe took me aside at one point and said that I was doing awesome but that I need to qualifty her. So at one point I told her, listen I think you are fucking sexy but I actually want to get to know you. So I pulled her to a chair close to where her friends were dancing, sat her on my lap and asked a few questions.

    I started with my go to deep comfort building question “what are the three events in your life that have shaped you into the person you are today?” That led to a few tangents and a deep conversation. I eventually found out that she wants to work with mentally handicapped kids when she finishes University because she used to be a mentor to one when she was in elementary and it really helped shape her into the good person she is today.

    I used this fact to show a lot of appreciation for her and it was actually genuine because I used to volunteer with mentally handicapped kids back in my home town. As soon as she learned this about me, it was GAME OVER. I saw something in her change and her body language flipped to I want to fuck this guy right now.

    We eventually bounced them as a group (6 of us in all) to one of our hotel rooms for an “after party”. We hung out in the room for a little bit having drinks and listening to music. Eventually I realized that it wasn’t going to go anywhere unless I somehow got her to my room without it seeming obvious to her friends that I was taking her there to get her naked (she was self conscious about what her friends would think). So I complained about the Ipod music that was playing and told her to come to my room to grab mine with me. She complied.

    As soon as we got to my room, I threw her on the bed and started making out with her. I slipped off her panties…and the rest is history.

    Great girl that I think I’ll stay in touch with. I love a girl with a good heart…

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    DAY 15 cont.

    The night out went from way out of state, completely shit to…….awesome! And I owe it to a massive talk from one of last years rockstars nick (dunno his handle). He really stuck it into us guys who were outta state about having fun, and then threw us into sets with the most ridiculous openers you could think of. I saw Aryeh J making out with some smoking hot girl after his second or third ridiculous opener. And I was like, damn, this shit works. And it got me laid. I went up to her with something about stuffing her asshole with my fist, completely absurd. She was like wtf, and we just transitioned from there.

    Everything that Venture and Intrigue taught in the SNL seminar was running through my head so I was trying to stay conscious with where I was at and where to go next. I kept thinking, what would Venture do next, and I feel I did a decent job at it, well I guess I pulled her so I must have. The biggest thing that I realised in this set, which Venture kept going over again and again, is building up the sexual tension so much in the girl to where she is the one who gets blue balls.

    I don’t think it’s a coincidence that I got laid immediately after the SNL seminar led by Venture. If you ever get a chance to take the seminar, jump on it.

    Day 16

    Comedy day. We were given the day off to work on our comedy. Future and Z Ripper took the time out to come and sit with us in the lounge and go through our routines. Sitting in my room typing this after our night of comedy. Everyone was awesome. Honestly, all rockstars did better then a lot of the local regulars (my judgement may be biased a little). I forgot my opener so had to start again, was nervous as shit, still managed to get a few laughs here and there. The ones that didn’t hit were about fat girls and ugly people. Which basically made up the crowd of locals, so understandable. Lol. Was a sweet night with all the guys and really good bonding. Some guys are better then others but at the end of the day we all did our best and conquered a fear that is truly terrifying to most people.

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    Last night all of us did Stand up comedy -- it was off the chain!!! Everyone killed it. I was nervous as hell but I got up there and owned it. |I have a bit of stutter and I didn't know whether the words would come out and.........they did. I was just as surprised as everyone else. It's amazing how good you feel when your scared of doing something and you do it anyways. Everyone was in the same boat and I'd imagine that everyone felt amazing afterwards. It was great to do as a team. The funny part is that we were much funnier than the other stand up comedians. I need to give a shout out to Future who helped me a ton with my material and really pumped me up before I went out on stage. Writing comedy routines is not easy and he was helping most people in our group. Shout out to zripper as well for his help even though his jokes aren't so funny....

    Before we went out last night we hung out in one of the bars nearby the comedy club. Venture and J Intrigue met up with these smoking hot girls and within a very short amount of time were making out at the bar and eventually pulled. It's awesome to watch the instructors work. You can see them implement all of the SNL game and it's great to watch. After the SNL seminar there was so much great info but it really helps to see it in action.|

    One thing the instructors all focus on that I need to work on is opening to close. Very often I will open a girl but its more for the sake of opening and I don't have the belief that it will close. This is something I am trying to change. I'm also working on having more fun when I'm out. It's tough sometimes without drinking but I'll get there. I need to focus on bartering more in the interactions to up the fun.|

    Today we had seminar on breathing and voice projections given my Zripper. That guy has a fricken powerful voice -- no joke. I feel like any time I will call him no matter where he is in the world I'll be able to feel the earth rumbling. I worked on my breathing a while back but I was reminded today how empowering it can be to breathe through your diaphragm. You'd have to try it in order to feel it.

    Everyone's game definitely seems to be improving at a good pace. I'm going out trying to focus on specific things but I don't feel like things are clicking yet. Definitely frustrating at times. I have a lot of information in my head and I'm still sorting through it. I'm trying to stay positive and continue to push myself. At some point if I put in the work there's going to be a tipping point. I'm excited for that point but it's not here yet. It's close though....I can feel it. |

    At this point just about all of the rockstars have been laid and some even 3x over -- shout out to James T for being the new sea buscuit. I just want you to know James T that I'm after you!!! ||

    Last night Tenmagnet joined the team and I'm excited to have a local with us and it's always great meeting new people here since everyone in the group has been awesome so far. Now that he's here maybe I'll learn a thing or two about getting Canadian 'poutine'

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    Mid Week 3, July 14-18

    You'd think any time you spend an entire night talking to a print model from Paris who frequently travels to Milan and other locations for modeling would be a good night. Instead it taught me that it's easy to waste a night and miss out on a lot of great opportunities if you neglect sexual tension and don't make it clear enough that you're hitting on the girl you're talking to. After I let the rest of the Rockstars and the instructors go to another bar without me, and spent a good 40 minutes talking to her, she finally told me she was there for her boyfriend's birthday. Ugh.

    The obvious move was to ask why her and her other model friend of hers I'd talked to before were all dating someone, and who their single friends were. It could've turned into a great move regardless. Instead, thanks to the French-English language barrier, she misheard me and wound up introducing me to her boyfriend. Turned into a funny story and they invited me to their table, but the fact is without getting her name so I could facebook her or something like that, it was a waste of a couple hours in the grand scheme. Don't get me wrong, I love great experiences like that and in part that's what game's all about, but when you're trying to learn and get better it's a waste of time.

    In response, I took a page from Intrigue and Venture's books and listened to the Same Night Lay (SNL) advice Venture gave for my next night out. Instead of letting the same experience happen again, my baby step for the next night out was to try to keep the frame of hitting on the girls I was talking to the entire time. If they asked me questions, I'd either joke in response or give a heavy-hitting passion piece and then go back to the hitting on them frame. This time I talked to a married girl and an engaged girl, but found out very quickly. They actually didn't blow me out, they enjoyed talking to me, but at least I found out early on and then I could be friendly.

    The sticking point I hit at that point was that it was harder to keep a conversation going in that frame than in a normal mode. You can't fall back on as much 'normal' conversation or long passion discussion that can easily expand to quite a while. It really helped me focus on the most difficult portion of game for me, which is generating fresh conversation in a sexually tense area. I'm not through that roadblock yet, but it's helping me a ton to tackle it. It's so important to focus directly on your weaknesses. Intrigue and Venture got some in field audio of some great pickups – I haven't heard it yet, but I'd absolutely love to because it would really help understand the process.

    The other huge factor there is to use pauses, silent eye contact, and slower conversation with body language to spread out a smaller amount of actual speech into a longer interaction that can lead where you want it to. Venture is particularly a master of this.

    As an overall update – all but one of the Rockstars have gotten laid now, and the one guy had a girl back to his room but some dumb crap prevented it from happening. James T has slept with three girls in under three weeks now, and several of the guys have hooked up with two.

    A little tidbit that Future and I collaborated on that is gold for text game: “So it's hard to hit on that streak of glamour I met parading down the street when she's convinced she's too busy to meet for drinks... I'm pretty good at flirting, but there are some things even I can't do ” That worked perfectly for a girl who was into me, but we'd had a short interaction and she was telling me she was too busy to meet up and avoiding any further interaction. You could replace “parading down the street” with “parading around the club” or any other similar statement to make it work in other situations.

    A funny story was at a higher end club we were at the same night I was talking to the model. One of the instructors got blown out by a woman who looked like a 9 from a few feet away, but was actually about 35 so I'd have to give her an 8 (on principle). She walked a few feet away with her friends, and because I've long since learned that a girl shutting down one of my friends doesn't mean she'll shut down any of us – even using almost the same approach – I went up to her. “You're fucking gorgeous, so I had to come talk to you [grin].” [Basically Venture's opener] She faces me as if to see if I've got any more. “Were you just going to stand here and not talk to me all night, after everything we've been through? That's fucked up!” [I got that line from Intrigue, though I doubt if he made that one up]. She smiles, but decides to test me “And what have we been through?” “The divorce, separating the kids, getting back together.” She laughed and started talking to me. Pretty soon I was squeezing her hand, well within her space, and she was talking very closely in my ear and being flirty. After a bit we were talking about sports and she asked me what I knew about the Montreal Canadiens. I said limited, and she asked me if I'd heard of a specific player (I'll leave his name out). I said yes, then she said “I'm married to him” and grinned at me. We kept talking for a minute, and she seemed not to be phased by what she'd told me. She kept flirting fairly hard. I, on the other hand, am not into that kind of thing, so I ejected. A few days later I found out that the hockey player had slept with the friend of a girl I was on a date with, and so cheating was a part of their relationship. Moral of the story – hit on enough hot chicks and you find some interesting situations.

    One of the big bits of information we were taught this week revolved around the Same Night Lay talk. It was 6 or 7 hours of the most packed seminar time you could imagine. Absolute gold. And the interesting thing is, it's how you generally want to approach even girls you might really be interested in. If they don't go home with you that night, you just get there number and play it normally. But the charged situation leads to separating you from other guys, and it gives you the chance to qualify and make a stronger connection if you realize the same night lay won't happen. Venture stated that girls respect guys that can get them into bed faster, so that plays a factor.

    The biggest piece of that for me was that proximity (how much you're in her space) and eye contact play an even bigger role in creating sexual tension than the actual touch. That's nice because it's easier to get into her space or make prolonged eye contact than it is to run your hand up her thigh or pull on her hair or even put your hands on her waist.

    Saved the most fun part for us for last. We all had to do standup comedy last night. None of our guys are super shy, but none of us were particularly psyched about doing standup. I've always wanted to do it, but not with four days of notice in front of the Rockstar instructors in a dive bar in a strange town. I've bungee jumped, sky dived, downhill ski raced, street luged, cliff jumped, flown an aerobatic plane and more – and that was about the third most nervous I'd ever been. I like to think of myself as funny, and I really didn't want to bomb or be one of the worst guys. Public speaking is one thing, preparing 5 minutes that have to be continuously funny, with some hard hitting jokes that will really crack people up, then having to memorize and properly deliver it with potential heckling and everything else. Fuck. That's hard as shit. I legitimately didn't want to go up, but I knew that I absolutely had to – to face the fear, because I'd wanted to do it before, and to have the experience. At the end of the day pretty much all of us were funnier than the four local comics that went up before, three of whom were regulars and one who had been doing it for 2 years. Aryeh J absolutely positively killed it. Maybe two or three other guys were good the whole way through, to the point they could have gone up at a club people paid to be at. And the rest of the group was pretty much more funny than not. We walked out of there feeling 10 feet tall and thinking we could do anything. What an incredibly amazing experience. One of the best things I've done.

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    Week 3 (Monday - Tuesday)

    So Monday we finally had Venture’s much anticipated Same Night Lay Seminar. Intrigue helped him during the presentation. Everything they said had extra credibility after watching them pull a ridiculous number of SNLs over the first two weeks. The seminar lasted over six hours and had an overwhelming amount of information. I need to pick out two to three things and focus on them per night because otherwise it will be too much to absorb.

    One of the things Venture and Intrigue hammered home was how unnecessary it is to make out with a girl in the club and that it is important to give women blue balls. Generally my modus operandi has been to just push as far as possible when I see the opportunity to get physical. I tried to incorporate this in my game when we went out later in the night, unfortunately it back fired. I need to figure out how to calibrate this better. I started talking to this girl at the club and to make a long story short ended up making out with her later on in the night; although I kept breaking off the interaction and only kissing her a bit. After a bit she stormed off accusing me of being a tease. Yup, need to work on this sexual push pull a bit more.

    The rest of the night I had some good interactions but nothing epic. I was consciously introducing frames into my sets for the first time. Venture had gone into these in depth during the SNL seminar. The key frames that he taught us we need to introduce are the type of girl I like, the type of guy I am and the chemistry between the two of us. Over the next few days I want to continue introducing these elements into my sets. I felt I took a step back with my fun conversation on Monday. When we go out again on Wednesday I want to make sure I am really pushing the fun and the teases, building the conversation in the appropriate way that is leading towards sex.

    Tuesday was the epic comedy night. We spent all day preparing our jokes…. Or proto jokes. I really want to take the moment to give a shout out to Future and the Ripper. They were incredibly helpful to me turning my themes into something resembling a joke. Speaking in public has always been something of a fear of mine so it was only natural that this would scare the shit out of me. However I feel for the most part I managed to get up there, maintain my frame and just role with the interaction. The other rockstars did a really great job!!! Ariyeh J absolutely crushed it with his stutter jokes. I ended up cutting out a bit early because my roommate Henry R needed the room for the night. This girl who I had slept with the week before was there and she was tired and ready to bale so as to not sleep on the floor I just went home with her. Although it was a bit of a time shock being back in student housing…. Did I really use to live like that?

    Before signing off I wanted to give a shout out to Starlight who left last yesterday… although he will be back for the Stockholm portion of the trip. He taught us some amazing things regarding lifestyle entrepreneurship. Before coming on to Rockstar I had been interviewing for some other jobs and am still waiting to hear back from them. My whole life I had pretty much been primarily focused on trying to get one of the jobs I was interviewing for. Starlight really helped me to open my eyes a bit and to think that perhaps there are better ways to structure my professional life so that I can create a greater amount of space for my personal passions. I want to sit down and really think through everything to try and figure out what my next steps will be. As I mentioned in an earlier post the one thing I want to avoid is going back to my old job for an extended period of time.

    Finally want to give it up for James T who has notched up the most victories in the game so far. He crushed it over the weekend closing a girl he went on a date with on Sunday and then closing another date on Monday. He has now slept with three chicks. Venture said the best thing to develop the abundance mentality was to sleep with as many chicks as possible (minimum of 6s and 7s) so I think most of the Rockstars are taking that to heart and looking to f*close where possible. Over the last four days John M, Chris M, Smitter S and James P took down some girls. Everyone is doing well and crushing it. Can’t wait for the next few days; the final run of our Montréal adventure.

