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01-29-2010, 07:25 PM #1
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- Jan 2010
Ok..this is it...I recently went to a nightclub for an event set up by a social club at my college, and the second I got into the club I introduced myself to this girl (turns out shes an exchange student from germany)..then I parted ways with her...a while later, I see her again and we begin talking (we had a mutual friend who was next to us) and talk for at least 5 minutes..then we hit up the dance floor, and there I grind with her for a short while..she then disappeared...near the end of the night, i see her talking to some people,..and with out even thinking, I come up to her, interrupting th convo, and say "come on lets dance"...she responds "not now, Im talking to people..with a little bit of a angry look"..so, by the end of the night, I never see her or talk to her...NOW just a day ago I saw her at my college's pub, and she was with a number of friends..I came along and introduced myself to her friends and started a convo, then I turned to her and was like "wait a minute..you look very familiar..whats your name again?..."..at that moment, we locked eyes for at least 8 seconds..she then said "louisa"..and I waas like "yeah! i remember you.."..she then said "hey are you going to the event on saturday" I was like "what event" she told me about it and said I should come"....then i left the table she was at..a while later, she goes to the washroom, and on her way back to her table she touches my shoulders as she walks off...
In college trying to pick up exchange student for fb
NOW HERE IS THE QUESTION:WHAT DO I DO THE NEXT EVENT THAT I SEE HER...HOW SHOULD I APPROACH THIS SITUATION..I WANT TO MAKE HER A FB OR PERHAPS MORE, BUT I DONT KNOW WHERE TO START...ANY GENERAL SUGGUSTIONS.! THANKS! IM SORRY FOR THE LONG ASS BACKGROUND INFO, I JUST THOUGHT IT WOULD BE NECESSARY TO UNDERSTAND THINGS
01-30-2010, 02:35 AM #2
- Join Date
- Jan 2010
First off, don't read too much into her invite. By that I mean don't go expecting you have a date or anything. Invite some of your friends with you so you have some social proof. Wait about a half hour or so after you see her to make your first move.
I would walk up to her when she was in a group with some other people that I know. Say hello but barely acknowledge her. At the same time make yourself the life of the party when talking to her friends. Say something really funny and make everyone laugh. Stay for only a minute or so and leave the group. As you leave ask her what her name is again. Make it as if you couldn't remember. Say something like "Cool" or "Right on" and walk away like you really don't care.
Here comes the tricky part. Don't make contact with her for a while but at the same time watch her. Be a little sneaky, you don't want her to notice that you're staring at her. Wait for the oppurtunity when she looks alone or a little lost and go and grab her and dance with her.
After the dance tell her your friends are leaving and you're going to a party. Do not invite her. Tell her (don't ask her) to give you her number and you'll call her (or text her, whatever your preference may be. I prefer texting.) sometime and you guys should grab a drink.
I hope this works out well. Message me and let me know what happens if you can.
Good luck and god speed
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