Are most women whores?

**Yuji** · 04-01-2012, 12:43 AM

Are most women whores?

So I got a few different opinions on this subject, the national studies say average women sleep with 6 men in their life, pretty BS if you ask me. A few of my friends who I know sleeps with a lot of women says "if she drinks, she fucks", and they believe 80% of girls in their 20s who goes to clubs regularly sleep with many men. And because I have this thought drilled into my head, it's now tough for me to trust women that I am dating (i guess it could be a good or bad thing). I really want to restore my faith in women after my thoughts have been corrupted, but I guess this mentality can keep me from catching a feeling too quickly.

So my question for you is, what is a realistic number of men a woman sleeps with in a year? How many men does a woman sleep with (per year) to be considered a whore? And just how many women are whores?

**TheRogue** · 04-01-2012, 01:12 AM

Originally Posted by Yuji

So my question for you is, what is a realistic number of men a woman sleeps with in a year? How many men does a woman sleep with (per year) to be considered a whore? And just how many women are whores?

Women sleep with an average of 7.5 men per year (the 0.5 is the midged they picked up while drunk at the local gas station). If we define the "whore" cut-off as the top 25th percentile of lucky gals, then any woman who fucked more than 11.25 men is considered a "whore" (the 0.25 was the guy whose penis was 3/4s shorter than average... hence he doesn't count as a full lay). Considering the current world population of 7,004,189,254, with approximately 50% being women, there are currently 875,523,656.8 dirty little "whores" running amok out there (the 0.8 occasionally attends confessions for her "sins"). That's 875,523,656.8 people who are out there having more fun than you are.

Now, do you really want to sit here crunching numbers, or would you rather get laid like a whore?

Rogue

**sdnightfly** · 04-01-2012, 08:00 AM

Someone who's promiscuous isn't a whore.. a whore has sex not because of attraction, but because they're getting something out of it. It has nothing to do with numbers as much as reasoning.

You can't base what you see on a dance club as what happens outside of there. A lot of times, there's making out going on, some crotch grabbing, but once they get outside the club, she's out of there.

Now if she's blowing the bartender because he's giving her free drinks? She's a whore. If she's blowing the bartender because he's hot...she's just horny.

I have to know her reasons for having sex... did she ever do something as a sexual favor? Bragging rights to do someone famous and have that brought up in every conversation from that point on? Then sure, she's a whore. But if she's an actress and banged a famous dude, it's an occupational hazard. If she banged the producer, then she's a ho

Originally Posted by Yuji

So I got a few different opinions on this subject, the national studies say average women sleep with 6 men in their life, pretty BS if you ask me. A few of my friends who I know sleeps with a lot of women says "if she drinks, she fucks", and they believe 80% of girls in their 20s who goes to clubs regularly sleep with many men. And because I have this thought drilled into my head, it's now tough for me to trust women that I am dating (i guess it could be a good or bad thing). I really want to restore my faith in women after my thoughts have been corrupted, but I guess this mentality can keep me from catching a feeling too quickly.

So my question for you is, what is a realistic number of men a woman sleeps with in a year? How many men does a woman sleep with (per year) to be considered a whore? And just how many women are whores?

**Project X** · 04-01-2012, 08:59 AM

The question is - why are you concerned?

1 - Are you worried about STD? personally that's what I am worried about. If I have sex with 20 girls and each of those girls have sex with 20 other guys, then that's 20x20=400 people with potential disease that I am at risk.

2 - Whores? Like the previous post said, it means trading sex for money or other values. Some girl have sex because they are horny, some wanted for money/opportunities. I am not worried about these whore since I am naturally cheap and it'll take a lot to dig out my wallet.

In some social circles, like trailer trash parties, girls probably have 10-20 sexual partners a year. But if you hang out with Ivy League graduate immigrants like I do, then you run into a lot of girls who only had 1 previous sexual partner in her life.

I remember pulling a girl for a same night lay. Several weeks later, I saw the same girl outside the same club, drunk and trying to decide to go home between 2 guys. I was like DAMN, this girl probably goes home with a new guy every other week. Uck, does she have STD?