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    Excited to have Asian spice back in town. We keep running into all of these Asian girls that you would absolutely love....

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    Awesome start of the week -

    Two epic things happened this week

    SNL seminar by Venture
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    its was a great fucking seminar --- Venture(with a guest appearance by Intrigue) broke it down for us.. Venture has been converting a shit ton of girls into SNL in front of us in montreal. So I have first hand experience that this is the shit... not to mention I had several epiphany moments throughout the seminar around SNL's. Some of the topics that were covered -- included but were not limited to Inner game of SNL’s, Sexualization, blueprints, building sexual tension, Sexual qualification, things to avoid and the list goes on. The seminar was VERY comprehensive and filled with awesome material. Venture is most respected in this area throughout the company and has demonstrated it in front of us throughout the program. It ws great to learn this from him.


    Stand up comedy
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    It was really an out of comfort zone experience.. ive been on stage quite a few times in my life but I can tell you stand up is hard. We had some epic performances from our guys from studdering to docking to flies.. It was awesome and hillarious... The guys did very very well.

    Day game has been going well but I can prob aim for more quality and push the sets further even thought im # closing and even kiss closing in the daytimes at times... night game has been having its ups and downs but im getting there.

    Im going to references some of my buddies in here and ill be doing this in the posts going forward... Everyone has been fucking and doing well. but here are a couple things that came to mind.

    James T epic comedy performance... has been pulling from day and night game .... TREMENDOUS progress... hes going to be fucking great soon at game.

    Japking - fucking girls under the radar pretty consistently... awesome work.

    John M Aus - we call him seabiscuit. enough said there... and we arent talking about the urban dictionary meaning

    Brandon D - has been hooking up with some cute girls.


    Jesse Starlight had to go to malaysia to promote his book ... thanks again for the mentorship and the good times. Look forward to see you again in Stockholm.

    Welcome tenmagnet !

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    Week 3
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    Friday

    Today was hard for me, I am suffering from tonsillitis really bad, my throat is so swollen I can hardly swallow. On top of this I am exhausted, my body is sore and I have no energy, even getting out of bed is a challenge!

    Not sure if its because I am sick or what but I have been feeling really drained, I feel like I have been putting all my heart and soul into some of these interactions just to have the girl flake on me and never see her again. Sometimes I feel like it went really well and its gets me down when the girl flakes and doesn’t respond. Coming from a place of being introverted, getting out of my head and being social is not something that comes easily to me and I have to try to force myself to do it most nights. Maybe it’s the feeling like I have to be ‘on’ all the time! Hopefully it will become easier as rockstar goes on.

    Met up with a Mexican girl I met during day game, she came to the club we were at and we partied for a bit and I thought we were getting on really well but she said she had to go meet her friends. I thought she meant she didn’t want to hang out with me anymore so I left and got pretty down on myself like I fucked it up. I didn’t see her again that night but I bumped into her the next day in the street and she was asking me, What happened? Where did you go? I was looking for you all night! I made an assumption based on nothing, I dont know why?? That was a bit of a meltdown! Lesson learned

    Saturday

    Smitters and I have been getting on really well together and doing a lot of night and day game sets together. We had the funnest day today gaming chicks and just before we went home we spotted these 2 girls sitting on the street. We opened then and within 20 mins Smitters was making out with his girl, that guy has some smooth game and he has been improving by the day. I have been catching myself making a lot of negative assumptions about women lately, like I cant approach her because she is with those guys with bottle service. It’s all just excuses because I am too scared to go and approach those girls. We went out to a high-end club with some of the hottest girls Ive seen since Ive been here. It wasn’t that busy but it was great getting the chance to challenge these assumptions and Interact with some extremely hot women. Nothing hooked but I learnt a lot from tonight.

    Sunday
    Day off – Fucking!

    Monday
    Awesome lecture from Venture about SNL game and LMR. I learnt a lot from this and John M put this lesson to good use by Fucking a smoking hot girl tonight. I would highly recommend anyone to do an SNL seminar taught by Venture. It is an essential part of game you need to learn. Although I love going on day 2s with girls, SNLs are important to know if your only in town for a short time or your really horny that night lol. Went on a date tonight and took her back to the room, encountered loads of LMR but managed to get past it thanks to to some of the things I learnt from the SNL lecture from today. Im in the lead bitches!!

    Tuesday
    Spent all day working on my comedy routine for our stand up comedy night! This was the first time I ever had to prepare a routine and man its frickin hard! I have so much more respect for good comedians now after seeing how hard it is to write a good joke! We all arrived at the comedy club and it was pretty clear we were all nervous as hell. Aryeh went first and he absolutely nailed his set, he was so funny and looked so comfortable up on stage, it was like hes had been doing stand up for years. He had the whole crowd erupting! I was really impressed with everyone, I wasn’t expecting them to be so good,. Everyone made me laugh at least once, the funniest ones for me were from Smitters, Japking, Henry R, Adam and Chris M. I feel like the comedy night really helped us to bond as a group and all these guys are awesome. I already feel like I have made lifelong friends and its only the 3rd week. This is definitely the best thing that has ever happened to me and I have to constantly pinch myself that im here. I am so so thankful for this opportunity to improve my life.

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    Week 3 - Days 15,16:

    Same night lays and standup comedy make one hell of a combination. That’s what the last two days have been made up of. The same night lays session taught be Venture has been the most insightful lesson I’ve sat through on this whole trip. Some of the stuff he taught here made me realize the certain parts of my game that appear good at first glance (spinning girls for no reason, making out in the club, etc…) but are killing the sexual tension which is why SNLs with good looking girls have always been difficult for me. It was a game changer to learn some of this stuff.

    Intrigue also added some great SNL tactics to the session. He’s become someone we all look up to here because he literally just dominates the clubs every night! His presence is really something I’m trying to pay attention to while I’m here because he has really shown me how powerful the presence of a bigger guy can be.

    Doing the standup comedy was one of the best experiences of my life to date. The way it brought us together last night was unreal. When we first learned that we were doing it, I don’t think any of us wanted to go through with it (we were all first timers). We had all been stressing about it this weekend, thinking our material was going to be terrible while each of us read our jokes off of our computers. But then, when each of us got on stage, the roaring presence of our group got us all so fired up that we all just owned it. You would have thought that some of us did this professionally (even though there was definitely the occasional bad joke or hiccup in the delivery). It just goes to show, Rockstars can be successful at ANYTHING we want. It’s in our blood!

    Special thanks to Future and Z Ripper because they were crucial mentors for getting us through this successfully. Their ability to see our original topics and material and provide us guidance on how to switch directions or dig deeper with it was extremely helpful. Looking back on it now, I can’t believe I developed a 5 minute comedy routine in less than 8 hours and actually delivered well enough to get several good laughs out of the audience. A big shout out to all the rockstars and everyone else that was there last night! We killed it!

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    Week 3

    We kicked this week off with the SNL seminar, led by Venture. All the Rockstars have been looking forward to this and it didn't disappoint. It ran around 6 hours and was jam packed with eye opening information on the differences between SNL game and normal game and how to search for the 'blueprints' of different girls. The most useful part of this seminar was just having everyone bouncing questions off Venture because he has reference experiences for seemingly every situation when it comes to SNL's. Intrigue also provided some excellent advice on the sexualisation he does early in an interaction which I'm going to try and incorporate in to my game. He has a very sexually charged but cool demeanour, which I think would suit my style well. And let me tell you Intrigue has been KILLING it infield and getting lays pretty much every night.

    Monday night we hit the terrace club, where we arrived early. We grabbed some food as it was quite empty and everyone got a chance to watch Future run some game on the waitress which was hilarious. BrandonD sliced a lime in half with a cigarette also. Rockstars just do what they want. The club took a little while to get going that night and although I had a few sets where I had good reactions I wasn't pushing things towards sex or 'acting on my intentions'. This was a key lesson Intrigue had taught us just earlier that day. This was the second night on Rockstar where I was disappointed with my effort and didn't feel like I made much progress. All the other nights I feel I've made progress because I've been pushing boundaries and trying new things. I need to push myself harder and make sure I'm progressing every night.

    The following day we were due to do standup comedy that night and I had not written a thing! I'd thought about some ideas and premises for jokes but had very little material and was shitting myself at 1pm when I sat down to write. Luckily Future and Z ripper were there and we could run stuff past them (they both have stand up experience). The other Rockstars were doing their bits too so we could all share our ideas to see what worked. When we turned up at the comedy club I was really nervous, but after seeing the first few sets my nerves dissipated. It was open mic night and the first few acts sucked! By the time Aryeh J came on crowd expectations were low and Aryeh smashed it out of the park. He has a stutter, which his routine was based around. It was absolutely hilarious and he definitely had a natural stage presence as well as some really funny material. Everyone else did awesome and I was happy with my set. Although I struggled to remember everything having written it all that day, I got some laughs and felt surprisingly comfortable on stage. It was a great feeling to get up there and do that and without Rockstar I never would have had the balls to do it on my own. This is why Rockstar is just so amazing. Everyone strives to push themselves further than they thought was possible in every aspect of game, health and business.

    Wednesday night we hit a pretty high end spot near the hotel which had a very cool vibe. Charles J and Vybe were making out with girls soon after we arrived at the venue and I think Venture disappeared with a hottie at some point. I struggled to get momentum this night although I was approaching things weren't sticking. The girls in this place were really hot and I think I have some inner game issues with 8+ girls. The only solution to this is to play the long game and as Venture has mentioned a few times, fuck a bunch of 6/7's. Eventually there are a few 8's in there and so on.

    This weekend marks the end of the Montreal trip and it has all flown by so quickly. We are going on a Rockstar only road trip on Monday and meeting back with mentors/instructors the following week before we fly to Budapest! I have a feeling this weekend is going to epic and I'm already so grateful for what Rockstar has given me. Not just from a perspective of self improvement but for the people that it has brought in to my life. These guys are kicking ass and are an inspiration to be around. Big shout out to Vybe who is leaving for his instructor evaluation today. You have been a great teacher and mentor for everyone and LS will be lucky to have you. Also to Starlight and Future who are just awesome guys with so much to offer on so many levels. Look forward to seeing you again in Stockholm.
    The drinking ban is lifted for one night only on Saturday... So look out for some even more epic stories in my next blog!

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    Days 16-18

    We’re almost three weeks in and I’m starting to feel more and more confident. I would say my biggest sticking point is still not approaching enough girls. That being said, once in a set, I’m confident, funny, and escalate sexually both physically and verbally quite comfortably. Success breeds success and I have had a plethora of various successes in different capacities; I’m not judging myself on the amount of girls I sleep with at this point. Another thing, I’m starting to understand the importance of figuring out logistical issues early on into the interaction.

    Venture gave an EPIC 5 hour talk on Same Night Lays (SNL) a few days ago. It was brilliant and you can tell he has put a lot of thought and gained an immense amount of experience on the subject. He broke it down to a science. The biggest thing I learned from that talk is that you reach a point with a girl where “it’s on”…and that’s the point where you need to stop escalating verbally and jack up the physical escalation. A girl with get turned off or spooked if the verbal escalation continues after a certain point. But again, this is just a nugget amongst a GOLD MINE of information that he dumped on us.

    Intrigue has also been an incredible mentor and has been challenging my thought processes and belief systems when it comes to women. I know I have a skewed view of women at times due to both my single mother upbringing and a really shitty experience with love in the past. We had a good chat about not being judgmental. It made me aware of some of the mental blocks I’m creating for myself that may be holding myself back from success. I know it’s not going to be an overnight fix, but awareness is the first step.

    Last night I went out with one of the other guys and we ended up bumping into a three set from the night before that we had really good momentum with. My target had a boyfriend back home and clearly wasn’t prepared to cheat. But I still flirted with her a lot and enjoyed the social proof that I gained from having her and her friends around. It made opening other sets SOOO much easier and they all wound up opening much better.

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    DAY 17:

    Went through our next voice coaching session led by Z Ripper. I’ve realised I have a lot of work to do to get my voice and breathing to standard. Need to focus on breathing techniques.

    First time in a much classier bar tonight with plenty of smoking hot chicks. Made me realise that I really need to step my game up a whole lot more to even have a decent interaction at these types of places. Being ridiculously loud didn’t help either. Venture gave me some great advice in field.

    Want to throw a shout out to Vybe. It was his last night here with us. i think he even pulled a super cute girl on his last night. This guy was a huge help these past 2 and a half weeks. Him being from aus too we definitely bonded a lot, and I’m super excited to keep partying on and gaming with this guy back in aus. He is going to make a sick instructor, I believe that is only a few more weeks away until he takes his test with Savoy. Kill it brother, I know you will.

    DAY 18:

    Intrigue offered us some 1 on 1 time now that we don’t have as much seminar these days. Im going to take him up on that, Intrigue is the shit, he has been pulling girls left, right and centre. We broke down his audio from one night when he took home this smoking hot French Canadian girl within about 20 minutes. The audio really addressed all my sticking points I currently have been stuck on.

    Infield report. Went out and winged for Aryeh J on a date. He told me and Henry R that there would be two girls for us. WRONG! There was one small, ugly girl who went home with some other guy. Lol

    So me and Henry R decided it was all on us for the night. And we had an awesome/very frustrating night. I opened a group of 4 or 5 american girls and we immediately went to work. I had a major problem of trying to figure out which of the 3 hot girls I would choose, as we both managed to build attraction with basically every single girl in the group. We chose the two brunette girls, both very cute. Very cute!!! Henry R’s girl was all over him in no time and I felt I needed to catch up a little. And I did a good job, threw out a number of sexual hoops that she accepted but then logistics fucked us over! Henry R’s girls brother was with them and they were all staying and supposedly leaving together and that’s exactly what they did. DAMN!

    Oh well move onto the next set. Henry R opened a couple of older women in the club. We bantered with them for a bit, then isolated. Had some good attraction and she tested me. “why so much bullshit”? I said "what, do you want me to be serious and boring like every other guy?". She said no, just be real, no bullshit. I said ok, “I want to take you home and fuck the shit out of you”. She said “ok good that’s better why didn’t u say that to begin with”, then continued with “ I cant, the other girl is my gf”. I didn’t accept it and kept ploughing forward and had the most sexual conversation I have ever had in a bar. I knew she was semi keen to get fucked in the bathroom but just couldn’t get her all the way there. Once again, fuck logistics! Sweet ass night but, coming into the weekend pretty confident, thanks to Intrigue for sorting out some sticking points with me.

