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    Dogs and pets don't have sex with women. Unless you're into that kind of shit, why would you want to compare yourself to pets and "be" like them!, gains nothing.

    Sounds stupid to me.



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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymess View Post
    What attractions switches do dogs and cats flip in women? Clearly there is something to be learned from this. Has anyone looked into it?

    (1) Around 63% of all U.S. households (71.1 million) have pets.
    (2) Can men learn to flip the same attractions switches that pets do?
    (3) People put up with incredible inconvenience to own one.
    (4) Pets are beta toward their owners, and they are not terribly smart.
    (5) Many breeds have only one survival skill, namely being cute.
    (6) Pets are held up to a different standard than human companions,
    can men do things to make girls lower their standard expectations?

    And then there is the whole idea of "collectors" and obsessive compulsive
    hoarding. Some women collect things like candles, or have weird hobbies.
    Is there a way that a man can trigger the switches that make a woman
    gravitate toward him, much like she would to a porcelain doll collection
    or toward a strange hobby? How does one trigger such compulsions?

    It seems to me that the above might a key to discovering additional
    attraction switches.

    ...me
    As Savoy said, every women is different. For example, to Jessica, if you start talking about your dog Mr. Whiskers, she's going to get bored and scan the room for other guys. Basically, she's really not interested. Now, if you tell Becky about Mr. Whiskers, she may find that attractive because she loves animals/dogs. All women are different! Be yourself!

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    Im curious about astrology.

    Person's argument: "This girl is attracted to me because we have the same birthday."
    My argument: "She was already attracted to you, you're just in comfort; or she is just backwards rationalizing through commonalities."

    Discuss?

    - DJ

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    Quote Originally Posted by Savoy View Post
    Alright, let's try this one last (?) time. This is important.

    There are 3 billion women in the world. They are all different and will all want different things. My friend Paula in college loved witty older intellectual cynical Woody Allen types. My ex-girlfriend's sister Amy was all about rugged individualistic self-sufficient outdoorsy guys. Etc. There is no way you're going to know any of this before you talk to her.

    So when you first meet a woman, say a couple minutes in, what qualities do you want her to know about you? If you talk about your love for camping, you've bored Paula. If you talk about books you've read, Amy will start scanning the room for other guys.

    Now, some of that is inevitable, and good. You're not trying to be all things to all women. You're not even trying to be something you're not. You don't need to be. What you are trying to do is to present yourself from the best angle. To show the aspects of your personality that are most attractive and relevant to her. Because she doesn't have time to get to know you and all the other 5000 guys who have approached her in the past year. If you're good, you get a few minutes to give her something to latch onto and feel attracted to you. What we're trying to avoid is situations where you HAVE qualities that interest her but she never finds out about them because you're too busy talking about useless shit.

    So, enter the attraction switches from the Magic Bullets Handbook.

    Attraction switches are eight things that most beautiful women around the world tend to like. They're not the 8 most important characteristics a man can have to attract women. But they ARE your best bet for things to convey early on after meeting a beautiful woman. As different as they both are, both Amy and Paula notice a guy with social intelligence, humor, confidence, who is pre-selected, and so on. So if you met either of them in a bar, you wouldn't start with a shot in the dark about your camping trip or your book club. You'd start with stuff that attractive women usually tend to like which makes her interested in getting to know you. Then you can see what other interests you might have in common (qualification and comfort).

    I hope this helps -- it's an important concept so I don't mind answering questions about it.

    As Mr. M put it i believe
    "spark emotions and raise value"
    And as value and attraction increases and eases into normal conversation, you will begin to relate, thus raising value.

  5. Quote Originally Posted by BlackbeltMethod View Post
    Person's argument: "This girl is attracted to me because we have the same birthday."
    This is probably true. There is some scientific evidence for it. People are in general attracted to people with whom they have something in common, even if it's something like a birthday. I think you could even assign number stickers to people randomly at the door and people with the same number sticker would also be a bit more attracted than otherwise.

    It's a small effect though, likely much smaller than the "big 8."

  6. Quote Originally Posted by anonymess View Post
    (5) Many breeds have only one survival skill, namely being cute.
    (6) Pets are held up to a different standard than human companions,
    can men do things to make girls lower their standard expectations?
    This is the same as being in the friend zone then, isnt it? Can't remember which movie, there was a line that goes something like:

    "you are like a puddle, women love a puddle, but they will never fuck one"

    On the other hand, I do believe attraction is a more primal, biological thing of which, your looks will get you the first 30 sec but after that there is social pressure that we tend to pair up with someone with similar socioeconomic value.

    So the challenge really is how to amplify and convey the underling attractive qualities you already have on which Savoy was talking about.

    To me tho, question really is how to build those qualities with the limited resource one have.....

  7. To me tho, question really is how to build those qualities with the limited resource one have
    Take another look at the list. Most of them do not really require "resources," other than making some effort to display them. Some of these things work because you are really cheating biology in a sense. Take pre-selection. You don't actually have to have a harem of ten teenage wives, all pregnant, like some tribal chief. You just get a few hot girls to hang out with you by not being fun, a bit of effort, and not being such a dork that you chase them away. Now you can flip the switch in other girls when they see it.

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