You raised an important issue. On this forum, our goal is to pick-up as many hot girls as we can, and one way is to go for same night lay at clubs. Clubs, drinking does select for more promiscuous girls. While same night lay is awesome and a lot of fun, that in itself further select for girls who tend to be more spontaneous (to put it politely), or who are more likely to sleep around.

I wouldn't worry too much. If you use proper precaution you should be free from disease even after having sex with 100 girls who are promiscuous. I personally take the middle ground. I like many sexual partners, but I prefer not to ride every girl that has been ridden by every other dude in town. If your target demographic is the drunk girl at the club at the end of the night who is separated from her friends, yea, she's probably been around the block many times.

**kratos** · 04-01-2012, 09:47 AM

Don't be silly , wrap you're willy.

Not all women are whores, or easy might be a better word. You have to use your head to judge how classy a girl is. Some girls just like to fuck whatever is hot. Other girls like a guy who is funny, intelligent, loyal etc...

there's definitly good quality women in the world mate ! Have faith. Sometimes I just like to fuck a good looking girl who might be dumb as fuck and boring as fuck. But I still look for those high quality girls, (as defined by me) who are interesting, loyal, not easy... could be the mother of you're children.... they're the ones I classify as being worthy of my commitment and complete respect.

So yeah, in my opinion like everything else in life, there's all sorts of everything. girls that are easy, girls that classy, girls that are virgins, girls that fuck alot, girls that will be loyal, girls that will stab you in the back...

It's just up to us to judge what type of girl they are as best we can and treat them accordingly... obvioulsy you don't want to being commiteted to a a girl and declaring you're love for her if she's a sleezy bitch that has no self control and will shag anything she can.

**HugeGrant** · 04-01-2012, 10:44 AM

I as a guy don't like to call girls whores who have many sexual partners, if a girl likes to fuck around like I do who am I to judge?
I know it is harder for a girl to get excepted as somebody who wants to have fun without being in a serious relationship but come-on it's 2012 let them have it!

**boston_019** · 04-01-2012, 10:59 AM

Like Rogue said... 875 million roaming the world, so if a girl is busy tonight, maybe she's got an opening (pun intended) for you tomorrow.

**20three** · 04-01-2012, 12:25 PM

Yuji, 2 articles for you in the order of importance.

http://www.bristol|||||||||/2008/inn...ecret-society/

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/...stalize-women/

I feel the same way you do. It's only because I care too much about the things that are out of my control. It's the most disturbing thought that the woman you want so much, might be sucking someone else off right now as you read this.
The "She has been around the block, I don't want to hit it" only gets activated when I think about the woman in terms of getting sex and don't see her as much more.
What has helped me is to find more women who I really connect and want to be with. I know a few very interesting women who already have men in their life (one is married, the other one is in a LTR, for now anyway) and with them I wouldn't mind getting it on, even though they are having fun with someone else exclusively. For now.

**TheCockOfZeus** · 04-01-2012, 12:38 PM

I would be a hypocrite if I called anyone a whore. Girls like sex just like I do, if not more. That's not gonna make it tough for me to trust a girl though. If you're satisfying all of her needs physically, emotionally, blah blah blah, you shouldn't be worried (obviously communication is key here). - Nice math skills Rogue. You should come to Vegas with me. You can be my Rain man.

**Yuji** · 04-01-2012, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by 20three

Yuji, 2 articles for you in the order of importance.

http://www.bristol|||||||||/2008/inn...ecret-society/

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/...stalize-women/

I feel the same way you do. It's only because I care too much about the things that are out of my control. It's the most disturbing thought that the woman you want so much, might be sucking someone else off right now as you read this.

I couldnt open then first link, but the second link has a great article, thank you. And @Rouge, where did you get those numbers? they sound about right.

What I am experiencing I believe is I am slowly making a transition from a Beta to an Alpha, and starting to realize all the "she's an angel, dreamgirl" stuff is total BS. I am still having a hard time changing some of my old mentalities as I start to realize most women have much more sex than I use to think as a Beta. I sleep with around 5 women a year lately, but I never had a LTR and I aml looking for one. But it is now harder for me to trust a girl that I am dating, as I know how much sex a lot of women out there have (but I guess it's an emotional insurance policy). And it is indeed hard to think that a girl I like, might be or is sleeping with someone else before we declare exclusivity. I guess I still have some ways to go from Beta to Alpha.