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    Wednesday

    Today I was expecting to be super confident after doing stand up comedy the night before but in fact I was really out of state. We went out to day game and I trued to push thru it but today was the first day I couldn’t get warmed up at all. I must have approached at least 15 girls on the street today and I was just as nervous and out of state on the 15th girl as I was for the 1st one. Usually after about 3 or 4 I get warmed up and they go better but today it just didn’t happen for me. Because we are rolling 20 deep we have to split the groups up, my group went to terrace in the old port and it was off the hook. That place gets so busy. I learnt my lesson from the week before to start short setting the room early because it gets really busy then you cant move, so I went to work early, I was still really out of state and nervous for some reason, generally because we have been gaming so much day and night my AA is almost totally gone but today is different, I had pretty bad AA most of the night. It was one of those nights where you know you have to approach and you know your gonna crash and burn because your nervous but the only way to overcome it is to approach. Im glad I pushed thru the awkwardness because actually met a really cute girl towards the end of the night and we are going on a date today.

    Thursday

    My man A-dog! Best story of the trip so far! First one of us to bang a stripper! After going on what he thought was going to be a normal day 2 with her, she took him to an after hours diner which turned out to be a front for Montreals wildest swingers party, after a few hours of playing naked pool with people having orgys around him, he took her back and banged her! You my boy!! Had a really good debrief with Venture and Intrigue today about overcoming success barriers today. I think a lot of us are running into the same problem at this stage where our skills in game are really starting to develop but our self-image is slower to catch up and trying to hold us back a little. Venture has prob the best game out of anyone and he is a massive inspiration to me, hearing he has run into the same problems was really interesting and helpful for all of us. Day game went really well today, I learnt quite a lot and met a smoking hot girl and got he digits. Had a double date in my hotel room with smitters and 2 girls we met day gaming on sat , he didn’t waste any time and was making out with his girl after 30 secs then took her into the bathroom after about 2 mins hahah, (He doesn’t realize how good his game is, hes gonna be unstoppable soon) You my boy! It was good because it made it easier for me to make out with my girl. I ended up getting a handy thru a sheet haha I feel like I am in high school again lol.

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    End of week 3, July 18-20

    The biggest lessons from the past few days came from Intrigue's in field audio and an awesome set we should have never lost. Should.

    We went out on Wednesday to a place we'd been several times before. We got their early and started doing sets right away. Some of the guys in our group don't like to do sets at the beginning of the night when there aren't many people and the energy's low. I think that's dumb. The girls are there, waiting for something to happen, usually looking around the room. They're frequently bored, their energy is low but they want it to be higher. There aren't many people, so the other girls in the venue can watch everything you're doing. That means that it's easier to open because the girls are hoping something will happen to get their night started, and when you do open, you get social proof for the whole room with the other girls standing around and waiting for something to happen.

    James P and I went into a seated 4 set in the corner and they were loving us in a matter of minutes. It was going super well, but we were hovering over them a bit. James P decided to short set it – bounce out and then come back, so he ejected us out of set and we said we'd come back. A little while later, I convinced him not to leave it so long that we lost our momentum and we went back in. It went well again, except my target had moved seats and I wasn't next to her. I should have made no bones about moving and gotten nearer to her, that was a big mistake. We ejected again, saying we'd get them when the music was good enough to dance. The next time we came back with James T as well, as we'd promised them an Australian that likes hispanic girls for a couple of their friends. They got kicked out of their table because they didn't have bottle service and were just standing there. That messed up the dynamics a bit. I was trying to get a bit of isolation with my girl, but suddenly she was resisting a bit more. Somehow two of them got separated, and they wanted to go look for them. We walked off, and after a minute they followed us. But James P walked all the way to the smoking area near the balcony, and they wound up following to about 20 feet away, but that was just too far. I love you James P, but your attitude of not caring about them was a bit much and the lack of trying to make it work did not help out at all.

    You need to want her with every inch of your body, but not need her at all. That's different from not caring remotely. So when James P and whoever else was with us wouldn't walk over and grab them, I finally did as it looked like they were about to walk off. That was my mistake, because then I was chasing them as they were committing to go elsewhere. They said they were going to get water or something and left despite me being there, which basically killed what had been an incredibly awesome set where for of us could have hooked up with four very beautiful girls.

    We saw them later and tried to build social proof by picking up women in their line of sight, but there weren't a lot of sets near them so that didn't go well. In retrospect, that was definitely the best option, we just didn't manage to make it work. Eventually we said the appropriate thing to ourselves and decided to get blown out going for it rather than letting the set fade away. That's what happened. I should have come in gently, with some push-pull and tried to ramp back up because my girl was resistant the moment we came back. Instead I went in with pull, and on the negative momentum slope we had going, it just blew up in our faces.

    Lessons learned being the most important thing in any set, here's what I got out of it: Short setting does not work in all venues and is a tricky balance of momentum and the amount of time you leave. We aren't really good enough to be doing that extensively at the moment, so we shouldn't be leaving the set fully 3 times. Maybe once was fine. Then a lot of smaller takeaways in the set. Mostly we needed to plow forward, get isolation and keep pumping the momentum we had. This had all the potential in the world to be the best set we'd yet had. The state break of them getting kicked out of the table didn't help anything. Also, when you feel momentum sliding you need to either get some preselection in front of them, or come back in like you're starting from ground one and have to rebuild. Or both.

    The other big lesson this week was from Intrigue's infield audio. He got great audio of a pickup from opening, to leaving the set, to having the set come back to him, to walking them out of the venue and back to our hotel where Venture and Intrigue hooked up with the girls. They were pretty dang hot, too. In the audio, it's primarily Intrigue bullshitting with little lines and banter and funny segways. Most of the banter has some sort of tension in it, whether it's him calling himself sexy, teasing the girls, alluding to sex (often gay sex or something ridiculous), or just talking about male-female interactions. He worked hard to keep the conversation moving towards sex, not just fun random banter. At the same time, he wasn't blowing her away verbally. He described what was happening, and it was a lot of takeaways, then close proximity and strong eye contact and physical escalation. He was using the verbal aspect to buy time to really make the set happen physically.

    It's like chips and salsa – the chip is basically just there to deliver the salsa to your mouth. The salsa does most of the flavor work and the chip is the backbone. Intrigue currently has the most lays out of any of us, and he does it by using his verbal communication as a way to keep the interaction going so he can push the physical. In the audio he also handles a large number of tests quite well, and that is a significant aspect of getting the same night lay. It's like passing exams to get into college – the girls want to test him over and over to make sure he's good enough for them to sleep with, and once he passes all of their tests he has the value and attraction he needs for their minds. Then they had to plow forward a bit and keep leading them back to the rooms, as the girls tried to pull some wandering around and the other shit that airheaded girls like to do in order to mess up the set and prevent them from having sex. But really, that's what they wanted, they just wanted a guy to make it okay for them. It's really fascinating, and hopefully he'll release the audio at some point so other people can hear it.

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    Week 3 - Days 17,18:

    The past two days have been a little more relaxed. Since standup was finished on Tuesday we have just done some daygame and worked on a little bit of voice coaching during the day. Z ripper led us through some more awesome voice exercises and we’ve really started to get some momentum here. As long as I practice this every single day for the next couple weeks I’m sure my audio recordings of myself with sound much better than they did initially.

    Intrigue also broke down an audio recording of one of his pulls for me and some of the other guys. This was a very useful interaction to hear in its entirety. One of the big things I learned from it, is that my game basically revolves around similar teases and conversation as his does, but he adds more sexual intent to everything which is why he’s able to pull so often. I knew this was a sticking point of mine but it’s just good to keep reminding myself over and over again to let my intent show through all my subcommunications. I think that’s going to be the biggest thing I work on throughout all of Rockstar – communicating my sexual intent! Another key point he made in the audio was that we need to be getting a girls phone number before you pull her to show her that you are interested in seeing her again, even if you sleep together the same night you meet each other. Awesome stuff Intrigue!

    I also went on a date last night, which was fun but not super fruitful. Once I got her up to my room I encountered some LMR and hit a couple points I couldn’t (or didn’t) move past – still trying to figure out which it was. I could tell she was very nervous once we started making out. This might have been because she was so young and we had spent very little time together up to this point (I met her during daygame for about 5 minutes). Vici gave me a great tip for girls that are nervous after I spoke to him about it though. His advice was to just step back and tell her that you can tell something is wrong, and you want to know what it is. I’m sure I can have her come over again if I want to give it another shot, I’m just not sure I want to spend anymore time on her because I was not super interested in the first place…

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    Week 3 (Wednesday - Thursday)

    So the last two days on the program have been relatively chill for me. Wednesday night a small group of us went out with Intrigue and Venture. The girl who I had meet on Saturday and with whom I had menstrual issues on Sunday was at the bar so ended up hanging out with her most of the night and not gaming. That was extremely frustrating for me because I tried to pull her but she didn’t want to go because she had to be at work early the next day. Yet the place was absolutely filled with extremely high quality women, on the out side at least.

    So it was frustrating for me because these were precisely the type of women that I wanted to improve my game with before Rockstar started. Up until now my success with super attractive women has been sporadic. To make a long story short I would hook one every 6 to 9 months over the last few years yet would typically end up messing it up by turning into needy guy. Intrigue gave me some great advice yesterday on how to proceed. One thing I need to do is to just approach more of them. Sometimes I will allow myself to get intimidated and not approach. That has to end. I need to harness that feeling of extreme attraction and use it to my benefit. But perhaps even more difficult than that is that I have to treat them just like any other girl. I have noticed when I am in set with a super attractive girl I tend to play it safe. That to has to end. I have to play fast and loose with all of them. That will be the goal I set for myself over the next several weeks. Intrigue also went over some audio of one of his SNL a week back and to actually hear the guy in set is amazing. His teasing ability and push pull in general is off the chain.

    Thursday was a very chill night. I ended up going out with one of the girls I have been seeing here. I have actually been seeing her a lot. Yesterday was the fifth time since we met each other that we hung out. There have been two main reasons for that. First, I just really have a good connection with her, enjoy her company and the interaction we have. Although I am sad that I will be leaving Montreal soon and not see her again I know that it is for the best because I could easily see myself sliding into a relationship with her. That is the last thing I need right now. I need to continue going out and practicing the new skills I am learning.

    Second, the sex has been amazing. I definitely have a wide range of interests, particularly intellectual ones, but having great sex is without a doubt one of the most fun things I can think of doing. One of my first girlfriends was really into eastern sexuality and I learned a few things from her. Unfortunately when we broke up I realized not every girl was as good so whenever I find one who is very sexual and knows what to do I feel I have to take advantage of that.

    This weekend will be our last one here in Montreal so I want to make it count. I want to really push the envelope Friday and Saturday and continue working on incorporating more push into my game and playing fast and loose.

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    Yeeah boy!!!! You guys are crushing shit....All of your sticking points (few if any) are all super advanced. Im so proud of you guys!
    E-mail me at intrigue@lovesystems.com if you are interested in working with me. Serious inquiries only!

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    Things keep on ramping here more and more. 2 nights ago I was having a decent night at this out door bar. At the beginning of the night it was great since it wasn't so packed and it was easy to approach. I was talking to these 2 girls and one of the girls was into me but she wasn't showing it so much. I think she was a littl bit shy. I was still touching her a lot and she was fine with it. I should have pushed things further with her because I think they really could have gone somewhere. I really need to internalize the idea to keep pushing things until you hit a red light. I've encountered a number of girls so far that don't give you much emotion but in the end they are down. It actually seems like almost everyone is down. Girls want sex as much as we do. I'm starting to see that more and more. After the bar 2 nights ago got really crowded Tenmagnet and I went outside to get some space. I really don't like being in super crowded bars and it's really hard to stop girls when theres no space to move. It can be kind of awkward too when you get blown out and then you have to stand across from the girl for the next 5 minutes. Tenmagnet told me to approach these girls outside and it hit really well actually. I probably could have even pushed things further than I did but I sometimes fall into the trap of enjoying the girls being attracted but not ramping things up and turning things sexual. Something else I need to work on.|

    Last night I went out with this girl that I met a few nights ago. This girl was thick and since I've put on 12lb of muscle I've been liking |girls that have some booty. She was a green light from the get go. Turns out she was native american so I had fun telling her how great it was to be in charge of America and asking her about her TeePee. She said she was coming with 2 friends so I asked Henry R and John M to come wing me. Turns out her friend Jean, which I thought was a girl, was a dude.....haha. While we were at the bar this girl told me that she was Bi. I almost messed it up since I didn't know how to respond. I was able to ramp things up pretty quickly and I threw her up against the bar and started making out with her. She went outside for a cigarette with 2 of her friends and I saw John M Aus and Henry R talking to this group of really hott girls. I went to go wing them and these girls were down. It was a real light bulb moment because I saw them when they walked in and I got that anxious feeling inside and assumed that they would be hard to open. These girls were so receptive and only in Montreal for the night. I tend to make assumptions about girls and I really need to stop. Everyone has there own shit going on and I would have never thought that these girls were in Montreal for one night and looking to get down. I was talking to one of the girls and it was going great until the girl I came with came back and got really jealous. I settled her down and brought her back to my hotel. Turns out she was on the rag so I told her "well even though your on your period, you can still give blowjobs right'.......and so she did. Having that solid frame is so key. If I would have been akward about it I don't think it would have happened. She had a tongue ring which scared the shit out of me since I was scared of it hooking onto my dick -- very stressful blowjob. As she was going down she kept on looking up at me and flicking out her tongue like she thought she was Gene Simmons from Kiss. I found it quite disturbing and just closed my eyes every time she did. Weird. This was the 2nd night in a row that I had a girl in my bed that was on her period -- just my luck. The good news is that there will be many more -- many many more!

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    Beginning Week 4 (July 21-23):

    Body language continues to prove to be king. On Friday I wound up spending a lot of the night with a set that I later found out Ripper had put a bunch of time into earlier on. She was being a bit feisty and I had already talked with her on two previous nights, so I used a lot of push-pull. Looking back, most of my verbals were push and most of my body language was pull. Though I did several takeaways, including walking off 2 or 3 times. I should not have totally walked off that many times, though. I need to start walking a few feet, then turning and smiling with my arms crossed like Intrigue and other things like that. Doing a full takeaway might say some good things about you, but it also breaks momentum and frequently the girls just leave when you're gone. Or they start talking to someone else.

    In any case, the verbal pushes with the body language pulls is what we were taught to do. Of course, this is a rule of thumb, you don't want all pushes to be verbal and all pulls to be body language – far from it. But more often than not, that's the goal. Anyway, I used a lot of prolonged eye contact, proximity and other things to get her pretty much a green light. I escalated a bit, but not nearly as much as I should have. Once she was a green light, I really should have been pushing the touch and the proximity and things could have gone quite well.

    Saturday night was a good bit of fun as we went out and had our going away party for Montreal. Our group managed to spend like Rockstars between dinner and bottle service, but it was a good time. The wine and apparently a cold from the girl the night before caught up to me around the middle of the night and I couldn't think well enough to do much pickup after the first hour and a half or so we were out.

