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05-20-2006, 03:58 AM #1
I got a serieus problem here, I start off with the whole story, so it is comprehensible for everyone.
Failed the shittest
I know this girl for 2 years now. She is a HB8 and I always had good contact.
A month ago I decided to seduce her. After some talks I had with this girl, I got her so far that we met at my place to drink a whole bottle of Tequila.
We talked and talked and the bottle was about to become empty. She almost fell asleep in my arms and when she went home we kissed . The day after we were close at the place we both work, but then it happened.
I told one friend of mine what had happened the night before. And when she was on a birthdayparty, people were asking these questions about what has happened. I heard she flipped and went home and the day thereafter I got a message all was a mistake. She ignored me 2 weeks, so I decided to write her an email. She responded and said that something went directly against her principles(I still don't know what) but she's over it and she would do normal to me again. She said it had nothing to do with me. Then she ignored me another 2 weeks and didn't respond to my newly send email .
So a month has passed without hearing from her and finally I reestablished good contact. But now I have to start from scratch all over . This time it won't be so easy. Can anyone help me with this? Was she really mad at me? Should I ask why she ignored me or should I let it be? What did she want to achieve with all this? Had she feelings for me(allthough she thinks that I am a player)? It is really a strang girl...
Last edited by Kalek; 05-20-2006 at 04:08 AM.
05-20-2006, 09:44 AM #2
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A women values her social status higher so high its above even sex.
You see what you did wrong was brag to a friend.
You keep what happens between you and a women between you to.
For her sake and social status and your own becuase you dont need to brag.
She got pissed at you becuase she probably lost social value in the eys of her peer-group depending on what was said, But i would bet that she felt a bit
cheap and let down by you.
You see you need to be the one responsable for her actions when you are intimate.
Instead you tell a work mate, he gets the word around suddenly people are asking her about *the weekend* her social value is under threat and that social value is her number one prority,
Go against that which you have done and you will find LMR is going to kick in. And that's if you ever game her to the seduction phase again that is.
Learn the lesson here man.
Keep what you and women do to you. Its nobody else's buissness.
Otherwise you will find the shit will backfire and you will end up in situations like this.
Hope i cleared something up for you and for god sake please learn this.
Anything else you want more detail on then feel free to ask me.
Last edited by Onix; 05-20-2006 at 09:52 AM.
05-20-2006, 10:03 AM #3Certified Live Training Graduate Lounge Member
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Onix pretty much nailed it.
But this post reaks of one-itis.
Time to move on man. A month with no contact and you are still after her?? wtf???[CENTER]May bullshit baffle brains.[/CENTER]
05-20-2006, 12:09 PM #4
Yes it is clear to me now. I knew what I did wrong and I learned a lot of this.
Luckily she's over it and she responds to me like before all of that. Only now she will be more suspicious, when I would be asking her if she wants to date.
When is the best time asking her on a date or something like that? Should I wait longer and what is the best move?
Hope you can help me guys, I never experienced this before.
05-21-2006, 11:02 AM #5
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