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    Why can't I cum?

    Okay, so me and my girlfriend have done oral a few times. I've gone down on her, and she's gone down on me.

    The problem is, I don't actually come for some reason...

    She's asleep right behind me. Earlier, she gave me a blowjob. She doesn't want me to cum in her mouth or on her or anything which I used to me advantage in this situation. As usual, I didn't come from it... I pretended I did so she wouldn't feel bad. I went to the toilet to "finish".

    I want to know... why can't I cum?!

    I know it's not to do with masturbating too much as I haven't done that for 6 days.

    I googled earlier, and nervousness can be a problem apparently. Just want some clarification on this... She's a virgin, but has given quite a few people blowjobs, and has told me about her experiences with other guys (I've told her I don't want to hear about it). I don't know why, but this is making me nervous. Could this be the reason I'm not coming?

    I don't think it's to do with time as she has sucked me off for about 40 minutes before eventually stopping (without cumming).

    Any of you had this problem? If so, how did you get around it?



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    I can't cum from a blowjob either...I got really close one day from a girl that stroked my dick while she sucked it. It was AWESOME! just have her use her hand just as much as her mouth and you will cum.

    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xadus View Post
    Was it b/c of what I told you? or something else?
    It was from a handjob. No mouth involved. She did something different this time, getting more adventurous instead of just up and down over and over.

    I think it was a mental thing. She seemed more comfortable around me, which made me more comfortable around her. I think that was the problem before... Plus thoughts of her doing that to other guys didn't pop into my head this time, which made me more relaxed.

    A little advice to any girls reading this thread:

    Don't tell your future boyfriends about stuff you've done with other guys. Even if it's in a complimentary way. e.g. "I'm used to guys that don't last long."

    It doesn't help with putting us at ease.

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    So you saying the problem has been overCUM?

    Could not resist.

    Anorgasmia is the medical phrase for it. If it happens again, do a search of the forum, as this is not uncommon.

    Thank you, come again... Damn itthis is too easy!

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