    I was walking home with Henry R, who was walking about as straight as a dragonfly in a headwind, when he spied a nice tree planted in the sidewalk. Moseying right up to the tree, Henry says “Hey tree, how are you doing?” with a seductive look in his eye. Then he holds out his hands and starts gyrating his hips and doing a salsa dance. After a moment, his romantic interlude with the tree done, he walks over to a nearby mailbox. Mailboxes in Montreal are decorated with a bunch of numbers and letters, with a red background. He stares at the mailbox for a minute, “The numbers on the mailbox are jumping” he tells me in his British accent. His eyes remain locked on the mailbox for a minute more, then he extends his arm and leans on it as though it were his little brother. “I like you, Mailbox.”
    And that's what happens when the group drinks.

    Sunday night I felt like crap, but was talked into going out to Muzique anyway. Incredibly loud is really the only way to describe it. Great practice, as it kills most of the tools pickup artists generally use in their toolboxes. I started talking to a 5'10” blonde who with heels on was towering over me. For some reason tall girls love me. Maybe it's just because I believe they do. Anyway, I started with unbreaking eye contact. I could tell it was luring her in. I started escalating touch – hand on her back, speaking very closely in her ear so that my nose brushed against it. Saying something and then moving back and making eye contact with our noses almost touching. Eventually I started brushing my hand across her leg. She was pretty hooked.

    I talked a bit about passion, and goals. Then she said they were gonna go outside for a minute. Learning from past experiences, I got her phone number so that if she left it wasn't over. That's happened to me several times. She hesitated pretty strongly giving me her number, and I'm not totally sure she gave me the right one. Despite talking about passion for a minute, I didn't qualify her very much – so that must have been part of the issue. She also mentioned that she thought it would cost her a lot to text me since she was roaming or something. I should have escalated the touch a bit further, and made sure to qualify her before asking for the number.

    I wound up seeing them a good bit later, after running a bunch of sets. Her friend, the birthday girl, was psyched to see me, but she seemed surprisingly luke warm. Maybe trying to let her friend take a shot at me. Another sign I probably didn't qualify her enough. The attraction we had build earlier had waned and now there wasn't as much a real connection. We separated, and it didn't seem to be a great situation. Then I thought about the other times I've just let things die like that. We were all leaving, so I went and found her again. I pulled her in and right in here ear I said “You're fucking sexy and I'd love to get to know you more, but we're leaving.” She lit up again, and held onto my hand, not letting me go. “You're leaving now?” “Yeah.” She seemed bummed out. I should have done it earlier, but I thought maybe it would help out the number. Looking back, that was the first time I'd made an obvious statement of intent to her. And the second time that I'd noticed a girl who seemed a bit cold towards me until I made a statement of intent. At least in some cases it seems it's possible for her to be thinking good things about you, but to react luke warm because she thinks you're not into her. Make sure at some point you make your statements of intent!

    In between those experiences, I found a tweak to my opener that made a huge difference. I had a couple 9's just walk off as I was trying to stop them walking by. I thought about what I had just done, and realized that as I had pulled her in, I had immediately turned my head to the side and said my opener in her ear. I had only made momentary eye contact.
    With the next one I tried an experiment. I stopped her by her arm and as I pulled her in so I could speak in her ear, I made eye contact until the last moment when I had to turn my head to the side to talk in her ear – or my nose was going to hit her face. Suddenly, out of 4 or 5 openers, the worst that happened was one of the girls got a huge smile on her face and giggled and ran off. I think if I followed her and re-opened, she might have stopped to hear what I had to say. Several other girls opened up much, much better. So, once again, it's all about the body language. In the last few days I created attraction by and large with eye contact and made openers happen with it. Now I need to work my proximity more, and stop doing full takeaways and do partial takeaways like I described earlier, instead.

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    DAY 19:

    Team Building Day. With the return of Vici and Sterling from the 10 day bootcamp, we sat down in the presidential suite and everyone ran through their life stories again. But this time in a more positive light and emphasising the more awesome shit in our lives. I was totally blown away even more then last time.

    Not to mention any names but just mentioning some of the awesome shit for my own reference with some of these guys; launching products online that made $1.2 million in 24 hours, extremely successful business owners, financial traders owning aston martins, jail time, foster homes, drugs, crime, pro surfing, djing, regularly socialising with facebook creator before it was big, world renowned ski racer, book author, pro poker player, perpetual travellers, expert coaching. I could keep going on. Every single person has had such a inspirational lifestyle. Everyone has fought through the hard times, one way or another, to get to where they are now and others have taken what they had to begin with to truly amazing levels. I have so much respect for all these guys and being the baby of the group I look up to every single person.

    DAY 20-21, Week 3 Wrap Up

    To end our weekend in montreal we went for dinner at what seemed to be the hottest restaurant in town. Out the front were parked ferrari’s. We were sipping on patrone, red wine, martinis, beers and cocktails. Perfect way to begin the night. We got bottle service at a club we had never been to before. Shit got pretty crazy. With Z Ripper mixing my drinks and feeding me shots its no wonder the end of the night is a bit blurry. Was an awesome way to spend our last weekend in Montreal.

    Montreal will be missed. We have used and abused the city. We have had some epic stories during debriefs and everyone is starting to become real good at game. Thanks to all the guys who took the time out of their own lives to come and teach us. For this leg, core instructors Venture, Sterling, Vici, Starlight also Intrigue, Future, Tenmagnet, ac Vybe, previous rockstars Z Ripper, nick, edgar, Laurent, Collin. Thanks to the mentors Akira n Japking.(I think I have covered everyone, forgive me if not) I have learnt something from everyone. All these guys are inspirational people and I am grateful to create friendships with these guys. Most of these guys will be back again in the final legs in Budapest and Stockholm, cant wait!

    DAY 22

    Road trip, day 1. 17 or so hours later, after getting lost numerous times, we arrive at our destination for a week long bonding session. We managed to lease a house for the week to accommodate all of us looking over the ocean. In the backyard we have a bbq and entertaining area. Everyone is super tired and exhausted from driving all night long but there is a lot of excitement for a week of surfing and chilling out with the boys. No gaming allowed, is the rule given from the instructors, but we will see. Approaching is just becoming a normal day to day activity.

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    Montreal recap (July 1- July 23):

    It's been real, Montreal. I'm definitely looking forward to being around people that don't speak French, though. Ugh. We managed the language barrier a lot better than I probably would have thought if you asked me how big of a problem it would be before arriving in Montreal. Including times when we did very well with women who spoke little or no English at all.

    The big lesson for me, by far, was using my body to create attraction and say a number of things during interactions. I came into Rockstar and Montreal not inexperienced in game, but never having done a lot of features of the Game 3.0 style. I basically never opened directly, didn't use much physical escalation at all early (though I knew I needed to), used very little proximity and rarely worked strong eye contact. My statements of intent frequently were non existent, and rarely were all that strong. I had a tendency to be a lot of push, without much pull. And there was rarely strong sexualization. I had only ever gotten a handful of makeouts in clubs. Probably 4 or 5 in 300 sets or so.

    So what we've been learning was a near perfect compliment for what I already knew. It addressed almost all of my weaknesses. Venture also has a similar personality style to mine, which makes him a great model for me. For any of you who are low energy, Venture is a fantastic teacher. If you are higher energy, Intrigue works well for you. If you're really high energy, Future is your man, but he's adopting some of the new Game 3.0 stuff at the moment so he's a bit of a hybrid style.

    We had a blast, came out with some great stories, I met some really cool girls. However, after being the first guy to bring a girl back, on night 4, I was disappointed that I didn't pull again. I could have pulled on a date that I had in our hotel lobby, but I wasn't super turned on by her and we had to get ready for our comedy night. Otherwise I messed up a couple pretty good numbers by pushing the pace a bit too quickly in texting. My text game has always been pretty good and I was trying to push it a bit to find boundaries and improve, but in some ways I wish I would have played it normally and gotten a few more hookups.

    Overall, Montreal was an amazing time and the lessons learned and the guys I met in the program were the biggest value. No ridiculously epic pickup stories yet, though some pretty funny episodes and a few stories about some pretty high class print models. We're on a road trip now – but I'm very much looking forward to our next stop!

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    End of Week 3 - Final days in Montreal

    Friday

    Today we went around the room and we all told stories about our lives but with a difference, we all framed the stories of our lives in a positive way, I really enjoyed hearing everyone’s life stories framed in a positive light. I learnt some things about my fellow rockstars that blew my mind. Some of the shit these guys have gone thru is unbelievable and I respect these guys so much. I think the reason we all get on so well is that we have all dealt with our fair share of shit in the past and have come out the other side as better people and without ego, also we all share a common goal of self improvement and we are all really grateful to be here on rockstar.

    Tonight I went on a date with a girl I met on Weds and it was awesome, took her back to the room and f’ed the S out of her! Boom

    Sat

    Went on an amazing diner with all the guys followed by bottle service at a fancy place. First time drinking during rockstar and I must say I enjoyed it, I enjoyed the night but didn’t enjoy the drinking and kind of regretted it. So here’s what I learnt, nothing, cause I cant remember shit…. That’s the downside to drinking, you don’t learn shit when you go gaming. Actually I remembered we were all having a shitload more fun when we were all drunk, I found it way easier to get in state but I said some stupid shit that I would never normally say that blew some sets and I always seem to use alcohol as a crutch. I am here to improve my game as much as possible so I prob won’t be drinking for the rest of the trip. I kissed a nice looking girl but at this stage of the program that's doesn't get me very excited anymore.

    Sun
    Day off – Fucking again

    Monday

    ROAD TRIP!! So pumped

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    Its only when I look back on the person I used to be that I see how frickin far I have come in the last 3 weeks. I can’t believe for the better part of my life I used to live with a totally life debilitating condition called ‘social anxiety’. Now it’s just a distant memory. I have pretty much completely conquered it now without the use of any drugs, alcohol or psychologist bill. Of course I still get AA like everyone does but its now at a manageable level. If I had to put it down to one thing it would be this, Acting in spite of being nervous or scared. One of the things that has been drummed into our heads over and over again is this phrase “Continuous right action over emotion” or in other words doing the thing you know is right regardless of how your feeling or what excuses you have. I cant describe how life changing this statement can be if you have the courage to use it, and it does take courage, shitloads of it, because every fibre of your being will be searching for excuses not to do the thing you know you should be doing. Forcing yourself out of your comfort zone, day in day out, will over time replace your anxiety with real confidence gained thru experience.

    I have learnt that social skills are like a muscle that you can develop like anything else, its not you either have it or you don’t like I was told when growing up, you can work at it and become a socially calibrated person no matter where you start from. It just takes a choice and to be disciplined and not make excuses.

    I feel like I now have 16 brothers and it feels amazing, I grew up in a really toxic environment where my friends weren’t really my friends and they were always putting me down, so to have everyone here supporting each other and cheering for each other feels so healthy and real, like man, this is what its meant to feel like when you have good friends! I fucking love these guys so much! I know most of us will be lifelong best friends and its weird because we have only known each other for 3 ½ weeks. I guess because we have been thru so much together already we have really bonded in a small amount of time.

    Intrigue and Venture feel like the older brothers I never had and are always there to offer encouragement, guidance and support. I really respect the frame they take, they tell us “Were not super heroes or special, all you guys can get to where we are, its possible, heres how..”

    Brandon D- This guy is super confident and is already super successful in sport and in life. His game is going to be great really soon. Because he used to be an athlete, he is using the same process of learning game as he did when he was skiing. We have talked about this and I have learnt a lot from him.

    John M Aus – I have been sharing a room with this crazy Aussie, he is very humble and disciplined. He hasn’t missed a day in the gym and he is doing all the exercises we have been given without fail, which is awesome because it gives me a kick up the ass when I get slack! Predicting both the above to have instructor level game at the end of this.

    Charles J- I fucking love this guy, His energy is contagious and he is always having fun! He is also quite possibly the horniest man I have ever met. He has fucked every single day of the trip so far. He is into tantric sex and has taught me some stuff about how to control your orgasm.


    Chris M – LEGEND! Like Charles he is always bringing the fun and having a good time. I love gaming and spending time with this dude and we have had some memorable sets together!


    Henry R – Textbook Englishman, he is a very funny man and has a razor sharp wit. Seeing how much he has improved over 3 weeks is pretty amazing, especially last night. My tip for most improved.

    Aryeh J – Funniest kid ever! He has an amazing energy about him, always upbeat and in a good mood and he is hilarious and is always cracking me up! Got all the time in the world for this kid. His confidence has shot thru the roof so far as it should, he is an amazing guy and kinda cute too, I totally would if I had a va-jay-jay.

    Smitter S – He is my boy! He is one of my closet friends here and our personalities gel really well together. Were always joking and freestyling rhymes together. I love gaming with this dude, we have had some crazy sets together. His game is gonna explode over the next few weeks. You watch!

    James P- With Smitters he is one of my best friends here, he is very internally centred and even tho he is small in stature he has a large heart and acts like a man which I respect. He has some of the best game out of all of us and he is going places in game and in life. Very happy to have met him.

    A-dog- This guy is the man, another one of my closet friends here and after hearing where he came from and the man he is today, it speaks volumes about his character. I have nothing but respect for this dude and it is awesome to see him growing and his game improving. He has probably had the toughest time out of all of us but he has hung in there and now we are starting to see big things coming from him. Love you bro!

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    Week 3 Recap

    The Montreal trip is officially over and it has been an amazing three weeks! We arrived in Halifax on Tuesday after a 14 hour road trip. We've rented a beach house for a week and this is a chance to just chill out and get to know everyone better. By the time the weekend comes around I know we'l all be pumped up for Budapest!

    Thursday night John M and I went to wing Aryeh J on a date. Unfortunately the two friends did not meet our expectations so we did our own thing. I've been having a great time winging with John M and we've gotten in to some quite hilarious interactions revolving around how we know each other through our mutual passion for 'docking'. The night was pretty slow until we saw a five set walk in. Hottest girls in the bar by a mile, ok lets go talk to them. We get attraction real quick with all of them and I end up isolating the brunette at the bar. Things were on from the start and there was a massive sexual tension. I felt a lot of the things that we've been taught coming to life in this set and perhaps my only downfall here was not seeding things better logistically. Although I did mention we were a few blocks away and that we were leaving to grab some food soon there wasn't a point in the interaction where I thought I had to push too hard because it seemed so on. This is clusterfuck logic and I need to change it. We also should have isolated the set outside where I could have worked in some more normal conversation with my girl as it was all sexualisation and fun. The set was whisked from under us really quickly when her brother showed up with all her friends. I still felt like I learnt a lot here and overall we had a fun night winging each other.

