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    How to get a blowjob/handjob from the girl

    Lately, I have been getting SO much more success from women that ever. Previously, I had never even fingered a girl, and now that it happened twice in 2 weeks, I realise that I need to get my game going in this area...

    Basically, I have had no trouble fingering the girl, but I dont want to keep doing that forever... I want them to blow me or give me a handjob, but I feel that coming right out and saying "suck me beautiful" isnt the best way to go about it.

    Is this just my AFC mind thinking, or are there other ways to go about it?



    If you help me with this, I'll be thinking of you when her mouth is hovering over me



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    Think of me. But you have to know what i look like, and you may have some trouble believing this, but its absolutely true that i look like your mum.

    If you felt the need or the inclination, you could always do a search...dafs!

    Hope this helped

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    i'd recommened kissing her around the back of the neck and move towards the stomach and lower back, then hint to her to return the favour, when she's kissing your stomach/lower back make your erection unavoidable so if she feels your worthy if one, she'll go for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bhzmafia View Post
    Basically, I have had no trouble fingering the girl, but I dont want to keep doing that forever... I want them to blow me or give me a handjob, but I feel that coming right out and saying "suck me beautiful" isnt the best way to go about it.
    Don't be a pussy. Just fucking tell her you want it.

    You don't act alpha and then turn into a wuss in the bedroom.

    If her BT is high enough she WILL give it to you.

    Quote Originally Posted by bhzmafia View Post
    If you help me with this, I'll be thinking of you when her mouth is hovering over me
    Erm, no thanks.

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    I think it's more wussy to say it right out.
    I tried saying it just out loud after some fingering and making out, she said no and told me later that it made her turned off like hell.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Leslie View Post
    I think it's more wussy to say it right out.
    I tried saying it just out loud after some fingering and making out, she said no and told me later that it made her turned off like hell.
    Well I guess it varies from girl to girl

    In my experience if you've got their BT high enough they're basically going to be begging to give you head

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    This is from one of Face's old field report threads. I saved it in my files:


    Vapor: Do you have steps you follow when going for a BJ close? You get a lot of these.
    Face: I wish I could give a formula..I'd be a rich man.

    In this instance, and a method I use frequently, the massage prompts it. If you can get the girl to OK a massage, she will most likely return the favor. And since girls don't give handjobs, and I never press for sex, either I stick my yam in between her knees, or down her throat.

    A massage is sexual and I throw in a "There YOU go. I hope you feel better now" as I plop off of her to the other side of the bed and wait there with my soldier at full attention. She almost feels obliged, if not horny enough, to take it down.

    But in general, I prob get a lot b/c I do not go for sex..I go for BJs. It's just a personal choice of mine, I guess.

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    In my experience fool's mate has been easier to get than a BJ. As nightfly said if her BT is high enough it is possible. Your age says 18 so I don't think that would be the norm in your age group. If they are sexually active/experienced I think sex would come just as easy though. Just keep your frame alpha and strong. Don't be timid.

    Allot of the girls I dated before PU preffered sex to blow jobs because less experience/knowledge/know-how/insecurity.

    I did have a female friend tell me that she will give a guy a blow job to get the session over with and in her words, "so he would leave me alone".

    You said you have fingered two chicks this past week. Were their panties off or on? If her panties were off just callibrate and remove clothing. While ya'll are hooking up and her BT is high put her hand on the bulge in your boxers. If she starts rubbing it you are gold. I read some good advice in another post, but I don't know who to quote. He said don't let her cum, if she cums she will lose her BT and her rational mind will kick back in.

    Try moving into a position where it would give her easy access to your unit in a BJ position while still massaging her monkey.

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    Another thing worth mentioning is your personal grooming. Keep the bushes trimmed around your tree trunk. You don't have to shave everything, just keep things orderly. Girls appreciate it and are often intrigued by trimmed pubes. It also hints a lot of subcommunication.

    Before you take things into the bedroom you should also make sure things smell good down there. A hint of her favorite cologne near your navel will keep her down there longer.
    To thine own self be true

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    think status, having your face buried in someone's crotch tends to lower your status, period(.) If you're running all the games and sometimes really patient, it'll pay off. I found this out on accident when i was 14... i kept putting off sex b/c i wasn't really receiving the "signal" but i knew making out was fun. She ended up getting so horny and impatient that she just hopped to it. So keep ur frame, run ur game, and keep her in the "wanting" category.

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