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So, have you ever made a girl wait for ...
Make a girl wait for it??
So, have you ever made a girl wait for it??
I met a girl recently and things have moved along really well.. Starting to like her more and more but I am seeing another girl also. I haven't gotten over the mental hurdle of sleeping with 2 girls just yet (yeah, I know....) so I decided to wait with one of the girls and although thinks are very sexual we haven't gone all the way yet. The other night she was like "I want to feel you inside of me" and it was such a turn on for her to be asking for it. I told her I wanted to wait and I think she got even hotter.... haha.... I am sure guys reading this are like "What!!!!!!" but, curious if anyone else has tried this? Going to be sooo hot when we actually do.......still please each other enough and I am enjoying doing things differently with this one...
ive done this various times...
its amazing how turned on they get if they want it and you say no
i did this with one girl a few times and by the third time we hooked up she threw me on the bed straddled me and basically forced me inside of her... the sex anded up being really good :-)
if you have the willpower and know you can hook up with the girl again... I highly advise trying this...
"Treat a Lady like a Dame, and a Dame like a Lady" ~Frank Sinatra
Absolutely not. Don't ever tell a girl no when she blatently says she wants to fuck unless you literally have no intentions of a sexual relationship with her.
Your setting yourself up for soooo many potential hurdles that she could throw at you as soon as you decide YOUR ready. Take advantage while she is in the mood, or your taking the chance that you might not get another opportunity.
What are you accomplishing by making her wait? You think she'll be more attracted to you? ppffpfppfpfpfpfpftttt NOOOOOOOOPE. In a girls mind, once you two have had sex, your then in a whole nother league compared to other guys that haven't..
I hope guys do make girls wait, cuz meanwhile I'm going to swoop em up. Don't worry, I'll give em back when I'm done..
just my .02 cents..
Who is the cash and prizes?
Who has the higher social value?
Who does everyone want to be around?
If you show that it is you will all the power and you have all the answers, she will continuous come back. Trust me.
So what if she comes back. The point is why make her come back to begin with? What does it accomplish? Where is the benefit for you? Is it to make a girl who is attracted enough to have sex with you EVEN MORE attracted to you so she will REALLY REALLLY have sex with you? LOL. Thats stupid, no offense. At best your trying to solidify your value to have a better chance at a post sex relationship.
Originally Posted by fishbowlbob
Hands down: you would be accomplishing much more by actually taking the step to have a sexual relationship rather then to making her doubt her value and saying no to her.
established sexual relationship vs. make her doubt her value
hmm. let me think. I'm going to make her doubt her value, so that later on, she'll come back, AND THEN we'll establish a sexual relationship..
all you are doing is adding a step that is not worth the added post game solidification benefit when weighed against the risk of not getting another chance. Your only making it more difficult for yourself.
Stop hesitating, pull the trigger..
"i said jerk that pistol and go to work!" -Kurt Russell, Tombstone
haha this is going to be my new signature..
This thread is rediculous in my opinion. It stinks of you trying to get retribution for all the girls who made you wait.. pay back time or something.. (just trying to help by giving you my perspective on it, nothing personal)
Last edited by _Cane_; 10-24-2007 at 03:19 PM.