    On Friday we sat down in seminar to talk further about our life stories. Everyone shared their stories in a positive light and the realisation of just how awesome and driven everyone is to succeed really hit home. Speaking with Z Ripper made me realise that I need to project the respect and admiration I have for all these other guys on to myself. I need to feel like I deserve things in life by taking the right path in life. Listening to Venture talk through his journey showed me that the only way to really feel that sense of self worth is to be constantly pushing forwards in every part of your life, and doing a ton of cool shit along the way. Project Rockstar is the perfect platform for this.

    Friday night we hit the rooftop club for the final time. It was a little emptier than usual and we were burning it down fast. I didn't really get any sets hooked hard and although I had a few options through winging they weren't girls I was interested in. A slightly frustrating night and I think the size of our group was perhaps a little overwhelming for the quantity of good looking women in there. Positives to take from Friday were that I was creating attraction through sub-comms very easily and winging like a champion. At one point some guy was trying to blow one of our sets out so I turned to the two of them, pointed to the grenade and asked “would you like me to wing him” loud enough so he could hear. The guy looked confused before he turned away from the set and started trying to be my best friend. A little social pressure goes a long way.

    The following day we delved a little further in to SNL game with Venture and he broke down the things I've been trying to piece together in my head for the last week in about half an hour. Intrigue, Z Ripper and Venture discussed winging with us after this and we went over some things we could have done differently the previous night. The group is pretty calibrated now but we still need to play more of a team game. My winging and social intuition is generally well calibrated in a club and I just need to ensure that my state keeps up throughout the night by consistently opening and having fun with the rest of the guys. After the seminar we went out and I opened a few day game sets and did some shopping. My day game has really sucked here in Montreal. I've had 3 numbers all of which flaked. I can't wait to work on this in Budapest and in the day game capital of the world; Stockholm!

    Saturday night is a bit of a blur. We went out for a nice meal where the tried and tested combination of Patron, Red Wine and vodka redbull got all of us pretty tipsy. My best set of the night had to be the mailbox that I opened direct on the walk home. I'd built up some heavy pre selection after salsa dancing with the tree and it was a green light from the start. Unfortunately logistics prevented a SNL but I got a facebook close and will be setting this up as a long fuse. This is what happens when you immerse yourself in game for 3 weeks...

    Moving on to Sunday and our last day in Montreal. I slept in pretty late and when I woke up Charles J had left the building. Turns out he was doing the rounds with every girl he had met so far in Montreal. A busy day for the old fella and when he returned was swiftly looking in to 'enhancement' products. I spent the day with a girl I'd met a couple of weeks ago before going out with Z Ripper, Brandon D and Chris M for our last night in Montreal. I started off slowly but got in to it and escalated pretty hard with a girl on the dancefloor near the end of the night, before bouncing her outside and trying to pull her in to a cab. It didn't work but I'm glad I threw the hail mary out there. Three weeks ago I might have not escalated logistically for fear of rejection. Now, and with it being our last night in Montreal, I didn't give a shit. Starting to internalize this mentality and bring in to set has helped me a lot in the last week.

    This week we'l mostly be chilling out and resting up from game. Although we have been talking a lot about our various styles and going through notes which is really useful. I'm doing some work also with Intrigue on my sexualisation which I'm pretty stoked about. The guy has some of the best game out of all the instructors and has been getting laid every night. Already starting to get super excited for Budapest where I hope to really push myself and take my game to the next level!

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    These past few weeks have truly been amazing -- |really challenging but amazing. It almost seems that my ego is slowly being broken down and building back up. It's tough being rejected a thousand times over but I'm starting to disassociate myself from the outcome. I'm not quite there yet but I feel the gears inside churning. When you feel that inside you know you are doing things right. When Rockstar begins again on Monday I want to push the churning into high gear.|

    My biggest turning point during Rockstar so far was when I finally internalized that all of us here are the shit -- we are the 1%. We walk into any bar and we're easily the most interesting and fun group there. When I first started Rockstar I thought of myself and everyone else flawed in some way. We were lacking. I laugh now when I think back on those initial thoughts. How awesome is it when you care so much about living the best possible life that you are willing to take a 9 week break from life, sacrifice a ton of money, and in most cases tell your close friends and family what you are doing. It's hard for people to understand exactly what Rockstar is but when I'm here it makes so much sense. I'm literally blown away when I think of the sheer awesomeness of our group. What excites me is that even after Rockstar we're all going to have bonds for life. One of the most important things for me is to surround myself with people that inspire me and push me to be my best self and that is happening ten fold on Rockstar.|

    My game has definitely improved a lot since I started. I'm generally very critical of myself and don't like to give myself credit but I have definitely been pushing myself and it's only a matter of time before I reach the tipping point. Before Rockstar I was working in a job that required me to be in the office for 14+ hour days and I didn't get much of a chance to go out. Even though I sometimes struggle when I'm out now I've approached tons of girls and have had numerous girls back in my room. It's better then I give myself credit for. I still want to push it more and train myself to approach without hesitating. Every time I hesitate my sets aren't as good. It's important when you're trying to improve in any area to understand that it takes time and to recognize how far you've come in the journey. More importantly, to respect yourself for being on the journey in the first place no matter how long it takes.|

    Going forward I want to lessen the amount of things that I work on every night. Too often I go out with too many things to work on and my head gets overwhelmed. If I only focus on 1-2 things a night then I think I will be able to improve at a faster pace. I also want to start planning more for my life after Rockstar I can't go back to what I was doing. I need freedom to enjoy all the world has to offer.|

    The instructors so far have been great. Game 3.0 and inner game seminars taught by Venture, |Sterling and A vici have all been killer. The structure and way that its taught is so natural and easy to soak in.

    All in all, it's been an epic 3.5 weeks and it's only getting better..........

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    Montreal Reflection Post

    We’re in Halifax right now, and it’s given me a chance to look back on my time in Montreal and reflect on the whirlwind time we had out there, as well as on both the successes and failures I had.

    Right off the bat in Montreal, I felt out of my comfort zone. I come from a city where I have a good network and have pretty good social proof when I go out…I either know the managers, the waitresses, or show up with a good mixed crew of friends and good looking women at the bars I go to.

    The main reason I wanted to come to Project Rockstar was to learn skills for my Social Circle game, because my lifestyle back home seems to bring a relatively consistent inflow of smart, attractive, kind women into my life. That being said, I never really knew how to take my relationships with these women to the next level.

    So that all being said, I was a lot less comfortable with cold approaching (especially the really hot women) than I thought I would be. But I went through the pain with the rest of the guys and faced this fear time and again usually 10 -20 times a night. I really struggled with getting rejected over and over again, but the successes I had made it worth it. Again…Game 3.0 was game-changing for me. Removed a bunch of bullshit I had learned in the past and replaced it with normal shit that works.

    I met 3 girls over the course of the three weeks that I will likely stay in touch with.
    The first was a 19 year old from Pennsylvania that I slept with. She was in Montreal on a road trip with her two friends. I met her the first night at a bar. She was really friendly and smiled a lot. (I love a girl that smiles a lot cause it’s one of my favourite things to do. I also feel comfortable around girls like that because it shows they are confident and comfortable and it puts me at ease). In any case, I escalated pretty quickly both physically and sexually with her the first night…did things like bite her neck, kissed her a little, pulled her in at the right times, and used verbal escalation phrases. However, I did not think it was possible to pull her the first night because she was there with her friends…Luckily I saw her the next night at the bar, and went all in…I escalated throughout the night, built comfort (we’ve both worked with mentally handicapped kids in the past), and then John M Aus and Charles J winged her two hot friends and we brought them back to the hotel. After a little hotel party, I stole her to my room “to grab my iPod”…and the rest is history.

    The second was a fiery 26 year old from Toronto. She was hot, smart, successful and definitely a ball buster…She also hated me at first. I rolled up using an outrageous line that I was testing out (to bring up my state to a more fun place) “Hey…you like getting pissed on?” She was obviously tired of “pick-up” lines by the time I got to her and blew up at me for not being normal and being fake and using lame pick-up lines when I should just be ‘real’. This girl obviously doesn’t go out much, so we got into it. I challenged her that bars and clubs are the fakest places out there and everyone places a character just to survive etc, etc. It was clear she was not interested in me and I knew there was no chance in hell with her…but somehow our back and forth argument turned into a conversation, and that turned into deep conversation. I just got super real with her and actually started to call her out on not being completely real with me. In any case, by the end of it, I had made a real impression on her. She went from thinking I was a dumb douche-bag, to knowing that I'm educated, well-travelled, successful and ambitious. She added me on Facebook and we’ve been sending messages back and forth. She wants me to take her on a date when I fly back through T.O. on my way back from Europe…and also asked to Skype with me the other day…she even said “you really made an impression on me and I’m gonna change the way I treat guys at the bar from here on out". Not bad for almost getting blown-out.

    The last girl was a super cute 18 year old from Winnipeg. She was my favourite because she was really nice and confident right off the bat. I remember the first night I met her, she would test me with strong eye-contact (likely to see if I would break it) and I held it with a smirk on my face. Normally the girl would look away, but we both just held it…and right there through that simple act (and with some of Venture's warmth and sexualization physical techniques), we created intense chemistry. She had a boyfriend back home that she was really into. Fortunately she was staying in our hotel. I respected the fact that she didn’t want to cheat on him the first night and didn’t push it. But over the next 4 days we kept bumping into eachother and she couldn't deny the chemistry between us. The sexual tension just kept growing and by day 3, I convinced her to makeout with me. By day 4 we were making out in my bed. She didn’t want to sleep with me, because to her that would be cheating (women…), and I didn’t want to push it too much (trust me I tried) because I didn’t want to leave a sour taste in her mouth. I really enjoyed being attracted to someone to that level and having the ‘intimacy’ we felt. We are staying in touch and I’m looking forward to seeing her again when she’s single.

    So that’s 3 great women I’d like to keep in my life (and I'm relatively picky) in 3 weeks using the Game 3.0 material. That’s Pretty Not-Bad if you ask me. A big shout out to Venture, Sterling and Vici for giving me the curriculum and tools to achieve this. Also, another big shout out to Intrigue and Vybe for being amazing mentors along the way and picking me up when I hit rough patches and being there in-field to coach me along. Also gotta thank Future for being one of the funniest guys I have ever met and for bringing the good times when we went out.
    Can forget Starlight, either, for giving us the tools we need to start our own business doing something we can get passionate about.

    Looking forward to Budapest! We are gonna KILL IT!

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    Game 3.0 Review

    I had the privilege of doing the 10 day Game 3.0 course, but in the span of a 5 day condensed course with the ‘Project Rockstar 2012’ program. So, I can’t imagine how much better it would have been to have expanded it to 10 days.

    The course was taught by Venture, Sterling, and Vici. What I liked a lot about these guys is that they have gone through the journey; they all went from not doing very well, and being frustrated about it, to learning pick up skills, and then evolving it to a more organic place that fits a ‘normal’ person’s personality. Their stuff is light on the ‘gamey’ stuff and focuses on more holistic concepts like masculinity, warmth, fun, passion, and sexual escalation and the oscillations between them during an interaction.

    It is a really powerful place to come from once you understand how to convey masculinity and properly escalate verbally/physically; these were the things that were taught that were game changers for me.

    The physical and sexual escalation sessions that Venture taught were AMAZING. He showed us different ways to demonstrate warmth physically through touch. He also show us ways to physically escalate sexually when it’s ‘on’ with a girl. These physical tools combined with the verbal frameworks and teases he gives make it comfortable and easy to escalate with a girl…and fun as well. His lessons were the most important lessons that I learned because they really felt like the missing puzzle pieces for me.

    Going out and practicing the things we learned in class at night, it was clear that the tools that the instructors they were giving us were making us WAY better. I was opening hotter girls so much easier, was getting into organic conversations easier, teasing at the right times, pulling her in at the right times, kissing her at the right times, etc. It was just awesome having a legitimate framework to work within along with the instructors being there to coach you between sets or takeaways. Drastic improvements by all my Rockstar Brothers.

    I feel lucky that I found this program. It took my game to another level and I will definitely be telling all my friends about the 10 day bootcamps.

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    This has been an amazing journey so far. It’s been an amazing few weeks. What haven’t we done so far ? Standup comedy/going out everyday/launching our own businesses…… Ive had several realizations for my game throughout these weeks and more importantly about myself.

    I realized no one moment/thing/event will change my certain aspects in my life. The responsibility for change lies on an individual to realize and relentlessly keep a constant conscious for improvement. This includes lifestyle/mindset/individual changes one wants to see.

    Game related realizations –
    Thinking an action is wrong but doing it anyway – for ex. If you’re going to approach but in your mind it’s not the right thing to do …. Your pretty much fucked and in certain circumstances it may convey that you are passing judgement if she complies – escalation being one of them.

    Wavelength theory – I push my sets pretty hard verbally -- sexually and teasing. Some times in the past this would blow up in my face.. While this is usually okay… as long as I have a gradient and keeping my interactions caliberated I can get away with a lot of the bold stuff.

    Conveying passion via game 3.0 – I always had a hard time conveying my identity without being try to hard but without that you are just a fun guy….. Ive realized how important it is to convey your identity and people automatically see you in a different light after a few sentences. As rockstars we are all the shit. Literally, I haven’t been amongst cooler guys in my life. I learnt how to do that via Venture’s “comfort injections” and passion story techniques (I am still working on the building my own solid ones).

    Change her mood not her mind – This has been big as well and kind of got re enforced as I was reading the way of the superior man where the author mentions that when a girl says something its usually because of their mood in that moment of time. I think this would help anyone who takes something a girl says to them seriously.

    I also realized Montreal is a great fucking city….. im Canadian and didn’t really think much of the city even though ive been there a few times.. but jesus are French women hot. They have tremendous sex appeal in my eyes and the sexiest accent.

    I had a great time with some of the women in montreal. The ones that I ended hooking up with were all pretty young > 20 but were cool and hungout with them multiple times. I also had some epic lays - Day game approach ….lazy Sunday afternoon … saw her while I was with the boys…. Ran up to her ran through my standard stuff for 10 mins. Got a good reaction but that’s not uncommon(I had a girl on the very first day of the program with a boyfriend say “your really a catch …. U have to keep doing this… women in montreal are the most amazing girls ever”). So from there on I ran standard text msging stuff and all… and this girl was head over heels just like that. She thought I was gods gift to her…. literally. We ran through some logistitcal issues but eventually met up and had the Best sex ever. The rockstars and I are pretty much convinced she was a stripper at some point. Another one happened where James T gave some girls that were sitting down on the pavement a quarter implying that they were begging. Im pretty sure James T was doing that for fun but eventually we developed a connection with both of them and subsequently slept with them.

    Cant believe we are halfway done. Shoutout to Venture, Sterling, Vici, Jesse Starlight, Future, Intrigue, Vybe, Z ripper who have been teaching us gold and helping us grow exponentially.

    thanks again to Jesse Starlight again for the Lifestyle entrepreneur seminars and 1-1’s it’s been awesome.

