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Yeah so yesterday was the first time I ever had sex ...
Got my cherry popped.
Yeah so yesterday was the first time I ever had sex =D. I just had a few questions tho lmao. Yeah so for some reason I wasn't that hard during it and went through three condoms, and yeah that like never happens to me during Johns happy time so why now? And for some reason mr.winky kept falling out and it was difficult as shit for us to get it started again I don't know if it's cause shes to tight or what But it was a bitch trying to get it back in when it wasn't that hard in the condom and now im like why the fuck did I even attempt that at the first place, ( that and me rubbing my dick on her pussy without a sheath o_o). Any thoughts?
just cause I'm paranoid as shit, the likelihood of her getting pregnant while taking b.c. and me using a condom is? lmao. She like freaked me the hell out yesterday, I always joke around with her and piss her off so after wards shes like I forgot my pill today. And I was like >.<... then when she thought I had enough she slike I'm just fuckinging with you..... I'm just wondering if I should start beating her in the stomach if she misses her period which is supposedly tomorrow. Anyway any comments will be appreciated lol. thanks in advance guys.
It's difficult to stay hard with a condom because you don't get as great feeling.
When using a condom and b.c. there's hardly a chance of getting preggers. When I have a g/f I never use a condom if she's on b.c. If you do that, just try not to ejaculate inside her and you should be fine.
lol stubborn, no offence but thats not such a good advice even if you don't shoot your load in her there is still something called pre-cum that is as probable to get her pregnant
Firstly, the condom doesn't affect your boner mate, but since it was your first time you where probably nerveous. I know i was when it was my first time. And the trouble to put it in will fade with practise, at first i couldn't even think if putting it in without using my hands, now even drunk, stoned and blindfolded hands aren't nececary.
And as for getting her pregnant, if her period is for tomorow there is 0% chance to get her pregnant, but B.C. is not 100% safe, in certan situations it doesn't work (example, when the woman is taking antibiotics, sometimes it messes up the b.c) So if you fear getting her pregnant, or doesn't want to take any risk in getting an STD (yep even women sometimes cheat)
Anyways have tons of fun mate and good hunting
Last edited by Trask; 07-29-2007 at 06:18 PM.
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Just a tip - don't refer to your dick as "Mr.Winky" or "DietCoke Jr" or "The Octagon", because it conveys insecurities about your dick to women, even if you are secure about your dick.
Refer to your dick as "I", "Me", or "My Dick". Remember, you're responsible for the good and the bad about your dick, and you can't disown it back to "Mr. Winky" when you jump the gun . Your dick is you, whether you like it or not .
Just a tip,
B.C. alone has less risk than a condom alone. I never condone the "pull out" method but in conjunction with B.C. you are way less likely to get pregnant than when using a condom and pulling out. As for pre cum, yes it can get someone pregnant if you've ejaculated recently and there's semen left in the urethra. But remember, I'm talking about with use of B.C. My advice stands.
Originally Posted by Trask
Also, a condom interrupts sensitivity. It absolutely can affect an erection.
And lastly, only abstinence give a 0% risk.
lol i was more conserned with the chance on getting an STD then the pregnat problem if you don't use a rubber mate
Very true. If only STDs didn't exist.....
Hey guys, yeah she isn't pregnant and thank you for all the feedback =D I look forward to having some more lay reports for you ( different girls of course) soon, now that I have my feet wet.
Dude, if the chick jokes around about forgetting pills and being pregnant, ditch her ass!! Nuthin but trouble i tells ya
use lube, after a week of sex you'll feel less pressure, try havin a piss b4 sex too if i need a wee i cant get it up, if u get into a relatioship then theres no reason in future to go bareback as long as u trust her to take her pills.
cos i wrote a load of writing and i need help and we are all ment to help each other.