Thread: TROUBLE TRANSITIONING
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05-08-2012, 06:33 PM #1
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- Mar 2012
Hey guys. I'm new to the game but I have already put in practice most of the information Magic Bullets and Mystery Method provides you.
Thing is I meet a girl, I always act Alpha and make her laugh, etc. My problem is that I can't transition from Comfort to Seduction (I don't want to initiate kino, afraid of DLV). What should I do and when should I do it?
I basically end with this equation everytime: TOO MUCH COMFORT + NO SEDUCTION = LJBF
05-08-2012, 06:43 PM #2
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- Jan 2012
You have to touch her man. Compliment her wimpy arms. Ask her where she got her earrings. Ask her about her tattoo. Fuck just playfully push her like when you were a little kid. All of these things are ways for you to touch her and get her more comfortable with you doing it. There are so many ways to do it. It's seems harder than it is at first. But just do it. Practice. But you gotta do it or be relegated to the friend zone. Would you rather have the pain of messing up by trying something or the pain of messing up by not trying?
05-08-2012, 08:46 PM #3
Also, tell yourself way before that you're going to get physical. Even if it's awkward. If you hang out with a girl and things are going great but you havent touched her, remember your promise and just do it. You may creep her out, you may lose her but you'll be learning for next time
05-08-2012, 10:40 PM #4
I imagine the reason that you dont want to touch is that its not congruent with who you are. YOU NEED TO CHANGE THAT! Its clear that youre not a touchy person and if you dont touch from the very first moment you met her, such as tapping her on the arm when youre getting her attention, or touching arm when you lean in to talk, then youre going to seem creepy and non congruent when you start kino.
But unfortunately high standard and friendly men, who are good with women, or good with any one for a matter of fact, initiate friendly touch. Watch movies, TV shows and interviews of high standard men, then do touch and its not awkward as thats who they are.
You need to start including it in your life, When talking to your friends, family or strangers just initiate light touching when joking on, putting your hand on them to move them etc.
Read as much as you can on kino, if youve already read it, read it again. Spinning a girl in the club, commenting on her top while you touch her arm as mentioning it, there is so much to make touching normal so that when you start heavier kino its just that, normal.
Remember its only weird if you think its weird.
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