    Also to my rockstar brothers who continue to be awesome.

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    DAY 23

    I can now say I have been surfing with an ex professional surfer. James T offered the guys who hadn’t surfed before some hints and we all paddled out in the most freezing cold water I have ever been in. I had to struggle to try and keep my hands and feet out of the water because it was unbearable. We rented boards and steamer wetsuits from a place near by the beach. I am currently writing this entry from about 30m from the ocean, laid back in a deck built just down from the house in the backyard. Not a worry in the world. Chill night in with a bbq is on the cards for tonight. Life is awesome!

    ROAD TRIP & REFLECTION SO FAR

    Sitting in montreal airport, minutes from boarding our red-eye flight to Europe, and thinking to myself. WOW! Where has the last 4 weeks gone? For the most part, I haven’t been able to take in how far I have actually come. And I feel like this first half of the project is only creating a foundation to build upon.

    The week long rockstar road trip was great. We bonded around a campfire basically just shooting the shit having a great time one night. We learnt so much about each other. We talked about our past life stories, how our game used to be, how we are all progressing currently here on rockstar and how we can help each other moving forward with in the program and afterwards.

    Unfortunately a couple of the guys went different directions for the week, but we all still stayed in touch with each other through group emails and facebook, psyching each other up for the next 5 weeks.

    Its really fucking cool growing together, having a support system around you with the same goals. This is something very new to me, and something I will hold close to me from here on in. The instructors have been telling us for weeks now, that together, no where in the world will you find a bunch of awesome guys in the same place at any one time, just ballin’ every night. And this week we are really starting to internalise that. This is really going to help take things to the next level over the coming weeks. We have all made a pact to each other to lift each other through the hard times and make the most of this opportunity of a lifetime.

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    Montreal and Road Trip Reflection

    The first leg of our adventure is over. So much has happened over the first four weeks of Rockstar and yet it feels like just yesterday that I was checking into the hotel and meeting everyone for the first time.

    The final weekend in Montreal before the road trip was great. I dedicated most of my weekend to two of the women I had met over the preceding two weeks. After Friday night and Saturday night out I went back to hang out with the one I have been seeing quite frequently (Boston girl). We spent most of Sunday together as well. I had a date with Greek girl Saturday before we went out. I finally closed on her as I no longer had any of the menstrual or logistical problems I encountered during the prior week. After hanging out with Boston girl on Sunday Greek girl came over for a few hours.

    Then I went out on a double date with two girls Sterling and I had met on Friday night to try and make it a triple dip Sunday. The whole idea of the multiple dip came from Venture. However, she started giving me a little LMR when I had her back in the room so I just went to sleep… I just didn’t have enough energy or desire to deal with it at that point.

    Then the next day we were off on our road trip. It was a great opportunity for just the Rockstars - minus Aryeh J a.ka. the teacher pet – to bond with each other without the instructors there and any pressure to game. However, you put a bunch of people together who are here to focus 100% on game and it becomes difficult not to game. We went out Tuesday night and naturally I saw an attractive woman and went to game her. I was proud of the approach because I was initially hesitant to do so because she was in the middle of a large group and there were some guys around. However, I pushed through it and thrust myself into the set. It was a bit weird because due to positioning I ended up opening the friend who was a bright green light. However, I forced myself to give that up to talk with the original target I had in mind. As I was talking to the friend I positioned myself to open the target and then mini-isoed her while Brandon D. came from behind to provide cover.

    The set went relatively well perhaps in part because I was relatively off my game and not pulling as much as I had been over the last few weeks. I managed to verbally sexualize through sexual qualification and introduce sex in a playful fun way early on in the conversation. I left the set and then came back a couple of times. However I really want to thank Brandon D for helping me on the set, without him I might not have reinitiated. After I had left the set the second time I felt the set was over because she seemed quite keen on talking to her friends and because I called her over a few times but she didn’t come. But I ended up going back in at Brandon’s urging and just chatted it up for a bit more and ended up number closing.

    I texted throughout the next few days but never really felt that things were that on. Neither did I feel that the set had advanced much that night although there was some sexual teasing that was going on and we did make out briefly. Yet lo and behold Friday night she invited me over to her house to watch a “movie” and it was on from the get go. Overall the main lesson I take from the interaction is that I am still not well calibrated between my pushing and pulling. I would have lost the opportunity had I not re-initiated the set and pulled a bit when Brandon D suggested I do so. The times I disengaged from the set in my mind I was seeing it as the set was over instead of recognizing that I was actually just pushing hard at that point and that it was just one step in the dance. Finally the whole time I didn’t feel I was pushing enough when in fact in hind sight perhaps I pushed just the right amount, after all we did make out a bit. Also, sometimes perhaps she just wants to hang out with her friends and that really doesn’t say much of anything about how she feels about me. All in all though it was a great set and I felt quite good with myself when after being over her place for some time Friday night she told me that she should have gone home with me on Tuesday. All and all she was pretty awesome and I think there is a good chance she might visit me later this year.

    The rest of the road trip was great as well. Wednesday we just stayed in the house that we rented and hung around the camp fire discussing game and life in general. It was a great bonding moment with all the rockstars. Then Thursday night we went out again. Smitters, Chris M and myself really rocked out that night.

    Chris M, Smitters, Henry R, John M and I returned to Montreal on Saturday night for one final send off. We absolutely killed it. Henry R and I ran an amazing set on the street with two girls. Within 45 minutes we were back in our hotel room with the two of them. Aside from how quick the set was what I loved was how unabashedly aggressive Henry R and I were. We made our intentions fully known to the girls and acted upon them. It went from the way I opened and the way Henry R entered the set – I am his wingman – to the way I just told my girl that we needed to get out of there and that she had to sort out the logistics with her friend. The rest of the weekend in Montreal I dedicated to saying bye to the two girls I had been seeing before the road trip. It was a quadruple dip weekend for me.

    Overall I feel very positive about my stay in Canada and the progress I was able to make. First of all, I am very happy with all the girls I hooked up with. They were all very cool interesting women who I was able to develop a connection with and who are keenly interested in being part of my life and them of mine. For me as I continue to develop my game that is an important thing for me. I want the women that I decide to hook up with to be sufficiently cool that I would want to see them the next day and want to check in with every now and then to see how things are going. Ideally, I would be seen as a positive influence on all their lives. That is one reason why I try to avoid dishonesty in my game, a topic that came up during our roadtrip discussions. The things we are learning are incredibly powerful and I want to make sure that I don’t use it to be manipulative or deceptive, which is why I love how we are being so unabashed about our intentions and what we are looking for. One of the coolest moments so far was when one woman told me how she loved how straight forward I was. Who would have thought just telling a girl you want to have sex with her could work so well. Another reason I think its important to be honest is that in my mind it is almost incompatible to be dishonest and have strong inner game. What does it say about the way you feel about yourself if you feel that you have to lie to a girl in order to get her to sleep with you?

    It is very difficult for me to judge my own game and the progress I have made over the last four weeks. I tend to be my own worst critic and judge myself more by comparing myself to where I ideally would be - i.e. instructor level. By that standard I am far from where where I want to be. While I am happy with the women I hooked up with and found two of them to be particularly attractive none of them were in the 9 and 10 category. Yet having said that I do feel like I have made enormous progress.

    First, my own inner game has been getting really strong. The last week or so going out I have been feeling really confident as if I can just go up to any one and the set will open. I am genuinely surprised now when a set doesn't open and the thought that something bad must be going on with her actually pops into my head. Second, I get the sense that my fellow Rockstars respect where my game is at which is a good feeling to have, especially considering how good each of their games are.

    Third, I can just feel that I got better at certain key skills. My teasing/ bantar has really improved. I tend not to get stuck in boring conversation as much as I used to. I need to continue pushing the envelope on this but I like the progress I have made. Chris M and James T are killing it in the fun department and I would like to continue learning from them on this score.

    My sexualization in set has really taken off. This goes from clearly communicating both verbally and physically what my intentions are. One of the best positive feedbacks I got so far was when A Vici told me in set that my body language just communicated how much I wanted to have sex with the girl I was speaking with. Additionally I have really begun to do a good job of introducing sex early on in the conversation in fun ways and pushing that forward towards sexual qualification and being sexually challenging. Even though all my hook ups have not been SNLs because of the sexualization in my sets all my day 2s have started off already ready to go. Finally I feel I do a good job of always being in state and opening.

    Going forward I need to make sure that I do everything possible to get to instructor level in the remaining five weeks. I want to sit down with some of the instructors to get some more individualized feedback on my game and come up with a roadmap for what I need to do. However, my initial thoughts on my sticking points are the following. I still do not do a good job of pushing in set. Most of my game is still pull. When I push they are either small pushes that are not as strong as my pulls or I forget to push altogether. Also I don’t really have a good sense of when I should push and when I should pull. If I am going to be able to hook up consistently with the 9 ands 10s and keep them hooked in set I am going to need to fix this. Additionally I need to work on my passion/ qualification/ comfort. Up until now all of my successful sets have depended on me pushing the envelope with sexualization and then using that to dip into qualification/ comfort to balance things out. However, when the girl doesn’t give me much on the sexualization front I have not been very good at using passion to move the conversation and the set forward.

    I have had trouble keeping some of the hotter girls hooked in set when I have not been able to move things forward sexually. Both Venture and A Vici told me that the key to 9 and 10 game is to not get blown up early and being able to play around with the conversation in a way that keeps her talking even when she doesn’t give me much. I tried this a few times over the weekend and felt that I just got stuck in normal conversation and she ended up getting bored. This is something else I need to improve on. Finally I need to really push the envelope with my day game. None of my hook ups have come from day game and I would be quite disappointed if I leave Rockstar with my day game in the state it is. I want to get it on par with my night game.

    Bring on Budapest!

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    It’s been a crazy ride so far, and I will definitely miss Montreal... Between standup comedy to meeting and learning from all the instructors to the several times I’ve been up long enough to watch the sun come up, we’ve definitely gotten our money’s worth out of this place. I’ve met so many awesome women the past three weeks it’s been overwhelming to think of all the experiences. I’ve definitely never done this many approaches in such a short period of time before. Which leads me to my first big insight of the past three weeks… Always be opening! It’s something we heard the first day, and something we hear over and over again, but it takes so much discipline to make it a part of who you are. It is the gatekeeper to success with women and is therefore one of the most important things in this journey. Opening doesn’t guarantee success, but not opening does guarantee failure. So keep opening!

    Reflecting on the past three weeks, I have really pushed myself in many different ways and am now that much more comfortable living at my edge. So many situations have now become a part of my reality: I’ve gamed hired guns well enough to get them to ask me to meet up, I’ve talked to smoking hot girls with enough confidence to push them away, I’ve followed a gorgeous women into the lingerie shop to approach her, had an awesome random approach at the gym, got one of the hottest girls I’ve ever daytime approached to give me her number (which turned out to be solid) within 30 seconds, not to mention meeting, dating, and having short relationships with some of the most amazing women I’ve ever met in my life.

    I’ve learned so much about myself, and pushed through several inner and outer barriers to my success as well. Two of my biggest barriers have been really understanding that women want sex as much as we do, and just knowing how to lead them to that place. Getting to a place where I can lead women sexually has probably been the biggest improvement to my game, and it has literally changed everything down to my subcommunications and how girls respond to my direct openers. This has been a huge improvement to my inner and outer game. Especially because sexualization and the ability to push things sexually actually causes attraction. Venture and Intrigue – huge thanks to you for helping me realize this! It’s so important! Another insight along these lines is that we have all started to see each other live and die by logistics – so make sure you screen for them and do everything you can to keep them within your control. Hooking a girl logistically and making sure she can come home with you is almost more important than anything else because it is the determining factor of whether or not something can happen.

    One of the other things I’ve realized at this point is how good our game is developing as a group. This is making things both easier and paradoxically harder for each of us, but overall it is a very good thing. I remember just the other night watching John M in set with Henry R and just observing how good his push pull was. I usually do a lot more pull than push, so I came up with a couple different ways I could use similar push techniques with my body language, and started using them randomly. One of the tactics is pushing her away by putting both my hands on her hips, and this and some of the other stuff has worked wonders the past couple days!

    I’ve also realized one of my major sticking points right now is not demonstrating the willingness to walk away once a set is really hooked. This has killed a few of my interactions that were otherwise going awesome. It’s hard to remember that you need to push and do takeaways when the girl seems so into you and it’s on, but it is so freaking important! If there’s one thing I need to remember to do in every hooked set it is this. Even if it’s just as simple as saying something like “you know, you really shouldn’t be talking to me right now.” I can also experiment with following this up with statements like “I’d do bad things to you.”

    I suppose my closing note can be my last memorable field report… Three girls on the dance floor, and I walked right up to the hottest one and said, hey you’re cute, I don’t think we’ve met yet. The next five minutes was full of some of the best push pull I’ve run on this trip, but also just simple questions and just making sure I was getting to know her. After she was hooked by my push pull, we started dancing a bit, and I built the intimacy bubble between us like crazy. Then I pulled her over to the bar for some water. Talked a bit more and got her number. Back over to the dance floor, where we danced a little bit more and just briefly kissed to keep the sexual tension high. Her two other friends were then waiting for her and I didn’t have any wings in the area. I tried a couple things to get her to stay with me, but she left with her friends. Luckily, I had her number and had already seeded that we were going back to the hotel room for drinks after this. Another logistical problem was that she was leaving the next morning at 6 am, but I figured it was worth a shot anyway. After some texting back and forth, which involved me passing a couple of her tests, she agreed to come to my room for a bit and watch a movie. The thing she didn’t tell me was that she was bringing one of her friends along too! I thought the situation was fucked once I realized this, but pushed forward anyway, just being the fun guy that I am, making no big deal out of it and told some stories to build rapport and comfort with both of them. Then, all of the sudden, her friend said she was going to meet one of their other friends downstairs, and I realized this was my final chance to make something happen. Long story short – friend left, I escalated immediately when it was just the two of us, friend returned to get her, then she said she wanted to stay! Friend left! Amazing sex! Epic pull! She is an awesome girl too, and I will definitely be staying in touch with her. This was also just another interaction that made me realize how good you need to be at handling tests. I can probably count up to ten times in this interaction where things got so fragile that it either came down to me passing the test or her walking away. One of the tougher ones was when she made me realize that I had underqualified her right before we had sex. I can tell she was at a breaking point of not wanting to do it, so I really had to bring the heat with comfort and passion stories in a way that she could relate. In short, I really just made her understand how powerful the chemistry between us was, and just watched her melt into that frame. Final note - neither of us had anything to drink that night, so that just made the interaction that much more real…

    Another huge thanks to Venture, Sterling, Vici, Future, Intrigue, Starlight, Vybe, and Z Ripper for helping make this one of the most amazing months of my life!

    More stories to come – peace out Montreal!

