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  1. Virgin in need of help

    OK well here goes. There's an HB8 I've been talking to for about a month now. She's an ex-coworker and when we worked together we always flirted and had a ton of sexual tension.

    We've recently started texting and both of us has showed serious interest in the other with our conversations getting sexual very quickly.

    She wants to hang out at my place on Tuesday during the day when no ones home. And I'm 99% sure that were going to have sex.

    Only problem is that I'm 20 and still a virgin. I'm pretty sure she's not one. But she doesn't know I'm a virgin (she never asked). And I really don't wanna tell her I'm a virgin just yet. It might be a mood killer.

    My question is how do I go about having sex and making it as natural as possible for both of us? I know my first time will not be the best but I want to make it as pleasurable as possible for her, I'm really into her.

    Basically I want to seem experienced and I know its near impossible for a virgin.

    I just don't wanna come after 2 min and look like a complete loser/virgin. Anyone have any advice or tips for making the first time a good experience rather than the embarrassment that most guys talk about?

    P.s I've been practicing breathing techniques and Kegels for the past few days.

  2. Update: our recent conversations have been gettin increasingly sexually explicit an I'm sure I'm getting it in on tuesday aka my day of judgement.

    However I may have implied that I wasn't a virgin and now I'm gonna have to back it up. So saying I'm a virgin is out of the question unless I wanna look like a liar.

    But the way this hb is I'm sure she wouldnt be interested in a virgin anyway.

  3. #3

    Get fucked up

  4. #4

    Ok well i see your situation but i woudln't worry that much. You don't have to tell her anything about being a virgin.

    A lot of girls like virgin because they can mold them to their liking. Don't say anything about it and take your time. Start slow and use a condom that prevents premature ejaculation. Make sure you masturbate the day before and do what you can. Don't try oral yet and just play with her nipples and find her turn ons. Don't worry about it, if she likes you she won't mind that you're a virgin, you can tell her afterwards. Do everything you can to stay calm.

  5. ^ thanks for your advice. When you say don't try oral yet, do you mean don't receive from her it or don't give her oral?

  6. #6

    I'm really into her.
    Take it easy and try not to be really into her.

    You don't want to push her away.

  7. #7
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    Jun 2008

    If it were me, I'd be honest about it. I was when I lost mine. I just said to the girl, "Just so you know, I'm not the most experienced guy ever" and that was that. I said it right before it happened and it didn't kill the mood and why should it? The girl isn't automatically going to think, best not do this then! The other thing with the way I phrased it, it didn't outright say I was a virgin, just that I was inexperienced. I went on to give her one hell of a night too.

  8. #8

    Don't give her oral. Don't ask for it either because when u ask for oral it's usually a give you will reciprocate. Oral's not that complicated but you're already nervous don't pile on too much responsibility. Just take your time and don't try doing too much, stick to what you can do.

    I lost my virginity at 24, and then we were togheter for 3 and a half it's very plausible.
    Last edited by Triple S; 11-24-2011 at 07:11 PM.

  9. Quote Originally Posted by BetterThan View Post
    Take it easy and try not to be really into her.

    You don't want to push her away.
    Trust me it doesnt show when I'm with her. She even told me that she was worried I wasn't into her. I've been DHV'ing alot.

  10. #10

    Quote Originally Posted by Gfrigo View Post
    ^ thanks for your advice. When you say don't try oral yet, do you mean don't receive from her it or don't give her oral?
    He means don't recieve it...damn haha.

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