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    how to ask for a blowjob?

    im meeting up with this one chick at the club in my city, but im not actually going in. now that i said i would meet her, she doesnt want to go either. also, she said she would give me something for my b-day this weekend if i spent the night at her house. the problem is..she lives 2 hrs away and wants me to stay the WHOLE weekend. fuck that. so i just want a bj while she is in town. any advice?



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    Just go kick it with her for the weekend. What do u have to do thats better? Free place to stay, some pussy, and a chance to expand ur social network. I think you should reconsider.
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    If all you want is a BJ -- hire a hooker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chea5150 View Post
    im meeting up with this one chick at the club in my city, but im not actually going in. now that i said i would meet her, she doesnt want to go either. also, she said she would give me something for my b-day this weekend if i spent the night at her house. the problem is..she lives 2 hrs away and wants me to stay the WHOLE weekend. fuck that. so i just want a bj while she is in town. any advice?
    If you think she might want a relationship, tell her something along the lines of. I would like to test drive a car before i make a investment and buy it. *wink wink* Should get you some pussy or a BJ if you do it right and she responds. Note: You will have to deliver some serious game to her before i recommend you say that

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    make out and shit with her then say 'ugh my cock is so hard, i want to put it in your mouth'
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    Quote Originally Posted by chea5150 View Post
    im meeting up with this one chick at the club in my city, but im not actually going in. now that i said i would meet her, she doesnt want to go either. also, she said she would give me something for my b-day this weekend if i spent the night at her house. the problem is..she lives 2 hrs away and wants me to stay the WHOLE weekend. fuck that. so i just want a bj while she is in town. any advice?


    Any particular reason you wouldn't want to fuck her for a whole weekend instead of getting a bj? You can get a bj also.

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    interesting one - my 2 cents...

    any girl i've ever had a really high value to has always wanted to give me BJs and please me. IME it's only the girls who think you're beta to them that don't have a strong urge to please you regardless of whether they enjoy giving head.

    also, once you get a BJ you should encourage her (by complimenting her on her ability to please you and telling her how much you enjoy it) and rewarding her for her good behaviour with orgasms in return. if you eat her out like she's never been eaten out before and she cums like a f*ckin train straight after she gives you a BJ then she'll associate BJ for you first then massive pleasure for her and she'll blow you without needing much encouragement.

    so, IMO, and just IMO:-
    1. if your game's good enough/you have a strong frame and value to her, then she should want to do it; and
    2. you can keep her really keen on it with psychological and physical rewards and manipulating what she associates with BJs.

    let us know how you go man

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    Simply say "I want a blow job" no bells no whistles.

    Dont be stupid and ask for it a bar or anything and make sure the moods right.

    But in response to the other guys, i have to agree. Why not go for the lay? Hell, you dont even have to go to hers

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    You should really reconsider the thought I say go spend the weekend over their because its pretty obvious your going to get laid going their and if you want a BJ she might even do that.. so the 2 hr trip will be worth it.. Time is gonna pass by anyways what you do with that time is what matters
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    I don't really ask, I just pull my dick out and push her head down a little (not to rough though). It may seem rediculous for some people but it works for me, I think you just have to have the confidence to pull it off. My buddy Kevin Salas told me about this trick, and it's only failed me once only because the girl never gave BJ's.

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