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    Montreal/Road Trip Reflection

    After our week in Halifax we are now en route to the beautiful city of Budapest! The week off was pretty relaxing and we bonded the shit out of each other over camp fires, surfing and anal. By anal I am of course talking about the consumption of the amazing north atlantic lobster that Halifax has to offer.

    The past four weeks has been a roller coaster of different emotions. In honesty I would say that I have felt down on myself for the majority of this trip. Whether I have not been pushing myself hard enough or just not been able to do the things I thought I could do consistently, I have realised one thing; practicing cold approach with this amount of intensity over a prolonged period of time is hard. It is one of the hardest things I have ever done and I have endless time and respect for people who have been through it and come out the other side with the kind of lifestyle they want. I think this realisation has hit a lot of the Rockstars over the past few weeks and brought us closer together.

    What I will say so far is that the high points of the process so far have made everything worthwhile. And we all trust the process and what we are involved in. There is a connection between us now that will only grow stronger and I trust that when this is over our game will be off the charts. After the first week I couldn't see that but having grown closer with everyone and reflecting on my progress so far, I am extremely excited to get to Budapest.

    We are all getting used to each others styles infield and our winging has been getting so good in the past week. Smitters, Chris M, Charles J, John M and I returned early from Halifax for the Saturday and Sunday night in Montreal and everyone killed it. We all got laid that weekend and Charles J and I ran a killer set that resulted in us f'ing these two girls in the same hotel room about 45 minutes after we met them. Just in case Charles has not debriefed this set enough with you guys I will summarise by saying that we ran the whole set super direct and 'played to win'. This was a breakthrough for me as I've encountered no less than four cases of LMR that I couldn't get around so far on this trip. Watching how Charles J and John M run their game has helped me a ton as I've winged with these guys a lot and they both have pretty damn solid SNL game. Trying to find my more advanced sticking points has been difficult but I think I've had problems being too warm when looking for SNL's and not doing enough 'push'/takeaways. I crushed these issues in this set and it felt good to finally smash a set out of the park and get zero LMR.

    Looking back on Montreal, the first week seems so long ago. Everyone has come so far since then and now we are rolling in to clubs as a team rather than a group of individuals with something to prove. Special shout out to James T as I think he has been a great example to everyone with regards pushing their limits and comfort zones. This guy has a great mentality and it's no surprise he has been able to master two very different challenges in his life in pro surfing and dj'ing. That sort of mentality is infectious and I think all of us share that iron will to succeed. To surround yourself with a group of highly motivated guys that are all on the same page is really a special thing. I certainly want to make the most of this environment and continue with my life in a similar environment when Rockstar is over.

    The next 5 weeks I want to shatter my existing sticking points and keep pushing my limits to make effective use of all the expert instruction we have. Venture, Sterling and Vici have all been through this process before and have experienced teaching a Rockstar program last year so they are the ideal mentors. I have learnt so much from seeing these guys infield. Intrigue and Z Ripper are with us for the duration too and watching that two man wrecking ball smash through clubs has been eye opening to say the least. Z Ripper particularly, who was a Rockstar in 2011 has amazing direct game and super strong teasing. Hearing from last years Rockstars about where he was at the end of the process last year and seeing where he is a year on is an inspiration.

    Moving forwards with Budapest I want to work on my day game and make sure I am gaming the really hot girls as well as just the cute ones. I want to be able to go after the girls I want rather than just the girls I think I can get. I've gotten better with this over the past four weeks but I still let the odd hottie go by. I also want to work on my teasing in set and calibrating my takeaways better so I can give a girl blue balls. Building attraction through my sub-communications has been one of my biggest advances so far and I want to continue to work on this and improve my verbal game so I can have more effective warm physical/sexual verbal and sexual physical/warm verbal. Sometimes I get a little stuck verbally particularly when I'm not warmed up and my physicality can come across as uncalibrated. These next five weeks are the perfect environment to work on these things and help create that positive buzz around the whole group that has brought everyone to a level way beyond where they were 4 weeks ago. Bring on Budapest!!

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    Road trip reflection (July 25-29):

    James T wound up taking us surfing a couple days. A lot of the guys went back a day early, but James P, James T and I hit up the beach another day and got some decent rides. We also had a great night around a camp fire, showed a couple of the guys how to make s'mores and had a good time. Somehow the trip back took about 3 hours less than the way out, maybe more. Accurate directions are a nice thing to have.

    One of the funniest moments of the trip was turning and watching Smitters drifting out to sea on his board, a good quarter mile off shore and well outside everyone else. He didn't seem particularly concerned as he hung on like a Titanic survivor.

    As for going out, Halifax wasn't horrible but it wasn't great either. One night I got kicked out of a bar for grabbing a girl by the wrist. She yanked her wrist away because she was apparently working there and needed to go do something. A nice guy bouncer who was fat and clearly never got laid decided I could start a fight and get “the piss beat out of me” that way, so he kicked me out. I was as nice about it as possible, and neglected to point out that I was sure he never got laid and that I've spent some 16 years training MMA and probably won't be getting the “piss beat out of me.” Diplomacy. Though to the fat bouncer at the Toothy Moose in Halifax, who won't be reading this because he doesn't realize his life sucks dick, thanks bro. I wound up getting laid with a chick at another bar because you booted me.

    That scenario was pretty funny. Smitters picked up a girl, and was just going to let it go. I kept telling him to escalate and push it. Then I told him she wanted to hook up and to push it more. We brought up s'mores at our beach house, she asked if it was an invitation, we said sure. We found out they didn't have a place to say, wanted weed, and had stolen a Blackberry they had found in the club earlier. We had them follow us to the beach house, but in the car on the way we started seriously wondering if they would run around the house taking all of the electronic devices as we slept and then peace in the middle of the night.

    They came to our place and Smitters stopped escalating or even interacting with his girl. I pushed him to do more, but she got caught up with the energy of the group and it pretty much blew anyone out from having a chance with her. I think Charles J had a chance, but he was concerned about leaving and driving home. The girl I had been talking to, but not gaming that hard, was sitting off by herself saying she was being crabby. I went over and started giving her a neck massage and otherwise ignoring her and talking to the group.

    I turned my back for a minute, and she wound up on the couch trying to go to sleep. Which was never going to happen with all of us talking. So I went and started giving her more of a massage and trying to turn her on by touching her in non-sexual places but pretty seductively. She started asking me a ton of comfort questions, obviously trying to get to know more about me so she could justify something. I asked her if she wanted a bed to sleep in downstairs, she said yes. We walked down there and I gave her two options – an empty bed and the one I said was mine. I wasn't sure if I wanted to hook up with her, but I probably should've made up my mind and pushed it. She opted for my room, I closed the door and that was pretty much it. I made some important moves after, but I'll leave that talk for the other Rockstars.

    Our last day, I met two girls surfing. I gave them some tips (I have no idea what I'm doing, but I knew a couple things they didn't), and talked to them a bit. We lost them for a while, then James T and I found them later and talked to them for a bit. They seemed pretty uninterested, a lot of “Let's get out of here” body language. We wound up walking off without asking for a number.

    Then we started saying we should've tested the assumption and pushed for some sort of close anyway, just because. They turned out to be at the surf shop when we were returning our boards. I asked them if they were stalking us, and cracked a few jokes. When they were on a high, I walked over and asked for one of their numbers and said hopefully we could hang out later. I pretty much expected them to not comply, but we were on an emotional high and had shown willingness to walk away (too much so, honestly- we may have never seen them again). I started texting her pretty quickly, with some powerful qualification and saying something like “I couldn't hit on you too much in the middle of the day in front of our friends, but I think you're really cute[...]” It worked well, and they met us for dinner. They seemed pretty boring and uninterested during dinner. But they stuck around and went to a club with us. When we walked in, I decided another SOI might be in line. I've been finding some sets, especially shy ones, act really distant until you give an SOI and then they break wide open. Fascinating, really. So I told her she was super cute, right up in her ear with a lot of proximity. After that I didn't stick very close with them, including walking away at one point, opening a girl on the dance floor, and making out with her. She was super hot, but all I did was open with very good body language and eye contact, say “You're fucking gorgeous” or possibly “you're fucking sexy” with energy above her bouncy state, ask her name, and then escalate dancing. I got her number when she said she had to find her friend and told me she owed me a conversation, but didn't wind up looking for her.

    I went back to the first girls, sat down with mine and started giving her a neck massage, then running my finger nails across her back. She had no objections, but still wasn't giving me positive body language. I started sexualizing, using the four orgasms joke, talking about skinny dipping, playing the game fuck, chuck or marry. Then I was asking her about if she'd been in love, when she lost her virginity, etc. I said I'd kiss her if she wasn't in front of her friend, but that her friend would probably mind. She responded with something like “I'm not sure.” Which is a maybe and maybe is yes. I let it go for a minute and upped her state more. Then I said 'Kiss me' and she said “I can't.” It wasn't a “No” or “I don't want to” and it struck me as non-decisive. I said 'But you want to' and she agreed. I went back to increasing her state, her body language was now facing me quite a bit and we were leaning close. I finally ran my fingers into the base of her hair on the back of her head, pulled a little and turned her towards me. We started making out, and when we came back to the rest of the world noticed her friend had come back and was sitting, watching us. At the end of the night she had to leave with her friend, but she clearly would have slept with me if we would've been around longer.

    Overall the road trip was a great time. Some of the guys did not want to do it and miss gaming at all, but we pushed hard to make them all go sit outside around the camp fire, and they wound up thinking that was one of the best parts. It turned out very well. We got to know each other much better, did some gaming, got lost driving, had some fun. I learned that my delivery had gotten a bit gamey on some things as I got used to delivering them so often that I started to deliver certain things much too quickly. It gave the impression that what I was saying was always going to be said, that it was planned, and it wasn't coming across right. Also, having some down time let me develop some new theories and think through what I wanted to be doing next. One of the nights I had my first two makeout night ever, while a couple nights before I had been almost totally blown out with no very good progress all night. And I had guys trying to fight me and kicking me out of bars in between. Things can vary so much night to night, it's important to average a few nights performances together before drawing conclusions about your game.

    Right now I'm sitting in the airport to Budapest. Soooooooo psyched. It's clear that really, really, really wanting to be good at game, to the point where your desire will push you through anything. That can be a bit hard to keep going in game, since it's not competitive like other sports. Having the constant objective comparison of competition makes it easier to really want to be at the top.

    Now we'll see what the next few weeks have in store!!

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    Budapest (Tuesday - Thursday)

    So we arrived in Budapest Tuesday night and I was absolutely exhausted. However, I forced myself to go out. The club we went to had a huge line that would not move so I focused on opening up sets in line and everything was working and girls were opening up. I had one girl that was really cute that I had a good chance with and then another I am confident I would have pulled had a gone into the club. After that I was thinking to myself Budapest is awesome this is just going to be a continuation of what we were doing before.... wrong!

    Wednesday night in the club was absolutely brutal. I just was not prepared for it given how well my game had been hitting the last two and a half weeks in Canada. Things that were hitting in Canada were just not hitting. Sets I was sure would open just didn’t. I think there were a few problems I ran into that night. One I was really exhausted so I had a difficult time just staying in state and maintaining my positive frame, which obviously made it difficult to continue plowing after some setbacks and to successfully open and win girls over. I felt that I burned down a lot of sets just teasing and bantering… it was almost as if I should have been moving much more between teasing/ fun and qualification and banter. Finally oddly enough the two sets that hooked the best were with girls who spoke no English so I had a difficult time moving things forward. I should have just blown out the set by being sexual and seeing how far that took me. Venture (who is really just incredible… I cant say enough about his game but all the Rockstars hold it in such high esteem its only a matter of time before we start making Chuck Norris jokes about the guy) ended up really escalating with a French speaking girl in Montreal who spoke no English so I know it’s possible to really get far without speaking the language…. 90% of communication is non verbal. Although I am disappointed in myself for allowing the environment to get me down and for leaving early, which here in Budapest is 3 since things close at 5.

    I have to give props to my new roommate Arie J for bringing back an absolute smokeshow… he didn’t close but just the fact he was able to get that far with a girl of that caliber speaks to the power of his game. Although I was secretly glad he didn’t close and she feel asleep because I was able to stop pretending I was asleep and go to the bathroom… finally!

    Yesterday we had a debrief session with the instructors where they each told us what they thought about our games. This was actually something all the Rockstars have been craving. All of us were looking for good detailed feedback on their game in the hopes of continuing to take things to the next level. I hope sessions like today become more frequent and more detailed as we head into the second half of what is shaping up as undoubtedly one of the greatest experiences of my life.

    On the whole I think almost every Rockstar got great feedback from the instructors and rightfully so…. We have been absolutely killing it. It is amazing how far everyone has come. Only one Rockstar got taken to task but I know everyone of us is pulling for him and are going to do everything we can to help him improve over the next four and a half weeks. He has all the skills to make it happen he just needs to embrace the learning process, adopt a beginners mind and the uniqueness of what we are doing.

    I was really happy with my feedback. It is really hard for me to judge my own game but I had been getting the sense from my fellow Rockstars, the instructors and my results that something good was happening. To have it verbalized and expressed by the people who have some of the best game in the world felt really good. I just have to make sure that I don’t rest on my laurels and keep pushing and driving forward because I am no where near where I want to be yet… although I don’t think that will be a problem with this group because we are all improving at such an amazing clip that if I stop improving for just a day Chris M., James T., John M, Brandon D, Smitters, Henry R, Arie J and James P will end up taking all the cute girls! Also, I just love talking, relating and sleeping with women and until I have the 9-10 game of A Vici I won’t be satisfied.

    The instructors really praised my state and just the positive emotion I bring to every set. They said that every time I am in set I just have this really happy smile on my face and just come across looking good. That was something I had never thought of. Surprisingly Ripper and Venture said good things about my verbal game which I think is the biggest thing that has improved on Rockstar but I still don’t really see as a strength. Overall though the message was to just keep doing what I am doing and that through continued practice I will end up fine tuning things. I hope that they will help me pinpoint a few things to fine tune in the weeks to come but I will take it. Venture also said that I should be going up and approaching the hottest girl in the club. That meant a lot especially coming from the legend himself.

    After the debrief I went out and day gamed with Sterling, A Vici, Chris M and John M. We had a good session. As I mentioned before day game is something I have been slacking on compared to my fellow rockstars and that I want to get in shape before everything is said and done. I had a few good sets. The best was the last one that Sterling pushed me into. I have been texting back and forth with her already so I am hopeful something good happens with that. She was very attractive and cool. Afterwards I went out to eat with Sterling and A Vici, which was really cool. Because they had to leave to go do the ten day we haven’t had that much of a chance to connect but we have started to over the last few weeks and really hope that continues going forward. I definitely want to make sure I connect much more with those two as well as Venture during the second half. The Rockstars have really bonded into a cohesive brotherly group and hopefully we can develop that with the instructors.

