Hoop Theory (excerpt - Mystery)

"You do NOT have to answer
questions asked of you. In HOOP THEORY, a girl gives you a HOOP and AFCs
think they HAVE to jump through it. Simply, grab the hoop FROM HER and get
her to jump through it or present another hoop to HER. OR ... just don't
jump through her hoop and leave it at that. SILENCE is often the BEST
Grabbing her hoop:
HB: Will you buy me a drink?
YOU: Buy ME a drink and we will see.
Putting up a new hoop:
HB: Why are you talking to me?
YOU: Hey why do you do wear your lipstick like that?
HB: What is with your shirt?