    Went out Thursday night (obviously). On the whole it was a great night. I was still getting blown out a lot more than I would have liked but I am slowly feeling things becoming slightly more calibrated. Shaking up the teases and dipping into passion/ comfort much quicker and then going back to teasing seemed to work. With the teasing I was still getting the reaction from girls that they didn’t believe me and didn’t quite get that I was joking. I need to somehow get it across the language barrier that it’s a freaking joke!!! I also introduced some qualifying attraction for the first time into my game that also got good results. I had two really good sets. One was with a girl who had lived a year in the U.S. so I was able to run game normally. I am actually surprised I didn’t pull her. I was 100% certain I was on the road to bangtown with her and I was looking at a green light that was becoming super on. She is an aerobic instructor and has a killer body. The only thing I would do differently looking back is that I should have been clearer about setting the frame about the type of girls I like and the chemistry between us. She tested me a bit on not really knowing her at all. Also, I might have done a bit too much sexual qualification but I think that this one will go down on a day 2.

    Finally I was super happy with the last set of the night. I went to open this one girl and she reacted very negatively at first but for some reason I just turned up my state, my smile, and my positive emotions and she ended up opening up really well. It was as if sheer positive emotion just turned a switch in her. Having the instructors actually point this out as something I do well made me conscience about it and now I am thinking if there might be ways to take this further. The last set might be an indication that I can. It was late and she was leaving but I number closed so we will see what happened. But I even got into a banter battle with her friend who was not being the nicest and I even got her to crack a bit. This reminded me of some great advice Intrigue had given me the last week in Montreal that he wanted me to channel the OH GOD reaction we all get when we see a super attractive girl into something positive and use that in the set and in opening her up. I think I finally have a concrete understanding of what he meant and I hope to push it this weekend. Although I am not sure how this squares with A Vici’s comment to me that his disinterest is what helps him get the really top girls. I need to explore this a bit more. However, I am going to close by giving my shout out to A Vici for hooking a Victoria Secret model tonight. Unfortunately logistics bit him but still…. Awesome!

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    BUDAPEST DAY 1-2

    I love this city already. Well I love the women here, I haven’t had a chance to game between sorting out all essential errands that is required in a new city. But wow, the women here are amazing. Another thing that impresses me is that there are outdoor bars everywhere, in parks, in squares. On the walk back from dinner through a huge park right out the front of where we are staying were hundreds of people sitting around drinking and having fun at 9pm at night. The language barrier may be tough, but its going to be worth it.

    Night game is tough, hard to find English speaking girls, then when you do its hard to communicate properly. I don’t know how many times I asked a certain question and got a completely different answer. So I just ran with it. Fuck it, first night out, was just settling in.

    Had a few guys fly in from London today, still don’t know there handles, but im super excited to learn from these new guys. And especially psyched for the business stuff they have in store for us.

    DAY 3

    We had a good debrief with the instructors straight up today. Something all us rockstars were really looking forward to. Everyone got some good feedback and we realised we have all come a long way from 4 weeks ago. I need to be a little more high energy, I know that internally, its just I need to release something from inside of me to allow that to happen. I am not sure when or how I can do that, but being around all the other rockstars, ultimately, it IS GOING TO HAPPEN!!!

    Big shout out to Bonsai and aaron for their skype call in today. They taught us about efficiency in life and game after rockstar. How to merge the two together, keep our skills developing and also running our businesses. I really enjoyed it, from what they taught it seems like they really have their shit sorted. No bullshit with wasting time chasing girls, how to cycle your fuck buddies (menstrual cycles lol), where to find the hottest girls and easiest way to go about it without taking too much time out of your own life. A lot of the stuff them guys taught is how I want to live my life. Efficient, no bullshit and making tons of money while laying tons of pussy. Cant wait to learn some more at SC from them.

    Got to do some day game, my first day out in a little while and it went really well. I am still trying to calibrate to the girls, being aussie, I need to speak very slow and very clear. The same resonates into night game. But night game is hard man, I think most guys agree. I know for myself I am getting blown out 80-90% of the time, usually without even being acknowledged. The night out began really shitty, I felt ill but opened 2 or 3 quick, tough sets and it was painful. I kept saying to myself, hang in there its going to get better, and it did. Props to Brandon D for bumping my state. He tried opening this super hot brunette, surprise surprise she didn’t acknowledge, so we just stood around next to them, kept opening her, he was poking her, she was smiling but still no talking lol, the group were smoking small thin cigarettes so I leant in and told them those cigarettes were just like my penis, small and thin. She laughed, but still back turning us. I finished the night there with one good set right next to them girls, seemed to calibrate myself a little bit better to teasing. Marriage role play works a treat still. Oh well, plow through that shit. We wlll work it out.

    PS – No more porn or masturbation kids, channel that energy into more efficient things.

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    The Stripper And The Sex Club (Montreal)

    The Stripper and the sex club.


    It was an interesting night at radio lounge in Montreal.

    I was out hitting on girls with the Rockstars and instructors and found the courage to approach three obvious strippers.

    I opened the group with a very clever line handed down from one of last years previous students. "I have two assholes"


    After some ridiculous laughter I felt the set warm up immediately.

    That night I managed to number close and kiss close one of the girls and headed back to the hotel.


    The following day I sent out some very funny texts which were some of the lines that had been handed down by Venture as well as Intrigue.


    After claiming do of dressed like a pedophile and sending out invitations to become my World of Warcraft guilds new raid leader I had hooked the girl hard and invited her out that evening.


    We met at a large Irish pub where there was a very small gathering of people and a live band playing in the background.

    She was sitting there with her more attractive friend and some guy.

    I was very nervous and began sweating as soon as I walked in.

    After grabbing some cash from the ATM I sat down and began having a normal and very generic conversation with my girl.

    The other two went out onto the back patio to smoke and we soon joined them.

    Upon arriving outside I was asked if it was cool if they did some cocaine. I replied "yeah go ahead" at which point they started shovelling key fulls of blow into they're system.

    My girl came and sat on my lap and I knew that tonight might very well turn into an interesting evening.

    They asked if I wanted to go to an after hours party and I said yeah sure. At this point I texted Intrigue and asked if this was something he would recommend doing. He replied "Fuck No" but later changed his mind and suggested I go along.

    After watching the girls stash 2 full pints of beer into they're purse (very impressive), we left the pub and I began tearing around the streets of Montreal in a sweet Audi with this group of drunken coked out maniacs. I remember thinking to myself, so this is how it ends…..

    Eventually we pull up to a strange area of town which resembled downtown but every building was closed and the streets were abandoned minus the odd homeless person. We park the car and enter what appeared to be a bakery and were greeted by a wholesome lady which very much resembled your typical granny.

    The two girls presented they're membership cards and we were presented with towels and a locker key. I remember thinking holy shit what is going down. I also overheard in french the other guy say " I'll regard peur" which translates into "he looks scared" (which I was).

    After paying our fee ($50 per couple) we were granted access and headed into by far the strangest place I have ever been. Upon walking in there was a bunch of lockers and change rooms to the right.

    I was told to strip down and throw on a towel which I did.

    Normally this would be something that would freak the hell out of me but the atmosphere was so normal and my groups demeanor was so relaxed that I just kind of went with the flow.

    We went down a stairwell and came upon a series of rooms. Some of which had peepholes that allowed you to look inside of the room, all of which were empty. Our next stop was this small smoking room with a bed in the center and multiple couch's arranged along the walls. This room was filled with some really fat and ugly naked people sitting there smoking cigarettes and talking like everything was completely normal. My girl sat on my lap and we sat there and had some very generic conversations with the other guests.

    After sharing a cigarette we walked down the hallway and passed a room with a hanging sex swing. Eventually the hallway opens up into a large room with a huge swimming pool on the left and a pool tables and stripper poles on the right.

    All of a sudden the towels come off and we spend the next hour playing pool naked. And yes this was completely outside of my comfort zone but seemed somewhat natural for a ripped beast.

    After playing pool I pulled the girl into a hallway and started making out with her before pushing her away. It's on and we both know it! After revisiting the smoking room we exit the building to find sunlight slapping us in the face. A quick drive lands us at her apartment and we go inside.

    It's straight to the bedroom where I begin physically escalating and making out with her. She stops in the middle of the interaction and says "we can't have sex". In my head I'm thinking "are you fucking kidding me, after all that" but on the outside I stayed totally un-reactive and just say "that's cool" all the while continuing to physically escalate.

    She tries this again and I explain to her that to me sex is as normal as making toast and it's totally cool, we can make toast some other day. But at the same time I continued to physically escalate and kept her buying temperature hot. After this last attempt I am able to seal the deal and ended a very memorable evening with a bang.

    Over the course of the next couple of days I revisited her apartment and vagina on several occasion. Life is good!

    Thanks to Venture, Sterling, Vici, Intrigue, Z the Ripper and the rest of the Rockstar crew for teaching me the skills to stripper pull, Love you guys!

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    Tomorrowland!

    Over the course of the one week break I was fortunate enough to of had the chance to go to Berlin and Tomorrowland with Vici, Venture, Sterling and one of the other rockstars.
    This was by far the most incredible weekend of my life!

    Berlin was very cool and had some amazing monuments and buildings but the people seemed very serious and cold.

    Belgium and Tomorrowland were completely different and started off with a bang! The first day upon arriving I saw Alice Cooper and ZZ Top standing in the hotel lobby and was able to capture a photo with them.

    This country and it's people were all very friendly. Tomorrowland was like a whole new world in itself! We had an incredible time and spent everyday partying our asses off!
    Originally dance and techno music were not really my style but after being to the craziest party on the face of the planet with close to two hundred thousand people I know have some new favorite songs.

    This incredible journey was an amazing time to relax and take a break from gaming girls. There were times that I was incredibly exhausted and just wanted to sleep but I would not allow myself to waste anymore life.

    During the trip I was able to discuss business ideas and share my story with them which is something that I simply cannot speak about with anyone else in my world. It felt great for someone to understand what I was talking about and actually get it.

    Over the course of break I had an opportunity to really get to know Venture, Sterling and Vici on more of a personal level. These guys are by far some of the coolest guys I have ever met in my life! The thing that really impacted me the most was the size of each of they're hearts. Game 3.0 and Project Rockstar are both incredible things. But the true value really lies in this wicked groups ability to help men become the best men they can be.

    This trip was incredible and my face still hurts from all of the smiling and laughing. Tomorrowland is definitely something I will be looking forward to for years to come!

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    RoadTrip Reflection Post

    ROADTRIP REFLECTION POST

    After Montreal, the Instructors rented us Rockstars a couple of vehicles to go on a road trip together. We decided to drive to Halifax to be on the coast and do some surfing. I’d never been to Halifax, but had heard great things about the East Coast and the people there; they’re supposed to be really friendly and outgoing and down to Earth.

    So we loaded up into the two vehicles (4 per car) and I had brought along a couple of walkie-talkies, so each vehicle got a walkie-talkie so we could communicate with eachother along the way. Within minutes of taking off, we were already coming up with our individual walkie handles. I think I was Cheetah-Dick, there was a Big Foot’s-Dick, Donkey Dig, Big Dick, Little Dick (other vehicle).

    We left at about 2pm in the afternoon, and after getting lost a few times, finally arrived at our destination in Halifax at around 5 am. We rented a cabin on the ocean with a nice big backyard. It was pretty dope, with the only caveat being that it was a 20 minute drive outside of downtown.

    In any case, we had a good time. Lots of going out at night, campfires at night, chilling out and sleeping, and one day of surfing. Halifax actually had surprisingly awesome surf breaks that, under the right swell conditions, would be world class. I’ve been surfing on and off for about 8 years now and it is definitely an important passion of mine…so it was a priviledge to get to paddle out with an ex-pro surfer in James T. He totally shredded and I watched in awe like a groupie.

    In any case, having been given the opportunity to get to know all of most of the other Rockstars on a much more personal level during the road trip, I thought I would give my quick snippet for each:

    Brandon D – Brandon and I are tight. He and I have gotten along well since the beginning. We see eye to eye on a lot of things because we both love the outdoors and alpine sports. We’ve also spent a lot of time together in the field and have good chemistry together. What I like about Brandon D is that he has this dominant, serious air about him, but once he’s in set, he can actually be really funny and interesting. So I feel as though he emits masculinity naturally. Solid Guy.

    John M Aus – John is a man of few words but incredible body language. He’s one of those guys that you feel like you need to fill the silence with because he just naturally creates tension (and I mean this in a good way). He’s the strong-silent type. Naturally alpha in a lot of ways, and I’m starting to see him smiling more and more in sets. John has great game as it is, just through his sub-communication, and will only get better and better. Solid Guy.

    Henry R – Henry has turned his life around with respect to his body and his handle of game. Henry has dropped 70 lbs from a fairly sedentary lifestyle and looks RIPPED. The thing I like about Henry is that he’s a fairly quiet, soft-spoken guy, but he’s very witty and killed me when he did his stand-up. Henry is getting better and better and is having more and more fun in sets from what I can see and has been hooking some hot babes nightly. Once he handles his physical escalation to a higher level…he will SLAY. Solid Guy.

    Charles J – Charles has uber-confidence and approaches like a MACHINE. He brings such a good energy to the group and is always good for a laugh. He is also one of the most sexually motivated people I have ever met. It is inspiring. I want to love women as much as he does. Can’t wait to continue to get to know Charles more over the remainder of the trip. Solid Guy.

    Chris M - Chris is the like the big teddy bear of the group. He’s the tallest of the gang and is just a really likeable guy. He’s always giggling and having a good time and cracking jokes. You can tell Chris is a really nice guy that should be doing much better with women, and it looks like he’s finding his edge now and has been taking off. Solid Guy.

    James T – James is one of my closest friends on the trip. We bonded immediately when we met each other over our love for surfing. We also relate to eachother on a lot of things like our inability sometimes to internalize our successes. I think we see the world in very similar ways. James does this thing where he beats himself up about not doing well with game…and yet he has been one of the, if not the most successful guys on the trip so far. I think he’s slowly starting to believe just how rad of a guy he is and I can see him doing better and better in sets every day and every night. James is gonna do great things. Solid Guy.

    Smitters – Smitters is my roomie and another one of my closest friends on the trip. He’s a Canadian like me so we immediately bonded over that. I really like Smitters because he has been through SO MUCH and still turned out to be a really good guy. Seriously, it breaks my heart to know what he’s been through losing his mom at a young age and having to move away to a foreign country after that happened. Smitters has really solid game, but like me, I think he can get stuck in his head and not see just how awesome of a guy he is. We have a lot of really good pillow-talk sessions together where we just talk game and talk about our nights and debrief with eachother. It’s been really awesome getting to know Smitters and I’m glad I get to room with him. Solid Guy.

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